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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband insulted me in front of his friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, my husband fought with me in front of his friend and insulted me by tellin me that he will hit me and I should shut up...I couldn't believe that he could say such thing in front of his friend...what would any of u do if u were in my shoes...would u leave cuz now am ... (63 words)

I didn't bleed but it really hurt. How do I know if my hymen was broken?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was fingering me and it really hurt, but I never bled. Did I break my hymen? How can I check?... (22 words)

My wife has a crush on a man she met online. She denies it, I know its true

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - wife has a crush? My wife of 2 years has recently been speaking to a guy daily since they met online about a week ago. They meet online every night speaking by mic, he compliments her very often and flirts as does she, they spend hours talking to each other literally speaking... (159 words)

I'm jealous and insecure of my boyfriend's childhood female friend. He admitted that he once loved her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am feeling insecure about my bf and his female friend. My bf and I have been together for a couple of years and we live together, mostly quite happily. He and his friend have known eachother since they were small children. They have went on out of state road trips just the ... (264 words)

I don't trust my b/f and I'm afraid he'll cheat while out with the boys for the weekend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well what it is I that I don't have any trust in my boyfriend what so ever. We've been a couple for nearly 7 months and right now he's in Ibiza. He went there yesterday with his friend and I don't trust him at all. It's eating away at me and all I can think about is him ... (330 words)

I have a boyfriend but am dreaming of my ex. The dreams are starting to get eerie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all, I have kind of a strange question. I dated a guy over a year ago only for about three months, but it was a very, very intense relationship because it was long distance. It was also so intense because this guy had some serious codependency issues and control issu... (328 words)

I am in love with my friend. Is this situation hopeless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm greatly in need of help, and I can accept an honest answer... whatever that is. I just need to pour my heart out to someone, because I'm in more pain that I can bear. I've been so lonely for a long time that it's become unbearable, I'm teaching in anot... (577 words)

I have feelings for my best friend, but I'm afraid to tell him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I've known one of my best guy friends since I can remember, we've always done things together, we live somewhat close, and we are in the same grade. I've never felt this way until this summer. I've realized that I like him more than a friend...but I'm just too afra... (120 words)

Was he cheating on me, or was it just a lapse in judgement?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, any advice is so appreciated! My boyfriend and I (22 and 21) have been seeing each other for a little over a year. I am his first serious relationship. He is my second. I am a go-getter. I am very motivated in both school and work. I am a dual major with a minor. I ... (1448 words)

I love him, but I'm not happy. Should I let this relationship go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! I am in an interesting relationship. It's not an easy one to be in. My partner and I have been together for 5 and a half years. Through out that time I have struggled with turning into an alcoholic and depression. When we were first together we both drank. Drank alot. ... (445 words)

Should I get back together with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my ex boyfriend. We only dated for about 2 months but I liked him for the longest time. I'm 15 years old and he's 18 and going into the Marines. That's the only real reason why we broke up. Turns out, he's not leaving for a while now because of personal ... (159 words)

I feel like no one really cares about me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Please will you help me? I feel upset, ashamed and embarrassed. It seems as though no one wants to form any genuine friendships with me. I'm making the effort to get in touch with all the people I know because I'm fedup with feeling sad and lonely. I txt... (269 words)

I'm having issues with oral sex. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. This is really embaressing. My guy wants me to deep throat him but he's too big! I literally just choke and have to stop and go back to just normal oral. Will the gagging go away with practise or is he doomed to never be satisfied? ... (48 words)

Freind with benefits coping methods

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, a month ago I met a guy via an online dating website. We got along well, went on a few dates and after 6 dates he slept over at my place. The next morning I was rather shocked as I did not want to turn this into a relationship, so we talked and came to the conclusio... (280 words)

He took my virginity and then went back to his ex. How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i move on from someone who took my virginity? He's 26 and I'm 18. We've been together for 5 months.then, he broke up with me after reading an email from his 8 year ex girlfriend telling him that my family are allergic to him and that they don't want him for me. His 8-ye... (432 words)

Dating 2 years and he's bored with me. Should I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dated this man for 2 years. He's bored with me already. He prefers gym over dinner with me. He prefers to chat online with random girls over chatting with me. p/s: we don't live together Should I put up with this?... (46 words)

I'm afraid of rushing into things but am afraid to do nothing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have somewhat of a problem. I haven't been in any real relationships and I recently met this new guy, he tells me how much he likes me and how he thinks I'm nice looking, but I mean we've literally only known each other for days. I don't want to rush things but part of me ... (158 words)

My girlfriend wont give me oral sex anymore

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have nearly broke up over a debate we had . i asked why she will not give me oral sex anymore and she said it was because my penis is wet from precum so its disgusting . in te past she has given me oral sex alot but now its been months since i have gotten ... (98 words)

19 and never had a girlfriend, is my situation normal enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - At 19 I haven’t ever had a proper girlfriend. Over the past few years I have had two ‘flings’ and since starting university a couple of one night stands, so I’m not inexperienced or a virgin but I’ve never had a proper, long term and committed relationship before. My life isn’t ... (191 words)

I don't know how to find the right guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i find the right boy? Boys round here are just players and think they're great! I just want someone who can respect me and give me a good time and just be there for me etc. I've been single for about 3-4 years now and i'm really bored of it.. i don't really know how to ... (84 words)

I don't love him anymore but am stuck in the relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I've dated my boyfriend for 6 years, the 1st 3 years was a hell as he was cheating on me an I wasn't aware until I found out he had a child with someone else. It was hard then cause I was head over heels for him so I forgave him. Recently I've just lost the connection I ... (160 words)

He constantly thinks I am cheating on him, this makes me feel insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have an amazing relationship except our insecurities. I think he truthfully feels I am cheating on him and I am not. I love him more than I have ever loved anyone and I thought the issues on his insecurities was ... (279 words)

I thought my trainer was my friend but he has upped his prices!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the past year I have become good friends with my personal trainer. But recently he told me he had to raise his rates and asked me for more money. Of course I was surprised he would do this to me and I am hurt by it. I thought he considered me his friend. If he ... (241 words)

I still love him but am unsure if I should answer his messages.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend brokeup with me two months ago and after a couple of days he send me a message saying he is sorry for how things turned out but i did not reply back. now after one and a half month of no contact. he send me a message on fb. we are not friends on fb. he send a ... (175 words)

Should I confess to my online friend that I love him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! i wrote in before this but i just want to share everything that has been happening in details. So about 2.5yrs back i got into online chats and all, in 2009. I did have some frends back then while i was doing my diploma but well friends just dont stay long with me. ... (656 words)

We split up but he suggested a FWB arrangement. Should I do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age - I've met this man right after I ended my marriage of 20 years. It was so nice to feel being wanted and loved again. He is 16 years older than me. Four years on I don't love him any more. He is not a caring person and just enjoy being looked after by me. We live in separate ... (110 words)

Can you lose your virginity without sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,my question is,m not married yet,,but i m in relationship,my boyfriend put his hand finger inside my virgin and rub inside me many time,i also smooch his penis many time,,,but sometimes i feel i lose my virginity,,,,without sex..is in it true,,,plz tell me,,,... (45 words)

I'm caught in the middle between my parents and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 26 years old my parents split up 3 year ago they both live in the same area I feel totally stuck in the middle all the time if I go see my mum my dad goes in a mood with me and vice versa I am completely exhausted I am a single parent I have a daughter and I am expected ... (96 words)

Should I clear the air by telling him I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ladies! So i know of this guy through a chat site and we've been talkin for almost 2years now. We've gotten close recently and say i love you to each other all the time over the phone. It used to be pure flirting but recently its more than that. Hes gotten a little possesive ... (149 words)

My husband wont touch me, and an old boyfriend has reappeared to light the fire!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age - I am so confused. I am married for almost 28 years been together for 30 years. I do love my husband but here lies the problem. He does not want to seem to touch me. I admit that I gained some weight during the marriage and was busy raising the kids, who are now grown. Recently ... (577 words)

Just as we were about to start IVF we found out I was pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have just found out we are having a baby, which is amazing and a miracle, as we were on our journey of ivf, but found out the day before treatment started that I was pregnant.My boyfriend has been different towards me since we found out. We have been together ... (77 words)

It used to be fine but now the thought of sex gives her panic attacks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for about a year and at first she seemed uninhibited and we were having sex all the time but as we began to explore it turned out I was less innocent than she had imagined and we started finding some things she didn't want to try which was fine with ... (366 words)

I dated a liar, how can I trust anyone ever again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - HI All. Thank you in advance for reading and for your response. I guess I writing about what I am going through in order to get a hold of my emotions and receive advice on what I should do next. I was dating a man for over 7 months and I just found out he had a long-distan... (524 words)

I can't deal with negativity but she doesn't want to change!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I met someone 2/12 years ago; she deals with negativity, maybe bi-polar but will not see a doctor. May also suffer from menopause. Always seems to just focus on looking at things from negative perspective which is frustrating, rarely has anything nothing good to say. Claims she ... (693 words)

Is it normal for an ex to ask you to events alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal when your ex. ask you to go to a sports event alone? Does it consider a date? or just a purely friendly event if it's just the two of us going instead of with a group of friends?... (41 words)

To rebound or not to rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 3 weeks ago because I cheated on him with my guy friend (over a month ago). I didn’t break up with my boyfriend because of guy friend though- I did it on my own terms and this incident just made me realize I should end it. My g... (230 words)

I need to find a better way to cope with our break

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I recently decided to take a break and I'm not handling it too well. Before I begin, I just want to clarify that the break had nothing to do with a fight or change of feelings... it's something a little different than your typical break. To simply put it, we ... (275 words)

How do I know if I've fallen out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4297 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So I met this guy about 9 months ago. Right away it was evident that we had several things in common--committed to school, into music, devoted to our community service (we actually met thru community service) and I thought he was pretty cute so we started talking. He was SO ... (751 words)

What's going on with this break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i just broke up with my girlfreind.we been together for 10 yrs.we have three girls.its been going on a month that we haven't been together.bout a week after we saperated she starting seeing a co-worker and now they been seeing each other every other day.she constanly texts this ... (411 words)

How should I approach my cum fetish

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - SO I am currently in a relationship with my lovely girlfriend. We have what i would call a healthy sex life for two eighteen year olds. However i am openly bisexual and I have discussed this with my girlfriend. She is fine with it as long as i dont do anything with guys whilst ... (159 words)

Am I taking the birth control pills the right way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have had sex and always made sure that we used a condom. I always felt bad for leaving it up to him to make sure that we were protected and felt that the pressure of making sure of that was shared so I decided to go to the ... (362 words)

What's up with this guy's behaviour? Why does he never mention his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have a simple question: Why would a guy go out of his way to tell me he spent the night alone on a Friday night. He fell asleep on the couch. Is it possible he has a reason for telling me this? Because he volunteered it to me. I never asked him what he ... (326 words)

How do I not appear to be the stereotypical blonde to my bf's family anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I dont know what to do in this situation my boyfriends little brother (hes 14) thinks im a idiot no matter what i do and i want him to like me but i dont know what to do? I have been with my bf over a year and we have been spending time with his lil bro more and his ... (154 words)