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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do girls like sweetheart guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls like sweetheart guys? I'm still single and I feel like I can't harm anyone, I would drive my girlfriend home from school or work etc. I would pay for meals, when shes cold I would warm her with a nice hug and might even offer her my jacket. I love my family more than ... (117 words)

I still really like my ex ..even though I broke up with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so ive liked this guy(lets jus call him ryan) for a long time but then he asked my friend out. he has a friend(whos a boy called mark) who we used to hang around with too but he was really quite and when ryan broke up with my friend thats when mark started really talking ... (270 words)

Does she want my number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A girl I work with said she thought of something funny to tell me (we often carry on and joke about stuff and make each other laugh a lot) when were not working on a shift together. She said she would have text me the joke but didn't have my cellphone number. Was that just a ... (176 words)

I seen that he has moved on and I smiled. Does that mean I'm over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this a good thing and does it mean i have no feelings or what so ever for this guy anymore. I was on facebook and saw a picture of him and this girl who i assume he is seeing, instead of me wanting that to be me or feeling even a little bit upset that he has moved on from ... (101 words)

I have never been pursued by a guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Through out high school, and now in college, I have watched my friends have guys coming up to them, flirting with them and getting their numbers. This has never happened to me and makes me feel extremely sad, unwanted and lonely. The only two guys I have ever remotely dated ... (233 words)

Why are some people so two faced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

1 October 2011 (?) age 36-40 - There's a woman at work who I thought I got along with quite well. She's always been nice to my face but yesterday after she'd just been talking to me (she doesn't know) I heard her being really mean and bitchy about me. It really as upset me because I've been nothing but nice ... (222 words)

Anyone have any slightly romantic ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! This is going to be short and sweet. Basically, I was going out with a guy, and now I'm not. But we have always sort of been together. He still loves me, and I think I love him too. when we ended it was quite bad, and now he's going away to another country, working... (186 words)

Why is he opening up and telling me things about his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my fwb of about 7 months finally asked me to be his girl. while we were fwb there was one time where he slept with an ex (he never told me who it was) and i found out (by finding her lingerie in his bedroom one night) and i couldnt be really all to mad cuz we were not official ... (159 words)

A friend wasent enough. now I cant even have that

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have a problem i am 15 years old and i have a male friend who is 16 coming 17 he used to have really deep feelings for me and a few months ago i was developing some too. i asked him for some time and in that time another girl at a club we go to asked him out they began to ... (233 words)

Do I stay for the kids or leave for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been togther for almost 9 years. A year and half ago we got in a big fight. he wanted a divorce joined a dating website and everything. We deside to work things out but I found out he never deleated the account, so i did for him. Not long after I found ... (468 words)

Is it my fault that my cousin's heart is broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Please, help me! My cousin, 'Carrie' ,and her ex, 'Jake', started dating because I told Carrie that I thought Jake liked her -- which was true. I did think he liked her, but Jake didn't like Carrie -- he liked me! Yes they broke up, and strangely,... (235 words)

I want my lover to stop seeing everyone but me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age - 15 years ago i had an affair with a married man, it lasted over 3 years and he was the love of my life. it finished when i discovered he was cheating with other women too. i have been in a relationship for 8 years but my partner is always very moody and not at all easy to ... (124 words)

It seems he has feelings for me but he doesn't want to be with anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I still have feelings for the guy i used to be seeing and it hurts because,although it looks like he still has feelings for me,it seems like he only wants to be on friendly terms and doesnt want to be with anyone.how do i get through this ?.... (48 words)

Is it possible for a guy who's been hurt to find love again?

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1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I like a guy who is my dear friend also. He is deeply hurt by a Girlfriend who dumped him 7 months ago. She left him for other guy so he's started to fool around with girls a lot. We even had a little fling in between too not sex but almost. I regret now b/c I think now we had ... (168 words)

My boyfriend dumped me out of the blue

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 and have been in a fabulous relationship of 6 months with my boyfriend. He speed up things since we met by introducing me to his friends and family very quickly, inviting me to go with him to a wedding 3 weeks after our first kiss, making tons of holiday projects with ... (376 words)

Do men really want the same things as women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men really want the same as women? Like settling down have a family, kids etc! I just want that but finding it hard to find! Men I meet just seem to use you take advantage tell u that u are the best thing to happen to them, but they dont want the same things! Im loosing ... (148 words)

Do I give my LDR ex another chance? I've seen a softer side to him now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok sorry if this is long winded. I had a long distance relationship between the uk and us for 2 years. I split up with him a year n half ago because I found out he had cheated on me. I was heartbroken n although he bombarded me with emails, texts n calls apologising, I ... (317 words)

My ex-gilrfriend is creating havoc in my life, what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys I broke with my girlfriend 8 months back, she accused me of cheating having caught me kissing my office colleague on her nose on her birthday there. I don’t think that was cheating since I had no feelings for her. She didn’t let me explain anything and dumped me saying ... (278 words)

I can forgive and forget, but can he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with an ex for 4 years, we split up as we was arguing a lot at the time then he said he didn't love me anymore an to move on. I begged and begged for him to change his mind but nothing. So after so long of rejection I moved on, I didn't intend to be with anyone else ... (327 words)

I'm heading for heartbreak

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you stop falling in love? I,m dating a guy who does NOT want a relationship. I love dating him and I,m starting to fall in love with him. I really need help with this one I,m leading myself to heartbreak what can I do????... (46 words)

My boyfriend told me I need to be more independent.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf were talking about how wish i can be away form my parents,i had had enough with them he told me that i should make more friends because it's kinda weird if i'm with him most of time... my instinct felt weird when he said this so i asked him what's that mean,then h... (190 words)

I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

1 October 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried that she won't want to be my... (72 words)

Is my boyfriend having a secret sex life behind my back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The situation is me and my boyfriend were at his best friends house. Suddenly there was a knock on the door and his friend answers it and steps outside.A minute later my boyfriend gets up and tells me "ill be back" and he goes outside with his friend. I realized he had my cell ... (239 words)

Is my first GF playing around with guys online?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've recently become involved with a girl for about the past 11 months now - She is my first GF and I am her first BF. Things started great at first but as time went on things between us have really become somewhat troublesome...Mainly within the last 2 or so months. She ... (1229 words)

This girl asked that my best friend stop hanging around so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So I don't really know what to do, now. I really like her and I genuinely think she's sweet and cute and all, but there's this nagging feeling always in the back of my mind. She hasn't had a good history with boys, because all the guys in her crowd go for the super-hot-sluts ... (356 words)

I used to be bullied and vowed to never do the same but these two classmates are making it really hard!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 2 classmates that annoy me to no end. I'm not the only one who feels this way; they're basically outcasts to the class. Now, I used to be bullied when I was in highschool. Not the usual stuff everyone deals with some time in their lives, but real misery. So I know what ... (818 words)

I'm angry that I was so kind to this man and he doesn't appreciate it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I ended my relationship with my boyfriend six wks ago because we wanted different things! He doesnt want anymore kids, he has one son from a previous relationship! Doesnt believe in marriage! And wont ever move from his house which is half hr away! Even though hes quite happy ... (213 words)

Superficial Relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to carry bitterness for someone and yet have a superficially working and acceptable relationship with them? I have known people who talk bad about someone on one hand and then when they come in contact with that person, they become all-so-nice to them as if they ... (101 words)

One step at a time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, i am 16 and have been dating my boyfriend for the past two months, recently, he had stayed at my house for the first time and we shared a bed... But we had a feel up, we were both really nervous, but it felt really good i am his first gf and he is still a virgin, but im n... (113 words)

Help needed in the bedroom zone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 years and have 2 kids. Everything seems to be going on fine except in the bedroom. I have spoken to him,guided him, given him books to read and don't know what more I can do. He's simply just not up for it. Sometimes I wish he was on this site so he c... (153 words)

What to do when you're a lesbian dating a guy, confused and 22 weeks pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for 3mos before I got pregnant. I'm 22 weeks now and I have mixed feelings about him. He was the first guy I've dated and spent a lot of time with in 7 yrs since I've been dating women exclusively. I have feelings for my ex gf but she's moved on and I'm ... (207 words)

My HUSBAND was interviewed, but I saw that he kept looking in the direction where girls were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - he is a theater actor and was interviewed at a talk show. i noticed that he was frequently looking the direction where many girls were sitting there were men too but the staring became too noticeable. i saw that he kept looking in the other direction even while answerin... (113 words)

Are some people meant to be together because of coincidence and fate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i really wanted to know if there is such thing as fate, or coincidence,as people called them. so,ok there is this guy in my school. he's one year above me. its been 4 weeks into a new year in my school. i really don't know him at all; he is another stranger and a new stud... (595 words)

I can't sleep!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - why am i not sleeping? im 21years old and married with a 21month old son. Since wednesday iv not been sleeping properly, i think iv had 3hours sleep since wednesday, i am so fustrated! im so tired yet i cant sleep. yesterday i was so tired but i kept my self awake and went to ... (161 words)

Do guys like this ever really change into being good boyfriend material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a first date a few days ago with somebody who really feels right for me in a lot of ways. I'm not sure why,because he's not what I would have called "the guy I'm looking for." Just something feels right about him. He's a little outlandish,and at first I was thin... (360 words)

Since starting birth control pills, she's changed! I'm afraid I'll have to break up with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has been on (Yaz or whatever) Birthcontrol for atleast the past 5 months. In the begining of our relationship, about last july, we had alot of sex, about 3 times a day, it has recently in the last few months, since she has been on birth control, it has decrease... (395 words)

I thought I would enjoy having him play with my breasts, but I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this is so weird! i'm in a long distance relationship...but that's not what this question is about. when i visited my boyfriend last, we finally took the plunge and had sex. we gave our virginity to each other,so sweet right? but my question is this: when boyfriend sucks my ... (106 words)

Why does my ex get to be happy and in a relationship while I am still alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex just over a year ago now, we were together for 5 years before that and I miss him all the time. He had an emotional affair and wanted 'a break', which made me question everything after 5 years of being together, so I told him that it was best that we broke ... (551 words)

Did a sex worker give me an STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! Three days ago I spent some quality time with a sex worker. It was my first time and I enjoyed every moment of it. On the other hand I might have caught something from her. We used a condom during the sex, but (unfortunately) we didn't use it during oral. The nex... (155 words)

Mini-survey for girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - 1 – How on earth am I supposed to introduce myself to a girl without it being a completely humiliating and regrettable experience, especially in a bar? What’s an opening that is likely to hold your attention – interesting without being corny? 2 – Is there any chance whatsoeve... (207 words)

Pick between the two!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If you were a man looking for a women and her sexual past was a key indication on if you would take the relationship seriously. Would you pick a girl that had 0-1 previous partners or 2+. They are both very nice and intelligent. Would you take a girl that already knew what to ... (125 words)

He has commitment issues now that I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4584 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm 32 weeks pregnant expecting a little boy. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Our little boy was unplanned but we're both excited. My boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter who I have raised and learned to love as if she is my own. I wasn't planning on having kids; ... (295 words)

Why did he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just started my final year of university and for the most part of the past 2 years (when i started) I have been literally THE closest of close friends with a guy I met on my course. (guy A) long story short; in the beginning we really liked each other and ended up toget... (689 words)

I'm surrounded by couples but I have never had a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really frustrated. I'm surrounded by couples everywhere. I'm friends with alot of couples and sometimes I feel awkward. I've never kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. One time, all of my friends were sitting around talking about their first kiss and I just felt isolated and ... (121 words)

He broke up with me suddenly and says he "can't love again"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when the one you love don't want you anymore? ? I love my ex boyfriend so much.. I've never felt like that about any one like I do him. We were good when we were together, he was so sweet, so loving, caring he told me he loved me and I felt his love. ... (172 words)

Need to fix my dating before its too late!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 October 2011 (M)

- Hi guys, Just wandered if any of you can help with my dating. I’m 33 and still looking for love. I don’t have much of a social circle anymore so am relying on internet dating, and dates are few and far between. When I do meet, there always seems to be chemistry on the... (206 words)