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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Smiling thing happening. Should I approach him and ask him to be friends? Or will that be going too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, there is this guy who lives down my street, i like him. For sometime now, he's been giving me this kind of look that makes me thinks he likes me and wants to be friends with me. Anytime he sees me, he smiles at me and i dont smile back because I'm always s... (140 words)

I had sex with my married stepbrother and now feel absolutely sick!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m incredibly confused and ashamed of what I did the other night. When I was 10 my mother got remarried and along with her new marriage came my stepbrother who is 2 years older than I am. Despite the fact that I wasn’t too happy about the whole situation from the get go, I was ... (585 words)

I don't know how to handle this relationship with a mooching friend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this mooch of a friend I had a while back which I recently unfriended on Facebook , but haven't met her since. She was basically taking advantage of my generous and "patient" nature. I was rather passive to be honest and when mistreated, I drew back without me ... (365 words)

How can I possibly get my ex to see what he is doing to our daughter, without causing more trouble?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I have a problem that I am hoping you can help me resolve. I have a beautiful daughter with my ex. We had a messy split, 6 months ago. Although I am trying to communicate with my ex, regarding our girl, I feel I am hitting my head against a bric... (118 words)

Roman Catholic marrying an Atheist

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

2 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend believes in god; I do not. We’ve always been very respectful of our respective beliefs. We were both baptised as Roman Catholics and raised in Roman Catholic families. As a Roman Catholic woman, you have a responsibility to marry someone of faith, to grow s... (301 words)

My gf wants to mantain friendship with her ex and her former sex buddy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

2 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have what it's called Retrograde Jealousy (form of OCD) My gf (which I love a lot) has a strange past with a relationship (sex buddy) with a best friend (man) and after that a long relationship with a girl (which was the only one that she had - she's not lesbian). I am strug... (323 words)

I have mental blocks now around him, should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

2 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, sorry for any vagueness in this post. I’ve got a problem with one of my best friends. We’ve known each other for 3 years now and we went through periods of being really close. He used to tell me everything that was bothering him and I’d do the same, we would help each ... (246 words)

Guys, would you take her back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for the guys, mostly! If you were a 29-year-old male, newly divorced, and in love with a new woman, would you take this woman back? - You have your daughter for the weekend, and decide to surprise your new girlfriend of about six months with breakfast ... (385 words)

Complicated setup for a concert, should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been in a relationship with a man for going on three years. He has been in a relationship with a woman for thirty yrs. He treats me very well...Ok heres the deaL.. He purchased the Whispers concert tickets... He also invited and old time friend of his .. They were in the ... (168 words)

First boyfriend and first time in love... but he changed and stopped courting me after we had sex. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I'd like to ask for an advice. I am turning 29 and have my first bf. He's my co worker. After a week of being bf and gf, we had sex. He was the same man I wrote last september. I felt cheap when I gave myself to him. I only go with the flow because I do love him. It is ... (160 words)

Getting frustrated at the way he's treating me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I work in same office as of my bf of 3 years. Lately he was vey busy at work, lots of work load as he was trying for promotion. As he was busy at work, he stopped even being civil to me, its like i dont even exist for him. Its been a month since we had sex or... (182 words)

Why are my single male friends so much more bitter than my single female friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I find it bizarre. All my male friends seem to be so bleak about their dating lives. I don't really understand why they are like this. I don't find that most long term single women display man-hating attributes. Yet, long term single men display so much bitterness, towa... (84 words)

Do condoms stay put?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone help? I'm newly involved with a guy and I'm sure that sex is on the cards very soon. However it has been a while for me and I'm a little worried about the condom staying put while we're at it! I don't want to ruin the moment and look concerned or anything but I have ... (177 words)

Single for 2 years and feeling very lonely. How can I cheer up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm single and lonely. What should I do? Dear Aunties: I've been single for 2 years, which I know is completely normal, but I've been starting to feel quite lonely. I'm a senior in college so I'm very busy and so are my friends, so we only go out occasionally. I ... (257 words)

My potential partner is showing poor judgement with a popular bank scam!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm lesbian and there's this lady I'm talking to, nothing serious n we r not dating. It's been a month now. Today she did something really stupid which got me now questioning her intelligence, I always questioned it which is why I wanted to develop just a friendship first so ... (399 words)

What are some new ways to seduce my wife and spice things up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

2 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my wife for six years. We have two children, the first was born about a year after we started dating, so we really haven't had a lot of time for ourselves. In her culture (Central American) it's more common for babies to stay in mom and dad's bed while the ... (259 words)

He doesn't care about learning about my hero!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i just found out my boyfriend doesnt know who oskar shindler (may be missspelled sorry) is! is it normal that that kinda turns me off? my grand mother lost most of her borthers during world war II i tryed to teach him who this (n my mind) hero is but he shows not intrest what ... (87 words)

I got in to a rebound relationship/ dating too soon. What is the right thing to do regarding the guy I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with someone for just about one year now. He is great, a very likable person. The thing is, this all started as a "rebound" type relationship, literally as I came out of a very tough four year relationship. We immediately started off by spending way too ... (232 words)

I have to dump my boyfriend... not sure how to move on. :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm needing to "officially" end my 3 year relationship. We're both in our early 30's. I love him but he isn't good for me any longer. He has emotional abandonment issues so every so often he goes "missing" for days or weeks and then comes back like nothing ever happened, which ... (705 words)

Sex life at its lowest. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

2 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna be a long one guys I don't know where else to turn to to get peoples thoughts and advice. really hope I can get some advice here over my troubles with myself my boyfriend and his ex ... I've been with the b.f for nearly 4 years now. I have a 2 year old and 9 w... (443 words)

Worried that my daughter is involved with a man who was violent to his ex. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My daughter is 17, and lives with my ex, but we’re in regular contact. Earlier today, she told me that her new boyfriend, whom she tells me she loves and treats her really well, has been in trouble with the police for being violent towards his ex girlfriend. N... (93 words)

How do we get back together without being pushy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

2 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've been talking to my ex about possibly getting back together. A week ago I wrote her a long letter about how my life has felt empty and how much I sill love her since we broke up almost a year ago. She said she'll think about it, but she said I need to not be pushy. ... (162 words)