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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He says he doesn't love me but he's sending all these signals ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Does anyone believe in soul mates? This one guy I've been trying to get over for ever, but we just keep getting "thrown" back at each other. We're so similar in everything we do, everything we believe in and stand for. We're good at the same things, have the same interests. ... (132 words)

How is it possible to be in love with 2 people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How is it possible to be so in love with two people?? I always believed that you could only love one other person at once (as a partner) but Im in love with two. Its officially a HUGE problem. My ex dumped me a year and a half ago because we were long distance and he got... (338 words)

Does my ex still love me as he did in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i been inlove again with a guy in may past and we are seing each other again .i love him but i dont know if realy same like before so i ask him."who i am with you" He reply at me...You are important to me as my past and long forgotten emotion...so do you think i should ... (81 words)

How can he come to me when he still loves his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hii this can be a bit long My story dates back 5 yrs ago, an unknown guy smitten by me had asked me out which i declined for obvious reasons that he was a stranger.After that he never again talkedd to me though once a while we exchanged glances as we stay in the same localit... (343 words)

I don't know if my g/f had sex with someone while we were broke up. How can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

13 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok thIs may be a stupid question, but me and this girl had been dating a year an a half an she claimed to be in love with me! Well we had a bad breakup and were broken up for a week and she started talking to the guy she lost her virginity to and already had anothe boyfriend. I ... (247 words)

Why does my guy do things that frustrate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 3 years, we live together, we have already discussed what we want with our futures and things are generaly good between us. Recently, however, he has been driving me insane to the point of me feeling like i should leave. I'll list it out; ... (220 words)

Should I forget he ever existed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months we got on really well he was completely charming and it felt like we had known each other for years we got on so well. Then one time when we were out we were getting on amazingly, he said when he talks to me its like ... (143 words)

I want to change roommates, moving in with my boyfriend, but how do I tell my friend and my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 19 and currently in college about to start my sophomore year. last year I roomed with my best friend from high school but now I dont consider her really a friend. we came to the agreement last year that we would room together for the 4 years but honestly i think thats a ... (211 words)

Why did he meet me for coffee, if he thought I lived too far away to date?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age - Hello everyone, I will try and make this short, and thank you for reading. I met a guy online a few months back, (he's 42, me 46yrs) and slowly over a month we began to get to know more about each other, and we spoke a few times over the telephone. One day he wrote and tol... (734 words)

My boyfriend is mad at me for something that isn't really my fault. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a boyfriend working outside the country, he flies back every few months and I have been to see him twicein the pasy year. I bought him a plane ticket to come home for my birthday in April and his first words at the time were'when it's my birthday I'll fly you out to ... (256 words)

Is to okay to experiment with girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 23 years old,lately I have been very curious about having a sex with a girl..is it because I want to experiment or I'm just curious or bisexual I don't know.. I have never kissed or made out or even done it with the girl,but before I settle and get married ... (82 words)

I made out with a girl I work with, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I really like this girl who I met at work. She has a boyfriend. We started texting and flirting a lot. I tried to make a couple of dates with her but kinda blew me off. Later when I was about to give up hope we arranged a beach date. We made out several times intensely but ea... (127 words)

I'm 44 and still a virgin. Should I lose my virginity to an escort?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

13 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a virgin at 44 and was looking for advice on how to remedy the situation. In my case i have always had comments aimed at me because i'm let's say not exactly nice-looking. Ugly in fact, let's not beat about the bush.Because of this i have never particularly liked bars and ... (138 words)

I'm attracted to so many guys. I'm afraid I'll cheat if in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been in relationships like many other teenager girls.in past 7yrs i had been in relationships with 4 guys. i had been physical with all of them but never had sex with anybody.my problem is that i am afraid of commitments because even while being with my bf i get... (140 words)

My relationship is suddenly falling apart and I don't know how to stop it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - About one year ago, I was the happiest I had ever been! I had fallen in love with a mysterious man. He was constant smiles for months. We made love at every given opportunity. He complimented me and bragged about me to everyone. We both spent our time carefree doing things we ... (587 words)

Why does my boyfriend say this during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - During sex (when we're both really into it), my boyfriend will tell me to make love to him; what should I do?... (22 words)

I've been lied to again but don't know how to confront her...

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

13 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just found out from my girlfriend's brother in-law that she deceived me again. To cut a long story short, she's lied to me a few times on about where she's been and other different things. I met up with my girlfriends brother in-law to talk about the complicated si... (265 words)

What is he doing? Confused about me and her and him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ryeann's profile: Hello, I have been dating my bf for 2 years. He treats me like a queen, but he have a younger girl that lives in another country that he liked and tried to date for 6 years, but didn't work out. She was presented to him on his first visit.He said she was ... (457 words)

Do guys generally find the excitement wears off? Does it lead to needing to watch more and more kinky stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

13 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, so I'm in a very happy relationship of 2 years with a girl I'd love to marry some day. Our sex life is amazing...great chemistry between us. But we only see each other maybe twice a week, and in between times, I have my moments of feeling horny and needing a quick ... (182 words)

What does your boyfriend do when you are sick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am curious to see what your boyfriend does when you are sick/unwell. Do they check in to see how you are? i have been off work for 5 days with the flu which is going around pretty badly where i am. I rarely take time off work (last year i probably had 3 days off sick) i... (94 words)

My husband wants me to wait 6 years to have children but I'm all ready at 27

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So my husband and i had a huge argument about having children. He's 23 and I'm 27. We had spoken about it before we got married and i had stated quite clearly that (at 26) I didn't want to wait more than four years as i think having children late into your 30's is un healthy. ... (215 words)

How do I change my jealous pessimistic ways? It's making my life lonely and harder.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I feel bad about myself. I feel I'm a bad girl. I get jealous easily, so negative thinking, immature, and egoist. I don't like that some woman look better than me. I feel really bad about this. I want to change. But how? Its automatically done without my desire to ... (151 words)

Can you tell the difference between love and lust?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently only meet up at weekends due to ... (99 words)

How can I get more hours in my work???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a relationship question but i hope to find some answers... I work at a pool in concessions, so there is no need for alot of us, theres 2 managers, 3 team leaders, and 4 part timers, im part time, the thing is, i work 3 days- 4 hour shifts, in two weeks! Ive asked my ... (120 words)

He tells me he likes me but is constantly talking about another girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this boy have been "best friends" for awhile now. He admitted that he used to like me but was to scared to do anything because he was unsure about how i felt. We hang out every now and then and I started to like him. When we hang out he's always holding my hand. A few ... (234 words)

My abusive ex owes me stuff worth up to $3000 which he refused to return and now he wants me to give him another chance

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 20 years old , from France and i go to school in US i met a guy from Ohio , we had been together for 2 years. After he proposed to me last Christmas( We've in distance relationship for 2 years)i moved and transferred college from California to a sma... (325 words)

The man I'm with love with said ,"I care about you more than you know". Does that mean he loves me too? If yes then why doesn't he just say that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age - Help please Aunts, I am having trouble trying to understand what this man i'm in love with is trying to say to me. He knows how much i care about him very much,and he has said he cares about me.but we had a little tiff and i challenged him about just how much he does really c... (144 words)

What can we do to prove to my boyfriend's parents that we aren't just another high school relationship and that we have a real future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am 19 and my boyfriend just 20 last week. We have been together since we were 16 and have been through so much together. Last year he, and his family, moved 1,200 miles away and we made the choice to break up. His parents, who claimed that they love me, refuse to let ... (91 words)

Did my boyfriend want to have sex with me because he got turned on by the other girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for 3 years. He is really good about not staring at women, or at least when I am with him. But the other night when he came in from work he was flirting around with me and he said something about picking out some sexy underwear for me and so we looked ... (209 words)

Is it possible to love two people at the same time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to love two persons at the same time? actually i am in a relationship, and we love each other a lot. i never want to loose him. but few months before i met a guy. he is my classmate. we also both love each other. but we have not confess it yet. I don't want to ... (114 words)

After being married 16 years I wonder what it would be like to be with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I'm bisexual not really sure I've been married for 16 years and I have a pretty good marriage bit I have always wondered what.it would be like to be with a woman ... (35 words)

Does he just want to be friends? Is he just scared to make a move? Or is he just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy I met at work and we have been hanging out for a couple months now. At first I thought he really liked me, we hang out by ourselves all the time, he is really sweet and we get along so well. Every time we hang out he gives me all these compliments, pays for ... (674 words)

I am worried that a re-organized date could ruin my chances with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I met a girl ( 26 ) online and we emailed and chatted on the phone for 4 weeks before meeting up. The 1 st date was fantastic, market date then extended to a game of pool where she bet a kiss on the result of one game and me cooking her dinner on the other.... (474 words)

Would you stay in a sexless marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) age - Would you stay with your husband, if he would go impotent, and it would not have medical cause? And on the top of. That, he would lose his affection too, so, basically the marriage becomes sexless? ... (42 words)

Are college guys any different then high school guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ever since I moved a great distance and had to break of with my first boyfriend(we were together a long time), I have bad relationships. It seems I attract all the wrong guys. I first relationship after moving ended badly because he is much less social then I am and he is also ... (244 words)

My boyfriend left me a year and a half ago, and I don't feel like being with another guy. What is wrong with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

13 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? I don't understand:( please help? So there's this cute guy that likes me. He texts me a lot and he writes back straightaway but I take a few days to reply. We have great convo but I feel so numb I'm not excited about him or any other guy. T... (233 words)