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How do men feel about dominating women during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I was just wondering about submissive/dominant sexual relationships. Over the last few years I've gotten really into the idea of being completely dominated during sex; tied up, handcuffed, spanked, etc. I don't think I'm a masochist though, because I don't ... (193 words

Is this just his communication style, or if he's really pulling back from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 41-50 - I'm a well-educated, successful, fun-loving, adventurous, and attractive woman and have had no problem finding dates, when I want them. The problem has been finding guys who are emotionally available and ready for a relationship. The last relationship I had, I was burned pretty ... (735 words

He's been the perfect boyfriend so why do I dread hearing from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 30-35 - Im so confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for six years, in the beginning we had huge problems, he cheated a number of times and because he was my first love i forgave him. however for the last four years hes been the perfect boyfriend we've gotten on great! No issues at all. ... (261 words

Confused about ex girlfriend's behaviour

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

30 August 2013 (M age 41-50 -   I knew her for about a year and I would describe it as off and on.  We would talk continually online, email and text.  Meeting up as friends, with her eventually coming onto me by making suggestive comments and texts leading to sex.  We would last for a few weeks then whe... (861 words

I feel I am too intimidating .....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 26-29 - I feel like i am too intimidating to guys and therefore they dont talk/approach me. I have a general 'don't mess with me/i am my own person' attitude that lets boys know that if the try to mess me around like they do to other girls i just wont stand for it, and this is some... (119 words

I hate being part of a list,but all the boys of my age don't want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys. I have an issue i need some advice on! Over the weekend i was at a festival and kissed this guy. We spent e whole night together and he was really sweet. I kind of knew it would be a 'one night thing' (we didnt do anything more than kiss) but now i cant stop t... (248 words

Can I make this work or should I give up?

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30 August 2013 (F age 36-40 - I'm having relationship troubles. My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We were fine until a few months ago. I bought a house and we started doing it up together. That was stressful. Then my dad got diagnosed with prostate cancer and my brother became very very sick ... (411 words

I said I was confused, he said he was too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 22-25 - This boy really confuses me... Please help. I said I still really like you he says he still really likes me, yet he broke up with me. How does that work? When I said I was confused he said he was too. What is going on? ... (46 words

I'm curious about what my girlfriend meant.

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30 August 2013 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me that she will always love me for who I am no matter what comes or happens in between....From a female perspective, what does that mean? I'm just curious as hell. Please help............ (37 words

It feels like she is trying to play psychological warfare with me!

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30 August 2013 (M age 36-40 - Recently my gf broke up with me for no real reason at all. But anyways aside from that I have been trying to move on with my life but it’s been really hard. It really feels like she is trying to play psychological warfare with me. She’s flat out ignoring me at social events ... (171 words

Secretive girlfriend! How do I approach this?

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30 August 2013 (M age 30-35 - Been reading through articles on here and they are very useful. However I need some advice still. My g/f has become extremely secretive with texts and calls over the past month or so. There's a guy she's been speaking to and she has become quite secretive with her phone. For ... (380 words

What are the signs that would show if it is just casual with my coworker?

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30 August 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone I've found myself in a difficult situation with a guy I like. We work together and have been good friends since I started there about 3 months ago. We had flirted a lot but never let that come in the way at work. One night we ended up sleeping together after a ... (313 words

Is it childish to ignore someone who rejected you?

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30 August 2013 (F age 30-35 - I have a male acquaintance from home, I've never really known him very well but as we both go to the same riding club I see him quite often and am good friends with a lot of his good friends. It's a big riding club with many people from my old school, and I've been there for ... (394 words

What do guys do to have clear skin?

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30 August 2013 (M age 30-35 - This a question mostly for guys who take care of their skin. What do you guys use or do to have a beautiful smooth skin? Everytime I see a guy with smooth skin I get jealous. I'm 21 and I sport nice and well groomed beard but I do look a bit older. But with my skin I look eve... (147 words

My long distance is into role playing and its startin to really get to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 30-35 - Before I start, I'm going to say that I know part of my worries come from jealousy and maybe even insecurity, but I really just have to ask others to because I know there's more to it than that. Also, it may be hard to read because I'm venting a bit. I met my long distance... (652 words

I really want to talk to him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

30 August 2013 (? age 22-25 - Ok well it's sophomore year and my friend J(first letter of his name, not gonna reveal his full name) finally is a high schooler but he's older than me by a month. Ok back to the story, we've been talking since I was in the 8th grade and he was in the 7th. Not a lot just ... (304 words

What's a mature way to handle casual sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 36-40 - So this is more a request.for guidance. I especially would like answers from men, and from women with experience in casual sex. I lost my casual-sexginity! This week! It was AMAZING. Here I was all cynical about the crappy hand life had dealt me, and being "above" casual s... (617 words

I am afraid I am wearing out my older boyfriend with too much sex! What do I do?

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30 August 2013 (? age 51-59 - Hello all. I have a situation I need advice on. I am not sure if it is a problem or I am making it into something that it isn't. I am 45 and my boyfriend is 15 years older than I am. He is very sexual and passionate and there are times he can get another erection within ... (398 words

After 10 years of marriage my husband has no interest in sex. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 August 2013 (F age 51-59 - Just asking. Is it really happening,when the husband and wife is living together for nearly 10 years the sex life is gone? i mean, my husband and me are nearly 10 years now. i dont know but its already 8 months now that he dont even think about sex, even i tried to speak to ... (219 words

Why can't I get over guys quickly?

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30 August 2013 (F age 26-29 - I am "friends" with this guy my problem is he hasn't been texting me or talking to me...I've done something bad, as in texting him multiple times, each day. (I know that is really bad and clingy!) I'm not like this with every guy honestly. It's been 3weeks since we've hung out. ... (271 words

I hate this job but don't want to be seen as a quitter

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30 August 2013 (F age 30-35 - Would you quit a job you've been at 4 months if you hated it? I know it hasn't been long but I feel myself wanting to give up and walk out the door some days. I work with infants who are very demanding at a daycare. The crying babies, high maintenance parents and ridiculous ... (250 words

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