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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want him back. Yet feel like I was never important to him. What are some coping strategies I can use?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So im currently single going through a breakup. my ex and I have been dating for about 4 years, and we have been broken up for about two months now. At first i was really strong about the whole thing and im completly sure about my decision but a girl can only take so much... (510 words)

How can I pursue my cute neighbor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've developed a little crush on one of my next door neighbors. I am in my early twenties and he's in his late twenties. Occasionally, I see him in front of his house and we always say hello and have the casual conversation but it never goes anywhere. I don't think he has a ... (180 words)

His family all have health issues. Is this a high risk situation, if we want to settle and have children together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts and uncles. I am wondering what is your take on this. I am dating this great guy, who is very serious about me and we have discussed marriage and kids. He has great potential, and we both have nice lucrative careers and by the time we hit 30 we would both ... (381 words)

Six months of dating, but he never says, 'i love you'. How can I be sure of his love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 32 years old and my bf is 21..weve been dating for 6 months now. I love him and i always show and tell that to him. but im not sure if he loves me, he doesnt say the words 'I love you'..but i can feel that he cares for me..not just by text. he's always there to cheer me up ... (158 words)

Texting him for 4 months. Then he suggested FWB. Then ignored me totally. Am I right to be concerned by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been texting this guy for around 4 months now and a few weeks ago we both told each other we like each other. Since then we've been texting everyday and have planned to meet up and go out somewhere. I should also mention that he also suggested we became friends with ... (151 words)

As it's her home area shall I ask her first where she'd like to go on our first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I think I might be into this girl. After we get back to college from Christmas break, I'm gonna see if she wants to go out. Where we go to school is her hometown, so she has her car, and she already has her favorite places, and knows everywhere local. It's 100 miles from m... (246 words)

We meet up, have sex and then he doesn't call! Whats it all about?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a dilemma here. I met a guy in September at a party, both drunk. We kissed and talked. I bumped into him at a bar 2 weeks later and we just went straight home and jumped into bed. 3 weeks later we meet again at a party and home again. We have great sex and great ... (218 words)

I exchange a few messages with girls on websites and suddenly they delete their profiles. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 23-year-old single guy who has been struggling to find a great girl for myself. I joined a dating site that is strictly for college students and alumni. This past week, I found two girls and started chatting with them. After we traded a few messages, one deleted her ... (194 words)

I love my boyfriend but I'm freaking out at the thought of forever with him

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27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 23 and I've been dating my 26yr old BF for 5 years now, and while everything isn't great, it is good and we both love each other. However, there has always been a few things that he does that annoy and upset me. He has a great social life, and while he does include ... (529 words)

I haven't heard from my girlfriend in 2 weeks! Have I been silently dumped?

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27 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i haven't heard from my girlfriend for over a week we're in college together and while we were in classes our r/s was fine. we would see each other and go on dates a couple times a week and would do our homework together. she was always loving and always called me to say... (650 words)

Friends who I introduced to each other are not including me

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27 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - So I have a friend from France, and she and her sister come and visit some times. I have gotten to know her sister well, and I have taken the two of them out with friends of mine here in New York. I introduced them to and they have gotten to know one couple in New York very ... (299 words)

Why did my boyfriend just cut me out of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - after only a month of breaking up we got in touch again. i found a summer job just to get myself busy things were ok just small conversations on the phone he said that he will go back to school again. we were happy and that he is glad that he didn't leave to an other country ... (456 words)

How do I come out to my transphobic parents?

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27 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a FTM transgender and gay, meaning I like men. I am currently dating a questioning but that is not the problem. This is my problem. How do I come out to my parents as transgendered when they're transphobic? This is very crutial as I want to come out as soon as possible, I ... (75 words)

Whats wrong with me? Why can't I make and keep friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone else feel like it's more difficult than it rightfully should be to make friends? I'm 24, married, no children, moved to a new city in October 2011, and haven't been able to make 1 single friend. I've met plenty of people in the last 14 months, so that isn't the ... (790 words)

The feelings of infatuation I had with my boyfriend have gone. Should I end our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Have any of you ever dated someone who at first you were so infatuated with and thought was this amazing person that couldn't be better for you and made you so incredibly happy... but then over time realised those feelings you had have faded and you're now just holding onto ... (429 words)

The girl I love has a boyfriend and she says she loves us both. She won't choose between us. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Basically, I'm just looking for some sort of help or advice. This girl was in love with me a few months ago but I was going through a lot at the time and just declined a relationship with her. We remained good friends and we love and care about each other very much. Now th... (309 words)

Feeling bruised but not broken. How do I move on? And why is moving on so hard after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is moving on so hard? My ex and I broke up in November and now I found out he has a brand new girlfriend. Even though our romance was short-lived,I'm still heartbroken. I'm doing all that I can to move on. I even unfriended a mutual friend of ours on facebook. I join... (249 words)

Why did he wait so long to contact me? Then ask about a present, for him? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met up with this guy who is my friend's colleague We both know that my friend want to introduce us to each other that is why she organised the meetup. According to my friend, this guy is quite shy and not proactive in talking to girls and doesn't ask girls out. But during... (226 words)

He needs to accept that NO is an answer. Surely, if he cared, he's stop asking for anal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been with my partner 2 years. He wanted to try anal since we got together but until a few months ago I said no. Well a few months ago I let him try and I hated it. Add to this I was in pain for 3 days. I thought to let him try twice more and still each time I have ... (243 words)

We are both 18. He's a virgin. But his technique needs work. How do I teach him without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 18 y/o female, not a virgin. I've only had one sexual partner but he was a lot older and more experienced guy, so the sex was great! He taught me a lot... However I'm now going out with an 18 year old virgin, who hasn't done Anything sexual... We had been going out f... (164 words)

He "remembers me how good the sex was"? Was that all I ever was to him? I'm so hurt by this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So it’s been 1 1/2 months since my ex and I broke up and I've slowly started to rebuild up my strength until he decided text me last night out of the blue . He was just asking what I was up to and if I like any boys. He mentioned how word got out that he likes this other g... (163 words)

Ruined meal! I am disappointed with my friends and I don't know how to tell them how much. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I know there are people on here with real problems but if you could please take a minute to read my post I'd appreciate it. I feel really let down and annoyed by my so called friends. The 4 of us were trying to arrange a meal out before Christmas but unfortunately no d... (407 words)

I want a relationship with trust and honesty!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have caught my boyfriend on dating sites 5 times this year. He has promised to stop doing it from now on. He said that all the other times too. I find all i do lately is look for evidence of him doing it again. Just like i have done in the past and ended up finding it. Would ... (87 words)

I am struggling to move on without closure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you move on from a relationship without closure? I was with a wonderful man who treated me well for just over 2 years. It was long distance for the majority due to his work but we always ensured we'd see eachother twice a week. He treated me differently to any other man ... (488 words)

I want somebody to love.

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27 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I feel like I will never be able to be successful with women. The only girls I have ever been good at flirting with are ones I am not actually attracted to deeply. I'm a virgin at 19 and am going through medicine. I had an ex who I was with for 2 years but it ended when college ... (335 words)

I packed my bags and left after he hid me from his mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2years going into our 3rd. We have been living together for 2years straight. Last year he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend and i forgave him. Earlier this year we went for an HIV test and discovered he was HIV+ and i wasnt. We establis... (211 words)

Do I waste my time on my crush who doesn't seem to have any interest in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Seven years ago ( I was a freshman in high school) I met this guy who I liked (he didnt know I liked him at the time) and became really good friends with. We did everything together eventhough he had a gf and he knew his gf did not like me. We used to talk to each other ... (323 words)

Why did he change his story? He said he met her twice and now he says he never met her! Bad memory from smoking weed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We met online on a forum. I was aware that he also talked to another woman. I didn't have a problem with it at the time. We got to know each other better and he said he would like for us to meet sometime. We... (399 words)

Is pursuing a masters degree with a baby realistic?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone! I'm looking to hear from people (especially women) that have raised a family while pursuing their post-secondary education. I'm currently 25 years old and a full-time university student working toward two degrees (simultaneously). I have 2.5 years left of my... (401 words)

Is this a date with a crush? Or just business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at a coffee shop. I have a huge crush on one of my regular costumers. He's very attractive - very fit with a smile that would make any woman melt. I've liked him for months and last week, he'd given me his number. But not for the reason you think. He's a photographer and ... (176 words)

My Bf is totally reluctant to have sex. At all. How do I approach a conversation with him about this so we can work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is not interested in sex. I know it has nothing to do with me. This is just who he is. His previous relationships have had the same problem. One relationship ended because of it. I have no interest in breaking up with him as I am crazy about him. However... (250 words)

Has my Gf broken up with me? Due to my phone re-set I can't call her. No a word since last friday? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i been on christmas Break for a couple days now, and i havent heard from my Gf Once. :/ The last time we talked was on Friday because i went over her house so we could spend some time Together. I been waiting for her to text me, call me and it's not Happening. I miss her... (81 words)

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends that I left her and abandoned he... (343 words)

Never got over my first crush. Lots of health problems since. What can I change so future relationships are more successful?

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27 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - - This post is long. i'm sorry. Lets just call me 'M' and my first love 'J' I'm quite young, 17 and i fell in love with J at first sight 5 years ago. My heart pounded, my cheeks were always flushed and i kept stammering. Naive i know, but that feeling was something i c... (1055 words)

He did this in the past, before we met. The image of this in my head is disturbing. How can I get over my disgust that he once had a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has had a threesome in the past. I questioned him some about it, and he had went into some detail and even said that at the end the both of them "sucked him off and shared his load." I felt completely disrespected that he had told... (212 words)

Enough is enough! His alcoholism has resulted in him threatening me and make me feel insecure. What can I do and where can I seek help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 13 yrs, my husband had been drinking since I met him it didn't use to bother me at first. This is because he will act nice and become nicer later. But lately he had become aggressive. Everytime he drinks he will start acting stupid calling me name in f... (168 words)

My girlfriend slept at her ex boyfriend's house on Christmas and didn't tell me. What am I supposed to think?

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27 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know why my girlfriend would sleep at her ex boyfriend place on Christmas and didn't tell me. She says that him and her are now friends and she's not text me that much either, probably either she's busy or having a wonderful time with him, she said she needs space and ... (65 words)

How do I deal with my alcoholic father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a crisis of loyalty. I'm 20 years old and for the past 10 years i've been aware that my dad has had a drinking problem - my parents separated soon before this realisation. Throughout the years there have been many instances where he has left me unattended to dr... (252 words)

How long does it take to heal from your first serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

27 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my ex and i have been broken up for about 1 1/2 months..and its gotten easier..but ever once and a while ill have flash backs of our relationship and feel sad...so I havnt completely healed. Turns out hes been asking around about how iv been to our friends but wont talk to ... (202 words)

I'm in love with two people and I don't know what to do?

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27 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been having a sexual relationship with a close family friend for almost a year now. We treat eachother like cousins and have done for years. We spend every new year and birthday celebrations together. The thing is this family friend is a guy. I'm sixteen and I know I'm ... (351 words)

I'm afraid to intoduce my bipolar boyfriend to my family

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27 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm scared to introduce my boyfriend, who has bipolar disorder, to my family. I think he feels offended because he hasn't been around my family much yet. He doesn't know why i don't want him to be around them too much though. I don't think they would understand his behaviour ... (128 words)

My g/f is always accusing me of cheating and now I find her on dating sites. She tells me to go back to my exs! What do I do?

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27 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has been aggressively telling me that i cheat on her. She has been accusing me for months and brings up my sexual history with my ex. I have now found out that she has been on date match sites trying to meet men and saying she is single. I have asked her why and ... (78 words)