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What are the secrets to a health and happy relationship? I am besotted with my other half and I want this to continue.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, I am absolutely besotted with my other half. I believe we make a great team. I would like some advice from those that are in healthy and happy longterm relationships. What advice can you give me so that I do my best to help us grow old together? Things like effect... (153 words

Why does my boyfriend remain friends with people who have treated him badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. Our relationship is great except for something that I've noticed and I'm not really sure if it's that big of a problem but it does bother me. He remains friends with people who have hurt him and treated him wrong. 1. His... (275 words

Does she want to try again? Can someone give me some insight into what she is suggesting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

23 December 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi I'll try keep this short , about four month ago I pulled a girl in town and we started to see each other, she wanted to take it slow so I agreed with her as I really liked her, it went downhill when I introduced her on a night out to my best mate, he was winding me up all ... (581 words

I can't bear the thought of him kissing another girl!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Do you think that kissing is cheating? When I was with my ex, I would have firmly said no - I really didn't think kisses meant that much and weren't personal, I kissed other people and he did too, it was never sober or with the same person more than once. Now I'm with my... (133 words

What if I wait and then he flakes out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so my boyfriend of 4.5 years says he wants to marry me 'one day' but I feel this is a bit too unspecific after this much time. Am I overreacting? I am 28, he is 26 and he says he can see marriage and kids at some point in the future but not for a few years yet. He wo... (256 words

How do I talk to this boy who I think likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3660 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I have been friends with this boy for two years now but only recently have we began to gte closer as what i thought as friends. When i was at party the other day i got told by a girl that she had over heard this boy and his friend talking about how he liked me more than a ... (173 words

I love her but I want to move on now. How can I make this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. Merry Christmas to you all, and thank you for taking time to read this. I will keep it as brief as I can, but I could really do with some help and guidance here. I initially met the love of my life 3 years ago (just to clarify, we are both female). We... (451 words

He said I was being controlling ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I lost a friendship with one of my very good friends. We got in a big fight and both stopped talking to each other. I deleted her of off my facebook, and asked my boyfriend (of 2 years) to do the same. Instead he said i was being controlling and we starting fighting. I dont ... (149 words

Will he always be a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - So I have met this guy through one of my coworkers a year and a half ago and we went out for drinks and he quoted ur "beautiful" and I said thank you and didnt make a move since he had a gf and obviously he lives in New York and I live in Boston. since then he has texted me ... (484 words

Am I overreacting to this text message that went wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Okay aunts and uncles, I really need help with a text message gone really wrong. Here is a layout of our relationship okay. He lives 4 hours away. We met one time before but we were not alone together remember that. He is coming down to spend a week with me in march. We have ... (286 words

He keeps telling me he is going to break up with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

23 December 2013 (? age 51-59 - My boyfriend kissed me when he was trying to break up with me yesterday. I found that to be confusing in itself. Then 15 minutes later he changed his mind and was all over me and said he wants to be with me and wants me to be his girlfriend!!! He does not want to give me ... (172 words

I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he was crying yesterday because ... (229 words

My husband has told me he is gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - Last night my husband admitted to me he was gay. He said he didn't want to have these feelings and won't follow up on them, he wants to stay married to me and have sex with me. He said he does like women, but only certain select women, has never had any relationships with men ... (246 words

My boyfriend's boss was very flirty with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - Ok, awkward situation! Went to my partners christmas party Saturday night and i'd never met any of his colleagues or managers before. When we got in I went to check my coat whilst he went to check the table plan. As I got there, there was a long queue and an older man  st... (473 words

I worry my hearing aids may put men off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - I need help please! For about six years now I've been deaf in both ears due to otosclerosis - a genetic condition where the bones in the ears stop moving. The way that this works is that I'm not completely deaf, but certain tones and pitches are 'lost' to me. Without a h... (555 words

Money is tight so eating healthy food hasn't been happening

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I know this isn't exactly a love or relationship question, but I really respect the answers and opinions of the people here and would love some input. My father is drastically overweight. It is affecting his health and quality of living. He has been on every diet in the book... (199 words

Do others have weird turn ons like mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - This is a strange question but is it weird that I get turned on by guitar solos? Or really anyone who knows how to play guitar very well..And also do you have any weird turn ons that will make me feel a bit more normal about mine? lol.... (48 words

How can I encourage my boyfriend to adopt a healthier lifestyle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for over two years now with a man much older than me. I love him so very much and genuinely love spending time with him. Before meeting him, I was on a very successful path of losing weight and right around our 3 months of dating, I had officially ... (379 words

My boyfriend informed me he'll be spending New Year's Eve with his friends and their wives

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - We have been dating for ten months, we had a fight last week that I was mad at him for not doing much with me. So we make up and have a great weekend together and I ask him what we are doing for new years and he said he is going out with his friends to the casino and some of ... (125 words

My colleague seems to be eavesdropping on my conversations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - There is this guy at work who seems to eavesdrop on my conversations and recently he's started butting in on my conversations. He had stopped talking to me but now he inserts himself in my conversations. I'll give you a back story: I had a crush on him last year and he knew... (210 words

I've always wanted to be with her but now she is damaged goods

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

23 December 2013 (M age - Hi, ive been trying to see some one, but she's working alot of over time right now, so thats her excuse for not calling or texting. We gone out a couple times in the last two months, we were talking alot, an texting, but not now, ive been trying really hard to be nice. her la... (197 words

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

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23 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll never be happy" 'you think yo... (221 words

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