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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will my friends ever accept us as a couple and stop the snide remarks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Just over a year ago I was in an 'open' relationship with my now ex-girlfriend. We both saw whoever we wanted to no questions asked. It worked for about 2 years Last December I started seeing a girl who was a friend of both of ours and our group of friends. Long story short, I... (197 words)

He's amazing but then when trouble hits he does a 180. I'm too weak to stay away from him. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - he screamed at me on the phone so i ignored him for 5 days in which he asked me out and called several times and even once he came to my university with a flower and i said i was in an exam he have serious mood swings that i'm afraid may put me in hard suffer if we ever get m... (191 words)

My boyfriend wants me to meet his family but I'm scared! How do I get them to approve and like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the length! :( My boyfriend has insisted, and his fmaily too on meeting me. He is from out of state, and he will be going to the same grad school with me. My roommate to-be had to move last minute, so she left me there alone with the lease, and due to "convenien... (705 words)

We are at the 3 year mark in our relationship yet all he cares about is drinking and Xbox.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It will be coming upto three years at the end of this month that I have been together with my boyfriend and things have been going downhill quite quickly. Now I don't wanna compare myself to other people or couples but I thought that around the three year mark you would at ... (143 words)

My boyfriend never makes time for me! He spends 6 days out of the week with friends or hobbies, any advice? Should I give up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 3 years. I have mentioned to him several times recently that I feel like I don't see him enough - he spends most weekends with his friends and I often don't hear from him at all during the weekend, plus he is also busy with ... (393 words)

I thought the second date went well but she never responded to my text afterwards. Is she not interested? Should I ask her out again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a woman online and we had a fantastic first date. She is very pretty, funny, kind and we had a lot in common. She asked me out on a 2nd date and texted me afterwards saying she had a great time and she couldn't wait to get together again. We had a 2nd date which I tho... (133 words)

I'm developing a huge crush on a guy at college but he's already in a relationship. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm seventeen and I started my first year of college in September. Since then I keep seeing this guy around college who I find really attractive, I've never had a crush before as strange as it sounds, but I really am attracted to this guy. He's tall, blonde, wears stylish ... (152 words)

My boyfriend says he is 50% happy with me but I don't satisfy him sexually like his ex did. Should I have a threesome with them to make him happy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I purposed an idea to my boyfriend a couple of days ago. The idea having a threesome with him and his ex. Sounds bizarre, good thing I slept on it and really thought about how it will impact the relationship and everyone involved lives. Question I ask is, What are the con... (901 words)

We have been talking for the last few months but is he just being nice to me? I don't want to look like a fool.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm sixteen and i have been talking to a guy for the past three months. The thing is i dnt know if hes interested or just being nice. He's a great personality and matching looks. He's headboy, a great student and he plays tons of sports: in other words tons of girls like him... (393 words)

I just moved in with my boyfriend. Should we write up a contract for rent obligations and other household duties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have recently moved in with my boyfriend, I am trying to figure out a pattern about rights and obligations in relationships, for example,if I cook who does the dishes -me or him, if I do the dishes who will wipe them - basically, our roles in the household. ... (248 words)

We broke up because she wanted to just be friends, now it seems like she's flirting with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All, To make this as short as possible I will just say that I posted a question a couple weeks ago about how to stay friends with a girl who I had previously dated for 2 months. Our break up was not ugly, it was basically her saying that she wasnt ready to be in a relati... (280 words)

Broke ex, or well-off baby daddy or neither of them? Help me choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am more confused now more than ever, I split up with the one guy who kept asking for money and he did pay me back and said he was sorry that he shouldn't have done that and that he truly loves me and wants to work things out but they are still issues there I'm just not sure ... (191 words)

After a week on talking online he says he loves me and wants to marry me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently placed a personal ad saying i m looking for a mate, I had over 20 response , most of the guys were playing or seeking sex so I finally came across a guy who sound great anyways we chated though email then he gave me his number , we talked on the phone he said he's ... (116 words)

Should I reply to my old friend, who sided with my ex during our messy split?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I've been with a guy for 5+ years: as a couple we used to hang out with this other couple- they were originally friends of mine and I introduced my ex to them. Okay, so about a 1.5 years ago my ex and I went through a horrible break-up (basically I met my current ... (176 words)

He's a player yet committed, selfish yet generous, and so on. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - after 5 month of warnings i finally opened my eyes and i think i don't want to stay with him anymore: -he is a player - he is selfish - he always tests me - whatever he does its my fault and he never admits that he did something wrong - i'm never perfect in action - ... (286 words)

How do I make it up to my room mate that I have ignored after he's been kind to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a room mate and i have really ignored him for no reason. he did alot of work for me for my car and stuff and i said i'll cook for him yesterday but then some of my friends came over that night and i offered them to eat with us but he did not join us because he felt like ... (95 words)

My fiance left me for my sister whom he got pregnant. How do I stop this from ruining Christmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, and have a son who's 5 years old. My fiance (he's 28) left me only a few days ago for one of my three older sisters (32, 35 and 37, he left me for the 32-year-old one) and I feel low. We were planning to get married next year in March and had saved up a good deal of ... (333 words)

He dumped after he was the one texting another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend (just) dumped me on Monday. The story is that over a week ago I found texts on his phone to a 17 year old girl he works with (he's 30) saying things like I would prefer to be on a date with you, I can't wait to see you again and that he thought she was gorgeous. ... (359 words)

Just feeling lost and confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I will be married 6 years really soon. This year has been emotionally tumultuous as we have struggled through walls of miscommunication in several areas of our relationship. We were the best of friends in college for a whole, so our history goes back pretty ... (491 words)

What's going on??? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So my boyfriend and I are in bed sleeping and his phone goes off indicating he had a text message, it's about 12:15 a.m. He looks at the phone and the message says hi. I'm like ummm, who is that? He's like idk, they text before and when I called back it was an Indian guy. I ... (333 words)

How can I make him care about me and miss me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have met 7 months ago. It's a long distance relationship. We've fallen in love, and even talked about getting married in the future. I told myself not to get too attached to this guy, because I went through a really bad traumatizing breakup before I met this guy. ... (221 words)

Does anyone else here feel small because they don't look as glamourous as pornstars or glamour models?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone else here feel small because they don't look as glamourous as pornstars or glamour models? I feel like I'm helpless, my ex made me feel like this. We were on about glamour modelling, he said something like do you think you could be one, you're just an ordinary ... (111 words)

I feel as if I'm using him... but I don't want to. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy at work who has fell head over heels for me. He does anything for me and we hang 24/7 and I'm not all that into him. But I feel like I use him and I don't want to as he is an amazing friend. what do I do?... (53 words)

Why did he seem keen then flake on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently went on a date with a guy who seemed nice and pretty cool. We went for drinks, stayed for a few hours and had a good time. He seemed genuine as a person and at the end of the date he said he wanted to definitely see each other again. I believed him. He had also made ... (440 words)

He's secretly masturbating when we're in bed and he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't know where to start - my boyfriend and I have been together a little more than ten years we've been through a lot together and we also have two beautiful children together, anyways about three years ago i started some medication that killed my sex drive, we went ... (191 words)

He got pissed off and told me to leave when I told him I didn't like oral sex...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for 4 months now and I think the relationship is based on sex. He drives trucks and is on the road a lot which leaves us to hang out 2 or 3 times a week. Whenever we hang out its just at his house we watch movies eat dinner and have sex. I've ... (177 words)

Infertility and my whisky dick...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, my wife and I have been married for just over 10 years. We've never succeeded in having a baby over the last 8 years. Over these years we tried numerous IUI, IVF, surgeries, etc, but without luck. Now, my wife is 41 and I am almost 50. My sex drive had gone down a lot ... (427 words)

Does your significant other tell you that he finds other women attractive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My significant other will comment about women on tv or about coworkers. The other day it was a sitcom and the supporting actor was dating a woman and the actor said she was hot. Then the woman appeared and my SO goes Wow! and then Wow! again. Then the sitcom went on to say that ... (255 words)

I thought I finally met a sweet guy. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a party to celebrate a friend getting a new job, she invited her coworkers/friends from her old job over. The new guy shows up and instantly we spot each other. He thought I was cute I thought he was cute. We made eye contact and smiled at each other countless times ... (619 words)

Why is he talking to his ex? Should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i have a problem and need advice. my husband, 5 years now, is talking to his ex gf almost every day he works. not when at home. at first i caught him looking at his calls on cell phone and emails. then i told him to not talk to her and i called her cell phone and forbid her ... (112 words)

Guys, if you see a beautiful girl seems to like you, how do you react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What if you see this girl and you like her because of her drop-dead beauty, all the guys just keep staring at her from afar and then she added you on fb. She steals glances at you from time to time and you think she likes you. What's your reaction? Is it turning you off? Will ... (129 words)

I broke up with her because of my financial situation, now she's mounting the pressure on me again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me i broke up my previous relationship due to financial reasons,i just could not stand the fact of me not being able to be of financially assisting my now ex gf,i didnt even give her reasons,i just did it via text message although she rarely asked for money. and now ... (135 words)

If he sees me as 'old' now, what will happen when we marry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day everyone. I've got this concern and need to understand what does it really means. Today as I was having a breakfast with my boyfriend he surprised me with these words as I was only wearing a towel only, he told that I'm now old and I don't look the way I was 7 years ... (130 words)

What to say when boyfriend asks about marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have only been dating a few months. We are both 25. He seems pretty serious about me. He asked me yet again if I want to marry one day. I was surprised no ex had ever asked me this question before. I didn't really know what to say. He says we haven't been ... (113 words)

Her kids are treating me like a Dad.. But I don't see this relationship as being forever. Am I looking into this situation too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Soooo im just gonna get straight to the point here. I met a girl about 5-6 months ago, went on a few dates and we got on very well. About a month into seeing her she tells me she has 3 kids, 4, 6 and 8. Now at the time this didnt bother me, ive seen girls in the past wh... (274 words)

If he really loves me and wants to marry me, then why does he keep joining dating sites?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The last 2 have gotten rather bumpy because he keeps talking to girls on dating sites. He has asked me to marry him but because he lies to me about his dating sites it makes me too afraid to marry him. We have broken up time a... (98 words)

He's happily married and I have a bf. So why is this older guy flirting with me at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so this one is probably easy enough to answer, I think. There is this guy at work who seems to have taken a liking to me, he often touches my hands,my back and compliments what I wear and how I look. Now I understand there is flirting at work, but he's happily married ... (185 words)

She cheated. I don't want to lose her, but at the same time I think I should leave. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - ive been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years. we live together, we're not married and have one child(10 months) together, and two more that she had in a previous relationship(8 and 4), that i now care for. i fell out of love with her a while ago but stayed in the rela... (242 words)

He's changed. I'm not sure whether he loves me now. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Ever since I have finished my major examinations, he became unhappy that I spent more time with my friends/Computer and afterwards unhappy about me not taking enough initiatives. And then about his mother. So many problems... (323 words)

How can I get him help? Is this a medical issue or is he with a group or cult that's warped his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin with this, but I am very worried about my friend He doesn't live near me, but we communicated frequently online. I have known him for years. He was a highly intelligent, sensible individual and I admired him. His parents are divorced, an... (435 words)

I am married with children. But I am attracted to my 45 year old Aunt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married,have 2 kids. Live in United Arab Republic. when i was a teenager,i was always having a fantasy of having sex with my aunty(not blood related). she is the wife of distant relative uncle.i know she was not happy with her husband who can't satisfy her sexually.. ... (246 words)

He says "it's not what I think it is". But why am I not enough for him? Why does he need to talk to other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Question Especially geared for the men MrX and I have been dating since June. We are monogamous with each other (sexually) I know most of his friends, but not his family and although we act like it, he really won't commit to saying he's my actual boyfriend. Real piece of ... (271 words)

Am I supposed to feel hungry when dieting? And any tips on losing weight, for a woman aged 50?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age - Hi there, I m very confused about dieting and weight loss, and because I would love to get in shape I really would like to share some experiences. So it is harder to lose weight at menopausal age, as I heard, but I was getting conflicting advice. Some people thinks, e... (208 words)

Stuck in a cycle of loving and loathing each other. We fight. When is enough, enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together on and off for 6 years. We got engaged 6 months ago and things are not good. We don't fight well at all. We both say things that we shouldn't . She keeps telling me she don't have that feeling for me, yet she don't want to break up. We don't have sex a... (154 words)

He broke up with me, then got upset at me joining a dating website, so he joined the same site. What do I make of this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - He dumped me just over a month ago, out of the blue. we were serious and talked about a future. He said he wanted to be alone, not date anyone and focus on his kids. Since then I have told him how much I love him and want to work it out. He has rejected me every time, but ... (169 words)

I've been leading this guy on, and now I'm afraid he's going to ask me out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Soo, I have this guy friend that I met about 4 months ago, and were really good friends. Only problem is, I enjoy chatting to him and stuff, but he really really likes me and I don't like him in that way ay all. He's a cool guy, but just not my type, and I just realized like a ... (236 words)

Conflicted: Is it really love? If so, now what? If not, how can I escape?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying to decode this relationship I am in. I am having an affair (reluctantly) with a married man and I am also married but have been separated for years. He refuses to let me go. He has tried with my encouragement, but he is very weak for me and sees me almost daily ... (365 words)

Boyfriend's recent temper issues are making me question my relationship. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I'm having an issue with my Boyfriend that he is not yet aware of, and I don't know how to bring it up. We have been together for two and a half years, and I love him more than anything. We are in an LDR and see each other fairly often. During the firs... (289 words)

Can't see my LDR and sorely tempted to cheat

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm a female currently in uni and also in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend back home. Recently I've been so lonely and sexually frustrated due to not seeing her and I'm tempted to sleep with this other girl who is interested in me at work. I know I sound l... (119 words)

Friend wants a threesome, the other guy wants a relationship without sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have liked a man I have been friends with for a year now. He has always treated me as that - a friend. He has a good repution and thriving business. He has in the past helped me through problems but never gotten too close and to be honest I have been quiet with him.because I ... (201 words)

My boyfriend won't tell his parents we already slept together.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

18 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend won't tell his parents we already slept together. As addition to this, he will never sleep at my house if he needs to tell his parents so, he will only sleep at mine if he can get a good excuse to do so. I just find this extremely annoying. We're both adults, ... (227 words)

My head is telling me that I have to stay with my wife for the sake of my daughter. My heart is telling me that I have found my soul mate with another woman.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I follow my head or my heart? I have been married for five years now, but for the last year things haven't been going to good in my marriage. I am in the military and since my last deployment my wife has withdrawn herself from me. We have talked to a counselor about ... (212 words)

Why am I anxious whenever I don't hear from her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4146 days ago

18 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been friends with this girl for a couple of years. I first met her as the girlfriend of one of my friends. Their relationship has since ended and I haven't heard much from either of them. We've hung out on occasion and speak to each other through Facebook. She's quite ... (247 words)