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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've been mourning my dog for two years -- is that normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts, It's really difficult to describe your feelings when they run deep, at least I really struggle with it. I honestly suck at expressing my deepest feelings in words and I am heartbroken to the core. So, I apologize in advance for my post being a bit of a miss be... (1613 words)

She wants space, how should I approach this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. We both loved each other endlessly from almost the very beginning. For me, she is the love that I have searching for my whole life and from letters and notes from her I am her one and only. She is real big on communic... (344 words)

Fallen out with a friend due to her involvement with this man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with my friend for about 12 years. We went to University together. We don't see each other often as we live quite far away but we talk a lot on the phone. Sometimes a couple times a day. She was with a guy for 5 years. She never met any of his family and s... (626 words)

My boyfriend can't come through intercourse!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about nine months and for the most part I couldn't be happier - he's kind, caring, trustworthy, funny and smart, and I think he's gorgeous. But there's something missing: vaginal Iintercourse is rare and brief. It's certainly not a matter of ... (642 words)

I want him to feel love for me, not just lust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I m in a relationship with a guy...before dating him i was in love with someone else...but yet i m dating someone who i was friends with for 1 year. but i m not able to forget my past love. i want him desperately...but hes a complete casanova...there are many girls in his life. ... (99 words)

Where do I meet these particular types of women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27, and thank you for your help at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-become-better-at-dating.html. I will try some of your suggestions and thank you for them. The walking (or hiking as you referred to it) is good socially, but poor from a dating point o... (747 words)

Does this sound like a normal stag night or should I be concerned?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 28, my fiance's 31, we've been a couple for 5 years now, engaged for 2. We live in Southport, England. His stag weekend is coming up in 6 weeks, and this is what he's doing [quoted from itinerary]: STAG NIGHT WITH THE LADS ATTENDING: John [my fiance, not his real na... (257 words)

I regret breaking up with my girl, now I want to make up with her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I made a mistake in ending my relationship with a girl who was deeply in love with me. I had reasons but did not make it known to her. She was quiet confused, but just agreed for our separation. I'd love to make up with her but will she be willing to hear me out? I'd ... (85 words)

He gives me really mixed signals. Every time I let go he comes back to me. What is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I need to know if this guy likes me or not. We are just friends, but i know he is attracted to me because he has mentioned he is.I have a huge crush on him.I know we have a connection because we have talked on the phone for 6 hours straight before, but since then it seems ... (275 words)

I can't shake the feeling that she cheated on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - think my girlfriend cheated on me but she denies it. She had a very dramatic event occur in her life and had to go stay with family friends for a couple of months. The family had a son near her age who she opennly admitted she found attractive. From the interactions she would ... (501 words)

My girlfriend has been ignoring my messages, I feel like she is seeing someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So I want to keep this short because most people wont read it if its really long. My girlfriend has been short with me this week and distant she doesn't send me cute good morning texts and goodnight which makes me lead to the decision that she is obviously seeing someone else. ... (190 words)

Since having children my friend constantly and openly openly judges me and makes me feel bad about my decision not to have kids

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! So, I've had this friend since kindergarden. We've been very close friends since we were 3 years old and I know she loves me and I love her back, but we're very different people (different education, different background...). Anyway, the thing is, I cannot be with her... (294 words)

In an LDR for one year, husband has just come back and now his job requires him to travel again - I'm freaking out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! My husband and I have been in an LDR for one year: it was hard, but we are finally back together! He's found this great new job and we're finally back together. This job will require him to travel for work. His first trip will be in a couple of weeks for 4 days and I'm ... (234 words)

I pushed my boyfriend to go to a prostitute and now his attitude seems to have changed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to think . So my boyfriend has been in Ukraine for a week now and he isn't really a party guy or so he told me. He has been going to night clubs non stop and stays out like really late but recently I started pushing him into having sex and since he... (240 words)

His divorce is going to come through soon and he is talking about us taking a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Weve been together for 8mo and his divorce should be done in Nov. Its been an emotional roller coaster in our relationship since he's getting a divorce because his wife cheated, im not sure what he really means and wants but he's been saying we need to separate and then he ... (125 words)

If he just wants me as a best friend, why does he have to be in contact every single day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv a friend iv known since im 15. He txts me almost everyday and does an exercise class with me every week. weve become closer friends as in talking more since the start of this year. We started talking more as we had a drunken smooch at xmas. Close as in a brother/sister kind ... (391 words)