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My husband and I no longer make decisions together

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14 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have found it hard to make time for each other lately. He is so busy working and I am busy with kids and house. We always make decisions together but lately we can't agree on anything he just says what he thinks I want to hear. We recently decided to get a... (152 words

Should I spend three more years pursuing a degree in a field I dislike?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - this isnt really a relationship question but more of a futuristic decision. I have never been confident, stuck in a dead end job, got a great degree but all employee's care about is previous experience. I ask myself how can u get experience without a job. Well I know wh... (564 words

I worry that my boyfriend secretly keeps in touch with his first love

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14 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I don't know how to talk about these problems without sounding crazy so I'm just going to come out and say it. I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months. I know this may be creepy but I often think about his ex girlfriend and their relationship. I ... (365 words

I envy my friend for being confident with boys

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14 December 2013 (F age 22-25 - Hiya! Recently, I have realised that my best friend is a 'Guy Magnet' (sounds really strange I know, but its the only way I could think to describe it!) She is naturally pretty and she's a tomboy so its not hard to guess that is another reason why guys like her! To add to... (318 words

Should I try and persuade her to date me again?

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14 December 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I've never posted here before but here it goes. I dated this girl nearly three years ago. A friend set us up, and things didn't work out. I didn't know her that well and she didn't know me, not to mention the fact that I had just gotten my heart broken and she had never ev... (230 words

I'm thinking of divorcing my wife because she isn't pretty enough

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

14 December 2013 (M age 36-40 - I will be as honest as I can, so i can have some honest responses.I need some suggestion from people who are on the same shoes or from anyone. I have been married for 3 years. I am 26 and my wife is 24. In my opinion i think my wife looks 6/10. my wife is 30lb overweigh... (368 words

I hate that his ex is still part of his life

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14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I'm wondering if someone has gone through this My boyfriend is friends with his ex and it drives me crazy. I guess the reason I hate it is because I know how much he loved her and he was with her for a long time. Whenever I've noticed that they've been texting or talki... (171 words

He's prepared to live off mommy's money -- Is this an irreconcilable difference?

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14 December 2013 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a spoiled "mama's boy." He's 21 (as am I) and we have been together for four years. His mother is very wealthy, has fancy cars and 6 apartments and recently told him that he will inherit all of this. Since this discovery, my boyfriend has lost all interest in ... (393 words

How much fighting is too much?

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14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm writing to ask your opinion on how much fighting is too much. I've been with my current boyfriend for just over a year, and I think he is the man I will spend my life with. In general, we get along very well, and we never have had any major arguments until ... (146 words

I am numb from my last relationship....but want to move forward!

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14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I am preparing to meet a guy I have been talking to online for 6 years. He's an awesome guy, and I'm not nervous. The only thing is, I know he's at a point in his life where he wants to settle down. He is turning 30 next month. He wants kids, a wife, a family. I have a son ... (143 words

Why cant I leave this bad situation?

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14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Well I have been on and off with my boyfriend for five years! He has confessed to cheating on me, and Well there has been many times where he has been emotionally abusive, calling me names, even physically! But I would go back to him! Things have started to change a little ... (200 words

Is he just being stubborn or does he just want to remain friends?

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14 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy for a good two months and we were fab together. Always laughing, had loadz fun together, both felt the same, couldnt get enough of each other. I started to get really strong feelings for him to which he reciprocated by telling me all the time that he really ... (333 words

I'm about to break up with my B/f and I feel nothing during sex..no physical or emotional connection. Does this mean that sex is all about how you feel for that person?

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14 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles. I am in the process of leaving a 3 year relationship,it been tough,and volitile,but I.m finding it a bit difficult to let go of the last bit. It.s literally on it.s last legs. My question is this. The last few times I had sex with him, I literally could ... (217 words

My boyfriend is friends with this girl who sleeps around with almost everyone and I'm scared that he might cheat on me

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14 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I just found out that my boyfriend is friends with this girl who sleeps around with almost everyone !! He cheated on me before, although that was a year ago. We broke up and got back together, and now I'm afraid that he has or will do something with her. He knows I have iss... (123 words

Does this guy even care? Is he upset? Did I do something wrong here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

14 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - I need some advice. I have been talking (texting) to this guy who I met through a friend for about a month now. He seems interested in me, but I have been very caution about him. The thing that I hate about him is that if I text him, he doesn't get back to me after a day or ... (304 words

What is she hoping for here?

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14 December 2013 (M age 51-59 - My wife is doing something a bit "unusual" lately in bed and I am trying to figure it out. When I am on top, she holds 2 fingers together like a penis and starts sucking and licking them. (great so far :-)) Then she pulls my face down and kisses me while the ... (267 words

I feel I'm at my emotional limit with this relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I need some help and advice with a relatively new relationship I'm in. The relationship started out complicated but that in itself is a very long story so I'm hoping I can escape going into that. Basically, we got together in September and everything seemed pretty fine and ... (684 words

Is it okay to date someone who teaches at my college?

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14 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - Okay I'm currently 17 and turning18 in about 2 months, about April last year I was seeing this guy who was 21 but cause we were both busy we sorta drifted apart, he recently started to speaking to me again and were getting on really well, only thing is he actually now teaches ... (151 words

He won't clarify what I am to him after 3.5 months together. Should this be a deal breaker?

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14 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 3 and a half months now, and so far it's been really great for the most part. He's a really sweet guy, and he treats me really well. We hang out a few times a week and we talk everyday. He's met a lot of my friends and he even met my sister ... (530 words

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