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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've got a crush on my brother in law and he's got bad taste in women...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i think my brother in law got a crush on me. before i used to hate him for things he had done and trying to come between me and my husband. now all of a sudden he is being nice to me. we never used to talk but now he is holding conversation with me and being nice. now i th... (113 words)

He won't make it official

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been on a few dates with this guy. we had something before the summer and also just about 2 months ago however this did not work out because of my parents. me and him have had sexual intercourse and like each other very much, however he will not make it official with... (177 words)

Taking a break, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Due to some things that have happened in 2012 (stress, people like our parents interfering, jobs, deaths in my family, and life in general), he has decided that we are going to take a break, that he needed space and time to ... (365 words)

My long distance boyfriend says maybe we can be together next year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, ive been with my partner for three years, and earlier this year we lived together for six months, however due to finance and issues we had to but a ldr. but we have stayed together during everything. however after three years of waiting for him to be ready, i dont thin... (186 words)

Afraid to take a chance on love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what sex is and I am tired of being laughed at for being a kiss less virgin at 21(22 in 2 weeks) I only want to get physical with a girl I love and people think this means I want the perfect setting before engaging in blissful and passionate sex. and this is not t... (246 words)

The Classic Love Triangle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Compared to some of the other situations I have read about on here this may sound trivial, but I feel the need to get an outsider's understanding on the situation. Recently I started hanging out with a new group of friends. One of my friends introduced me to them and I've be... (763 words)

Old crush from high school contacts you after 3 years. How do you react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to contact an old crush. We both had crushes on eachother but we were both very shy. I was a nervous wreck around her so nothing happened. I've regretted it ever since. I still think about her from time to time. I haven't had any crushes since. I'm also a lot more ... (93 words)

I made a mistake and told my long distance love some negative things out of emotion and too much wine! I'm visiting him now and want him to give us a chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i made a mistake by telling my long disatnce love negative things out of emotion (and too much wine) that led him to believe we broke up. i am here with him now and the day after i arrived we discussed it more clearly. he said after i said those things he got used to being ... (136 words)

I am worried about his drinking, and how he'll react about his son's birthday and what he'll do when he'd drunk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It's the anniversary of when i started seeing my boyfriend tomorrow. We have been together for a year. He is much older than me, and has bipolar disorder. I'm really worried though. He got drunk yesterday, a nd is out drinking again today, and i'm worried that he won't see me ... (457 words)

So is this guy straight and just super comfortable with his sexuality, or is he sending me signals that he wants more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So a little background first. I am a 29 year old closeted at work Gay man that works as a Paramedic. Recently I was assigned a new partner whom is 20 years old and quite good looking. I immediately took notice and began to develop an innocent crush on him. Our personalities and ... (815 words)

I'm an uncircumcised virgin. My penis swells after masturbation and it has me a little concerned.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay I have a little problem and it's kind of embarrassing. But ever since I could, whenever I masturbate my penis gets all swollen afterwards. I don't know why it does this. It's not like I do it a lot, I don't. And I don't do it too rough either. I'm uncut and am still a ... (95 words)

I want to leave my cheating husband, but need to straighten out some financial matters first. How can I cope with this in the mean time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married with 3 children. The youngest is 9 months old and the oldest is 3 1/2. My husband is contacting women on Craigslist and emailing them with the intent of having sex with them while he is at work. He has sent pictures of his genitals and of himself and even used his ... (362 words)

I can't get past the fact that my husband had lap dances from strippers before we were married.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known my husband for abt 10 yrs now, married for 6 and we both are very happy, committed and loving to each other, expecting our first baby now. But just the other day, I was talking of pregnancy stretch marks and he goes - dont worry honey, even strippers have them. An... (738 words)

Is keeping a memory box lame and depressing? My friends comment upset me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wanted to get another opinion on this as my friends comment I thought was rude and didn't make sense... Basically, in my room at university I put in this wristband someone gave me the night before from an epic night out in this box. She asked what was in the trunk box... (282 words)

I have a beautiful friend, and I'm jealous to the point where I don't want to hang out with her in places where she draws a lot of attention.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma. I have this friend, a girl, who I know for the past 5 years. She is very sweet, and we are not that terribly close, but we see each other we really enjoy each other company. The thing that about 9 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend, and now she w... (439 words)

I admitted I was bi-curious, now she wants to date me...But I prefer men!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in trouble. One of my closer girlfriends would like to date me but I don't think I should date her at all. I admitted that I was bi-curious but honestly, I've never acted on it and I don't believe that it changes that much about me. After she asked me, I thought and thought ... (133 words)

How do I cope with these feelings of hurt, jealousy, rejection, and anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Currently separated for about 5 months, not hoping to reconcile, but there are still some feelings there (particularly because we have a young child and I'm hurting worse now that my child will not grow up with both parents). Husband flew to his hometown for the holidays tod... (161 words)

I'm trying my best to be a good mother but the kids father is so immature and hurting the kids, still out partying every weekend! What more can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Im having problems with my kids dad we have two and another on the way. I am confused on what to say to him and how to act towards him because sometimes i just feel like shutting him out of my life, hes so immature he still likes to have fun. Partyin all weekend stuff li... (213 words)

My girlfriend's mother has died and now she is pushing me away, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriends mother has passed away on tuesday,so she had to go back to where she comes from,I could not go with her because her family doesn't really like me,so now I'm consolling her via texting and calling but she just keeps pushin me away and shutting me out,what do I do... (52 words)

I feel like he's using me for oral sex and doesn't value our friendship anymore, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, hoping you will be able to shed a little light on this situation I'm in. There's this guy I've known for awhile, and before we became friends we fooled around (oral sex) over the summer. After this however, we became close friends. There was still sexual tension, but ... (289 words)

If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" lecture but why the heck is ... (126 words)

If I end things with my boyfriend, would anything happen between my colleague and I? We have slept together before but I'm not sure if he has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I'm in an awful mess. Try not to judge me to hard please! I've been living with my bf for about 6 months, we've been together a year before that. 7 or 8 months ago we started to develop problems in our relationship, arguments about silly things, not spending time to... (595 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to show me the attention I need?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - well i just started my relation three months ago but it seems something is missing. my boyfrend is a bit different then others. he is less expressive. he never gets angry, talks to me very cutely and bla bla but when i expect a good morning or goodnight wish by his own, he ... (148 words)

Sly comments, put downs and he doesn't seem to care unless he needs my help.Can this friendship become more satisfying and positive? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I have known for quite a while at first he saw me as potential. But things began to change he didn't find me attractive nor his type an he kept stating we're "friends" I was cool about it. We instantly became best friends after. But recently we ... (390 words)

Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating sites except for the one I caught h... (189 words)

Sly nasty Rude obnoxious co-worker who is friends with boss at the top. What's the best way to endure and survive this sneaky bully?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please, please give me some advice as I'm at the end of my tether!! Last year at work I had the misfortune of sitting next to a really rude, snappy and belittling colleague.. At first we got on ok but as the months went past her attitude towards me became awful - she'd... (543 words)

I'm confused and in love. What should I do considering my wife's attitude to our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - What is the true meaning of marriage? My wife wants us to remain married, but i cant have sex with her. I can touch her, but i can only get a kiss from her every once in a while. She left my for her lover and now is single and not dating. She said she wants me to stay loyal... (106 words)

My wife cheated on me with another woman. How can I attempt to start working out our marriage issues together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been away from my wife for 3 years now. we were together for 10 great years i thought. She had two kids before i met her, then we had a child to together. We had rough times here and there. From when we lost the house in a flood to losing my job because of work inju... (181 words)

I was really looking forward to time alone with her for Christmas break, but she blew me off for her family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are in college together. Before the winter break started, we had sat down and laid out a bunch of plans that we wanted to do over the break. She was going to spend some time with her family, and some with me. It is the second year we've been dating, but... (546 words)

I need help understanding what hes wanting...or why he's acting like this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. He said that he just didn't have "time." But stil liked me..even said he "loved" me as a gf but didn't want a relationship. Of course I was hurt but we agreed to be friends. We continued texting for about a week until all of a ... (189 words)

I'm confused, should I just move on from him or continue to hope for something out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I'll now summarize and update the situation. Please advice where I stand now or should I just forget abt the ass cause nth will come out of it. - met him online, ended up he's cooking dinner for first date at his house. Work caught up that's why. We kissed make out d... (387 words)

Should I be upset about my Christmas present?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok... I'm just wanting some opinions. Last year for our first Christmas, my boyfriend bought me some electronics. such as a DVD player and a Nintendo wii. (which was nice of him.) I know it was the thought that counts, I am more of a romantic person and for our first Christmas ... (264 words)

A boy is going to ask me out on a date, but my parents don't want me to date till I'm 16. Should I lie to them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am 14 and will be 15 in about 2 months, anyways there is this guy I really like and he is going to ask me out on Friday (my friends ruined the suprise) I am really happy about this but the thing is I would have to hide the relationship from my parents. They do not want me ... (281 words)

My best friend has ditched me for a girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I don't see many guys emailing with this problem so here goes. I've recently come extremely distant from my best mate. In fact alot of people "we" know don't even see him anymore. Since hes got this new gf hes changed so much and he doesn't seem to see how much its hurting ... (647 words)

My ex-girlfriend owes me money, but is pregnant with another man. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I apologize in advance if this is lengthy. I'm 22 years old. I dated a girl for three years who is the same age. We lived together for the majority of that time, however the last eight months of the relationship was very rocky. Sex was a rarity and I've (now) realized how muc... (876 words)

I need help I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

20 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have depression and been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he acts like to two different people when we first started going out all my friends stopped talking to me because my boyfriend was black and when we hang out with his friends he acts like I'm not ther... (174 words)