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If it's true love, will he ever get bored of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

17 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I've been with many guys before him and I know this sounds dumb but nobody else gave me this feeling of satisfaction and love that I get from being with him. This relationship feels different from every other one that I've ... (293 words

Has anyone ever out there ever cheated and changed his/her ways?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I've been having thoughts of guilt because I cheated on my bf 5 months ago. He obviously found out and he broke up with me. I was aware that what I was doing was wrong, but I still kept on cheating because I didn't feel sexually attracted to him anymore. I feel horrible, but ... (707 words

Any sayings that make you feel better after a breakup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

17 December 2013 (M age 41-50 - Hi, Has anyone got any good sayings that make you feel better and help forget, get over a relationship that is or hasn't worked out? For example, I saw a good one "If you are left wondering were you are stood, it's time to stop standing and start walking".... (51 words

When are you ready to settle down? How do you know?

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17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - How do you know when you're ready to settle down? I want someone to come home to every night, to be there for my son and I, but I still look at all these attractive men and think wow. I have so many options. I'm seeing a sweet, kind, amazing man who wants to settle down. How do ... (63 words

Does my wife want me back just because she knows I was seeing someone else?

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17 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my wife tens years and married five . She recently left me for about the third time 6 months ago. We have an 8 year old daughter who is not biologically mine but i have raised her and love her as mine. Each time we break up wife does not let me see my daughter ... (391 words

My guy friend stayed in touch with me just to be close to my girl friend. I'm sick of it!

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17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - So im in colg now... and u know the first guy firnd i hav ovr here was into my best friend. later me and my best frnd separated due to some misunderstandings... bt dat guy frnd and i remained close... now me and my frnd hav reconciled and now it seems as if the sole purpose of ... (149 words

How do I ensure our relationship survives this distance?

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17 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - I asked a question on here a few weeks back. My boyfriend of only a few month has gone home for 4 weeks over xmas. Hes away so long as his father is ill. In the first two weeks he was in touch all day every day, he was very loving and seemed to be really missing me. In the last ... (190 words

My wife had affairs and I forgave her but now I want a divorce. Should I do so?

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17 December 2013 (M age 41-50 - The nightmare started when I came to know about her affairs. My wife was not even sure whether the child belongs to me or not. The DNA result claims that its mine. I was deeply in love with my wife, that I wrote her name on my body thru tattoo which was her first valentine ... (966 words

Does my cousin care for me but can't tell me?

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17 December 2013 (F - I am in my 40s and was at a family get together and was talking to my aunt from one family and my cousin from another. We were talking about my male cousin as he left the party early as he didn't like family gatherings and I offered to have a chat with him. The female cousin ... (235 words

My girfriend has mood swings and I am not happy with her.

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17 December 2013 (M age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship with my gf of past 10 months. I love her a lot, very much. Actually the problem is that she lies to me about her past and sometimes in present too she lies often. Ok so she told me about a boy and told they were best friends but she ... (565 words

I am obsessing over his ex!

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17 December 2013 (? age 30-35 - Hello, I've been dating a guy for around 6 months now and I am completely in love with him. He is unlike anyone I have ever met before. I would even go as far as to say that he is my ideal man. My background is that I was in a 7 year relationship from 15 years of ag... (337 words

My boyfriend mentioned my ex's name.

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17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - This morning i asked my bf if he liked that i said his name during sex and he said he did. That it was much better then saying ( ex name) or something else. I thought it was super weird that he said my ex name since ive never mentioned it to him. Just once i called him my ex ... (114 words

How do I diplomatically bring up the issue of her lying?

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17 December 2013 (M age 30-35 - hello. can anyone give me advice on how to deal with my lying girlfriend? we've been together for over a year now and she's never been the lying type, but i've got some proof that recently, she's been lying to me about something (not too major). she denies it. i simply wou... (117 words

Marriage being damaged by wife's male friend who has now stayed for more than 2 months

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17 December 2013 (M age 51-59 - I have been married for 2 years, I am 41 and my wife is 30. We have always been amazing together, and I thought we were happy. We recently started trying for kids, which was her idea, as I was never going to push her until she was ready. She has just changed her job and ended ... (638 words

History with two older men, but right now I want neither of them

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17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I am currently depressed and honestly, I deserve it. I created an incredible mess. I was 18 when I met 33yr old "Jack" and though I didn't mean for it to happen, he became my first lover but he wanted to commitment. I was hurt but stuck by because I knew he did care for me. It ... (600 words

I have a boyfriend, but a crush on another guy has me perplexed! Any words of wisdom?

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17 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I apologize beforehand for length/tediousness I am never really attracted to anyone other than the person I'm in a relationship with. I'm happy with this, as it makes being faithful a no-brainer. No exaggeration, I've only been even ATTRACTED in the slightest to five people i... (328 words

I was SO in love with him! Can someone help me figure out why I feel disconected now?

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17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I am in a situation that I need help with. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. When i first met him I fell a connection right away. I was the one who pursued him and I was the one who initially wanted to be in a relationship. After 7 mo... (288 words

He's flirting but hasn't asked me out on a date, what are his intentions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy last month at a friend's gathering. In the end, we exchanged facebook. We messaged each other on FB for a week, but not like having long conversations. Then it stopped. Until a week ago, he got back from his holiday, we sorta got in touch again. Started w... (168 words

How can I look at things differently, so that I don't think all my relationships are doomed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - So aunts and uncles, I need some pointers here! I am about to go on a date soon with a friend of 6 years. He has been with me through the ups and downs of my bad relationships in the past. So obviously we have gotten close. He's such a sweet, caring guy. Here are my issu... (233 words

Why do men send photos of their genitals to women they barely know?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

17 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - Okay, inquiring minds must know. This appears to be a relatively new phenomenon, but in all seriousness, why do men send pics of their penises to women? I'm not talking about if you're in a committed relationship or if the girl ASKS for it. I'm talking about a girl you just ... (101 words

Is it ever a good idea to get back together with an ex?

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17 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Do any of you think it's ever a good idea to get back with an ex? I broke up with my ex in February (after we had been together for a year) and starting in June we had about 6 months of no contact. (fyi, he's 29 and i'm 23) Neither one of us had any desire to date anyone else... (387 words

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