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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you fall in love with someone you've never met before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So some of you may know me, I've posted a few questions about my relationship with my bf of 5 years. Well he is no longer my bf. We broke up about 3 weeks ago. It is kind of an awkward situation though because we still live together. This is because I have no where else to go ... (341 words)

Love my b/f, hate his parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, we love each other very much and i'm very attached to him! The only thing getting on my nerves at the moment are his parents! They are nice people but they are just so annoying. His mum is a bit older and had my boyfriend when s... (467 words)

I fall too fast

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have this thing in that I fall for girls really easily and it is really annoying, by this I mean that within the first 2 meetings with someone I find myself thinking about them all the time and really liking them. Also like just being really close for about 30 ... (106 words)

Was she really into me at all? And am I just using these girls and my emotions as a means to drown my sorrow?

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6 November 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Mod Note: two questions combined as one with the suggested title provided by the OP for the second question also included as it provided new info. My girlfriend (just recently became my EX) told me in a text message last night that "I think we should be just friends. I had th... (192 words)

Has anyone else has had an experience or knows anything about Microgynon 30 increasing pain and breast volume?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm on my second tray of Microgynon 30 pills and for the last few days my breasts have been incredibly painful and my bras have been feeling tight and restrictive. I was a 34B last time I was measured and have been a 34B since the age of 14 (I'm 16 now). Just wondering if any... (76 words)

How will I ever get over this affair...please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year I had an affair with a married woman,(she is married to a male)and has children. I am a 27 year old woman myself who thought i was heterosexual but had very strong feelings for this person, and it is something that happened because we were close friends years before ... (283 words)

Is this a dumb way to tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am absolutely in love with this one boy. I am going to tell him how I feel but not straight up. What I am planning on saying is "I love the way I could be having the worst day if my life and simply talking you changes my mood." So my question is, do you think th... (76 words)

How to meet gay women and what date sites to use?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im a single gay woman who is boyish type and likes boyish or butch type women but unsure how to meet anyone as a friend or more. can anyone help me with these quesions i have. 1. are there any free date sites only that are good to meet gay women that you do not pay for at all. ... (122 words)

I'm falling for him, how do I know if he feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been friends with a guy for years. Lately, we can spend hours (literally, 12-13 hours at a time) just sitting and talking without noticing the time pass and then I don't want to go home. Everything makes me think of him. You can probably guess where this is heading.. ... (97 words)

I donated a kidney for love, how do I tell my parents back home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am form Pakistan but currently on visit visa in States. On third day of my visit, two months back, I went to strip dance club and fell in love with striptease dancer who was beautiful beyond description. After meeting her, for next two weeks, I was running like crazy ... (338 words)

How do I deal with loneliness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi .how can i manage the loniliness of a long distance relationship.my husband has been away for two whole months. I feel lonely.... (23 words)

Love bites or hickeys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i was writing to get some tips. i'm 15 and it seems alot of people my age are giving 'hichys' or love bites to their partners. and that's what i'm worried about the thing is i don't know how to give them :S. i'm worried about doing it wrong when the time comes or even ... (67 words)

How did he move on so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I were seeing each other for almost 5 months. Everything was going very well, we were compatible, we had great chemistry, we both made each other laugh and enjoyed each others company. He even introduced me to his mom. But he decided to end it all of a sudden ... (467 words)

I cheated to find out if I really love my girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is a pretty big problem. Me and my gf have been together for 7 months now. Well the 7th Month was the shittiest ever. We had no sex what so ever and she was totally strange the whole time. We can only see eachother on the weekends because she lives pretty far away and ... (281 words)

Is this guy genuine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there i'm in a bit of a dilema..i think. I'm a 19 year old female who started seeing a 24 year old male in April. We met at a nightclub i was outside in the smoking area with a friend when he walked past also with a friend. He stared at me as he walked past then came bac... (882 words)

Contraception advice, anyone?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or use an IUD. The thing... (190 words)

I invited a man with me home, and now I'm worried he's watching me since he knows where I live!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm actually very worried now, this guy i met last night he came back to my flat and we didn't sleep together. We just made out a lot and then he slept in the same bed as me since it was late.. Well, I was talking to my mum today about it, but said it indirectly so she assumed ... (247 words)

How do I ask her to be fwb?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all,so my question is... How do I ask a girl to be a "fwb" I'm asking cause she said something to me about being fwb,but at the time I said I didn't want to,well now I would like very much to have this situation with her, but I don't know how to ask her since I said... (103 words)

Should I get a nose job when I am older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I know my questions are always kind of superficial. I am young! I don't have very many deep issues in my life right now. But I have this persistant thought at the back of my head all the time, and it is this: Should I get a nose job when I am older? Wait! Don't ... (126 words)

Need help with online dating.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Has anyone got experience of on line dating? I have met 3,but they have all been less than truthful. Professional was unemployed. Had 1 child was really 4. Single turned out to be in a relationship who enjoyed the thrill. Does it ever get better?... (45 words)

I have no clue what it's like to date, and I am still a virgin! Will I ever find love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So here is the results,once again in 2011 I still haven't had any luck with girls,still don't have a clue what its like to be dating,be in a relationship or being loved,and yes I'm still a virgin.. you know its really hard to be in love alone and longing for people who don't ... (200 words)

Should I take this shop away from under my ex before me makes an offer on it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I asked a question here several weeks ago about my bf and i looking into buying a business together, but when i found a bargain of a little shop to take on and set up a small takeaway, he automatically decided he could run it himself because he says it wouldnt generate... (209 words)

Is my hiv risk high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago I had unprotected sex with a guy who possibly has multiple partners. however, he said he's clean. 4 days later i had unprotected sex again with another guy. is my hiv risk high?... (36 words)

Great friends, always liked each other, finally we are both single and now he doesn't know what he wants after all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4551 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for over two years now, and we've always been really great friends. He's been my support board through the thick and thin and I honestly can't imagine what I'd do if i never met him. Well the truth is, we've always secretly had feelings for each other, but ... (770 words)

Can you get sick from giving blowjobs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2667 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, so im going to go sraight to the point, i gave my boyfriend a blow job, he asked first and i said no but he kept asking and i gave in i didnt do it for long at all he deffinitley didnt ejaculate because i told him i didnt want him too in my mouth. Now i feel sick and its ... (98 words)

how can I overcome my embarassment about having sex? I fear my lover's reaction on finding I am not well endowed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship, but my penis is very small. I fear to have sex because I fear to get embarrased before my lover. What should I do?... (29 words)

He promised he'd divorce, but never intended to! How do I show him my life is better without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a married guy for two years.His wife of 10 years could not conceive due to some health problems.So he approached and told me he would leave his wife for me.he caimed they had discussed about it and he was ready for it.I gave in and I have been ... (372 words)

My boyfriend didn't talk to me at his birthday-party! Did I overreact?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It was my boyfriend's birthday and he invited a lot of friends to his house. The problem is he stopped to chat with everyone but me and that got me really upset. He often looked at me to see if I was doing ok, but I kinda missed him and started thinking that it would make ... (343 words)

My father left when I was three and I just can't cope it with anymore. Not sure if I could be facing depression.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents got divorced when I was 3, he moved back home to Ireland, I don't actually have any memories with him, I remember the last day I saw him, at the airport saying goodbye, but I don't actually remember him being there. It never bothered me as a child, it was always just ... (917 words)

How do I reveal that I told a lie at the start? I don't want to ruin our marriage plans for next year.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I need some advice.. I'm a bit ashamed about this but when I first started seeing my boyfriend over a year and a half ago, I told him I went out with one of my brothers friends before him. I only said this as I felt ashamed that I hadn't had a 'serious boyfriend' in a ... (148 words)

This guy should come with a warning label!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - So I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. He's 55, I'm 42. I got divorced a year ago after 15 years of marriage and haven't dated or had sex with anyone at all during this mourning period. The guy I'm dating at first claimed he had just broken off a 4 year live-in ... (1583 words)

FWB: do any of you think that we will ever be together properly? Or am I wasting my time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is my situation I have been in a fwb sort of situation for about 8 months now. Naturally I want more than this. So to find out how he really felt about me I made him jealous he came around one morning and I told him I had a date coming round later on that day.... (244 words)

Have I jeopardized my chances with a really amazing person, because of my one night with another girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Last week wednesday I went on a night out with my friends from university. We ran into another group from our college at the club and got chatting to them and to cut to the chase, being very drunk I ended up getting then going home with one of the girls - I was extremely drunk, ... (216 words)

I do not know her father's name. Should I leave that blank on the form? Or put my new boyfriend's name on the pre-school form as "father" to avoid questions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

6 November 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I was raped nearly 3 years ago by a disgusting guy at a friends party. I didnt know who he was and still dont. What he did to me was awful but it had a hidden blessing. It created a beautiful baby girl who i love to bits. I decided to keep the baby and it was the right thin... (161 words)

My boyfriend's ex-wife would like to re-establish more contact with my daughter. She is childless, what should we talk about to lessen any tension. He ex is not the father of my daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Im the proud mum of a beautiful almost 2 year old girl who i love to death. Her godparents are my colleague (and now boyfriend) X and his now ex wife Y . As they couldn't have children of their own my daughter became like a daughter to them and they would babysit her twice as... (261 words)

I'm in USA and he's in Australia. Should I try to bring this LDR relationship back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Broke up with my LDR boyfriend of 1.5 years a couple months ago. Still love him, but he's being distant. Should I try to bring the relationship back? I was in a LDR for a year and a half and we broke up 2 months ago. I live in the US and he lives in Australia. He visited ... (650 words)

I'm still attracted to him and want to resume the affair. But how do I handle the fact that he also wants me to tell my husband who is really the father of our child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an affair with a man who is a friend of an old fling of mine from the past. Plus he’s now married. He was from my home back in One state, and I had moved to another state. We bumped into each other one evening while he was having drinks with his associates. Afte... (259 words)

Thinking of asking this guy if he'll be my first kiss? What do I say to him? How do I ask him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my late 20s n never kissed a guy. I've waited my whole life for this one perfect kiss and guy and have well outpassed my expected timeframe. I really wanted to get this first before my next birthday, and before the new year. I talk to this guy about some issues ive ... (108 words)

My girlfriend could be jealous of my creative mind

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with this girl for the last 5 years . We graduated from the same university but she was one year junior to me. She is pretty and loving girl . She is from middle class and I am from extremely rich family. She has a good job and I am taking care of my ... (206 words)

My wife is lazy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a couple of years now and most things are fine but I find my wife is lazy. This laziness does not extend to her work, as she works very hard and for long hours (we both do), its every other aspect of our lives she is lazy. I find around the house she ... (279 words)

Has this run it's course? Lately, it's almost like we can't be in the same room without fighting.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. First of all, I'm gay and I've been in a relationship with a really great guy for 8 months. Unfortunately, he and I have been fighting a lot lately and I don't know what to do to bring us back to normal. Even though I'm gay, I'm a pretty traditional and hoplessly roma... (308 words)

I want to stay faithful. How can I control my attraction to this other gorgeous gal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Thank you for listening. I have a major problem. I have been with this girl for a few months and I like her a lot. She doesnt trust people often and is happy with me. I take pride in keeping her happy and she loves that. The problem is, I met this girl at my university who is d... (108 words)

I think my boyfriend is becoming a mysognist (hate women).Any ideas why he has suddenly become like this? Can I change his mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, some advice please. My boyfriend has always been slightly sexist- men do this better, women shouldn't do that job, etc. It never caused a problem between us, and sometimes was rather sweet when he would act really chivalrous. However this seems to have progressed into ... (340 words)

Poll: What do you believe is synonymous with losing your virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I want to know. I randomly thought of this today, and I wanted to hear everyones opinion on this, because I'm interested in what other people think. What, in your mind, is the loss of virginity? For girls: Is it breaking your hymen? Is it having someone elses fing... (149 words)

I can't help feeling like there's someone better for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I are in love with each other, I know that for a fact. But today she was telling me she doesn't see the point in living, and that it was all so boring. She's told me I'm one of the reasons she's still here, but I can't help feeling like there's someone out ... (70 words)

Change a bad boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i dont know how to make my boyfriend change! we have been dating for a year now and...well he cheated on me like 9 months into it and i forgave him because of the situation its a long story. but my current problem is he doesn't treat me well and i know that he can.. it's his ... (149 words)

Is this a tactic of a womanizer to get yet another woman in his string?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I would really appreciate advise from people who know about womanizers/players. I met my ex boyfriend four years ago. When we first met he was very intense and started talking about marriage very quickly. He seemed to fall in love with me much faster than I did but I grew to ... (453 words)

What's happening to me? I get this warm fuzzy feeling when she is there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at school and she is really pretty. We have a lot in common. When ever I see her I get a warm fuzzy new feeling. I feel really shy around her. My face feel hot and I notice my cheeks get red. Whats happening to me? Why am I feeling this way? ... (56 words)

By having a dream about this guy, does that mean I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have been talking to this guy, L, quite a bit lately. He's called me a few times and we sit at the same table at lunch now. Last night, i had a dream that i kissed him. I remembered it really vividly at first, but now all i can remember is we were talking, and his face ... (109 words)

My girlfriend gets angry when I mention things I want to do. How can I cope better with her reactions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi.. My name is Chris and i am 23 years old.. i have a girlfriend for 1 year and 3 months.. we are happy and in love.. sometimes i feel like i cannot do anything else than seeing her..i feel like i cannot watch soccer or generally do anything else..i told her that i feel like ... (198 words)

Is my sister taking advantage of my late cousin's husband? Is it OK for them to date just one year after my cousin passing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My cousin died of cancer one year ago at the age of 46. She was married for 14 years to a wonderful man (whom I will call "Bill"). They decided not to have kids because she was diagnosed with cancer at the beginning of their marriage, but were inseparable and loved each other ... (168 words)