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She's the only friend I've got but she's cheating and I don't like how shes changing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

14 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, i don´t have many friends and yet the few I have, they have moved abroad for better work, to study etc...So now I´ve got only one friend I can hang out, we´ve known each other for very long time and I can say we were best friends... but I guess we´re not ... (182 words

I just feel like I don't belong anywhere and my life is passing me by.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

14 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Ok, I know this isn't a relationship question but I need help. I'm not quite sure how to put this but my life just sucks right now. I feel like it's passing me by, and it's really pathetic. I'm not sure quite how to put this, but there's a void in my life and I need somet... (469 words

I keep my late partner's Facebook page active -- is this wrong?

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14 October 2013 (M age 36-40 - I had created a Facebook profile for my partner and lover of two years and he recently passed away. I definitely do not want to memorialize his profile because I just dont want to believe hes gone yet. So I am still logging in to his profile and updating his pictures, no status ... (71 words

I want to know that we're looking for the same things in life

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14 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for 6 months. We are both 30 It has been going well but I have started to feel a bit uneasy that we only see each other at weekends and one night in the week (we live quite far from each other). This weekend he bought up his mum is helping him and ... (518 words

Love this girl to bits but the moaning just gets me down.

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14 October 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi there, My fiance and I have been together for over 3 years now, we've been engaged for about a year. My question here is: Is it me causing all these problems or something else? Our relationship had a rocky start but after that we were pretty solid together, we never ... (553 words

I need some guidance about my husband's behaviour. I feel I can't trust him anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

14 October 2013 (F age - I've been married for 14 years and my husband started behaving different with me since 2 years. First of all he has many woman friends, and he is always on the phone, skype, and FB with them. Last year a female friend of him thanked me on my FB page for the chocolates I had ... (311 words

Why does he suddenly seem distant?

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14 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - Why does he suddenly seem distant? I've been chatting with an old high school friend for about 4 months. We've been talking everyday (facebook, skype, phone, etc) and it was pretty intense-talking about the future, him telling me he misses me, almost that he loves me, just b... (169 words

He's lost all hope of getting a job in the next placement drive!

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14 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - I am an engineering student currently in my final year of graduation. As such, placement drives of various firms are going on in my institution. Fortunately or unfortunately, I got placed in a leading fir in the first drive itself. But my boyfriend who is much ahead of me ... (150 words

I've had dreams about my teacher crush and I'm confused now!

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14 October 2013 (F age 26-29 - I have a crush on a teacher at my school, he's 25, friendly and good looking. Now, i have liked him since last year, and he coached my soccer team this year. Don't worry, I won't try anything and I've learnt that any 'special' attention he gives me is just me being a delusional ... (204 words

Was my ex emotionally abusive to me?

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14 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Was I in an emotionally abusive relationship? At first my ex was very loving and the perfect gentleman. After a little while he stopped having sex with me, stopped giving me physical affection and began completely ignoring me, even when I was in the same room. He would play com... (490 words

How to I overcome my unhappy past and learn to live a happy life and have good relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

14 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I split up with my ex of 4 years, 2 years ago. In our relationship he made me feel like I was worthless, dull, unattractive and pitiable. Looking back I see he used me, neglected me, blatently ignored me, shouted at me if I ever tried to discuss my true feelings with him... (391 words

I care for him but take his words with a pinch of salt..am worried I'm a rebound!

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14 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles! Thanks for taking the time to read, I'll try not to be too repetitive in the telling :) In summary, I met this guy J online. He's got a lot (and I do mean A LOT) of baggage to work through, not the least being that he broke up with his ex (whom he ... (308 words

I think I hold a grudge against love?

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14 October 2013 (F age 26-29 - Dear agony aunts, I have a very pondering thought, it's just that: I wonder what good can come out of love, I mean to tell you the truth I kind of hold a grudge against it, I mean every person I've seen around me always fall out of it quickly or doesn't feel a spark anymore, I... (182 words

Does my husband take revenge by flirting?

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14 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - My husband flirts with other girls...Acc to him nothing wrong in it.am the one who think inappropriate...I love him a lot.for this behavior am feeling very angry..till now. He did not do any mistake...but. If. He really loves me,why would he does like this...want to take ... (57 words

Signs that your boyfriend isn't over his ex?

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14 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - This may be a stupid question but what are some signs or how do you know if your boyfriend is not over his ex girlfriend? I really don't want to jump to conclusions or anything but I just have this feeling that my boyfriend still misses and has feelings for his ex even thou... (61 words

I've never had a boyfriend and unsure if he likes me?

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14 October 2013 (? age 26-29 - Im a senior in high school and ive never had a boyfriend. I really like this guy who has already graduated and we talk a lot but im not sure if he likes me back. One time I asked if I could ever have a chance with him and he said that he didnt see why not so I think he might ... (114 words

I have 3 kids, he has no kid experience, is there an answer to family harmony?

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14 October 2013 (F age 51-59 - My fiancé never had kids and I have 3 teenagers. Although we've been dating 3 years, I don't think he's really ready to be a step dad. I have them part time but some days when they're all being less than perfect, I can tell its a bit much for him and for them when everyone ... (90 words

Amazing fantasies of how hot our three-way could be!

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14 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - I am an “out bisexual woman” but men often mistake me as lesbian. I have a gal-friend (who’s just a friend) that I’m emotionally close to, so much so that we often hug and kiss on the cheek. She recently hooked up with a hot great guy that I know well from our social circle. ... (195 words

My finace doesn't trust me

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14 October 2013 (M age 36-40 - MY FIANCEE OF 2YEARS IS SO POSSESSIVE am dating a young girl and we have a nine months old baby girl but in a time of a months now she has become so insecure that-every time am home she rushes to check my mobile phone inbox,sent items and drafts and before you know it she's al... (85 words

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