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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really like him alot and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey cupids, this is my dilema: a few months back my family hosted two boys from england for a program at my school. In the three days they were here I got to know one of the two guys. I have his number and he has mine. After he left I text him a couple of times and he replied, ... (145 words)

Is he using me? I don't know what to make of his behavior.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my partner for 2yrs and a few months.I live with my two kids aged 6 and 11 years. We do not currently live together. But we have discussed the future and getting married and having kids. We discussed living together a few months back and he told me he was not re... (758 words)

Is this normal for all men or is my bf an ass?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was having a fight with my bf about him flirting( especially online) with wayyyy too many girls. He said, "they don't matter because you came first". I told him that I don't care if I came first...............I WANT TO BE THE ONLY ONE! He asks me then........what am I ... (100 words)

Found love at the age of 27, got rejected after months. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, First of all, some introductions are necessary to make my problem easier to fully understand. I'm a 27-year-old guy from Budapest, Hungary. I have a Master's Degree in Electrical Engineering and a great job since 2010; I have quite good prospects in my life (I'm ... (852 words)

Why am I so Jealous!!! Please HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years now and ever since the beginning I have been a crazy jealous beeotch.... I have hated every place he has worked at and now he has been a pizza delivery guy for 3 years. I always think that he is taking pizza to pretty ... (226 words)

How do you end it with someone you love and have a child with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Any help would be appreciated, basically for a long long time now I've not been happy in my relationship, we have good times, but they're not anywhere near as frequent as our bad times, I've tried and tried, and I love him I just don't feel in love with him any more. We have ... (144 words)

Trouble with my best friends, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, We r four friends me tina,lisa,sonia..so lately tina has been talking a lot of shit about us behind our backs..and we never told each other then one day I cldnt take it anymore so I told lisa that tina has been saying 'not so' nice things about you,and then lis... (192 words)

My husband financially supports his ex girlfriend, is at her beck and call; ultimatum or just leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband sold his whole duplex to his ex girlfriend, even though she hardly ever paid her rent to him for her side when we lived in the other. She's constantly calling needing something, and he jumps, sometimes making me do things for her, too. She barely pays him every ... (467 words)

I'm getting scared of my online BF. How do I tell him that fact?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my bf C and now dating him...lets call him King. We both met on an online free publishing site. Anyways, I was on another chat site, a chat with strangers (i was bored), and I keep getting men and women on there wanting to bed me, they would also bully me ever... (107 words)

Is there anything I can change to get a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone I'm 17 and have never really had a real boyfriend, boys tell me I'm pretty, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful, cute... They've called me everything you can imagine, but I'm still single. I've never been inlove, I just wanna know how it's feels like to love someone. I ... (175 words)

I'm having to chose between the gym to keep my body or my girlfriend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

19 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Here' s the thing. My girlfriend has been complaining of lately that I don't spend enough time with her. I can totally understand her argument because I simply have too much going on to devote a large majority of my time to her. I work full time, go to school AND work out at ... (356 words)

I have no reason not to trust my husband but I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always say I'm the only beautiful and attractive woman for him.He says he doesn't find any other women beautiful or attractive.In fact I can't believe him because he's a man.But when I asked my cousin,my sister,my nephew and some of my husband's friends if it was ... (140 words)

Is it normal to feel hormones so strongly at this age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 21 and lately I've been having some kind of delayed hormone surge and I was wondering if this was normal. I guess the feeling is best described as a strong sense of desire? I never felt like this as a teenager, and I have no experience, so Im not sure what caused... (58 words)

My ex was very closed after our break up but now has become more open. Should I read anything into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my most recent ex and i have been on-and-off for about a year and a half now. both of us have profiles on this site social networking/dating site called meetme (and we had those profiles since before we met). i was fully aware of his presence on the site (i stum... (349 words)

Is it over for us? Is there anything I can do to help the situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost 5 1/2 years. I love my bf very much and I know he loves me. Our only big issue is marriage. About a year ago we broke up for about 4months because he wasn't sure if he was ready for marriage and I've been ready for a long time. After our ... (275 words)

My boyfriend goes to a friend for advice who hasn't ever had a relationship and he doesn't like me, so he always makes me the bad guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend will been together 13 this nov but the last month just been hell, He had cheat on me and just last year he stop talking to other female but im still with him now every time we got a problem he go to his friend for advice knowing he dont like me and he never ... (119 words)

I want a boyfriend.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 15, and I want a boyfriend. I don't want any of that "you're too young" sh*t. Just give me nice answers :). Ok, so I'm home-schooled, and I only know 3-4 guys, one's Wayy too young (he's like 10), one likes me but just as a friend (which I totally understa... (123 words)

What is the truth behind my FWB's behaviour? Does he want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We talked on the phone on and off for 2 years and abit more before we met in person. Been seeing eachother for a few months so far at times. We established we only wanted friendship before we met. It was a FWB relationship and I wanted it to remain this way. Now we haven't done ... (278 words)

My parents are superstituous and want me to wear a necklace, but I don't share their views and I don't want to wear it! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a strange situation on my hands and I'm not sure how to deal with it. My parents are... very, very supersitious for lack of a better way to put it. My dad has ordered this pendant for me to wear around my neck; he has his reasons for believing it's vital for me to ... (258 words)

I am pretty sure my baby's father is the man I cheated on my husband with, and he wants access to the baby but wont do it properly because he cant afford to pay maintenance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married, and have a child whom I conceived before getting married. I had issues with my hubby, (then boyfriend) and cheated on him. There is a high possibility that the baby is for the man I cheated with (still cant figure out why I sunk so low). The man confronted me that ... (331 words)

I've lost that loving feeling, question is, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i have been on this site and seeked help many a times...when i had problems with my boyfriend before..now i am in a situation that i never ever imagined i would be in. i was always loving,caring and sensitive sort of girl with my bf .now after 2 years of long distance... (624 words)

BF has never taken me out for a romantic dinner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3.5 years. I am 26 and he is 31. in this time, we have not been out on a romatic dinner out (getting dressed up etc). He has never taken me out to a fancy dinner. We occasionally go out for a meal, but nothing special and usually split ... (214 words)

Is my boyfriends sister affecting our relationship? What do I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

- Okay, I'm sorry if this is long.. but I'm really confused. Basically, my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I am totally and completely in love with him, I can't stay mad at him for longer that a minute, but lately.. something has been affecting our relationship. ... (452 words)

Unprotected oral sex risky?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Divorced, and having casual sex for first time in life, use condoms. Realistically, what are the chances of getting a disease from giving a man unprotected oral sex? Not swallowing. I know that HIV is difficult to pass that way. And the two herpes simplexes are different ... (69 words)

Why he cant make a decision about our future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my bf and i really confused about the stage were we are i just got the call the other day and he said he was so confused dont know what to do and and if he can support our future together.ok i know thats not a good sign when a man tells you hes not sure.. i talked to ... (357 words)

She apologized and said I was 'hard work sometimes. My friend says she's cheating What or who should I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am very laid back and a mellow guy. My girlfriend of 4 months is generally happy and she is 9 weeks pregnant. We have a good time together and i treat her well. I called her today to wake her up as she had work and i called her when she was on the bus on the way to work.... (220 words)

Feel really hurt about this. It's depressing. How can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago, me and my bf broke up because of some stupid argument. We were going to get back and he told me that he wil tel me wen his feelings get back. At that time he blocked me on a site for 2 days n I gave him the space he needed. He wouldn't text me but when he saw ... (555 words)

My complicated love life? Or is it Lust? I need help please to sort this out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i started talking to this guy from my old school that i have a crush on well used to now, we texted And inboxed each other on facebook. i started saying i had a crush on him he said he did too , then i started sending him naked pics of my self he wanted to have sex. i a... (326 words)

I want my boyfriend to look "girly" during sex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here goes! I want my boyfriend to wear black eyeliner (around the entire eye) and have sex with me. just once. maybe very occasionally since it's very weird but it's a fantasy i want fufilled! i don't know how he's going to feel about this, probably very turned off that i ... (64 words)

How is seating at weddings usually arranged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How is seating at weddings usually arranged? I know it's immediate family in the first row... And then what? There are some people I'd like at my wedding but I don't know how to see them. Some know a lot of people coming and some know nobody!... (47 words)

BF says causal comments that HURT, please share your thoughts on these things he's said to me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i am dating a very young guy..25..im much older but we have had a really cool connection, trust, closeness, amazing physical relationship. not for a long time, but for this summer. as i have began to fall for him, i have found myself repeatedly stung by casual comments that ... (1045 words)

Is it possible to go to a clinic to terminate this pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Scared to go to the doctors to ask for a abortion. I have just discovered I am a few wks pregnant. This is a massive mistake, I already have 3 kids and split with my partner 7 mths ago. We have 2 kids already and split up because he couldn't commit to us. I live as a single mum ... (182 words)

How should I try to ask my dance partner out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - A little background, I am 29 and I am quite shy (Already gotten better over the years, but still ways to go. Pushing myself to go to a dance class is considered one of my recent "achievement"). I have never been in a real relationship in the past. Only some fruitless attempts ... (227 words)

My LDR ex and I are reconnecting. He wants me to visit, should I ask him to buy the ticket?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short. My long distance ex who is four years older than me has decided to pursue his masters degree at my university. He emailed me with the news and we began chatting via smartphone texting app. He made many hints that he still has feelings for me, although we ... (338 words)

He claims to love me and yet talks so badly to me. Is it just manipulation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've told a controlling and manipulative husband of over 12 years that I want to leave him and he's looking for jobs in another city after trying for 3 months to convince me. As I show him a strong front but he still tries to use every opportunity to tell me/ show me that he ... (185 words)

Should I text him and explain that I can't meet him for several days?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy in a bar tonight. We talked for about half an hour but I had to leave. He gave me his phone number and told me to text him so we can meet somewhere and talk over drinks or something. I want to follow up on that. However, I will not be able to meet up with him for ... (103 words)

I felt a strong connection the minute we met and touched. What is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and I felt an strong instant connection when he looked at me and I shook his hand it was strange but warm, I have never felt this way before. I feek overwhelmed inside when I think of him as well he have a similar nationality and our mixed with the same tribe. ... (82 words)

How can we make it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - so i have this lttle problem , ive been talking to this girl for awhile now about(2months) and i really like her.I met her in my delayed entry program for the Navy. but the thing is she leaves in about 5 weeks for bootcamp and i actually leave in about 3 months. so the chances ... (108 words)

Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again? We have known each other years, from school, but only spoke on line since. Then ended up sleeping together a couple of times recently. But then I said no more, as I am not oppose on one nighters, but don't wa... (124 words)

Mixed feelings with my roommate... What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Last September I had two roommates move in. Things have been great except that one of the roommates there was an instant connection. We both would anticipate each other coming home. Know this because he told me so. We hooked up once after a night of drinking, not in a ... (447 words)

At the end of my Rope and Running out of Hope

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Not real good at this but I will try . I am 46 and just got a divorce after 30 yrs of Marriage . my ex left me in 2008 and I have been seeing this man who is 50 and retired . I work 5 days a week and then I come home and that is it. he stays with me at my home most the time and ... (236 words)

I have no idea how to interact with the opposite sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i literally have no idea how to properly interact with the opposite sex. i have never had a long term relationship with a female. Basically i cant make any friends who are girls its like im only good at getting them to like me an then forget about me. As weird as it may sound i ... (157 words)

Moving away- am I helping or hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years as of yesterday. When we met, we were both employed and I was FT in college, he was PT. 5 months after we started dating, I moved across the city and out of the dorms to live with him. We've now lived in 3 different ... (472 words)

Do you think he will forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is really long.. Basically I really liked a guy who's in the army we used to speak alot and always kept in touch and got on really well we could talk about everything. He asked to take me out 2years ago and went on a date, I dint sleep with him because I dint wan... (825 words)

I'm worried about my pregnant friend, can someone help me, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

19 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - dear aunts and uncles, im 15 and really scared for my friend who is the same age. a while ago she started acting really weird like she didnt want to see any of her friends and she dumped her boyfriend who she has been with for 2 years for no reason. The other night she asked ... (163 words)