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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The girl I want slept with some else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - At work there is this girl that I fancied for a longtime but I never tried to pursue her because she is with someone else. That never bothered me like that , shes always been jokey and flirty with me always saying funny I am and that I am really sweet and and lovely. But anyway ... (233 words)

Do I tell my best friend her b/f was touching me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i went to this party last night and my best friend's boyfriend was there and they have been together for about 2 year now, so he was there and i saw him and he kept touching me on my butt and he kissed my head and also kept touching my hips when he would walk past me. I ... (119 words)

Ladies: questions about sex on the first date.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (M) age 41-50 - I would like to know two quick things about women ************************************ 1) how often do women have sex on the first date, If you have had sex on the first date... 2) what does it take for you to have sex on the first date? Thanks... (60 words)

Why can't anyone understand how much scoliosis is hurting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - My physio theropist told me that i have scoliosis and where its pushing on my muscle my muscle keeps getting spasms. She said that it is only minor but they dont understand how much it hurts. They didnt even give me an x-ray just exercises which i dont think are helping ... (140 words)

Husband wants me to have a lover. Can anyone help me understand the man's point of view on this? Why would be want to see me being pleased by another man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my husband and I have been together for 4 years. We recently got married and are very happy together. Before i met my husband i enjoyed my sexual freedom, meaning i had lots of experiences. He was also sexually very active before he met me. We have a great sex life ... (409 words)

What can I do about the bad attitude they keep telling me I have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids, its so hard for me to keep a relationship. Before I started dating I hated men because of my father and dating hasn't changed a lot especially when they ask for help like money sometimes. I feel they want to use me because I am from a wealthy home and a lot of ... (263 words)

Confused & Broken. It's ruining my life that I need him so much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this guy for .... 3 years. We used to have a "thing" and it just ended. When it did I was heartbroken and ever since then we've just been like best friends but lately he's been ignoring me like shamelessly tweeting and seeing his friends and just not saying a word ... (119 words)

Do you think this text was meant for some-one else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think txt was meant for someone else? Jsut want to know if you think im being paranoid or is this dodgy, A guy I have been seeing for a year now has been away to a friends birthday for the weekend. He has sent me a message everyday while he's been away telling me how ... (241 words)

How do I build respect and confidence with such low self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My parents are aggressive and short tempered, they used to and still do get mad at the smallest things and use seniority and violence to bring me down. I was never allowed and still am not allowed to have a voice that goes against anything they say and get blamed for their ... (160 words)

Why does my boyfriend say I'm annoying when I'm just trying to be helpful/positive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, my boyfriend has recently started saying im annoying. ive asked him what i do wrong and all he says is that i am too enthusiastic about stuff. we live apart so dont see each other too often, so when i get to see him or call i ask how things are and what he... (180 words)

I think rejection has scarred me. How do I overcome it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

- What can I do to stop feeling bad about myself? I feel ugly and fat and low all the time because the guy I loved left me after 2 and a half years together. I have a new guy who says I'm beautiful and gorgeous but that rejection has truly scarred me. ... (56 words)

What are your thoughts on getting rid of unwanted hair permanently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello What do you think of getting rid of unwanted hair permanently? This technique is called 'electrolysis'(I didn't know about it until few days ago)and is it safe to use on chest and back also do you think thhis method is risky to use in pubic zone or even on cock shaft. I... (91 words)

When are hugs from another woman mean more than a hug

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (M) age - how to tell when a hug from another woman means more than a hug ... (16 words)

I think my live in boyfriend of 2.5 years has feelings for his co-worker

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend has feelings for a coworker and it's making me feel really insecure. We've lived together for 2.5 years now and talk about getting married. We have an odd relationship because we have very little in common. This coworker is like a CLONE of him. They lik... (212 words)

My best friend knows I'm gay, doesn't like gays but likes me. He's my crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in love with my straight friend He is an older married man that I have worked with for 13 years and we have become best friends, I am in my late 30s and he is about 20 years older than me but from how great of a guy he is and the fact that he is very good looking I h... (517 words)

My friend kissed me and said he'd always love me but I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really confused about something that happened the other day. I am in love with my best friend which he didn't know about till the other day. The reason I hadn't told him was because he means the world to me and I couldn't bear to lose him as a friend. I love him to the ... (580 words)

Are my friends resorting to hidden agendas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I have had a surgery for a tumor recently.When I asked one of my friends last week for a get together lets call her A,she replied that she was too busy though she was coming down to my side of the town today.Today I got a call from one of my other friends at 4:05 lets call her ... (199 words)

My new boyfriend isn't meeting my needs but I'm afraid of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a relationship with a guy for past 4 years but i broke up with him some 8 months ago. I was feeling very lonely and depressed meanwhile a decent guy (who is my friend) approached me, now i am in relationship with this guy for 2 months, he is not satisfying me both ... (104 words)

I don't want to be alone, but I can't be on my toes anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry if this is So long, it is both a rant and a request for advise. Let me start by saying I love my wife very much, and she is the most important thing in the world to me after my kids. I truly believe she is my soulmate. She was also my first love and my only. We'... (620 words)

Does she need me like I need her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi again :) I am a little sad/concerned right now. My girlfriend of 8 months and I always joke around with each other (hence our many problems of me taking a joke too far) and sometimes we are..playful about leaving the other for someone else. (Obviously this wouldn't happen a... (168 words)

Mixed messages from tutor whose behaviour towards me keeps changing. This is the most confusing situation I have ever been in, can you help me figure out what on earth is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Apologies for the really long length of this but I have a question regarding on/off 'mixed message' behaviour going on over a long period of time. I've asked about this before but would like an update please! Please don't judge me as obsessive, I'm honestly not, I just am so ... (1533 words)

Is hair removal cream safe to use on the penis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! Just a quick question about hair removal. I have quite long hairs on the underside of the shaft of my penis. I read this was common in circumsized males when I first noticed them but I would prefer it if I could remove them. So is it safe for me to use hai... (123 words)

Thinking about our previous encounters, could the co-worker I have a crush on feel the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi so my situation is that I have a crush on a female co-worker. I really like her but not sure she feels the same, because our previous encounters with each other I'm not sure she's just being friendly or something else is there. The past have encounters have been like this: ... (154 words)

Anyone know this average?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - What is the average number of men a 26 yr old girl has slept with?... (15 words)

Is he interested in me? He knows my attitude to sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were dating for about a month and made it offical as boyfriend and girlfriend for 3 weeks. I wouldn't have sex with him yet since I thought it was too soon. So he opted to just completely ignore me and he left me for another girl. (who's obviously giving him what he ... (225 words)

Boarding school with my (fresh) ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 6 months recently broke up with me. Her reasoning was that she didn't understand herself - she was going through a whirlwind of emotions and even though we tried having a break, it didn't work out in her end. Obviously I was completely devastated since ... (270 words)

What's the best thing to do in light of what she is saying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone my relationship with my girlfriend ended after a year and a half and now she tells me that she wants me back but the issue is that she says that she's stalling and that her feelings of love have not changed for me (she had a crush on someone else after things ended ... (65 words)

How should I deal with the fact that my sister seems to copy everything I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey This is about my sister. She is 26 and I am 22. We get along really well but lately she has started copying me a lot. I am an introvert, shy and creative. She is all about friends and partying and she's pretty outgoing. But,she latches on to my ideas and because she is t... (227 words)

Do you think I am wasting my time on some-one who is polite but not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Well I am at a loss, I met a girl online, and I think we are connecting. We've talked the past few days sporadically through the day because she's at work and I'm at school. I really like this girl, and haven't felt like this about anyone in a long time, i... (234 words)

FWB occasionally over si years .What did I do to turn him off so fast? And why build up expectations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy who was a friend for a while and became a fwb about 6 years ago. We only would see eachother when not in relationships. I was fine and he was fine and although we have always been attracted to each other, our jobs are different and he has a job (teaching MM... (938 words)

Everything is not Ok. Never had a relationship. Do I need to feel better about me first? Or would the right partner make a difference?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

16 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I know you're not supposed to rely on other people for happiness but I feel like finding that one guy who understands me and clicks with me will help me get out of the slump I've been in for the past years now. It's really hard being gay,closeted and hidden from the world. Y... (226 words)

Is my ex-bf gay, bi or curious? He has never seemed gay earlier and we had a good sex life together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I know no one on here would be able to give me a perfect answer without knowing my ex-bf, lets call him David, but I would just like to know what other people might think about this. So David and I have been dating for 3 years. We both fell head over heels in love wi... (333 words)

Is it my shyness? my insecurity? I have rejected people when they have asked me out. Why can't I meet someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Feeling very down because I see other people my age maturing and getting into relationships. I'm 17 and still haven't properly interacted (i.e dated)with the opposite sex yet. I know there's nothing wrong with that, I am completely normal. I know that there are plenty o... (153 words)

Is he a player? Have I done the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

16 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For convenience, I am going to call the guy Matt. Matt and I got to know each other at the end of September at a house party. We are both on the same course at uni and therefore spend a lot of time together due to being in the same lectures and seminars. In the middle of O... (570 words)