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Archived questions from: 8 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can a 33 year old man possibly see in a 66 year old woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age - I am a healthy, attractive 66 year old female who is being ardently courted by a very handsome 33 year old male. That is a big age gap! What can this man possibly see in me?... (39 words)

I posted an ad for no strings attached sex but now I've changed my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on craigslist for a NSA encounter...but now I want to back out of it. The guy has my email address (my real one) so I worried he may find me... is this silly? I do have a FB account obviouly under my own name. He wants to meet up this week, and I dont want to. What sh... (70 words)

Either I pretend I enjoyed sex when I didn't or he accuses me of being loose

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and was a virgin before meeting my boyfriend. Because I was a virgin, I was hesitant to have sex with him and when we finally did, I felt nothing,besides the initial pain even though he couldn't stop telling me how much he enjoyed it. I've noticed from chats with ... (211 words)

Can anybody find me...somebody to love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a twenty seven year old lesbian. And still a virgin. I feel ashamed by this. I'm kinda shy and insecure, because I don't look like some of the lesbians that I see around where I live. It's depressing me, and I want to know if there are any steps that I can take, that w... (88 words)

We both saw other people and are now back together but I feel jealous of someone she dated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated my girlfriend for about 2.5 years i was her first and am her only sexual partner everntually we broke up, it wasnt a "break" or time apart it was an indefinate BREAK UP. i found out she wanted to get married to me, have kids start a family, i was a loser at the time, no ... (719 words)

Has anyone gone through IVF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, im starting my first round of icsi/ivf next week. We have waited so long for this day to come i cant believe its finally here. But im so scared and nervous, worried it wont happen. I know these are probably normal feelings. Has anyone reading this gone through ... (60 words)

My boyfriend doesn't trust me around my guy friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive been dating my boyfriend for 5months. were very happy. i have well alot of male friends. i dont make friends with girls as good because most of them always have drama. i dislike drama. so yeah. but i just hung out with my best friend ever. and my boyfriend freaked ... (277 words)

Why does everyone think that its a great thing that my ex got married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age - Why is everyone acting like my ex's recent marriage is such a great thing to have happened? First off, my ex is a full-fledged alcoholic who's main goal in life other that working is to drink and party. He also, smokes pot. He left me 2 yrs. ago for someone else after 7 yrs ... (568 words)

Does he want more than just friend with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've found myself in a kind of FWB situation with a man, originally who was just my 'online friend' for over 2 years. We did not end up meeting until early this year. We grew quite close over this time and arranged to meet. We spoke for a few hours and nothing happened... (392 words)

Am I unreasonable that I don't want my son to lie in bed all day?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - At 2pm today I told my husband that he should go and tell my son that it was time to get up out of bed and he said "To Do What?" Am I unreasonable not to want him to lie in be all day? ... (47 words)

Should I apply for the job or sort out my health issues first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had an abdominal scan recently which showed up a calcified cyst. The doctors need to do a CT scan before they can determine what it is. I've not been working since I had quite a big operation 2.5 years ago. My husband (who is working) saw a job online which I could... (90 words)

Am I being pessimistic or paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone.. I think its a bit ridiculous question but I can't help to stop this thought :( I have boyfriend of 3 years and our relationship is quite great. He's really a caring man, mature and understands me. I know he really loves me deeply. We both the same age 22. Bot... (517 words)

I was fine with her dating my ex until my friends piled on about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years at the end of May. For the first year it was juts us and then for the last year we had an 'open' relationship- it suited us fine and in no way impacted our break up. Our relationship simply fizzled out so we decided to go our separate ... (177 words)

Do men over 40 really not want to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very concerned about the amount of sex or lack of with my boyfriend of 1.5 appx. he recently moved back home his mom is sick, but I am her caretaker..we dont live together and he didnt really want to move back home he likes his privacy. we have had sex a few times in his ... (244 words)

How do I keep my boyfriend interested when I'm gone on holiday without him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on holiday in a couple of weeks. My relatively new boyfriend isn't going with me. It's for two weeks and I'm a little worried that he'll lose interest when I'm not around. We haven't actually been too sexual with one another yet and I'm wondering is this a good way to ... (115 words)

Is it true that girls my age are more attracted to guys who know how to drive and own a car?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I've felt pressured into learning to drive. Here in the UK you can learn at 17 and im currently 19. Quite a few of my friends can drive but I've never got round to learning, most of the places I go to in my spare time are local or I can simply use public transport to ... (158 words)

Can someone who previously used sexting live without it now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, what do you think about the need for sexting? Me and my bf have been together 18 months, I know he sexted previous gfs and hook ups, even exchanging nude photos with one girl, but he doesn't do this with me :( He'll sometimes go as far as saying he wants to kiss me, but ... (132 words)

Any advice to make my first kiss romantic, fun, memorable and special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Yesterday a guy who s my age, told me that he liked me. I said i liked him too, so it got a bit awkward then he tried to kiss me. Some how I pulled back before he could kiss me, becoz i dont think i was ready to do that since ive never kissed a boy in my entire life. He was ... (189 words)

I've developed feelings for my friend but don't want to cause problems

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - please forgive the length please advise i dont understand how ive developed feelings for my good friend. at first we barely spoke as we worked together on a team but not one to one which we have done recently. we have got close in a friendship way and have a lot in common... (192 words)

I lied about my real age online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age - I met a man online a year ago and we became friends ,he's 40 and im 58 but i never told him that.I never thought we would continue to talk so what did it matter.Well the unthinkable happened ,we fell in love ... he is single and so am i .He is the kind of man i wish i had ,had ... (167 words)

I don't want sex outside an exclusive relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I met someone from online a few weeks ago..we spoke and texted a week before that as well. I was fine with him signing onto the dating site until recently..we basically have been out 5 times. I already met his father, roommate, cousin. We spent the 4th out together. It seems ... (314 words)

I found his latest sext offensive!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my LDR boyfriend have recently started sexting which I started (weve been together 7 months and started having sex after 4). I recently received a text saying how(this has been edited) he "can't wait to p***d a vi****** into you and hear your p****y juice squelch its ... (71 words)

I want the old exciting, flirty me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is this happening to me? Is it normal? So I loved my ex bf so much. and I always thought he felt the same cause of the way he'd talk about me to his friends and family. He was so sweet and lovely he told me he loved me and I felt like he did just by his act... (339 words)

My friend is making my life a misery ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is driving me crazy, I can't deal with her everyday drama anymore. I've been her best friend for about 7 years now we're 21 years old, I have never hurt her feelings or said anything mean to her, I've always been there for her, always supporting her no matter ... (418 words)

How do I tell him there is a time and a place for his problems and here and now is not it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My son who had a major accident during rugby game, had his second operation 3 days ago. His knee is damaged for life. He just had artificial ligaments in and metal. My friend called me to ask how my son was, he started talking about one of his girl friends having headache... (438 words)

I'm pretty much a walking hormone and masturbate daily! Is it normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 this year, never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never had sex, nothing. And most of you will understand that at this age, I'm pretty much a walking hormone. I'm gonna be honest and say that I'm horny 70-80% of the time and have a lot of sexual cravings. But don't ... (181 words)

"Just stop looking blah blah" somebody please tell me how that works!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've heard this over and over again... That the reason I can't find a girlfriend is because I'm looking for one, and that as soon as I stop looking, I'll suddenly end up in a relationship. "Happens when you least expect it," "I found my partner when I stopped looking" etc. etc. ... (220 words)

Did I offend my skyping friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been getting a great girl online. We skyped for the first time on Friday. There was an akward moment when I offered to play some music for her, and it made her uncomfortable. I said it was ok, but then I think she felt she'd upset me so said I could play. In the end I... (223 words)

I led him on and then said no, now how to face him in cold light of day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am worried that I may have hurt someone by getting their hopes up. I have been single now for 18 months after ending a 7 year relationship and I am happy being single but lately I have been missing a bit of male company, the problem is that I not someone who can have casual ... (220 words)

I am in dire need of advice coping with and dealing with mrsa!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help advice or a good website. I am doing this from my phone and dont have a computer, i cant post on all websites. My bf has been diagnosed with mrsa in a lesion in his nose. It is a type of staph infection that is resistant to most antibiotics. This is my ... (172 words)

I'm torn between my long-term abusive ex girlfriend and prospective new girlfriend who seems perfect as of now. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I dated my ex-girlfriend for almost 5 years. Our relationship was a tumultuous one at the best of times, with a lot of petty fighting and breakups. We were definitely known as a temperamental couple. Over the past year, the severity of the fighting escalated and I ... (738 words)

I love him but feel he is rushing me into marriage next year. I haven't accepted. Should I accept?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend so much and he obviously loves me more than i love him.it was him i gave my virginity to. we are both just 17. he proposed to me to marry him.he said he wants us to do it as soon as possible(next year when we turn 18). But i dont want to. He hasnt stopped p... (100 words)

He acts differently in front of me. What can I do to get a straight answer out of him?

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8 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy but he is shy. I mean he gives off this cocky confident vibe but if I talk to him alone he suddenly becomes really nervous and says he feels awkward when it isn't it's just small talk. Also he has asked me out afew times but cancels and says he bottled it an... (187 words)

How could he leave and not say goodbye?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so hurt and brokenhearted! A very special friend of mines moved out of state, I knew he was moving, but he told me he would take me to dinner before he left! Ok, he ended up leaving a day early. We didnt get a chance to go to dinner, I can understand that, but what hurts ... (126 words)

My boss stopped flirting and started masturbating!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem with my boss. He is nearly 60 good looking, and very friendly. I got divorced 2 years ago and he was incredibly supportive allowing me time off when I needed it etc... In fact I always found him a brilliant and very caring man. He has always been very flirtaci... (316 words)

Meeting my online boyfriend for the first time, he might be expecting to meet a THIN girl!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this boy have been talking online for about two years now. And don't worry he is a mutual friend of MANY of my friends and a lot of my friends think he's a nice guy. He has a lot going for him, and any girl would be lucky to have him. He graduated top in his class and ... (402 words)

I'm on my own, sulking in depression and loneliness

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I deal with being alone? I've been alone all my life and I fear I'll always will be. I'm a closeted gay 17 year old boy who's never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss. I feel like I'm so far behind everyone else. I have so much love to give and I yearn to ... (253 words)

All the other girls talk about their crushes or boyfriends, but I have nothing to say ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fifteen and I have never been in love or even had a crush. I am attracted to boys, but I usually keep my distance from them to a point of not even talking to them. When people ask me why I never talk to boys at all socially, I usually answer with a sarcastic "Because they ... (101 words)

I dislike him being so close to his manipulative ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, thanks in advance for your help. I am considering leaving this guy for the following reasons, and I would like some opinions on what I should do, and if I am right for being upset: I met this guy two years ago and he was an emotional wreck, he had broken up... (536 words)

Is it a guy thing, or should I expect him to make more of an effort

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months. we have always been two hours apart and never in the same city. we started talking through facebook and chatted for about 6 months before ever going on a date or anything. it was going really well, we would chat for... (264 words)

She tells me she is besotted with me and yet it staying with him for a night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known this girl for about six weeks, she is 23 and im 25. When we first met she was in a failing relationship, her ex had cheated on her several times, he did it again and she split from him. In the next five weeks we have met three times and on two occasion we have ... (191 words)

He's in to role play and I have no idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Several months ago, my bf had mentioned that he can get bored sexually after a while and that he liked to role play. I was a little surprised (i've never done anything like his) and he said that he was talking something like after a year in the relationship. Well, it's now been ... (167 words)

He says he loves me so why keep pictures of the woman he cheated with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is 23 and I'.m 22. We've been together 2+ years.Las Saturday I foun out through a friend he hd an affair for 4 months(feb 2012-may 2012) but it was over. I was upset. I also found out he had a one night stand the day before,Friday. I called the ons chick and she ... (388 words)

Can't ejaculate from intercourse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4309 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, So I have a sexual problem that I need help with... It seems as though I can no longer ejaculate when having sex. I've slept with 5 people and only one of them has ever been able to make me orgasm and it's really beginning to bug me and confuse me. I'll p... (239 words)

I want him to actually sit down, look me in the eye, and discuss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a stable, loving rollercoaster relationship with an amazing guy. It's been fantastic right from the start and despite our very volatile ups and downs, it's been great. However in 7 weeks time I am due to return home (we met abroad) to start my studies. Now we both com... (221 words)

We only make love every four months or so ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4309 days ago

8 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I am 19 and so is my girlfriend we have been together for 4 and a half years and everything is perfect,Apart from the fact we only make love ever 4 months about. :(I have tryed talking to her about it but she says that just wants to cuddle and not kiss or anyt... (75 words)

He wants to move in after 3.5 months of dating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like some advice on my situation. Thanks your first for reading this. I am a 35 years old lady and divorced once. Now I am really looking for the right guy and have a happy relationship and family. I met a nice guy 2 and half months before. We like each other. He i... (139 words)

I need to know how to say NO so that he finally understands!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

8 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend of 7 years has recently told me he likes me and wants to go out with me however I don't see him as anything more than a friend and have told him this several times but he isn't taking it. recently he said to me that he wants to speak to me properly cause he ... (106 words)