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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If someone has regretted starting smoking at some point, will they ever quit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - As much as I hate that you can't make someone quit smoking I understand that it has to be their choice. I just wondered though, although I am possibly living in hope. If someone has regretted starting smoking at some point, will they ever quit? At first they were like any other ... (158 words)

Two terrible reationships and now I want something good! What do I look for in a guy? And how do I lose weight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3686 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I hope everyone is doing well and keeping this site going and I basically have an a bit of an update and a question for all of you wonderful aunts and uncles. Recently I came out of my second un-successful relationship due to my ex being a serial cheat, all in a... (823 words)

Fiance is angry because I don't want him going on vacation with family of my dead husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so, I've been dating this man for 6 months and we are engaged to be married. Yea, when you know you know. It just felt right. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage (he passed away 5 years ago). I thought everything was ok until this past week when I went on vacation. I ... (442 words)

I Think My Girlfriend Walks All Over Me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, This is my first post on here so I’ll give it a go. I have been with my girlfriend for about 15 months now and all my friends think she walks all over me and I don’t be the man in the relationship. Whenever I have a problem with anything she completely flips the sit... (461 words)

Should I just keep quiet and my love and pain to myself in regards to a co-worker moving away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

13 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a stupid question but I'm going to ask it anyway because I feel so bad. I am a married man with children and I'm in love with a significantly younger woman at work. She's recently married and happily so as far as I can tell. We get on really well and I suppose I've just ... (179 words)

Shouldn't my boyfriend know by now if he wants a future with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm an emotional roller coaster lately, and I'm not sure if it's because I'm torn, or if I'm going into a "low" period. I have had periods where I feel very negative before, and in these periods everything looks black. So please, it'd be great to hear if I should listen to my ... (515 words)

I want to masturbate but I don't want to feel the guilt again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

13 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - To make a long story short, I use to be inlove with masturbating and i stopped doing it 2 months ago, but i feel like if i do it just once ill get hooked but masturbation is a thing with all males 99% of all males do it and i have had these strong urges but they don't happen ... (120 words)

My married man is too busy for me but I don't want to let him go!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with a married guy, 6years older than me. He lives about a 5hour drive away from me and he comes once or twice a month to oversee his projects (he's a building contractor). Last weekend was a long weekend and we chilled from thurs to sunday when he had to travel back ... (222 words)

Did he forget we agreed to get married in December?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Please tell me if I am overreacting. My boyfriend asked me to marry him and I said yes, we agreed to marry in December. This was 2 months ago. We do not have a ring yet. He says he is saving. We have not discussed that again, I accepted he must save and I will ... (189 words)

I'm having trouble deciding between two guys.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having trouble deciding between two guys. Maybe both are wrong for me, I don't know. Basically, one of the guys, I've had a very strange history with. I met him in college 5 years ago as acquaintances. His girlfriend was also an acquaintance. 3 years ago, he messaged me on ... (827 words)

Off to college, how should we part?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Guys, haven't been here since I was fifteen. Well recently I fell into a relationship with this guy who I had liked for a long time. I became his friend in AP calculus and eventually we hung out outside of school. For three months or so we became really great friends and ... (340 words)

What has happened to my friend? I can't move on until I understand this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3907 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. 8 days ago I had an argument with an ex-friend. His responses didn't make sense. I would ask a question to which his response would be totally off subject. One example was where I asked a qestion and he turned round and said forget it I've know this friend... (960 words)

He never wants to get married but I do. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I really need your help and advice. About 3 months ago when I was living in France I met a guy coincidentally just a week before moving back to the UK. Long story short, we have seen each other a couple of times since we met, talked everyday, Skyped often and... (493 words)

I am a very quiet and boring guy, will girls like me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

13 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 year old guy and never had a girlfriend before. Its not that I don't like women/girls, its because I don't know how to get one due to the fact that I always keep my mouth shut, but I can't help it because its my personality. It is kind of frustrating because girls ... (210 words)

I'm hurt that he is choosing to believe an anonymous idiot over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 4 years. A couple of nights ago he called me to say he'd received a text message saying 'you should ask your girlfriend where she stayed on Saturday night'. I was on a night out with my sister on Saturday (which he knew a... (295 words)

My girlfriend has retrograde jealousy and its getting worse!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

13 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, I have spent the last week reading everything I could on this website relating to the subject of "Retroactive Jealousy" but I was not able to find much relating to my case (surprisingly, since there is a lot of information here). I am a Parisian who just ... (961 words)

Boyfriend has finally agreed to everything I thought I wanted but now I'm still not happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm desperately in need of some advice if someone can help me please? I am 29 and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. For the first couple of years of our relationship he didn't seem that interested and it seemed to me that he preferred to go out with his friends than... (391 words)

How can I trust him when he was having webcam sex with his ex for months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to handle my situation. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I thought we were happy in every aspect, and I could tell him anything, and I thought also could tell me anything. He called me a few days ago telling ... (401 words)

Your first love: Do you ever really get over them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you ever truly get over your first love? It has been almost four years and I have been in a relationship for a while, but I still catch my self remininscing of the past. We were together for 2 years. ... (44 words)

22 and no more sex drive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has such a high sex drive and is always looking to fool around. I got mad at him the other day for always trying to. I realized that I have lost my drive all together and I'm not sure what this means for us. I used to love fooling around and all that but now I ... (172 words)

Does my husband really love me when he still wants to go to his ex's house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone im new to this site. Im not sure where to start. But i am very heartbroken my husband and i have been married for over a year we had only been dating for a month then we got married. My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship i am 21 and he is 20. we ... (222 words)

I can't afford sleepless nights because my flat mate won't get help for his problems!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a flatmate (or roommate) who is essentially slowly but surely loosing the plot. I've been living in my flat for around 5 months? I'd been flat hunting for around a month at this time it got offered to me and it seemed cool (piano, record player, nice vibe) however I only ... (480 words)

My married ex called me to say he still has feelings for me. I feel the same but what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

13 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old my whole life I have only had 3 serious relationships. I have a 2 year old with my ex. We broke up march 15th of last year and it was so hard i was devastated i thought i'd never get over it. I always knew that he was the one but we both was very immature... (395 words)