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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to see things end this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over three months. Everything was perfectly fine until he got this new job about a month ago. Now he works eight hours a day for five or six days a week depending on what kind of work he's doing, and some days he has class for ... (451 words)

How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age - i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. once she returns my car i want t... (127 words)

Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always had sex atleast 5 time a ... (74 words)

It's been a week since I last heard from my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't heard from my boyfriend in a week. We've been in a long distance for almost two years. Every now and then, he'll just disappear until I confront him and he'll tell me something about how he's stressed out and can't handle being a bf right now and blah blah. Whenever ... (171 words)

With both of us busy, how will we ever get a chance to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, there is this girl I like and she told me that she likes me too, however the problem is that we can't seems to get any time to talk, we want to get to know each other before we go out. We tried to do something this weekend but I'm at a wedding and then busy on ... (79 words)

I left my boyfriend for another man, but now that other man has left me for his ex girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I wrote on here a little while ago about cheating on my bf well I ended up doing the right thing and breaking up with him. I continued to see the other guy but now he is back with his slut ex who treats him like shit. Well I have told him I had feelings for him but he chose ... (189 words)

I'm willing to have an affair with my doctor, but how do I confirm whether or not he's really interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i just got surgery sept and my doctor has always been hot i've know him for 2 years now and now it seems like he likes me he kept telling me i looked and i just smiled so hard we talk about other things besides my health. i feel a strong connection,now mind you we are b... (116 words)

My fiance and I really want a baby, but are we ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, usually when I find myself on this site I'm having a very depressing problem but now I'm just in a dilema. My fiance and I recently just moved out of a house we shared with room mates into an apartment so we could get along better and so on. Due to the move and... (242 words)

I'm afraid my boyfriend compares me to his ex girlfriends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel weird about my bfs exes. My bf was my first and I was his fifth and some days I don't think about it, but when I do it makes me very uncomfortable and sad. I worry he compares me and wishes I do stuff like his exs. He particularly finds fingering sexy and I hate doi... (88 words)

How can I leave my husband without hurting my kids?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 27 years to my high school sweetheart and we've had our good and bad times in our relationship. I've tried to leave multiple times through the years for different reasons but have no family and always felt alone and that I couldn't break the chains. Two year... (316 words)

My boyfriend left his children and I for another girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have two children and he has left us. he has a new girlfriend already and its been a wee. she is determined to stay with him and is trying to be super nice to me even though ive known her for 6 years and know that her intentions with him are fake. says he ... (192 words)

Do I have enough evidence to confront my boyfriend with my suspicions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I have been suspicious of my boyfriend for a while, and recently decided to do some digging. Before you say it, save it. I know it's wrong to invade his privacy, but I won't sit here wondering forever. Anyways... I logged into his mobile phone online and... (175 words)

My girlfriend seems to have lost interest in sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So me and my gf have been dating for almost a year now ( 11 months to be exact). we had sex already...for some reason my penis size really bothers me... i am about 1-2 inch flaccid only and about 4-4.5 inch erected... i have a rather small penis...plus i have a bad premature ... (110 words)

How do I tactfully end a friendship with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age - How do you tell your ex you dont wont to be friends anymore? me and my ex have only been broken up a few months. I had a problem concering my daughter. I failed to do a form which caused me to just get her monthly check direct deposited today. he helped me with some bills an... (225 words)

I'm disappointed in my behaviour since joining this club

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my final year at college and decided to join a club this year. I joined the sailing club and went to socials each week since September. The first trip just came around this weekend. I have a lovely long term boyfriend who I am 100% committed to but I have found mysel... (258 words)

My wife laughs too much now. How can I tell her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My 4 years old wife smiles and laughs 24/7 for now reason. I was in a relationship with her for 16 months before we got married. She is 26, I am 28. I know she has got good sense of humor but it doesn't mean that one's month should be open all the time , right? I mean it makes ... (95 words)

How can I satisfy my wife? I think I'm too small.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 32yrs old and my penis is 4.5inch(erect).next month is my marrige. how can i satisfy my wife? plz help me ! i am worried about my penis! plz help me frnds.... (33 words)

Is it right to date your good friend's ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you ever date the ex boyfriend of a very good friend of yours, even if you never got to meet the ex boyfriend? I'm really torn about how to feel about this. My best friend is dating the exboyfriend of one of our good friends and I'm having a hard time accepting this. I ... (128 words)

I want to have sex every night, he doesn't. How can I lower my sex drive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help, I have a very high sex drive, I want to have sex with my husband every night before bed, but he isn't the same way. Is there anyway I can lower my sex drive? I don't know what else to do, I've tried getting my husband more interested, but he just ... (57 words)

I don't like my step-daughters!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't care for my step Daughters.. It's not that we don't get along or that they treat me badly but the way they treat their father (my husband). There Mother wasn't in their lives much when they were kids and their father did everything for them. Now that they are... (268 words)

Is he stringing me along? He's very commitment-phobic and we rarely see each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi I've been seeing my commitment phobic bf for almost 16 months, we get on really well, there's great chemistry and we both feel very comfortable with each other. The problem is that although we're both in our 40's, we rarely get the chance to go to bed together because... (400 words)

Why do guys feels the need to brag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys brag? He was a party boy and obviously I didn't give him anything sex-related/making out related to brag about. so... when people asked why we hung out around one another...he said that I hung around him and even the police couldn't get rid of me. obviously, i r... (80 words)

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 took a dislike to him d... (327 words)

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend lies to his friends so that he can spend time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i have been in a realtionship with my man for 2 months now. we are so loved up and get on like a house on fire, we live quite a distance apart (40mins) and we both work till late evening apart from weekends where we are both lucky we have sat and sun off. During... (409 words)

Does anyone else think my colleague fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy at work (the college newspaper)that i've kind of taken a liking to. i'm not sure whether or not he knows how i feel--i haven't actually told him, buuut sometimes, people can just figure that sort of thing out for themselves, you know? hahaa.... (286 words)

I didn't bleeed when I lost my virginity this weekend. Did we do something wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i lost my virginity this weekend. i will admit it hurt a lot for me, we did it for the second time (same night) and it was better the second time. however, i was quite disappointed because i dont think my cherry popped as there was no blood in sight after both ... (75 words)

Was I wrong to exchange texts with a friend who fancies me or is my boyfriend just trying to control me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My BF and I have been going out 2 years. For the most part we have had a healthy relationship, with only a few bumps in the road. This first was when he went away for 2 weeks and came back and said he needed his space, but really he had been flirting with another girl on his ... (353 words)

I cancelled plans to visit my long distance boyfriend. Now he says he doesn't love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was supposed to go visit my LDR boyfriend but didn't because of stresses in my home life and lack of funds (he said he would've helped with money, but then I wouldn't have any). Now he says he doesn't love me anymore! I've told him that I wasn't sure if I loved him anymor... (137 words)

Is it normal to enjoy being single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? is this normal? will I feel better soon? I loved my ex bf so much, he said he loved me and I believed him cos he was a nice sweet guy. But he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore. I found out after our split that he was slee... (219 words)

My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After some pains I was sent for a scan ... (421 words)

Whenever I manage to save up a bit of money, my boyfriend expects me to treat him to a big dinner

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Just wanted to ask, is it fair that my boyfriend expects me to pay for dinner sometimes (for the both of us) when he's the one with a pretty good, stable part time job (24hr) and I'm unemployed (because my college schedule is loaded)? I'm not trying to get out of paying o... (236 words)

Girlfriend is contacting her ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are going through a real rough patch at the minute, i found phone calls and texts to her ex on her phone bill, but she said he was pestering her and she was telling him to leave us alone, this phone call lasted about 38 minutes, but there has been little ... (120 words)

How can I stop worrying about the possibility that my boyfriend might cheat on me, although he's never given me any reason to doubt him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We are 20 now and have been dating since highschool and I assume a lot if my issues are from unresolved conflicts in my life. I randomly get this feeling Like he's going to cheat on me or leave me for a girl. It gets s... (159 words)

What did I do wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age - Last week I met a young man (english) who I admired as an entertainer realising he was a womaniser and free and single etc but amongst many others he e mailed me occasionally and last week met in town for lunch which I paid for as he doesnt earn much. I lent his a small sum ... (178 words)

Next month I'm meeting my Boyfriend's family for Christmas. But he'd rather I didn't give them presents. How will it look if I arrive empty handed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma of etiquette on my hands! Next month, I'll be meeting my boyfriend's family for the first time; his parents, grandmother and three siblings. My boyfriend has a rather acerbic relationship with his siblings - an older brother and sister and a younger sister - an... (192 words)

How can I get to know him without him thinking I'm a slut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so about 2 months ago I hooked up with this guy at a party. It was an extreme hookup... We didn't have sex but it made me seem like a really big slut. It was not like me at all. But that is besides the point. Point is that after this hookup my friend has been telling me ... (141 words)

Are my feelings warranted, of feeling a bit disappointed after he said that I could join his family for Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very disappointed and let down by my supposed male friend who is gay and who has a boyfriend. I have known him for 15 years. He is aware that I do not have any family or support where I live and knows that I did not want to be alone on Xmas Day. He has told me before that ... (216 words)

My Bestfriends girl is flirting with me... What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well my best friend has a girlfriend that he has been seeing for about a year but the other day she started flirting with me. Now im 20 so I know what flirting is and how it works and she was serious. She has always been my type and has hinted it little birsts before that ... (88 words)

Drunkenly danced and may have kissed another guy. Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in an amazing relationship for 3 years. My boyfriend is perfect, supportive and 100% trustworthy. This weekend I got very drunk. I only remember the night up to a point but I will explain what I do remember and what I've been told. I remember feeling very fli... (426 words)

Should I let this go or make an issue of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently had a text 'Your a nasty spiteful child :-@'. I don't know whether I should ignore it or make an issue out of it. Bit of background. I was involved with a woman at work earlier this year. It didn't work out and I'd like to think that we've remained friends. She was... (240 words)

I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we both REALLY want a baby!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we both REALLY want a baby!!! What do we do?!?! We talk about getting married and having kids all the time!! What do I do? P.S. We haven't had sex if that's what you are thinking..... (50 words)

My fiance told me he had sex with some girl his friends knew a month before we met. Should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance is away for a while visiting his grandma in his hometown, and we were talking on video chat from facebook, and we started talking about when the last time we had sex with other people before we met. Before, he told me when we were dating that he hasnt had sex for ... (100 words)

I'm way more into him than he is to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We have talked almost everyday since than..but never met in person. Over the past 2 years we fell in love. But we are not and never were in an exclusive relationship. He has had one girlfriend since we've been talking (lasted ... (209 words)

My wife was sexually abused. No one else knows. Is it wrong to spill the beans?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - As the subject says, my wife was sexually abused as a child. She was also raped as an adult - possibly more than once. She just confided this in me, although I have suspected as much for a long time now. As a result, she is an alcoholic. She cannot sleep and needs to ta... (348 words)

He didn't get me anything for my birthday! Its the principle of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months and while of course it started off great we are going through some tough times.His family found out about me and dont exactly approve of me which is pretty big in my culture. and ever since then he has been acting very ... (188 words)

He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a blow job and all that other ... (135 words)

Why is sex hurting now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a worried seventeen year old and need some advice. I'm scared to whom I should turn to. My situation; I've been have sex for my boyfriend for the last ten months and just the last couple weeks, I feel like he has been hitting the top of my vagina. It really hurts so he only ... (98 words)

Should I tell my former teacher I'm in love with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 21 years old and I graduated from high school three years ago. During my senior year, I fell in love with my math teacher. We always got along fine, but he never showed any preference towards me. After I graduated, we ran into each other a couple of times ... (259 words)

I need help getting over my feelings for this 16 year old girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So Ia am a 28 year old guy, and I think I am falling for a 16 year old girl. It started out as her flirting with me about three months ago, and I thought it is just a phase she is going through and just shrugged it off. But as time has passed the flirting has gotten more ... (293 words)

I've dated this guy alot and I don't know how to tell my mom

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok ive dated this guy several times and were dating again but the thing is my mom doesnt want me to date him anymore cause she says that he played around to much. The last time he broke up with me is because his cousin passed away in july and i dont know how to tell my mom im ... (92 words)

Are his feelings genuine? Should I tell him of my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this guy from the same parish i go to and we started chatting randomly about 2 weeks ago. He's 27 and im 18. Ive known him for a long time but this has been the first time we've spoken so much! We're similar in so many ways. We've both been through horrible break ups ... (151 words)

3 years ago and I'm still thinking of my cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey people, I posted a similar question related to this like in September. But I want new answers. Also, I really appreciate you guys and girls for helping me out and I have a problem. Please don't say ewwwwww, or anything rude. Be mature, if not don't answer it. If your ... (868 words)

Troublesome ex causing problems in my relationship. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I just think I need to get out a few things and get feedback from objective people. I've had some issues with my ex coming around my apartment complex late, late at night and knocking on my window until I get up. He caught me once outside and it was not a good encounter. ... (454 words)

Mixed feelings from friend and not sure what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy arround 3 weeks ago a college, i knew one of his friends so when i was talking to his mate we were introuduced. the next day he came up to me and we just started chatting and then a few days later he asked me to hang out on campus. we ended up going to a ... (419 words)

I am sensitive, how do I approach this crush of mine without the risk of being in so much emotional pain I lose my job and friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, I have a crush on this new friend in my life. He has really great energy and etc. Whenever we're together we have a good time and we have a few things in common. From the things I know about him now from our long conversations and frequent interactions, he is a good ... (345 words)

Ideas on how to make his birthday memorable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy I've been talking to for about four months. We have actually knew each for about a year now but talking as more than just friends since July. I really like him, we aren't official yet, we're still working on building the trust. But we have already discussed ... (147 words)

My dear friend was in a horrible car accident, but instead of contacting me first, he contacts some chick he's been talking to for 2 weeks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if this really counts as a relationship or love question, but I really don't know where else to go, and I really need advice. Last night, one of my dear friends was in a car accident. I was informed shortly after the face, absolutely heartbroken. I cried my eyes ... (241 words)

I walked in on a co-worker speaking ill of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

14 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Awful day at work, coworker from another department helped out in our office. When I left to help clients, the "helper" was talking about my writing! I had returned to the office and stood in the door frozen as she talked to my colleague about my paperwork! I took a deep ... (234 words)