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Archived questions from: 24 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Friend trouble, how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

24 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - One of my friends, "X", is very pretty and outgoing. (We're all in our 20's) She has a lot of friends and is very social. The thing is, when I am with her alone, she makes fun of me. X is totally different when it's just me and her. She will make fun of the way I look- how my ... (205 words)

Why is this man asking me to marry him when he already has a wife and kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man online a couple of years ao and I soon found out that he has a family( is married but has not slept with his wife in a loooooomg time because she has gained weight and they also bicker way too much)) so I told him I just wanted to be friends at first and then we ... (239 words)

How can I turn my life around? And what can I do to make myself feel happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. (Its a bit long but I appreciate if you read it) I'm 20 years old (female) I have just came out of a long term relationship, of 4 years, also have a two year old son with this person. I decided to call it quits as I fell out of love with him (not completley) but just ... (448 words)

I love her, I really do. But somehow I keep getting the feeling I deserve better.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I really don't know what to do with my girlfriend anymore. I'm wondering if I should break up or if I'm doing anything wrong, so here goes my story (and question). I think the sparks are off of our relationship. We've been together for over a year now, and this is my first... (599 words)

Worried that my best friend might be going down the wrong path...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend have been best friends since we were 12 and now we are 15, she used to be those innocent people, goody goody.. kinda on the nerdy side. Didn't care how she looked, you know. Now she is spoiled gets what ever she wants, dresses like a hooker. My boyfriend even ... (378 words)

Am I his friend or is there something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Confused. Am I his friend or is there something more?! Me and my best friend have admitted to falling in love with eachother (when drunk) But I always ask him to tell me sober but he doesn't. Most nights I'll go to his, and despite sexual tension, the closeness of us, it'... (245 words)

How do I ask a girl out? I really need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you ask a girl out? Im a tall guy and the girl i would like to have a relationship with is a shorter woman. I have never had a girlfriend before so i dont know how you ask a girl out. All i need is some good tips and advice. I would like to aske her out before school ... (100 words)

I'm wondering how my married lover can lead a double life!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - This question is directed more towards the experts in the field of infidelity because I'm really curious as to how she can live with herself. What gets me is how some of her peers and co-workers perceive her to be this classy upstanding woman when in reality her actions are ... (139 words)

Do I need to worry about this girl? Even though they've never met face-to-face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, several times, i've come on here asking for advice about the guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. and each time, your readers have been extremely helpful in the situations that i asked for advice on. soo, hopefully...they... (396 words)

I want to go out and live a little, meet other guys, spend more time with my friends. Do I just tell him that? Or will that completely break his heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 17 months now, but lately I don't feel the same around him. Most days, I don't even want to talk to him or see him. He just makes me mad all the time, tells me i'm doing everything wrong, and I just don't feel like I love him anymore. He say... (246 words)

I am upset that I am being criticized for my parenting!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My daughter is about to be a year old next week and does not walk nor try to. She just crawls and she goes to the furniture and stands up on it. She was born 2 months premature and her doctor always said that some things she might do a little bit later, which with all of her ... (313 words)

What do you see into your soulmate's eyes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - They say that if you look into someone's eyes and they are your soulmate. Then you can see all the next generations you'll create. I know its a figure of speach, so what do you see, how do you feel when you look into your loved one's eyes? ... (52 words)

I have all these feelings for her and I don't know what to do with them. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've known this girl for around 10 years and we've always been really close friends but more recently I've developed feelings for her that I just can't seem to shake. Not long ago I decide to tell her how I feel and I asked her to be my GF. She agreed and we kissed a while ... (197 words)

I don't if I should start a long distance relationship, because I fear boredom with no physical contact is just gonna kill attraction or do I begin a relationship and hopefully keep it going?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I started talking to this girl on and off after meeting her at a rave, but the conversations were just mutual and friendly, like to hang out soon. So after a while I haven't heard from her and we met again at a rave and everything changed. We started talking about personal ... (172 words)

Is it possible that my ex still likes me even a year after breaking up or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Big question, I went through the most painful breakup of my life last year, it took me almost 12 months to stop crying on a semi-daily/monthly basis for him. I must admit I still cry for him once in a while but I now have a boyfriend and although I am happy with him i... (869 words)

How do I know he's genuine? And, also, how can I regain the trust of my mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been really close friends with this guy and we just started going out about a fortnight ago. I was kind of accidentally suggestive last week, meaning just to be playful, but things got slightly too physical and I regret them. My mom knew something was up, and I couldn't... (286 words)

I think I messed up, how do I fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically there was this guy, i liked and i didnt know if he liked me back. I already asked people and got some answers about it which told me to man up and show him that i cared. I was more flirty, and so was he, we spent some great times, (he "spoke" a slam rap he wrote mo... (369 words)

I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and I have no ide if he ejaculat... (136 words)

She usually responds right away but hasn't this time. Is she testing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been texting this girl for few weeks. Conversations were going really good. Recently they have been like 'what we would do specific times of the day'. E.g. Wants cuddles at night, or me to take her out during the day etc. As if she is picturing all this in her head. ... (195 words)

We met on fb, not in person yet but could it be love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I ask a question about me never being in love, I said If I could change anything to get a guy to love me. And all the aunts that answered told me no, I'm perfect the way I am. I really appreciate your advice. So here's the thing I met a guy the next day o... (299 words)

Girlfriend refuses to admit part of our problems could be her fault too and lays guilt trips on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of years but lately I just have no idea what to do. My girlfriend has a disability which can cause her to be barely able to walk and can cause her to be in pain but not all the time. Anyways, we have been arguing a lot lately and the ... (469 words)

Can the age gap and class diversity work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been getting close to a guy I met a few months ago, we are getting to know each other at the mo so it hasn't developed into anything serious yet, but I can feel myself really falling for him the problem is or what I can't help feeling could be a problem is that I am a 24 ... (136 words)

Why is it because I'm fat I'm all of a sudden not good enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so Im having a little bit of a problem here. Im over-weight, reason is medical but nonetheless I am. I have long red hair, my eyes change between blue, green and grey on a daily basis and Im only 5’1. My boyfriend is 6’1, slim, dark bleh. Anyhoos…through school I alw... (682 words)

Why do I have spams when I masturbate but not when I have sex with boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this isn't really a problem but I'm just curious. When I masturbate and I orgasm I have spasms that I can feel. However when me and my boyfriend have sex I come just as hard, but I don't have these spasms. He thinks I'm faking, and that he can't make me cum because I don't ... (133 words)

Can you tell the difference between a lie and the truth? Did this woman sleep with my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - *I need some ones help please* im in a really horrible place right now in my head and i need someone point view and help on my situation,it would be greatly appreciated. ok so im 24 yrs old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 years. he is 23 yrs old. we ... (1535 words)

I love my boss and want to tell her that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a problem. I really madly deeply truly seriously fall in love with my boss. She knows that thing. She is beautiful, cute. Whenever she passes me there I can feel the wind of Love. The problem is She is 43, unmarried and I am 25 unmarried. 18 years difference is a ... (115 words)

Am I just not made for sex or relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I can’t seem to enjoy sex. The other night after a drunken evening out I ended an 8 year ‘drought’ on sex. It was with a girl I’ve liked for some time now but I guess the fact I am not confident with girls and have not had much experience I find the whole process , to be ... (319 words)

I'm afraid b/f will leave me if I don't change

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey dear cupid.=) Well am a female 18, and i am in a serious relationship, my bf is 25 years olds and he loves me and respect, but the thing is i am too sturbon to listen to him and i dont realise dat am acting childish when am around him, he complains all the time about my... (153 words)

My boyfriend sent me horribly abusive text messages but now claims he does not remember any of this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend recently called me fat on a voicemail message when he was out and I was out but seperatley he said answer your phone u fat b*****d on text me calling me an wh*re and never to bother him again. He said he cannot remember any of this but he saw the text that he had ... (128 words)

If we don't live together, is the relationship doomed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. I've been renting a house with some girls, but over the last few months have spent less and less time there to the point where I am really never there. I spend most of the time at my boyfriend's house. Well, actual... (439 words)

I adore everything about him but his height turns me off!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - After a break up, I met this guy that ive been friends with for about 9 months now. During the first 4 months we got a little physical but we did not have sex. I adore everything about him but his height turns me off so much. He's as tall as me and I just do not feel like I am ... (225 words)

I need to get out of the rigid, male dominated world that I am trapped in and pursue my dreams, but I'm helpless!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is not a love question really but perhaps am writing it now because I really need help maybe some comforting words or even encouraging ones Am an 18 years old girl from the Arab world I have 2 brothers !! As an Arab girl am certainly not be equal to my brothers !! Like ... (230 words)

I slept with a friend but I have a feeling she fancies my housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I slept with a friend the night before last and am not sure what to do. We have been hanging out for the last 6 months and there has always been something there but I've really liked her personality and feel very close to her but because she is is friend have not known what to ... (231 words)

I got pregnant and had an abortion and the guy accused me of forcing myself on him and said that I had got pregnant on purpose. I'm crushed..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old I know that I don't have the greatest self esteem, and I've never had a boyfriend ever. All of my friends have had someone who is willing to be in a relationship with them and call them their girlfriend. I have never had that, no one has ever told me they ... (463 words)

My friend hit on me and now she's angry because I rebuffed her advance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - is she still angry cuz she still has heavy feelings for me and she knows she'll never have me in the manner that she wants me, otherwise i dont know why she wont speak too me. i had this friend who came out the closet...that didn't bother me, what bothered me is that she l... (682 words)

I have a crush on a girl, I don't know if she likes me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I am a guy. I have a really big crush on a girl. I had this crush for a long time and dont know what to do. I want to know how I could tell if she likes me or if she doesn't like me. Although this girl has been dating someone. I am not sure if she is still dating him but if she ... (92 words)

Girlfriend's vagina is too small, and I am wondering if whether this is physical or psychological and if there are any other positions or techniques that may allow me to penetrate her more fully without hurting her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I know this sounds like a wonderful problem to have, but it isn't. My girlfriend's vagina is a bit tight, but the bigger problem is that it is too shallow to accommodate me. I have a very average-sized penis in every way, so I know it is not me. She's 42 years old, so sh... (331 words)

Is there a way for my girlfriend to masturbate without stickling her finger in her vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So recently, my gf keeps asking me how to masturbate. Me and my gf are very open to each other she always asks me for advice. But I don't know what should I say to her. She said that she's afraid to stick her finger in there. I said that we should have sex instead... (101 words)

I'm starting high school, and I'm nervous about guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i need help okay so im going to be a freshman at seguin high school and im confused on how the guys are like are they the same as they are in movies please somebody help me cause im trying to be more out there to guys and not push them away and be shy i really want to ... (64 words)

My boyfriend has a micro-penis condition and I don't know what to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

24 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I've just come across this site because I've been researching the 'micropenis' condition. I hadn't ever heard of this up until a few hours ago. I've been going out with this amazing guy for three months now and have never been happier. As relationships go we've taken things ... (383 words)

Sex is unfulfilling for me, and my boyfriend blames himself. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a problem! i lost my virginty two years ago! i've never had one good experience with sex! im always horny and want to have sex but its always unfulfilling i've tried different things and the only thing thats worked me for is playing with my self. for a little while i ... (246 words)

I love masturbating to strangers on webcam, is this abnormal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love masturbating to strangers on webcam, I want to know if this is normal? I'm a girl, and it really turns me on. I never show my face or give out any information about myself so it's safe but is this really abnormal?... (44 words)

Do you believe someone can 'change' when it comes to excessive porn.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

24 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, in the past he's looked at women, had a blog full of half naked women, womens butts etc when he knew it upset me and continued, he bought lads magazines AFTER we started going out. Now he claims he's changed? He hasn't got rid o... (101 words)