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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't like it and insinutated he should find a new 'soul mate'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lately has been saying he wants to get more serious, I'm his soulmate etc. We've been together a year and a half. The other night we were really drunk and he entered me from behind. It really hurt and I hated it. But I always told him before I never wanted to try ... (111 words)

Him keeping his ex as a friend bothers me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3840 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop worrying and stop being upset about my boyfriend's friendship with his ex girlfriend? Even though they had a bad break up and things got pretty ugly with them (she cheated on him a lot and they fought a lot) they both decided to still be friends and they... (177 words)

I want THAT commitment!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my BF for almost 4 years. It was a bit of a whirl wind to star with.he was my first BF my first everything. We fell in love very quickly and I moved into his parents Home, that was another other side of the country after only 8 weeks of knowing him. 10 months ... (352 words)

I want to show him how much he means to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now, when I met him maybe i should have stayed single as I had loads of problems in my personal life but we got on really well and he made me feel better. Well things got even worse for me, I had money difficulties so I asked my ... (207 words)

My wife removes her wedding ring when she is mad at me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3840 days ago

11 October 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I love my wife very much and we have 3 beautiful children together. Throughout our relationship – we have had ups and downs but I feel our love is strong. But she has bouts of anger that I have always had trouble really figuring out. 2 weeks ago, she became angry at m... (256 words)

My girlfirend has stopped listening to me ,,,,,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My age 19 and my partner age 16. I love her for the past 1 and a half year. Until the first half of the year everything was going well,she used to obey me,doesn't harass me etc. But after she changed her school,her character is totally changed. She got a friend who was my ... (114 words)

Isn't he playing it a bit cool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some advice. Well I met this guy last weekend, we seemed to hit it off and he's since added me in facebook. Yesterday I thought seeing as he'd been the one to add me, I should be the one to start a chat and he appeared to be online. So I sent him a friendly "hey wh... (297 words)

What do people think about dating someone who uses a wheelchair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Just curious. Because I use one but it seems that most people are really weary of it and I think a lot of them think wheelchair-users are a no go when it comes to dating, or even friendship. I'll be honest and say that making friends has been bloody hard sometimes and s... (491 words)

My LDR is never there for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a long distance relationship with a guy. We have been together for 1 year. He loves me, I know that. But whenever I need him, he is never there for me. If am disturbed at night, he prefers to sleep because he doesn't feel like spoiling his schedule and am left alone. I ... (89 words)

She's not so keen on intimacy anymore - whats wrong, me, her or the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do, my girlfriend dosent like me touching her anymore, she wont have sex as often, only once a weekend - when she does its like iv been begging and its a chore for her, we used to have it every night, the excusses are: 1: i dont feel attractive tonig... (1208 words)

Emotional blackmail or these threats are real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Is this emotional blackmail? Been together 15 years. He does this exact scenario, exact words, exact demands each time. This is the third time in 5 years. Even in the exact same months, Sept/Oct. I will try and explain how this is on the exact same months, as I just figured ... (220 words)

Have I lost a friend? Is there any way to fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a friend who was a best friend of mine. He would listen to all my life's problems, dramas, break ups, etc. He was always there to listen to me talk all sorts of headache inducing drama, and I really wish I was more mature. Then, he asked me out and said he really wish I... (288 words)

Am I a stalker for sharing my crush's pictures on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I used to have a crush whose pics I shared on Facebook and that person got angry with me for that very reason. Am I a stalker for that? ... (29 words)

Will it become a problem if I make more money that he does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I recently met this nice guy who I am starting to really like. He is ok in character and we have a lot in common. The problem is that I make way more money than him and I am thinking that it may be an issue if we were to start dating.and I don't think my friend ... (97 words)

Is is okay to be a little envious of my sister and sister-in-law's friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ok to be a little envious of my sister and sis in laws f/ship.? My younger sister and my bro and sister in law are close in age and have lots in common kids etc. They live in diff states but communicate via FB a lot, and phone, I imagine.. That's fine, they have k... (374 words)

Why would an ex say "we should have a relationship with love and compasion because we have history"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age - Why would an ex say "we should have a relationship with love and compasion because we have history." he left the marriage for another woman who he has been with for over 5 yrs. now. there were other women before her. He is extremely dishonest and manipulative and abusive.... (84 words)

What are people's opinions are on changing your mind about the way someone looks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering what people's opinions are on changing your mind about the way someone looks? A few months ago, I found out that my boyfriend told his friend last year that his ex was better looking than me and I wasn't all that great. I'm not usually a shallow person but I ... (362 words)

I worry that my girlfriend misses other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

11 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years now and we live together and have a daughter. Thing is, she's bisexual. I often find myself worrying she misses other women. I've tried asking her and talking but she just says no and won't talk. Its really starting to bug me. ... (179 words)

What does the married man I work with want from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

11 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! To make it short..for couple of months this married man is getting more and more close to me.He is older than me, I am 28 he is 50..we met at work. He said things like he cannot live without me as a joke, he makes time to see me everyday - during work - he compliments... (239 words)