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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 44 year old b/f acts like a drama queen! I cant believe anything he says!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my guy for about two years now and I am becoming increasingly annoyed and concerned with his constant exaggeration of everything he talks about, the always being the marter complaining and a lot of lying about things that make no sense he should even lie about ... (141 words)

Was my note to a co-worker I like too slutty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working at this place for about 4 months. About 2 months ago a new guy got hired. I thought he was cute from the first day and always said hi and kind of casually flirted. Recently we've been working together a lot and I've heard through the grapevine that he was ... (223 words)

Will b/f only be happy if he can try things with a she/male and not just watch porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and female, my bf is 25 and male. We've been together 3 and a half years now and 3 years ago, I found out he likes shemale porn (apologies if that term is offensive, I don't know!). At the time, he wasn't entirely sure why he liked it. We have discussed it throughout our ... (338 words)

Since I left for college I am jealous, moody and b/f and I argue all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4289 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now, and when we first started dating he told me he had been with a very large number of women. Just a few weeks ago he left for college only an hour and a half away and I had all these mixed feelings, and while we were having ... (219 words)

Unexpected pregnancy, my children would be less than a year apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone im in a very hard posistion atm, last nite ive just found out im pregnent, the only trouble is ive already got a 3 month old daughter, and the baby would b due around 21st march 3 weeks before my daughters 1st bday,, the thing is i was using protection and wh... (156 words)

How do I convince her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been talking to this girl online for 2 weeks. We have become really close, and have many mutual friends. The conversations have been very deep and the messages are nearing nearly 5000 this week. So we have spoken a fair bit. Alot of webcams etc too. Prob... (314 words)

Boyfriend of 3 years popped the question unexpectedly in front of family/friends. I told him I wasn't ready and now he won't talk to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone So my boyfriend proposed to me last week and I know I just be happy about this but I'm not.. We have been dating for 3 years and things are goin really well until the day of propasal.. He has never spoken about marriage to me so this came as a surprise..he told m... (202 words)

Could this proposal be too soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have known each other as acquaintances for a year longer than that (so essentially 18 months). We're serious and have worked through some major life issues in a goid healthy way together already. He is ready to propose ... (73 words)

Friend's parents are divorcing. Which parent should she go with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend needs some advice… Her parents are splitting up, and her Mum is moving to Newcastle (177 miles away from where she currently lives). So she can either stay with her Dad, or go with her Mum. She gets on better with her Mum than her Dad. And she gets on well wit... (166 words)

Was I played for a fool by my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - First off, here’s a quick background of our past relationship. We randomly met almost four years ago, when I was in town visiting from out of state. She was a graduate student and I was visiting my hometown. We connected very randomly and initially thought it was just about ... (1159 words)

Depressed g/f lied and told therapist that I abuse her! I can't trust her now at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very complicated issue and need advice and an outsiders point of view. When my gf and I got together (2 years ago) she was open about the fact she was on anti depressants. I was ok with this as it seemed she was dealing with it. A few months in and I discovered she... (1474 words)

Is it worth trying to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend just recently broke up with me.we were together for 9 yrs and we have three girls.the reason for the break up was that when she was working she started talking to a guy who worked at the same place.and other people that worked with her would tell me that they were ... (856 words)

Is my depression coming back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I have finished university been there for 4 years and got a Masters in Engineering with a upper second class. I have a few proper close friends, male and female. I have held the same part-time job for 2 years now which supports my weekly expenses. I have a lovely fa... (165 words)

He seems to think I'm his girlfriend! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone...there is this boy who likes me, i know so because he told me that he loves me and that he wants to date me.well i have been single for over a year now and i am ready for a relationship.but the problem is i dont find him sexually attractive at all.he is really a ... (253 words)

What should I do or do nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - well i met this guy on line back in march of 2012 and thought he was the cutest guy i ever saw in my life i'll be honest. he lived in harlem n.y and i live in jackson t.n we both connected because we both made music and networked all the time because of it. i use to live in n.y ... (1687 words)

I need closure. Should I contact my ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf after i found out that he was flirting wid another girl online and it was the second time around - i found him flirting wid the girl, that i decided to end it. A few months later he contacted me and he was really nice. And he was repentant and caring. ... (227 words)

Were my mum's actions to pull out the house sale justified?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been renting a room in a house share for about 5 years. I am living with 5 other people and at times i didn't like it but i didn't have a choice. I have always worked full time. All my friends were getting on the property ladder and getting their own places with help... (464 words)

His friendship with his ex wife is pissing me off!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with a man 4 years who's not divored. He is 50. Him and his ex-wife (she's with a man 5 years) can't seem to let go. They talk on their phones behind my back and won't stop and it hurts me. I have expressed anger and upset but it continues. They also won't divorce but ... (103 words)

Husband only wants blow jobs.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married to my husband for 4 1/2 years. We started out having a great sex life. We were having sex up to 3 times a day. After the birth of our daughter we were down to twice a week and he complained that it wasn't enough. Our libidos seemed to be polar opposite so that ... (264 words)

How can I be a good girlfriend so our relationship flourishes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 22 years old and I have recently started a relationship with a guy Brendon who is almost 26 years old. Brendon and I have been really good friends for about 3 years, we even knew each other when we were in relationships with other people. Both our previous relationships ... (550 words)

Why did I have to back off to get him to come forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all Please help and advise. My BF and I have been having some problems of late, so to give myself and him some space, I took a short vacation during which time I did not take his calls. he constantly called me, and when I got home I called him back. Things were ok a... (255 words)

Please advise how to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago, me and my bf broke up because of some stupid argument. We were going to get back and he told me that he will tell me when his feelings get back. At that time he blocked me on a site for 2 days an I gave him the space he needed. He wouldn't text me but whe... (766 words)

I feel like I'm being eaten alive by jealousy. How can I move on from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Wondering if you guys could help. Recently I had a chat with my boyfriend regarding his ex (they split up 2-3 years ago) He had a lot of photos on his computer of her (including dirty ones) and was mentioning her by her pet name more than was necessary. I voiced my conc... (290 words)

My boyfriend wants to have sex before I go to University so he will remember me, is this a good idea or is he still a womanizer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been dating this guy for eleven months now we agreed on not having sex but we do kiss, and recently he says he wants to have sex before i go to the university in order to keep me in mind. i dont understand this at all, rumours have it that he is a womanizer and his ... (87 words)

My pregnant girlfriend admitted that one of the main reasons she is with me is my looks and that she 'needs a daddy for her baby'. Have I got myself into a pickle here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks for reading - I couldn't sleep last night as all this was in my head and not sure what to think. I met my girlfriend about 4 months ago through a friend and we hit it off right away. She had been with a jerk for 3 years ( they broke up 6 months before we met) and i am... (404 words)

I want gentle sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend likes rough sex. i do enjoy it sometimes but sometimes i want gentle and sweet. im too scared to ask him though. we tried going gentle before. he just gets overwhelmed and starts going fast and hard. i don't mind the speed but the feelings of kissing and going slow ... (111 words)

Does this married man love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age - Is this love or not,This man i'm seeing never has said he loves me,but do these actions say otherwise, he texts me every morning and nite calls me everyday some times more than once 7 day a week,tells me he misses me heaps,calls me sweet names,like ... (151 words)

He dumped me after I got pregnant, what do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I been dating this guy for 3 months and things were great between us now that I'm pregnant with his baby he asked me to abort he no longer text me like he used to no calls no nothing and I still love him what should I do please HELP ... (50 words)

Could you girls explain to me the feelings behind a crush on a celebrity and the feelings you have for your bf?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im curious to know what the difference is between your celebrity crushes and the feeling you have for your boyfriend. I know everyone is attracted to other people, but to what extent? I mean, you'll gush over whomever the actor may be, be it orlando bloom or ryan gosling ... (114 words)

Everything was fin until I developed feelings for him,, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long time, I've searched for advice and help. I'm quite happy recently, i feel like I've found myself. I feel confident about everything. That its rare when i have a problem. However, that's not the point, i have run into a small problem in my life i need to fix. And i don't... (306 words)

Husband is choosing his parents over his wife and baby.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everybody. my husband and i are married for 4 years then had a baby now 9monhts old. So hes mom doenst approve of what i do.. complains about everything and her son is treating me very bad. if i would ask please can we do this (vacation) this weakend he will say no i ... (437 words)

Will it be the same after such a long time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl at uni and we both fell for each other. We had just a week together before summer break, and we both really enjoyed it and thought it was amazing. Now, after nearly two months apart, our feelings for each other have basically disappeared, because we just haven't ... (207 words)

Is this just because I'm depressed?

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20 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - can any one help me.. ive been with my boy friend going on 5 months and we are now engage we use to have sex every day now the last 2 months when he wants sex i just push him away along when he goes to kiss me and when he wants to cuddle i dont know why.. he is my ferst every ... (145 words)

I feel like I'm drowning in despair over this and I need help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at a lost here. The man I have been dating for 8 months died suddenly this past Saturday and yesterday I found out he already had a girlfriend for "a little over a year". His best friend told me, because he was afraid of the drama that may ensued at the funeral. I am ... (222 words)

Guys what size do you like your women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know all men are different but guys what size do you like your women? Im just curious.... (18 words)

I'm confused does this guy like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this cute guy on a cruise, he talks about his gf, a lot and stuff. But he always asks to give me massages and asked me a lot of sexual questions. he says he likes tall girls like me and that his gf isn't super hot and wishes he was single sometimes. plus loves to ... (93 words)

To cut or not to cut? (Hair)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a stupid question to ask but should i cut my hair or no? I have been going through some changes as far as my confidence level and decided that I need to start doing more for myself as far as what makes me feel good. I dyed my hair this reddish brown color and ... (167 words)

Girlfriend WANTS to perform oral on me. However, I DON'T want it!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. As the title suggests, my girlfriend does want to perform oral sex on me. She keeps asking, every, single, time that I'm alone with her. I tell her, "No. I'm not ready for that. I am, however, ready for intercourse.", and she tells me she doesn't want to do it, until I l... (155 words)

Do many divorce even when they are still in love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are most likely divorcing, he refuses to work on things and a whole mess of other details I'm leaving out... Basically, I know it is the right thing to do. I know I deserve to be happy. I know that nothing will ever change. My husband is easily able t... (131 words)

My Girl friend is way to jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - have been dating my girl friend and living with her for for 7 months at first she was really cool then out of no where she started getting jealous over everyone I talked to even my male friends its like she's not happy if i don't spend my every waking moment with her its to ... (339 words)

I'm confused by his behavior.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Dear cupid I met someone at a meeting and it seems that he liked me he kept hugging me and staying near me all the time.So we kept contact after the meeting. He asked me out on a date and he coudlnt keep his hands off me at the cinema and kept hugging me the whole day... (223 words)

How can I get people to stay out my business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - anyway i just finished my high school working and i had never dated before. at family functions i always get asked about my dating life getting married having kids etc. i'm in the shawdows of people who want/have kids and started all these things young(ie. getting ... (64 words)