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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My question is did he like me or what is going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles! I have a question about a boy. He’s friends with one of my housemates and last week he came to visit. I'm shorter than most people, just over 4 foot in height by the way. My housemate and me are like brother and sister and we look out for each oth... (301 words)

He treated me badly so why do I feel guilty for letting him go?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a man for 5 months now. The last two months have been especially stressful. He has subjected me to the "silent treatment" for over a month and just recently started cursing towards me. On Thursday I was trying to text him and ask him a question. He wa... (354 words)

Is giving in to one's neurosis satisfying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

12 October 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have had a fantasy of being completely dominated in a bedroom by an attractive woman. In my case, completely means bondage, strap on, lack of power, discomfort, but not necessarily aggression or pain. I've always been curious but never had guts to find a willing partner ... (71 words)

He thinks it's not healthy for us to be together because we are arguing, what should I do?3

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on the 22nd of September 2013. We been talking every single day and been texting each other and said he wanted to be with me but nobody else. he is 24 and I am 26 . he told me he smokes weed and told him to stop smoking and had an argument about that. I told him to ... (195 words)

How can I make him like me the way I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my neighbour for slightly over a year and I like him a lot. He has all the qualities of a good boyfriend and eventually husband. He put me in the friend zone long ago and tells me about other girls he likes etc. When other people see us they think we're dating ... (140 words)

If I cheated does that mean I don't love my g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - If I've cheated on my girlfriend with the same girl, 4 times now. Does this mean I don't love her? Im so confused. Ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months. Yet met a girl in May, became really good friends really quick. There was chemistry between us after a My girlfriend ... (395 words)

She says we don't have enough "quality time" together, even though we're living together

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

12 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok this is my first time writing on something like this, but I know my girlfriend has asked for online help before and said its really helpful so here I am. We have been together for around 5 years I think and we've just moved in together but ever since then we've been havin... (338 words)

We have a 20 year old difference. Don't know if there is any point in starting things again.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was seeing a much younger guy casually for the last 8 months. We were really just sleeping together. I had just come out of a relationship and he was very inexperienced so we decided to try not to get too involved. He finished things a little while ago - I think its be... (149 words)

My friend has a perfect girlfriend yet cheated several times. He needs advice what to do now.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends is with a girl and has been since Feb. The girl went away travelling over the summer but they stayed together, despite only being together a few months at this point. Anyway my best mate fell for a girl at work, whilst his gf was away. He ended up ... (504 words)

Should I ask my ex to our son's birthday outing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I ask my ex to our son's birthday outing? We haven't been getting on at all lately, infact that is an understatement. He doesn't see his son much anyway, through his own choice. I don't particularly want him there, but this isn't about me and him, its about our so... (94 words)

I didn't like how I was few years younger and I am afraid this girl is going to learn about the loser weird me that I was.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hey there i am 17. i am from india and i am studying in college. well as i said in previous question i was a loser and a weird guy in school. Now i have changed in looks but i have become really shy guy. There is a girl from my school she comes in my classes and i am afraid ... (133 words)

Pregnant by current boyfriend but still have feelings for my ex. Should I keep the baby or give it up for adoption?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was 14 and a freshman in highschool, and I had made really good friends with a guy (we'll call him Sam) while I was dating (Max). Max heard a rumor that I was a sleep around and just started to ignore me. I was hurt and ended it with him, and Sam was there to comfort me ... (837 words)

I denied a guy orgasm and now I feel bad. What should I Do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am an 18 year old girl with an intense foot fetish. I am aroused by other girl's feet, but I'm not a lesbian, as in I still enjoy sex with males. I also get extremely turned on when someone licks the soles of my feet. So recently I was out with some friends when a guy kept ... (160 words)

Would it be wrong to approach him once he's no longer my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I am a 18 (soon to be 19) years old. This year, i decided to carry on an extra year at my sixth form to improve my grades, instead of going straight to uni. I have been put in a physics class with a new teacher, who i think i am really falling for... He's 2... (343 words)

Beating myself up for immature mistakes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

12 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was never a wrong person but some circumstances made me commit some really silly and immature mistakes. Like forcing myself to go out on a date just cause my trust on my boyfriend was lost. I never intended or had any desire to be with any guy. I was dumb or wanted " revenge" ... (232 words)