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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where do I look and how do I look for a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently come out bisexual to my boyfriend and family. They've been supportive. I just can't seem to find a girl-friend. Where do I look and how do I look? How can you tell if she's interested? I'm so confused. Please can you help me with this. I really want to find a g... (60 words)

I want to know what went wrong and why he stopped contacting me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in April. What I thought was a one night stand, turned out to be something more. You ever have those one night things where you're happy to get out of their sight. You know it was a mistake and you regret the hell out of it. Well, it wasn't like that with him. ... (749 words)

Am I a girlfriend of a FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone here's my problem I met a man at the beginning of the year I like him a lot we started having sex and I found myself getting strong feelings for him but he stopped bothering with me for weeks and weeks so I thought he wasn't interested anyway he came round yesterday ... (202 words)

We both had sex with others, so how do we go on from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So during this summer I met this girl who just seems right for me and that the fates had lined us up multiple times to be together. Anywho we have a romantic stint while studying abroad for 3 months. We traveled for a week after our program and she went home. During this time ... (640 words)

I love her but she just wanted the physical stuff with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in love with a woman for over two years. She was my best friend and we spent most of our free time together. There was an amazing chemistry between us and we eventually started kissing, then dating. Her family loved me and told me that they were glad that I was part ... (172 words)

Should I just relax and enjoy the friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

1 November 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I met a guy on an online dating site. We met ofr a first date over two weeks ago and got on great, attraction was there etc. However, after only a couple times after that he said he wants to just be friends. Admittedly, we had by this point shared some intimate moments 9not ... (293 words)

How do I keep a guy interested without going overboard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've met a few lovely guys in the past few years, who I would have loved to have a relationship with, but I keep blowing it. I fall for them quite quickly, text them more often than I should and think I come on a little too strong (without being totally crazy.) I need so... (92 words)

Do I get a boob job and give up sensitivity?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't decide whether or not to have a boob job! I have really small boobs and so does everyone else in my family and there's no hope of them growing anymore (I'm a 32A/AA). For ages now I've been thinking about getting a boob job but I still don't know what the right thing to ... (273 words)

Do most men want a younger woman and can't get turned on by their older wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age - I'm really puzzled now. I want to know the truth about sexless marriages, when it is over 20 years long marriage. Now we reached 1 year with no sex, due to my husband lack of sexual desire, what started with an ED. But it stayed undiagnosed ,cause not known He was ... (174 words)

Is it ok to text my ex since he stopped contacting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing my ex recently and things were going well. Now all of a sudden he has stopped talking to me and messaging me. It is okay to message him pulling him up on the situation. Because I really don't think I did anything wrong.... (48 words)

When boyfriend's parents come visiting, things go missing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner live together, we've been together for 4 years now; he's a great guy, kind, loving and caring. Our relationship does have the occasional squabble, but over trivial things, not things that cause break-ups in other relationships. Usually every other weeke... (320 words)

After whatever happened between us, does it mean that he fancies me or does he like me as a really good friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was out at a party last night and went back to my guy friends flat after to watch a scary movie with another friend. We were all sitting under a duvet and he pulled my feet towards him and gradually started stroking them. I have always had on/off feelings for this guy so ... (419 words)

B/f is always on the phone with me but can't be bothered to see me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts... And uncles ofcourse, please advise me... For 6 months I have been seeing a lovely man who I met through work, we began texting and it all went from there. We began meeting up outside of work every now and again - we don't see each other at work very often, maybe ... (273 words)

Is it normal that your guy asks you if he really loves you? or is he cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal that your guy asks you if he really loves you? or is he cheating?? I mean he was like I love you.. I said I love you to .. he said is it true? TELL ME THE TRUTH..... (41 words)

My wife's neuroses are hurting our marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 39 years old. My wife is 41. We have been together for 19 years now. She has always been a little neurotic. For instance, we pretty much stopped kissing two or three years into the relationship because it just made her self-conscious and she felt it was unsanita... (1331 words)

Is she too close to her brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age - Is this strange or am I just being too sensitive? My wife and her brother are a little too close in my opinion. He is always touching her, putting his hands on her, they watch tv with their arms around each other, they used to share an apartment and because it was a studio they ... (186 words)

Does he love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so this guy i knew since my teenage proposes me. All though i had feelings for him, i just kept asking him if he really meant it or if he is just playing games with my feelings. He assured me that he had feelings for me and he knew that i love him too. And promised me i would ... (237 words)

Talking with a strange guy, he seems to be interested but ignorant at the same time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The thing is that i met a guy through social network website , then he added me on Facebook , i liked his pictures , he looks amazing like my dream man , i gave him my number and he texted me , i asked him to meet up but he said it is too early ,next day we chatted for long ... (316 words)

Am I with a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thanks! Am I with a Narcissist? He was so charming, sweet, made soooo many promises to me, gave me compliments, told me he loved me a lot. Then it started becoming about him. He changed jobs 5x In 3 yrs his reasoning? His bosses were idiots and he was unable to wo... (533 words)

Any advice on moving abroad to study?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if anyone has had the experience of moving abroad too study away from family. I'm asking this because my relationship with my family has never been a good one and has got worse these past few years since coming out to my mother. I really have my hea... (154 words)

We ended because he didnt have time for a relationship, and now he is with someone already! To make things worse she is really simple looking whereas I am so much more attractive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So starting in April of my first year of college, this guy started talking to me, and we really hit it off and he was really into me. We both live in different states, so it was kind of bad timing, since we were both going back home for the summer in May, but he insisted that ... (1208 words)

Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleasure but she is not being rea... (232 words)

I've tried moving on but no-one compares to my ex! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I really love this guy (now my ex) we dated for over a year. Its been months nd hes still all I think about, hes all I need! I cry sometimes when I catch myself thinking of him and how hes not mine! I would give anything to be his again. I calld him to tell him about how I ... (118 words)

I've been in great relationship for years, since I was 14. Why do I feel like I'm missing out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for about 2 years with my boyfriend, i love him more then anything in the world, but i enjoy people flirting with me. I don't really do it back, and if i do it's only little comments every known and then, nothing heavy. I have never ever cheated on ... (362 words)

My emotions consume me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so volatile in this relationship. I worry about where we are and where we're going and fearing an end that may not even come. I cry all the time both when I'm upset or misunderstood something and when I'm full of joy at the thought of someone who loves me like this. ... (165 words)

How to approach this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

- where i work is a supermarket, and i often go over there for lunch. For quite some time now i have been seeing this gorgeous girl over there, sometimes walking with her mate, sometimes on her own. We always make eye contact with each other, but the other day i passed her in the ... (131 words)

What should I do? My boyfriend has bad spending habits and he is too obliging to his friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Doi you think this could be a problem later? What should I do? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we are talking about getting married. But I'm actually a little wary of how he handles finances and I'm worried that this will affect our future together.... (610 words)

Is recycling presents a bad thing? He has so many relatives and my finances are not great!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - With Christmas coming up in less than 8 weeks, my finances have never been more unstable. I'm 19 years old and a student; I used to work part-time, but haven't been able to find another job since my last one ended abruptly in August. I have about £300 in savings, but having ... (271 words)

I feel like all he wants is a substitute mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently moved in with my on/off partner of 7yrs. He used to live live with his mum but she passed away 4 mths ago and he has now decided he wants to be a proper father. The problem i have is that he has started pressureing me to give up work to be a stay at home mum as ... (183 words)

Together a year but havent kissed or hugged yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating this guy for more than a year. till now we have just hold hands. I want him to kiss me and hug me!!! but i dont want to make the first move. what should i do????? help me!... (41 words)

Does anyone regret having sex too young and not waiting until marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm just wondering had anyone regretting having sex too young, or not waiting till marriage as ive been in a steady relationship now for over a year and a half but havent had sex... me and my boyfriend are happy about this but im wondering about others experiences incase we ... (54 words)

Is it a good idea to tell someone you think they have narcissism?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been reading some information on narcissism and am pretty sure this is what my husband has. He thinks he's better than everyone else and will only talk to people he deems good enough so can be rude to other people. He thinks only about himself and is unable to see things ... (216 words)

She likes me but is dating my friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i deeply love a girl and she is unwillingly going on with my friend..she knows that i likes her but she is not sure that she will accept me after she breaks up with her present boyfriend...she likes me.what should i do?... (42 words)

A man she had a thing with years ago commented on her Facebook, I feel so betrayed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Yesterday i saw a post of a picture of my wife and my grandfather on facebook and saying that she feels much happy because never had a real blood grandpapa and for having a grandfather like him,etc. And everybody replied and liked it, and this guy who i never seen him on her ... (145 words)

How to get the romance back after my jealous episode?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for some help in dealing with certain personal issues I have within my realtionship. I have been with this guy since March I am 31 and he 29- its LD and we meet about once a month. We have certain complications as due to financial constraints and debt I still li... (651 words)

Our parents have gone back on their word and decided to stop us from having sex, now I'm worried we will be banned from seeing each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend were all set to have sex for the first time but our parents ruined our plans at the last minute. It was made all the worse because it was meant to be a special moment at the end of a romantic night. I've just turned 16 and so has she, we've been going... (369 words)

Technically speaking was it not cheating? since we had had a break up. Am I right in my assumption?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend dumped me and after three months she came back . We were together for 2 years before I picked up fight with her over small issue which resulted in a being dumped in the last week of July this year. During those three months, I was trying my heart-out to make... (281 words)

Will our child miss out on so much because he will grow up without extended family? Since we don't have one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my family had a halloween party. I was having fun until i started to notice that my cousins and their kids got along so well. I started to feel jealous of how they all were talking and hanging out and their i was just sitting down. I tried talking to them but some how... (165 words)

He thinks I am playing games. Is it wrong for me to withhold sex from the guy I'm currently seeing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong for me to withhold sex from the guy i'm currently seeing? i just don't feel like i know him well enough yet to sleep with him, but in his mind i think he's getting frustrated because he thinks i'm just using it as an excuse and that im actually 'playing games' with... (80 words)

Should I assume that he has moved on and doesn't feel the same way about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently friends with a guy from work, and over the last 3 months it has escalated to something more. We've had a few sleep overs and gone out on dates, but never really established that the relationship was any more than two people enjoying each others company. We would ... (195 words)

How is he still confused about how he feels after being with me for a year?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know is it possible to be confused on if you love someone or not for almost a full year? The man I am with has been unsure about how he feels for a while. This does not make me want to leave him, but it sure makes it hard for me when I have developed love for ... (178 words)

Is it worth the time to occasionally masturbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it worth the time to occasionally masturbate? In sex ed, I did hear about it, but I'm not quite sure on how enjoyable it could be. I mean, is it worth the effort? I haven't been able to ask any other people about it, so I'm pretty stumped on whether I should try it or not. ... (60 words)

Do I like her or is she just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have known this girl for quite some time, and we were always very good friends. I'm not quite sure about how liking and loving is like, so I'm not sure if I can say that I like her or not. We talk a lot through the internet, and we also write to each other and sometimes ... (172 words)

Tips on how to talk dirty..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been dating for some time, and we aren't sexually active...Well, I guess to some people we are... (Stopped at 3rd base) I'm perfectly comfortable with that kind of stuff. I enjoy it, and me and him both get pleasure from it. Only problem is, since I was r... (144 words)

Any advice on how to get a boyfriend? Any beauty tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. I'm interested in beginning to date or finding a boyfriend. I'm beginning college next summer and am hoping for a fresh start. I need beauty advice in particular since I am lacking 100% in that department. Don'... (91 words)

How can I stop his friend from getting back into my boyfriend's life? He is doing so much better without them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i are currently doing great in our relationship , he is showing effort , and im happy to be with him now. I had told him about how his friends were all trouble , and didnt really care about him , and he finally realized it for himself. The moral is ; im pretty ... (106 words)

She is no longer the wife or mother she used to be and the whole family are feeling neglected, how do we talk to her about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 November 2011 (M)

age - I don't know what to do anymore. My wife of 19 years is no longer the woman I married. We have three children 11, 13, and 19. In the last few years she has taken in pets and recently has taken on 8 more added to the 15 she already has. She spends ALL her time on these animals ... (276 words)

I really regret having webcam sex, will there be any repercussions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately I've been feeling intense anxiety about everything bad I've done in the past. I'm cleaning up my act BIG TIME. One huge thing I regret was having webcam sex with this guy i met on the internet......so do you think there will be bad repercussions to this??? and how do i ... (65 words)

I'm worried this might have just been a one night stand to him....should I give him more time to contact me or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on a quiet night out who I instantly clicked with, we spoke for hours about everything and he seemed really genuine, we took a walk after closing time (I wasnt drunk neither was he) and it was really nice, we sat on a park bench for ages and time just sort of got ... (283 words)

I'm worried my friend might be pregnant but I cant say anything to anyone! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okaay i dont know where to start! This question isnt realy about me its about my friend but i dont know what to do! So I have this friend who i will call C she has just turned 16 in the last week, she has had a boyfriend and has been with him for about a month, but shes the... (332 words)

My boyfriend's sister dislikes me and its getting very uncomfortable for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like hell. I've been dating this amazing guy for 4 months and its just amazing. But I don't think his sister likes me. Every time he asks me to go away with him and his youth group I decline because his sister is going to be there and she intimidates me as she looks at ... (122 words)