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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my FWB hinting that he wants more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, This isn't so much of a problem; it's more of a question. Me and this man have been having sex for 9 months. I thought we were fwbs. I asked him and he said "we are taking things slowly, which is good." I was just wondering what you people think he means by this... (109 words)

Do girls always find nude art in a guy's place offensive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I studied film in college and since then have gotten interested in still photography as well, especially photographers like Howard Schatz, Patrick Demarchelier, Andreas H. Bitesnich, and Herb Ritts. Nudes happen to be one of the subject-matter they all work in and are most ... (308 words)

I think I'm more emotionally involved than he is, should I just cut contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently became single after being in relationships since i was 16, im now 20, and i'm finding it diffcult to get back into dating again. firstly i have been talking to a guy on the internet who i used to go to school with but he moved away. we have great conversation and ... (122 words)

He's trying to stop drinking but it always ends in tears!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a horrible evening, my partner is trying to stop drinking, for the sake of ou relationship, its been happening for 3 years, he has stolen from me and others to get drink. i have ended this relationship time after time. because of gambelling and his drinking and ... (398 words)

Is it strange that I am always missing and dreaming of my dead grandmother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum and dad split up when i was 7! My mum moved away and i stayed with my dad with my 2 older brothers! Not through choice: i was too young to realise what was going on. Anyway my dad ended up drinking all the time, my brothers were never in because they're 8 yrs older and ... (444 words)

Why didn't my ex wish me a "Happy Birthday!" this year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my birtday was yesterday and one of my good friends (he is also one of my exes and half a month ago it seemed like he would like me more) didn't send me birthday wishes. I don't think he forgot it because we know each other for 3 years and he was online on Facebook so he has ... (232 words)

How can I make my girlfriend less moody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - The past few days my girlfriend is always in a bad mood. There will be times where she in a great mood, and then all of the sudden her mood just change into a bad mood. When she in a bad mood she just seem so dead. I have no experience on what to say or how to help out. Can you ... (139 words)

He doesn't care and he ignores me now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys ,i'm in a relationship with a boy about 2weeks, we met 2 times , and they was a terrible dates, cuz he was always late , he is handsome and cute but at the same time so arrogant i really like him so much , i talk with him and i told him about the things that bother me ... (84 words)

Boyfriend cheated three times, is that reason to dump him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I've gotten together with this guy about 2 weeks ago after we had been dating for 3 months. I found out he's cheating on me just three days after we got together and yet he's done it 3 times already. I'm really confused since he seems to really be with me but keep... (94 words)

I have learned that my boyfriend has not healed from childhood sexual/physical/emotional abuse and have some questions for the aunts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am asking a question here because I was talking to my boyfriend for 4 hours last night and neither of us has the energy to do that again today. We have a 3 year relationship. Whenever our relationship progresses into the next level, he would find stupid excuses to end the ... (283 words)

Women seem to use me for sex, but I want a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls always tell me that I'm attractive, funny and smart -- I'm in university doing chemistry/physics, but I always feel so stupid whenever I get involved with a girl. I really liked this girl, and I slept with her a few times a few weeks ago. I spent ~2 months getting t... (359 words)

A man I once dated and had a falling out with recently invited me to join his social network site

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I would appreciate your advice as I’m in a difficult dilemma. There was this guy I dated in the past, he broke my heart and we left things on bad terms. I found it hard to move on and till this day I have thought about him. Three years later, he has recently added me to... (156 words)

Broke up with my boyfriend, then reconciled, and the man I met during the break up thinks I was just cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious mature advice. I do not want "do what you feel is right" kind of advice .. because honestly I do not know what is right no more. Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half but we broke up for 2 weeks due to complications. I met this one man ... (285 words)

My girlfriend dumped me a year ago and I'm unsure what to do now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (M) age 36-40 - My girlfriend dumped me last year around same time. We remained in a relationship for two year. Since I couldn't get a good job in given dateline of one year to convince her parents for her hands, she ran out of patience with me and dumped. I don’t blame her for dumping ... (106 words)

The kiss was a step too far

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a little embarrassing to talk about. Well, my roommate and I had started experimenting with each other earlier in the year, and now we do quite a bit of stuff on more of a regular basis. Anyway, recently while we were messing around, I kind of ended up kissing him. ... (200 words)

Ex-boyfriend still causing issues 16 months later

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had a boyfriend for 16 months and it had a rocky start (never having had "i love you" from parents, grandparents, siblings or past boyfriend). His ex-boyfriend from 2 years ago has non-stop been a real pain in the @$$. Constantly texting rude comments (we even changed ... (220 words)

I don't want to lose out on a loving relationship because of my insecurities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old male and finally starting to 'get out' more in terms if meeting new people and going on dates. I am, however, afraid of sex. I don't have a particularly immature attitude towards sex, and I want to wait to meet the 'right' person to give myself to (I don't ... (235 words)

I want this job as an au pair and need some ideas on what to write about myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone could give any advice on what i could write to a host family for an Au Pair job ?. They want to know a bit of information about me as a person, and they want to know why i want to go to their country to be an Au Pair. I would like to say that i enjoy ... (202 words)

My boyfriend saw that I wrote "I love S" on my hand. He isn't "S"... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i'm in love with two people. my boyfriend and this guy called S. i've loved S for nearly 2 years now and he loves me too, but we've never been together offically. so yeah i wrote i love you "S" on my hand and my boyfriend saw it. what should i do?... (54 words)

My best friend's boyfriend likes me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, About a month ago my best friend started going out with this guy. Before that relationship, she was together with this she loved so much. And he broke her heart, so she was really depressed for a few weeks. So now she is together with this guy, but she keeps on... (232 words)

Why is he waiting to ask me out? All we are doing is texting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have recently been set up with a guy by a friend. We have not spoken to each other physically or even on the phone. But we text each other. It has now been a week since we have been texting - everyday - but I am wondering how long it will take him to actually ask me ... (144 words)

Before we were married, my wife said she was horny but didn't want to have premarital sex on moral grounds, but now that we're married she still doesn't want to have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I've had an on and off relationship with my wife for about 8 years. When we first met, we were together for about 2 years. She had a very high sex drive, and that aspect of the relationship was good, but we didn't get along very well. We broke up for about 4 years. Duuring t... (822 words)

I think my bubbly and too friendly personality is keeping me from having a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15, ive always been into boys, im not ugly infact i sometimes get called beautiful, but because of my personality and im too bubbaly and friendly as people say, that is why i havent got a boyfriend, i never have had one and i hate being single, they say im pretty and funny ... (132 words)

Attracted to my brother's friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15, my brothes bestfriend is 17, theres a troop of 7-8 of them, one of them is called kieran, i really like him and have done for several months now, i get to see him every sunday because my brother plays football with him and i watch my brother play, therefore when i see ... (104 words)

Does she like me?

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12 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello Hello there i just wanted to know if this girl likes me Every lesson i see her in she just looks at me when I'm not looking for like 5mins straight which i find kinda weird. I know this cos my friend tells me She talks to me 24/7 on Facebook and in school. Sh... (147 words)

I was a really good friend. Even though he told many lies. I thought we had 'something'. So why does he now say we are just work colleagues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i was close friends with a guy until recently. i helped him a great deal with work, money and was a really good friend supportive and loyal, but something always bugged me. It was the stuff he was telling me which i found out to be huge lies. even two of my close friends ques... (220 words)

He's taking things very slowly. No kissing yet. How can I encourage him to speed things up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've been dating this guy for over a year and a half already, and apparently I'm his first girlfriend. He's only a few months older than me and he confessed first. Although we've been dating this long, we haven't gone out on many dates because of a major exam he's been taki... (121 words)

I have feelings for this adopted cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I reallly like my cousin. More than I should. He is a distant cousin really distant, like the other side of the family distant. Probably 6th cousin or maybe 7th. The only thing is... He got adopted by my great aunt...so now he's my 2nd cousin. I know he feels the same, bu... (146 words)

A boy I like is ill with a tumor. I don't know if I want to tell him I like him, and I'm here for him, or say nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (?) age 26-29 - The boy i like at school has been diagnosed with a tumour on his windpipe. Im really scared for him that it could be cancer as i dont want to see him die. I've never told anyone I like him and hes not at school because hes in hospital. Im confused. I dont know if i want to tell... (96 words)

Why do relatives and friends try to put her off me? What can I do to stop this type of problem from happening to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a problem with dating Jamaican women. It usually start off just right, we get along well with each other, we talk things out and we go out all the time...plus I help her out all the time. I take reasonability in our relationship this has gone on for three years. It is a... (172 words)

I told him I liked him, so why did he want to discuss my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I told a friend of mine how i feel about last week then i saw him yesterday and he brought it up again asking me i was telling him the truth or i was playing with his head. i told him i meant every word of it then everything was going good for three hours then he went all funn... (70 words)

He's confused me. Why would a guy tell you he likes you and is dedicated to you and then just stop talking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started talking to a guy online. We hit it off right away and were constantly talking via texting and video calling. He expressed a lot of interest and said he would work really hard to make us work..he'd always call when on break at work and after work.. he was ... (433 words)

I love my girl friend to bits. So why does she treat me with disrespect and refuse to believe I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like I am completely unlovable as I am nothing but a big joke to everyone. They all constantly make fun of me, even more own girlfriend never takes me serious and has no respect for me nor my family, just because my dad was illegal. But he has all his papers now she stil... (342 words)

He's my 6th cousin. Not close indeed. My mother still objects. Could we be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I had went to a cousins funeral back in 2008.. Arrived back home and checked my myspace (back before I had facebook) I had an email from a guy saying here's my number I saw you at the funeral and thought you were cute.. Long story short.. We used to talk on the phon... (194 words)

10 years younger boss: Is he trying to fight the fact that he may be attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age - I am 56 years old and I look good for my age. I work with a lot of guys, and I am friendly with all of them. But, my BOSS makes me feel uncomfortable. He avoids looking at my eyes... when I try to talk friendly with him, he repeatedly tells me that, "We will never hang out ... (176 words)

I'm an girl and gay. But if these feelings I have for him are real, then don't I owe it to us both to give it a shot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old girl, who's always identified as gay, came out when I was 14, literally NEVER been attracted to guys, the whole works. Then I started uni a couple of months ago, got settled, built up a new friendship group. One of my closest friends, well, probably THE clos... (470 words)

Am I imagining things? I don't think my boyfriend cares about me any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Singapore, and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We have had some ups and downs going on, especially since I grew up under difficult circumstances. I have a unique family situation where for 20 years of my life my father was emotionally abus... (515 words)

Is it normal that I'm having trouble moving on? I don't understand why I cant move on.

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12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im just wondering if my situation is normal. My ex and I broke up five months ago and because she had a kid and I pretty much stepped up to be a second parental figure to him and love him a lot, we have a lot of contact. We're still really close and I know that this doesnt ... (162 words)

I'm asking about this one particular guy. Is he worth my time or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dating advice please : tonight was supposed to be my fourth date with this guy. On Monday he text me and asked me out for Friday. I said yes and We had agreed to meet around 6 or 7pm. (we both have the day off and we agreed to meet near where I would be running errands) Aroun... (260 words)

Never giving up on my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, ive liked this guy for a while now, bout 3 years, everytime i see him he glows i feel like im in love for some reason, he glows when i see him i always get lost in his eyes, i feel happy when hes around, ive literaly never felt this way before about anyone and i me... (159 words)

My right breast has been itchy, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and for some reason my right breast mainly my nipple just randomly got itchy. I looked it up on google and it took me to breast cancers. Of course I got scared, and asked my mom. She said I was to young for it. [my grandma die from it so there is a chance me and my ... (170 words)

I want to go back to counselling. Will my counsellor be offended that I didn't come back to counselling after summer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - At the end of the last school year, I used my university's free counseling services. Though my counselor was helpful and supportive, I felt panic each time, before I went. My heart would beat extremely fast, and it was difficult to breathe normally. Once I was there, I didn... (258 words)

I don't like any of my friends anymore. How do I dump them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So...thank you for your time for reading this. I just have so much anger I need to vent somewhere -.-. I have just realized...I hate all my friends. We used to be all goody goody. After my birthday though, I started to discover things I hate about them. More bad than good. T... (293 words)

Did I freak her out with my last text?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a girl last week at my friends party. She danced with me for over an hour we kissed quite a bit and she really showed interest staring into my eyes holding me all that stuff. She asked if I wanted to exchange numbers with her and we did. I didn't hear anything from ... (300 words)

Do move on to a more mature, confident, secure man? Or persevere with my military man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age - I am 52 and have been seeing a military man on/off for a year and a half. He chases me, has me then disappears. When we are together the chemistry and connection is wonderful, but I get too close and he says he doesn't want a relationship. His past history, 3 marriage... (257 words)

I think he's interested in me. He squeezed my thigh when we met. What do I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey guys, c: So, lately, I've been dealing with this issue for about two weeks to be exact. There is this guy I like, and he makes it obvious he feels the same. For example, when I first met him, he squeezed my thigh and smiled. He usually sat by me and we chatted for a b... (218 words)

Sick of being rejected when I try to chat up girls. Can you offer me any tips to help me improve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and about to turn 16... I suck talking to girls and I've gotten rejected before because I wear glasses and have lazy eyes. Any advice to how to boost my confidence and telling me how to talk to girls easier? Getting rejected for that reason has lowered my self-esteem a... (62 words)

Is our relationship built on more deceit than I thought?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF was still emotionally (and perhaps even physically) attached to her ex FWB when I met her. Not a big deal, because I was still separated and not sure of commitment with another woman. However, I recently found out from her cousin that she loved this guy and wanted him a ... (165 words)

I'm starting to think I'm gay or bisexual after looking at my life, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been thinking lately i am bi/gay. Ive been denying these feelings since i was atleast inbetween 15-17 years old now im 29. after having same sex experiences,watching gay porn, i get abit denial at times... i really do want to have a wife and kids and get married and i am ... (339 words)

He's supposed to be happy with his new wife, why is he bothering me on yahoo, msn and fb?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My exboyfriend just got married two months ago. He sent me a friend requeston yahoo without any message on it and I decide to delete it and that was what i did.This was four days ago and he only been married for two months. The next day he sent me another friend request and i ... (390 words)