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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think he even cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - It all started when we started dating in January, I found out he was friends with this girl named Janai. She would call him Joshiebear, write little “cute” posts on his wall everyday, saying she loved him and asking when he would come visit her. I asked him why she called him ... (456 words)

With my low confidence, how can I find out if I stand a chance with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my situation is very simple. Right now, I fancy a girl who is a year above me and therefore we only see each other during lunch, breakfast and dinner. I think she kind of like me too but can't be sure since I couldn't find a way to know. None of her friends have giv... (197 words)

My long distance boyfriend told me not to miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I guess I made him angry or sad because when he was going to go out to have lunch, I told him in a happy way "have fun" and he said that I seem to be happy not to talk to him, which isn't true. he also told me he wants me to talk to him at nighttime there like how ... (230 words)

Is it possible to love someone you don't have (on paper) a lot in common with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I'm 23 and just need a bit of an unbiased ear. I'll try to keep this short but basically in August I asked my guy friend out. He had been single for 6 years and me for 3, we'd v=been flatmates for a year and although very different, grew attracted to each other. At times, ... (398 words)

He called it off, but now contacts me. What does he want??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been going out with my bf for almost two months and a couple of weeks ago he broke things off with me. He said that he thinks we are better off friends, but since then he has been texting me all day and will invite me over to his house. And one night we got intimate. I... (81 words)

I wanted more, but got a casual relationship, and now I feel like a mug. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I feel like a complete mug! I got with this guy, from day 1 he chased me and I had never had a boyfriend before so I was flattered by the attention, automatically we talke more and more, he seemed more and more interested and it was becoming clear to everyone, this all happen ... (298 words)

Why does my girlfriend insist on including her ex boyfriend in everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is simple: I hate that my girlfriend is friends with her ex boyfriend. They were together for 5 years and I understand how that's important and that they learned a lot from each other, and I've reached a point where I'm actually okay with them being friends. What ... (430 words)

Is my mind playing a trick on me or am I becoming bisexual?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old male and I'm very interested in women. I don't want to kiss, have sex, a romantic and sexual relationship with someone the same sex. Sometimes when I look at another male, something in my head is telling me that I'm attracted to him. I never feel turned on at ... (74 words)

His text left me confused! What do you think he meant by this?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi - it is official i hate texting !!! This guy and i went out a couple of times and we slept together. Always initiated by him. I texted him asking to go out for drinks and he replied something VERY confusing: "i have to go out with some collegues .. i would like to meet up ... (177 words)

Should I not come first since I am his finace? He wants to see his relatives instead of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance is deployed at the moment. He got deployed in June and he leaves to go on his r and r in January. He is supposed to be coming to see me and my son for the 2 weeks, but now he is talking about going to Africa(where he is originally from) to see some of his relatives. ... (126 words)

Should I act like I'm interested in my ex girlfriend at the party tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I would like to first thank everyone who read my question and I definetely appreciate your time to read about my problems. It means alot. Ok so I recently decided to go in on a partnership on a party that my brother and nephew are throwing tomorrow. And we invited a ton ... (456 words)

No emotional bond in my marriage and my in laws hate me. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been married for 3 yrs with 12 month old baby girl, my inlaws hates me and my husband is not standing for me,he's always on the side of his family whenever we traveled to the family house,the last time we traveled i was humiliated, rejected and dejected. things were ... (167 words)

Who is in the wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for about 18 years. We have 2 children. i want to know if he is doing wrong or if i am doing wrong......we both live together in a small house, he always works(he works almost everyday but i only work once every 2 weeks because i have to take care of ... (467 words)

His new girlfriend is always telling me they are getting married, so why is my ex calling me from prison telling me he misses me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my ex and I broke up about 8 months ago since then he got a new girlfriend and they have been dating for 8 months now she 17 and he's 21. Everytime I see her all she does is brag about him infront of me and try's gives me attitude and supposedly they are getting ... (220 words)

He acts like a complete jackass towards me but I cant let him go, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. What to do when your boyfriend of almost 3 years stops having sex with you, doesn't talk to you like that anymore, ignores your calls/texts, acts like he doesn't want you around, constantly lies about little simple things, rarely spends times with you, and just ... (283 words)

Bumped into a guy I used to date and he wanted me to go back to his flat, is he still interested and in what way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so yesterday, i bumped into this guy that i used to be seeing , and he wanted me to go back to his flat with him to reminisce, as he put it. I couldn't go, unfortunately, as i had already made other plans, but i'm hoping i'll bump into him again somewhere. Do you think he ... (77 words)

Getting in touch with the guy I like from school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I saw this cute guy at school. I found out we were already friends on facebook and yesterday he posted a song on his wall. I liked it and commented "old school!" he said "yes" and then said he hates some rappers, among others was an artist I liked, so I told him I liked one of ... (115 words)

Can you recommend how to forget this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I developed feeelings for a woman who is the mistress of a well to do millionaire. She has a child with him and he bought her a house, a car and a house at the beach and caters to her every need. She claims she has nothing to do with him anymore, but I doubt it. She is very ... (165 words)

Together 9 years, had an abortion and he didnt support me...now he moves on after a month!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old. I got preganant in August by my boyffriend of nine years. We started dating in middle school. I have supported him through everything. Every bad or good chocie he has made, I was there. The pregnancy was unplanned and my family life at home is very ... (349 words)

Leaving my whole family behind for marriage. How to deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My soon to be husband is English. I am Australian. We met in the UK whilst i was living there for 2 years. In a few months we will be getting married and i will be permanently moving to the UK for the rest of my life (in theory, life changes of course) to be with him and start ... (277 words)

Good place for a first date?? Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question: Where would be a good place to take a girl on a first date? I'm from the UK, so would prefer to hear from British girls, but any suggestions from overseas would be very helpful too :) I know it seems like a stupid thing to ask, it should be fairly obvious ... (74 words)

How can I boost my sex appeal??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i was wondering how to boost my sex appeal. I have been with my fiance for 8 years. And i feel she know longer fancys me. She has know interest in sex and doesnt masturbate. I work out with average build. Do most me the house work and all the cooking. Get up to our boy when ... (110 words)

My bf had a crazy fit and hurt me. Should I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been. With my fiance for 3 years and we have had a lot of ups and Downs but here recently it has gotten. Horrible. And. As got in a bad fight. Last. Week and he called me a fucking. Whore and tried pinning me down on bed so I couldn't move. So I finally pushed him off me ... (252 words)

Lots of reasons to let it go but hoping for a reason not to turn away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about two years ago and we would see eachother from time to time. I'm very independent and single. My career takes up most of my time. I do date often but every now and then I like to see him. Months can go by and I will text him and he'll respond with little ... (245 words)

Can you trust again after being with a cheater?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend cheated on me when i was pregnant i stayed with him i probably felt vunerable , 13 years on and 2 kids i cannot trust i go through his phone always imagine him with someone else he has shattered my confidence my self esteem my trust it has taken over my life for 13 ... (133 words)

Is is cheating or is it my bi-polar disorder?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hi guys I'm Tiffany My fiance is Elvin and I love him very much. I have bi-polar disorder,anxiety,and depression. I do not take pills do to no insurance but doing teh best I can to figh the sickness:/....I have been having anxiety lately because I came across in my fiances ... (435 words)

Do you believe in the saying "when one door closes, another one opens"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you believe in the saying "when one door closes, another one opens"? Has something ever happened to you that would substantiate your belief in this saying? I missed out on a job opportunity (my dream job) because I am not part of the "clique" in my workplace. The successf... (100 words)

I know I won't go back so why I am so upset that my ex has moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i av been on and off for four years with my ex boyfriend. he cheated on me and was foreva on dating sites. this time he has met someone off a dating site and simply moved on. he treated me terrible,but now he has someone i feel angry. i know i wont eva go back with him but i ... (104 words)

Why do women who cheat, cheat on someone they love,who gives them security,who they don't want to be without?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do women who cheat,cheat on someone they love,who gives them security,who they dont want to be without? I have seen friends lose their soulmate by cheating with someone they knew would never offer a relationship,or anything more than sex. My closest friend is going through ... (62 words)

Have I hurt the guy I liked? How would I know if he is still interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a large factory with many different departments. I am now in an office (within factory floors) but was previously just one of the normal labourers….which is where I met this guy. He isn’t from the UK like me and his English really isn’t the greatest but I l... (411 words)

My gran has cancer and I want her to be around to see me get married and have kids....should I talk to my partner about getting married sooner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondering if others can offer some advice. My gran, who i am really close to is in her 80s. I have always had this wish that she could be around to see me marry and provide her a great grandchild. WHen my grandfather passed away, it made me extremely sad he hadn't been a... (334 words)

Should I give up and become a charity worker in rural Africa?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a virgin. 30 years old and no prospects. I'm slim good looking etc etc but its just not happened. Should I give up and become a charity worker in rural Africa? I've been given the opportunity to teach Aids awareness in East Africa for about a year. I have nothing (other ... (79 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend the condom split when we were having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I really need help :/ I had sex with a condom with my girlfriend but I think the condom split! She dosent know it yet, I want to tell her but its only a matter of time before she finds out anyway, its just I think I should mention it first so it seems like I care... If she does ... (73 words)

I have lost my friend because I told her how I felt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend and I are both 16. We have been friends for a couple of years are were pretty close. I really started liking her and finally built up the courage to tell her. She told me that she was scared that it would ruin our "friendship" and left it at that. Over the next fe... (97 words)

She has asked for a break, does this mean she is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When your partner lies and hides things from you and all of a sudden ask for a break with the excuse that she needs time to let go of the fact that I cheated 3 years ago and now she's asking me for time. Does that means she's cheating on me? She lives with me and she doesn't ... (69 words)

My boyfriend doesn't trust me because of his ex who messed with his head! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy, i was wondering if you could help me out with something i love my boyfriend more then anything in the world. he's the best thing that ever happened to me..but we've hit a ditch in the road you might say. He doesnt trust me and i didnt do anyting wrong. His last girlfreind ... (78 words)

Could use a little advice on what to do after my first date...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So had a really awesome first date with a very pretty girl that I met online last night. Honestly a little out of my league, but I am very into her. I'm just being real here that I am fit, have a great job, witty, confident, etc... but I am balding which isn't really my most ... (197 words)

Why does she behave this way towards me? What is going through her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl am not fond of and a girlfriend to my friend usually like looking at me whenever am beside her and even though certain times i do offend her she would swear not to talk to me me any longer but still when am beside her she looks at me. even when i decide to stay clear ... (234 words)

Now that we're dating he won't kiss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, alright so I recently just got a boyfriend, it's been four days that we've been dating. I've liked this boy...we'll call him Daniel, for about 2 months. On Sunday, we had a science project to work on, so I went to his house.(This was before we decided to date.)We had to ... (800 words)

She says I should have sex with other woman, but I only want her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a simple, but somewhat complicated issue I've working things out with my ex, she doesn't really view herself as someone who can fulfill my desires, we live two and a half hours from each other. She says she'll remain loving and give me the emotional side, yet she sa... (237 words)

I'm too inexperienced with love. Do I actually like this guy or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - (This is my first time on this site. I'm sorry that this is so long.) The reason I'm writing this is partially to try and sort my thoughts out (even though I've already spent countless nights doing that). But I'd also like a bit of insight from more experienced people. ... (591 words)

What is the main cause of juvenile delinquency and drug addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the most common cause,in families of juvenile delinquency and drug addiction? My sister kids are all dropped out of school, and into drugs and crime. It's a real frightening situation from the outside. I'm talking about serious drugs... I can't see behind the walls... (102 words)

It just doesn't turn me on, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. Simple and short question.. I'm dating this guy and I've wanked him off a couple times but when I do it there's nothing about the act that actually turns me on. I just like the fact that he's happy and he's being pleased.. Is this normal? Or should I feel somewh... (69 words)

Why is he pulling away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the whole story.. I started dating a man one month ago that I met 10 years ago He was my art teacher (not high school or anything) group lessons But we had a similar circle of friends and he was only about 10 years older. So we stayed in touch through the years of co... (444 words)

It's time to end this inconsistent lukewarm relationship, isn't it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 1 year doesn't know I have a deadline in mind for him to really show me that he loves me. We HAVE talked, numerous times and I am always in control of myself and rational and non-accusing. He has had a "meh" attitude in the past and I can't waste my time with ... (291 words)