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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I couldn't see my way to trust hi... (444 words)

I've been a supportive husband to my EXTREMELY accident-prone wife-what are my options in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age - In 15 years of marriage,( second marriage for both of us ), my wife has been sick or injured more times than I can count. Car wrecks, falling down stairs, back injuries, broken legs, hips, collar bones, arms, wrists, and even a concusion that resulted in a 8 day coma. A... (111 words)

I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote a question about bisexuality ... (200 words)

Does he want me back? He told me by msg to delete him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating guy for 3 months. Every thing was great until one day he sent me a msg saying i think it would easy if you delete my number ok because i have 2 cancel a date the same day because my was dad taken to hospital so i went to see him so i deleted his number then he ... (110 words)

I cut off all contact with my best friend, but I still miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this may seem like a stupid question, as it's kind of through my own doing. I recently fell out with my male best friend,strictly platonic, well not recently around four months ago lets just say? from speaking every day, this is the longest we've gone without spea... (341 words)

Caught between two friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts I have a huge problem.I was recently going through sum heavy things at home.my mom broke her leg in 2 places due 2 old age,so I have been taking care of her every need,then within a 2 weeks of that my sister had kidney faillure and she moved back home too me... (331 words)

Should I move on or wait for my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my bf and I decided to split cuzz im 16 and he 21. Its safer. I love him alot, I would do anything for him! We planned on gettn back together when I turn 18, we still see each other and call each other! Just like were still dating. But I dnt wanna wait to be with him. Its ... (92 words)

Why would a guy ignore you but freak out about what you think of him?! Any help appreciated! :)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've had an on again off again "relationship" with for four years. (Think Chuck and Blair minus the sex). His "friends" do some nasty shit, and I've cautioned him about getting involved so they pressure him to avoid me, which he does. He's hesitant to spea... (194 words)

My girlfriend fantasizes about women and lesbian sex. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is bisexual. And I'm a male. We have the best sex and she always convinces me we have the most wonderful sex, and it really is. But one time she mentioned she missed the lesbian sex and that she fantasised about women while masturbating. We kind of laughed ... (82 words)

I love my student and cant tell him, what should I do to let him know

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old , works as a lecturer in institute , i am gay and i love my students who is 27 years old, he is always in my mind , i wait the class just to see him , but he seems to be straight and not even interested in me , he doesn't attend my classes regularly , when he ... (205 words)

Why my ex is rude to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been together with my ex for 1.5 year and it was the very first serious love for both of us. He broke up with me because he said it was too serious right now and he doesn't know what is gonna be in the future...he's now in a relationship with another girl, but according to ... (133 words)

Technique of sex with elder lady

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am going to have sex with a lady elder to me by three years..she is 44. I want to know how should i go about it all the way from beginning (kissing) to end (till she is complete). And what should i do if i come early, then what should i do ?...so that i can satisfy her and ... (67 words)

How to ask a girl for her number at the mall?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i was walking at the mall with my buddies recently and i saw a really cute girl walking around. We made eye contact and i noticed she was gazing at me and smiling. I wanted to ask for her number but i didnt really know how to approach a total stranger. I feel as ... (89 words)

Can't get alone with my girlfriend, how can I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have an issue. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while and we very mych love each other. We are sexually active and have been for a month or two. Now I'm sure you understand that two people in love like to be alone every now and then. The only problem is, we ... (302 words)

My girlfriend has an obsession and a bad friend, how can I help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. My girlfriend and I are very much in love. We've been dating for about 2 years. We agree that we'd do almost anything for eachother, or give our lives for eachother and everything. I have one complaint though, her "best friend". There is a girl she considers her "best ... (404 words)

My husband is always on xbox and I am ready to leave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I have a problem. My marriage is on the rocks it first started a couple of years ago when out teenage daughter was off the rails which resulted in her drinking getting in trouble with the police everyday she has calmed down now and moved in with my mum and we all g... (167 words)

My b/f wants me to finger myself in front of him and I don't feel too good about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to finger myself but i dunno what to do as i feel embarrassed even when he talks about it, im 18 years old and my boyfriend is 17 years old, we have slept together and i am now pregnant but still i dont know what to do, when we slept together we both ... (85 words)

I thought I did something thoughtful but I think I scared him off!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So the past month I have seen this guy at the bar I go to, to start with it was just a casual look at me but in the last two weeks he stares at me and when he sees me holds my gaze and i thought he was interested. Last night when no one was watching he turned around an... (328 words)

Who is bothering my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Lately,there has been this person on facebook talking to my friend trying to make my friend admit she hates me. Friend emails me with a plan to get rid of her and tells me to go along with it. I tell her okay i will if this person sends me a message. So to get rid of this ... (178 words)

Does he want me to text him or is he losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I knew this boy for about 3and a half weeks now we went on a date to the movies everything went great. We Hugged and cuddle he kept staring into my eyes I spoke to his cousin he even said I'm going to meet his cousins one day and we kissed. After the date he told me he had ... (204 words)

Ok is he flirting with me or friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, basically in August i ended my relationship with my ex who i had been with for 1 year 3 months ( he was cheating on me). But regarding this question, There's a guy at uni who is about 28-30 i'm 21...he's a quiet guy but i talk to him and now slowly we get talking alot... (178 words)

Is boarding school the right thing in this circumstance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently my wife and eldest daughter died in a car crash and i was left on my own with a 14 yr old daughter. her mum used to work at her current school and her sister went to the sixth form there and shes told me that she dosent want to go there anymore so i looked at other ... (134 words)

How do I convince my ex that his online relationship counts as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I found out my boyfriend was cheating emotionally with this girl who lives on the opposite side of the country. But they skyped together so to me that distance doesnt mean anything. I sent him a text telling him I knew about his relationship with her and that if he wants he... (189 words)

I found her again...on campus! What's my next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently at University at the moment. Just walking around the campus on my way home with my friend, I saw this radiant girl i remember talking to at a club about a week ago but i was so star struck by her i forgot to ask for her name/number or if she'd like to see me ... (251 words)

My wife's flirting with my younger brother enhances our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife flirts with my younger brother. as we are in an open relationship, we talk and I know it all. when she talk this things we come to good mood and end up sex. such way I feel the way she behave helps our sex life shine. is it harmless otherwise? ... (54 words)

Is it possible to have sex four or five times in one night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was having a lighthearted chat with my boyfriend this morning about first-time sex. I'm a virgin, he's not, and after almost a year together we're planning to go through with it soon. So we were talking about condoms etc. and to cut a long story short, it came to a point wh... (131 words)

LD Boyfriend takes snapshots of me on skype.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I just found out recently that my boyfriend takes snapshots of me while we talk on Skype. He did that for every time we talked on Skype, we are in a long distance relationship. And he took SO MANY like really TOO MUCH pictures. He just showed them to me saying that he... (70 words)

Texting time... why does he take forever to reply!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off right away. Since then, he's text me without fail everyday, which is good as usually guys trail off after a few days! The only thing which confuses me, is how long he takes to reply to each text! Usually an hour, or half an ... (161 words)

Afternoon to evening outfit....what should I wear?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone. This isnt much of a problem, i just need advice. I'm going out on Sunday to some bars, but i am meeting up with my friend in the afternoon, and we may be out until the evening, and i'm not sure what to wear. I don't want to look too casual, but i don't know if i ... (165 words)

How can you tell if you 'squirt' during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit of a strange question, and i'm not sure if anyone can actually answer, but it's worth a shot i guess. A few years ago, someone once told me that i 'squirt' during sex. I know what squirting is, but no-one else has ever told me this before. Question is, ho... (74 words)

Weird sex position... is it a fantasy or does it just feel good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has expressed some out there ideas in the bedroom like sharing me with another guy or a threesome with another girl because he was unsure about being in a monogamous relationship. He has changed his ideas now though and we have sorted through these fantasizes.. he ... (220 words)

Advice on surrogacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife no longer has her womb, but still has fertile eggs. She has three children from a previous marriage. I have no children and so much want one child. We are not rich or anything, and have researched surrogacy. Are there any agencies or contacts that can help? I will ... (81 words)

Can my ex take me to court and get custody of our son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. When I was four months pregnant I left my son's biological father because he forced himself on me sexually and used to hit me. After we split I tried to be civil with him for our son's sake. Well sometime later we got into a big fight because he did not like ... (430 words)

Who's in the wrong here and what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone what do you think about this situation and who is in the wrong here? my fwb and I have been having sex for 8 months now, I really like him and I thought he did me. we both agreed not to have sex with anyone else, he is a bouncer so I know he has plenty of opportun... (408 words)

Should I wait like a lady for my boyfriend to pick me up like my mum says?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My bf of 2 years has night shifts and at the end of the week, I usually drive over to his house and wake him up because he is capable of sleeping till night time (cause of his night shifts)... Well I never saw anything wrong with that cause if we go anywhere we only use his car ... (142 words)

Is sex outside the marriage infidelity when it's a 5 year plus sexless marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age - I have a very long term friendship with a woman. Her marriage has been dead for many years but stays because of her high school children and financial reasons. My marriage has been over for 10 years. During coffee last week , sex became a topic. She said she hasn't had sex in ... (161 words)

How can I put all my troubles aside so I can be more level headed and happy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im no longer the girl he fell in love with. Ive known my boyfriend for years, we became very good friends at uni then we became a couple about 9 months ago. I have always been a happy sunshine positive person and that is what he knew me as. However the last, I would says 4 o... (547 words)

How should I tell my parents I want a tattoo without them getting mad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles My national exams are ending soon and I wanted to get a tattoo to remember the long journey I've been through throughout the course of my studies before I enter university. I've always liked tattoos and I guess it's a good way to end off my national... (196 words)

He gets too nervous to have sex. What can I do to help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got together with this guy. He's older than me by 3 and a bit years and lives away so whenever he comes to visit we get physical. Our first time was amazing. He did go soft twice but he got it back and later he confessed it was his first time. Which explained ... (255 words)

Is it ok to date a friend's daughter?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age - I was having a conversation the other day about morals, and the person asked me if I thought it was ok to date a friend's daughter. We didn't go into depth in terms of which friend, how long you'd known them, etc. personally, I couldn't see a problem with it, even assuming... (120 words)

My wife stares at other men when we are out together. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is 10 years younger than me. I'm 38 and when we go out I find her staring at other men. I try to tell her it bothers me but she just denies it. Should i even bother going on in this relationship?... (44 words)

Health problems and being teased about it. Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a question about love or anything but I could use the help. Sorry for the length of it in advance but please!! When I was little my bestfriend’s brother had this friend who was horrible, he always picked on me because I have red hair and because I’m fat…then I m... (785 words)

My depressive ex gf is really confusing me. Any opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Ex and me was engaged and been together for 5 but had a LDR. ANW she left me two days after she bought her dress for the engagement. I tried everything , even showing up on her door step 3000 miles away with flowers. Nothing. I stopped calling and trying the last ... (184 words)

Whats the best way to over come lust and temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Whats the best way to over come lust and temptation? Even though I have chosen the single life, it seems that temptation is always around the corner and I get the urge to want sex. Iam a virgin so it makes things 100 times worse and im not religious but I have morals and want ... (126 words)

No matter how much I ignore him I cant get over him! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still in love with my ex who dumped me 3 months ago. I have to see him every day, and I cannot seem to get over him. He turned his emotions off like a switch and just wanted to be friends. I said no, I needed time to not talk. And we havn't talked or even really looked at ... (154 words)

How can I best support her? She says she feels smothered. Now she only wants companionship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age - I'm a 56 year old male in a relationship with a 54 year old divorced women. She was raped repeatedly when she was 15 , by her step father. She also suffered other trauma through the years. Ex husband hit her with a belt, ex boy friend infected her with herpes. She is current... (125 words)

Should a girl ever truly trust a man 100 per cent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering should you ever trust a man 100% or give your love 100%. I am 25 good looking and have two degrees but recently I find it hard to be in a relationship or even wonder if a man is ever worth giving your all. I was in a five year relatiobhip and it was emot... (131 words)

LDR: Too soon to move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm crazy about this guy, he definitely caught me off guard and now I'm head over heels for him. We've been dating 5 months known each other for 6; We met at work and we've been through some rough spots (job loss and rehab) and we came out better and stronger in the end. ... (198 words)

How can I tell if he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy who is in my grade at my school, we hang out just the two of us a lot and do stuff most couples do and it makes me feel like we are a couple. He hasn't asked me out but I like him, he has said before that he liked someone else but hasn't talked about it recently, ... (100 words)

I miss him terribly, how can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Today would be my ex and I's one year 4 month anniversary and I miss him horribly. He has said he still loves me, but doesn't like me, to his best friend, who is also a very close friend of mine. How can I get him back? ... (47 words)

He's telling me he has commitment problems, how can I make him comfortable in our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently just started dating this boy. It's been about a week we've been dating. The second day of our relationship he told me he wasn't good with relationships and dealing with it, as well he said he had commitment problems. When he said this I asked him if he had any ... (129 words)

Am I wrong for telling this guy to delete my number?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone ... Happy Thanksgiving :D I have a question, am I wrong for ending things with him? I've been talking to This Guy.. he's 25 I'm 20. I don't date guys with kids because its way too much drama for me. But I gave him a chance, as long as I don't see drama. Plus I do... (316 words)

I feel as though he is just using me but I want to make things work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i move on? ignore it? or just go with the flow? here's the situation.. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 years (on and off) during the time that we broke up we had other partners but it did'nt last long because we really wanted to be with each other.. t... (669 words)

Why did my boyfriend's sex drive plummet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really don't get this. My boyfriend became impotent overnight.He had very high sex drive, and ready for sex anytime. Now when ever we want to have sex, what is less and less,he is losing his erections right after he would enter. So we can't have sex. I can't understand thi... (75 words)

Since he defends my honor, does that mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

25 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm a gay (closeted) male in my sophomore year in high school. There is this really cute guy in my class and I think he might like me but I'm not sure. We are not the closet friends but he often tries to talk to me. On occasion he also touches me on my leg or on my back. ... (135 words)

His flirtatious behaviour and sexual conversations with other girls really hurts me. Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I'd like to thank anyone who takes the time to read my question in advance. You see, there is this guy, my ex. We dated for 6 months and had a relationship that was all I had ever wanted. He was honest, caring, understanding and just fun to be around. A few months ... (449 words)

How do I lessen the pain for my first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16, and I've recently watched my first porn videos (just like 4 or so), but I stopped quickly because I felt so bad for watching them, like I've done something I wasn't supposed to. I feel like I did something wrong, and I'm really embarrassed for even admitting my secret. ... (198 words)

Is he just saying he likes me, for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really hope you can help me with this as it has being going on since march. I met a guy really liked him he said he just wanted sex ,which I was fine with at first but then my feelings started getting deeper for him. I told him this he said he didn't want a relation... (190 words)