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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like my old friend likes it when things are not happy in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I have a friend who I have known since I was 10 years old. She and her mother have always been a little bit jealous of me. My friend's mum is quite beautiful and was a model in her young days and her daughter wasn't exactly what she was hoping for- overweight and n... (551 words)

My boyfriend was angry that I was ill and didn't want sex so he left late and left my door unlocked all night!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been in an exclusive relationship for over 2 1/2 years we are both middle aged, and live in our separate homes, but we spend almost every night together. Last night my boyfriend comes over later than normal because he had a function to attend and I h... (239 words)

How do I approach girls for friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem of approaching girls for friendship, please what should i do?... (14 words)

Please help me, clliquey work colleagues and I'm older, help?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Whats the best way to work with cliquey work colleagues? Hospital environment, not an office.. Most (not all) younger and will say hi but chit chat/laugh etc with each other and almost ignore you? You try to talk to them, but they often they wont make much effort anyway.... (384 words)

Retroactive Jealousy is the brain cancer of happy relationships...and I'm on my deathbed-

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I won't bore everyone with the same old story here because the problem here has been identified and well answered by many kind people and suffering men. I suffer severely from retroactive jealousy and have immersed myself in tortured thoughts about my current girlfrie... (638 words)

Why did he wait 2 weeks after our date to contact me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused by this guy. We met up for one date and I would describe it as only ok but we are both shy so I put it down to that and was willing to meet up another time. So we arranged a date a few days later but he cancelled last minute, I sent him a text saying that's ok, ... (153 words)

My boyfriend and I are both very outspoken. Will we be alright living together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - well, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 1 year and been together for 6 months, i meet him right before moving back from a other state. we have a good relationship we get along very well. we are currently live 9 hours apart, we are planning to get marry next and ... (129 words)

Why does my trainer always stare at me but won't speak to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3967 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He's constantly looking at me and I always feel his eyes on me. He's this cute and quiet personal trainer that works at the gym I go to. He talks to all the girls there and is really friendly with everyone but he won't talk to me. What is up with that? Does he h... (188 words)

My partner paid for his 16 year old's party and then his ex told him he couldn't go! How should he deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I am asking advice on behalf of my other half. He pays maintenance for his kids each month. He also buys things on top such as things for school. He doesn't mind doin this. However he has recently paid for his 16 year old party in which after he paid for it, the ... (200 words)

How can I win him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my bf were the cutest couple. But one time a got a message from his ex saying I am away on holiday would she like to meet up etc. I was furious. I ended up forgiving him after his begging. We went back to normal. My ex was trying to break us up and did ev... (466 words)

Haven't heard from her for 3 days, Is my Girlfriend breaking up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - my long distant Girlfriend of a year have been going great...when we are together we are so happy with each other, we had our bumps in the road but we always manage to work it out, but 3 weeks ago she was being moody for no reason but I found out it was her monthly thing at the ... (361 words)

I want more then just "friends with benefits"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy over the past 11 weeks at university, who happens also to be my flatmate. After breaking up for the holidays, it came up in conversation that I liked him and was interested in more, but he made it clear he wanted to stay as "friends who have sex" or if ... (113 words)

Old crush from highschool poked me on Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy I had a big crush on in high school just poked me on Facebook. I haven't seen him for 2 and a half years since I left my hometown for college. In high school we were always staring at each other but we only spoke a few times. We were both nervous as hell around each ... (122 words)

She wants to fool around, so she broke up with me! What does that mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am 17 and my girlfriend is 14 and we are both in high school. She is my first girlfriend and I am her first boyfriend. She recently broke up with me, although we still talk and act like bf/gf because she doesn't want a serious relationship yet. She says she wants to fool ... (104 words)

Me loving her right now isn't important, saving the friendship is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl who I have known for several months now and we instantly became best friends. I don't want to go into details on how we met but ever since she stepped into my life she made me a very happy person again after being treated badly by my ex-friends. But recently ... (193 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me, but his actions are keeping me from moving on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What should I do? I was with my boyfriend for 8 months and it was really good, we never fought or had any major issues, however he had a lot of family and school commitments. He broke up with me because he didn't have time for me and felt that he was hurting me, but has not ... (154 words)

Is this textbook shy-guy behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a date with a shy guy (he even admits to being shy)... Introverted around people in general. I'm an introverted person too so I was expecting that our date would be filled with silences. However, our date was a lot of fun and we had many things to talk about. The date ... (135 words)

I'm worried for my friend, I think she may be bulimic.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I suspect my friend is bulimic. She usually heads to the toilet after meals and spends around 20-30 minutes there. Though I've never followed her in before, she usually emerges with puffy eyes and runny nose. Once, another friend also saw remnants of thrown up food in ... (157 words)

What can I do to deal with my flirty (but not with me) husband who will not make love to me yet masturbates regularly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had it with my husband. We have been married for 16 years. The first 6 years I would say was great especially trying to have kids at that time. We ended up having 2 children. After our second child I noticed my husband wouldn't make an effort to make love with me. He... (693 words)

What did my girlfriend mean by this text message?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (M) age 30-35 - My gf sent me this text and idk what she's getting at I'm a bit afraid to ask her because I get a bad vibe from reading it here's the text "Tummy, I don't want you to feel obligated to tolerate me ok? We aren't bound to eachother... Ok? o.o" oh she calls me tummy btw... (56 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to be bothered about me anymore, what should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my boyfriend seems to not be bothered anymore? He will call roughly once maybe twice a week but wont text or email. Fair enough but the moment he gets on the phone it feels like he wants to go already. We have had to become a ldr for now but hope to move together... (221 words)

I feel like my boyfriend only sees me when he has nothing better to do!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The problem is it seems like he only sees me when he has nothing better to do. I cannot get him to agree to do anything at the weekends because he wants to wait to see what else is happening, plus he often changes plans at ... (214 words)

I invested so much into this guy but he has dumped me for his sister's friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in relationship with a guy, he had a problem in school so he left. we see each other on hols and had sex, so many times he confessed his love to me and i went for it. i was happy until he sent me a msg on whatsapp that he is in love with his sister's friend, he blocked me ... (108 words)

Guys, is low self-esteem a big turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a very low self esteem. I don't know what to do. I admit that some guys have a crush on me but no one makes the first move(no suitors). I'm often being teased in class with some guys but I just make a poker face because I know it's just for fun. Why is it always like ... (152 words)

How long does it take to get over someone and is it possible to be friends after a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How long does it take to get over someone and is it possible to be friends after a relationship? I split up from my ex about 7 months ago but we kept in touch via email (he lives abroad). Even though we both knew (and said) we still loved each other we knew the relation... (206 words)

What does a guy think when a girl has her period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you guys think if you often see girls act awkward when they have their period? OR when you know they have it? Does it turn you off? I have no idea but every time I have period, I freaked out and I think everyone knows. :(... (48 words)

Her parents are staying with us over Christmas, but I've found she is having sexual conversations with strangers on the internet! Should I confront her now, or wait until her parents have gone? I'm really disgusted and thinking about leaving...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriends parents are due from overseas to visit and stay over christmas. It will be the third time I have met them and we get on great. I have now discovered my girlfriend is having relationships and sexual conversations with strangers over the internet and looks to be ... (109 words)

He treats me pretty badly but I still like him and don't want to give up on him, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few months I've really been into this boy I met. We're both in the same major at the same school, but he's a year older. His girlfriend broke up with him at the beginning of the year and as of now they're best friends still and she has a new boyfriend. I feel like ... (306 words)

Why do guys ask for pictures of girls? Is he after a naked picture of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Guys why do you ask for pictures from a girl? Any specific reason? Is it normal for you to ask for a pic from a girl? I was texting this guy whom I've met a couple of times. He should have a "good look" at me already. So in he midst of the convo he asked me to send him some... (117 words)

My boyfriend is upset about what I did in a past relationship....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is upset about what I did in a past relationship I am with my current bf for about a year and a half now, going on two years. We met in college and have a great relationship. My bf and I recently went back home to my family for the Thanksgiving holiday (a US holid... (436 words)

Why would my unmarried 37 year old boss call me Auntie at work? What's he trying to convey by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi friends, I m a female of 30 yrs.but look short of my age. People in my office find me as of 25years only. I am unmarried, reserve by nature and professional. But sometimes my boss (who is around 37 but unmarried) calls me 'auntie'... and smiles over it. I want to know w... (71 words)

What can I hope for? Her Mom thinks I'm bad influence. There are compatibility issues and I'm indecisive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - This is a continuation of a question i asked a little while ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-care-but-i-dont-care.html Unfortunately I seem to have misplaced my login for my other account and was forced to make a new one, oh well... anyways.. I broke it off with he... (488 words)

I'm shy. And have platonic friends. Should I initiate contact or wait for them to contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, i have a platonic friend question. I really dont have that many friends and i have a few friends from high school left but they never really contact me.. I guess because they are always going out and stuff and i'm kind of shy and not all that big on going out but i try to g... (102 words)

Cheaters Central? Do you think my boyfriend cheated on me? Is he the cheater type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I know the type of answers I'll get for this question. "A relationship can't work without trust". But I guess I need to know whether I'm being paranoid or rightfully concerned. In any case, here it goes: Before I met my boyfriend he had a big crush on one of his classmates a... (627 words)

He's hanging out with his b/f's widow

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend lives with me in Ohio and left to go stay with a male friend in Florida where another good friend of his recently died in an accident. I am having an issue with the fact that when I call (if he answers) he is always at his deceased friends house house hanging out ... (135 words)

M-I-L wants money, and is using his ex against me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My mother in law says I am not giving them enough of my husband's money.(their son).she is always calling me and telling me in my face every time that we have to prioritize them in our budget.she will not appreciate anything we give her saying its too small. We give our ... (295 words)

He says I'm his soul mate, but I don't think we even share the same sense of humour...should I break up with him around Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months and i've been beginning to notice that we have quite different senses of humour, and disagree quite a lot on things. I think he's an amazing person but I don't think we are right for eachother. He tells me that i'm his ... (161 words)