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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friends are acting VERY weird after my break-up. From trying to set me up with a terminally ill patient to inviting me for a threesome!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok--this is kind of weird. Bear with me, please. I just split up with my partner of 6 years. I'm pretty upset over it. Most of my friends have been very supportive, but 2 of them (a couple) have started acting just plain weird. 1--they tried to set me up with their ol... (297 words)

I am a bi male, had sex with my male best friend, what now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Im bi 15 male and woke up next to my 15 year old male best friend! We did have sex and we both enjoyed it and he wants to do it again but im not sure! I just want some advice on it plz.... (44 words)

How do I get my husband to look at me and not naked pictures??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband loves me dearly but will not stop looking at porn, but will not look at me. what do i do? weve been married for 17 years. ... (30 words)

Has he lost interest? my boyfriend is ignoring me, not texting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has been acting mean to me lately. We've been going out for one year and two months now. He doesn't seem to care about me any more. At school he barely talks to me and he doesn't Text me. We don't hold hands or kiss much. He talks to everyone else but it seems... (198 words)

He's a senior colleague of mine. But does he really like me? I'm not sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I work in a professional firm in the city in I was born outside USA and have top academic and professional credentials and am closeted gay. There is a senior colleague in our firm who is gay. I have told him I am gay and we spend a lot of time together. I really like this guy ... (282 words)

How important is the first love to a man when it is years over?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - To men,how important is the first love to a man when it is years over? Does your first love still have a special place in your heart? If you have dated her for 4-5 years,do you still think of her at some point in your life even if you have a new girlfriend now? P.S. first lov... (77 words)

My friends say leave my husband of 8 years. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for 8 years to the love of my life, he changed jobs 18 months ago and had to move on his own for 3 months, until we could find a home together. i moved in with him last new years day in a flat above where he worked. i listened to him bragging about the pros... (143 words)

Why do I feel funny about kissing my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there. i love my boyfriend alot. i trust him and we have known each other for a long time. the thing is i'm just not wanting to kiss him. i'm fine with him hugging me really tightly and feeling me up but not kissing. it just feels so wrong. i dont know why?... (54 words)

How can I fix my uneven skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi peeps!! Basically I have uneven skin. Is there anyway to even it?? I'm black but light skinned so it stands out ALOT. Lemons don't seem to work. Is there anything else? Thanks x... (43 words)

My boyfriend heard a rumor that I'm cheating on him. How do I prove I'm not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has trust issues due to his ex girlfriends cheating on him. He has a hard time trusting anyone. Every time something related to cheating comes up he gets so mad and accuses me. He gets so jealous when another guy even says hi to me. The other day he was talking to ... (145 words)

How do I deal with losing the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy two years ago when i was at the university and he was working. We dated till last year that is dec 12 when we decided to give our relationship a break after a misunderstanding. On 15 dec he sent me an sms inviting me to his place claiming that he had secured me a ... (372 words)

In my 50s, never had a gf or intimate relationship, and am looking for guidance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age - I’d be grateful for some advice. I’ve posted this on a couple of forums to get various opinions. I’m a heterosexual man in his 50‘s, and I’ve never had a girlfriend or had any intimate relationship with a woman. I was an adopted only child and missed a lot of my sch... (613 words)

How do I get her see past my skin colour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay life story.. This question is specifically about a girl I like but I'll probably go off the point a bit. Alright then - there is this girl I've liked for a while now (a few months to half a year). We'll call her S. She is black, I'm white etc. We're both in the sam... (407 words)

My roving childhood makes it hard for me to form relationships. Will it ever get easier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been to 7 different states. My life has been composed of trying to make some friends and leaving my friends. Still to this day, I have a hard time with all of it. Why is it so hard on me still? Most of my life, I've been on my own aside from family. School is done f... (198 words)

Lack of interest in sex, new password on her phone, deleted texts: Is my gf cheating on me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have not long been together. At first, everything was perfect, we had loads of fun, always saw each other and one night (only been seeing each other for a few months) she tells me she loves me. I must admit i felt the same. Anyway, her job requires her... (396 words)

I like a girl who's taken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I like this person for a few years now, despite she's been taken before I met her. I would feel bad if I made someone I like realize that her current relationship may be wrong. At the same time, it's kind of helping as if it would be say 5 years or even at marriage... (148 words)

"I'm working on it"...I'm not sure what she means

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I was/am (you see, I don't know) together with my partner for one year. She is 39 and I am 41. I have a child from a previous marriage, a lovely 12 year old girl while my partner is childless but wants children. We live 2 hours from each other, me in London and she on the ... (316 words)

I just don't know what to make of her behaviour!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Pls help me. I am really upset. Please :'( I have loved her like crazy for 4 years. We started uni 4 years ago together. I was a Pakistani and she was too. I fell in love with her. She did not love me. I made her say yes to me after a lot of efforts. The next year was a year o... (454 words)

I'm only truly happy when I'm in a relationship, what's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is an inconvenient truth for me... I've realized that I'm only ever truly happy when I am in a relationship. I love the feeling of being loved and I absolutely loving making someone else feel special. For me, nothing in life is better. Unfortunately when I'm without, I c... (194 words)

How can I get over him ASAP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Mkay so basically I've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasn't my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didn't want to. we eventually broke up because i couldnt take it. Well 3 ... (232 words)

How long should he take to confess his love to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How long does it normally take him to say he loves you and mean it? I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months and I'm pretty certain he loves me as much as I love him, but I'm not sure whether to wait for him to admit it first or whether I should just jump right in ... (161 words)

Do I bring this up to him or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My future husband and I had a fight about this woman that he works with over the fact that she texts/calls alot. (He is 25 and she is 45). She knows about me and she is just a very friendly person - - she messages me on facebook alot about getting together. He says that they ... (139 words)

Is it normal to still feel bitter 7 years later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to still feel bitter about a relationship seven years later? This girl I really liked dumped me on prom. I went nuts on her after. THings never worked out. Fast forward to today. I'm 24. I'm angry and bitter because I haven't found anyone. I always think to ... (79 words)

Do I assume that he is cheating on me or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so insecure when it comes to my boyfriend. I want to trust him, but I have been hurt in my past. Anyway, I figured out his password to his cell phone, and I check it often. Once I heard a girl leave her name and told him to call her back. I couldn't help it, so I ... (168 words)

I want to get my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had this gf that had left me and I met this other girl that I've had been dating her for 2months. And I left her for my other ex and then after a while I started talking to her and I did the same stupid mistake. And now I really want something serious with her but I don't ... (91 words)

Sick of his lies over smoking, porn, and just everything. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, where do I start? My boyfriend is constantly lying about everything. About what he's doing and who he is with and smoking and porn. The smoking is not your everyday cigarette, it's pot. And the porn I wouldn't mind so much if he would at least not hide it. If I ask him ... (124 words)

I have somewhat of an existential crisis. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have absolutely no idea where to go from here. I recently broke up with my boyfriend for probably the sixth time after finding him have cyber sex with random girls. I want to stay broken up for good, I really do, but it is almost impossible for me not to call him. I start off ... (334 words)

Married at 22, been trying to fall pregnant for 8 years now, please advise

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i need advise urgently.i got married when i was 22 ive been trying to fall pregnant for 8 years!is it possible that i may not have kids i am cying day and night i dont know what to do pls help me... (42 words)

A question about this guy and his bestfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is two related questions is one big question. 1) There's this guy I've known for a while but we just recently started talking. He chatted me on Facebook on Tuesday telling me I was cute and asked if I would hook up, and I said I didn't know yet so he asked for my num... (272 words)

How do you deal with a partner's ego/pride?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - One thing I have a hard time dealing with other people's pride, particularly when I am in a close relationship. It gets me so frustrated when a person can't admit they are wrong, or they see themselves as always good, and they never feel remorse. I know I am not perfect, but... (110 words)

It took me three years after the break up to find someone else, but I fear getting hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i broke up with my boyfriend 3 year ago and it has took me this long to find some one else but there is this guy he is really sweet but i just dont know what to do as i have two boys and i dont want to get hurt and i dont want my two boys to get hurt so i need some help ... (69 words)

A married man at work wants my attention. I am attracted to him, so I'm struggling with this. How can I stop these feelings, and how do I get him to leave me alone

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a pretty young woman. There is this man at work who is always trying to get my attention but he has a wife and family. I really find him attractive and think he is a nice person. But I do not want to get in the middle of a marriage or cause any problems for myself. I wo... (213 words)

I was her rebound, will she ever realize how much I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She is in a relationship with her bf for 5 years now, but it was not easy for her. Went through many break ups but patched back with him, got emotionally hurt, he slapped her once, cried a lot and her bf is possessive too. For a year, she had feelings for me and liked me. She ... (145 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, and he is contemplating revenge cheating. How can we get past this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

4 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is trying to get pass the fact that I cheated on him and lied about it. The situation is that I kissed a coworker about 6 times and we ended up touching on each other. I lied about how the kiss happened and how many times we kissed. Also I didn't tell him that I ... (424 words)

We were engaged, broke up, I contacted him, he sent me a Valentine's gift and message. I rejected him, but I still love him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a boyfriend. After a year and a half he proposed. We were engaged for 4 months and we broke up because he started a business with his family and told me nothing about it. I didn't like it because he was totally invested in it and practically left me alone with all the ... (335 words)

He told me he didn't want a relationship, which is fine. I just want him to be like he was when we first met! What's his deal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there! I met a guy at a bar in December and it was one of those "wow! I feel like I already know you" type things. The sexual chemistry was totally there, we were chatting, he was very affectionate toward me, and saying really nice things to me. Then he said he wanted to ... (505 words)

I'm worried because I have no sexual experience. How will I know what to do when I finally have a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I have no sexual experience and I'm not exactly popular or pretty. How will I know what to do when it comes to it because I would actually like to have a sexual relationship without my lack of knowledge affecting it? ... (44 words)

I want to move with my best friend, her family, and my brother, but she doesn't want me to go! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I were very close until she started to date my brother. I lived in England with my friend and her family, and then we all moved back to Ireland. Her mam wants to move back to England. The only problem is that my brother is going too and she told me she ... (72 words)

I'm 15, pregnant, no parents of my own AND my baby will be without a dad! Please advise!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. Please don't judge me I have enough on my plate as it is without other people adding to it. I am 15, 16 in November and I got pregnant when I lost my virginity. But we used a condom that split and the pill but.. you know, it happens. I am about 13-14 weeks and ... (144 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me twice. She's receiving counseling and takes full responsibility. Should I give it another shot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend broke up with me, twice. The first time was like a weekend, I agreed to get back together. The second time, I was tired of being taken for a chump and that was that. It's been 3 months now. We've been talking a lot. She's been coming over a lot (and spending ... (145 words)

The man I am dating and planning to marry has a fetish for shemales. I worry about my future. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have read some similar subject as mine but I need some advice, or get some idea of what this is or not? It is important for my future. My friend now for a couple of years has an interest in shemales. In fact, after four years of marriage -so far I get to know- (now d... (465 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me, and it hurts so much! He was my everything! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend had being acting funny for a month, asking to go on a break. He'd come back, we'd make up, and he'd ask for a break again. The third time he came back and he said he'd been thinking and that he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he's not used to it. ... (194 words)

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We don't want to hide our relationship. How can we approach my parents about this, and what should we say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I am 16 years old and the guy I love is 19. We met a year ago at my youth group (church). We hit it off as soon as we met. He saw me at my worst and still thought I was beautiful. We will have dated for 4 months on March 14 2011. We have been dating behind my pa... (289 words)

My family are wealthy. His is not. Should I pay for everything on our first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please give me advice.. I have a boyfriend. He was my friend when i was in junior high school. Now he lives in another city. Two months ago he found me on facebook. We share all. Two weeks ago he said he loves me. And so do i. So we decide to have a relationship. Next week... (188 words)

Why? I get get left out of dating, kissing and my friends houseparties.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, i was just wondering. you see, i'm fifteen and i've never been on a date nor kissed a guy before. my friends are all starting to go on dates and be kissed now and i feel left out. it's not like I am huge or have an ugly face or something, but guys just don't seem ... (125 words)

What happens to women who mainly look for money

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - there are a lot of girls out there who are mainley looking for sugar daddies or guys with money and dont care about other things, are they gonna get hurt in the end? also, does this mean they have given up on love?... (43 words)

How do I tell him I just don't want to be with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years. I do love him, but I'm not in love with him. Sense about a year into the relationship I have wanted out. But we already lived together and have a dog, so its hard. Everyone probably thinks that it's just a dog ... (456 words)

Will a man respect me for being a virgin at 31?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - still a virgin at thirty one will i get the man my heart like, will he respect me for keeping virgin for all those year waiting for him to be the first to break?... (34 words)

Husband's ex and children causing rift in our marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married to a man who has children from previous relationship, his ex she has always trying to put the seeds for conflicts in our marriage, using her children as a tool. My husband he is a very kind father who wants everything good for his children. And he is the kind man... (1020 words)

I'm gonna guess a 4th date is a no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - 3rd date we've gotten allog great then we have sex twice and I pay for an expensive hotel .....our personalitys click and we both laugh and enjoy each others company ....she was attracted to me and she liked me all the way up to this point.... The sex we had was pretty bad I... (170 words)

Boyfriend doesn't respect my hobby and career decisions...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel my boyfriend doesn't take my passion for art or the career path I want to follow seriously. I've explained to him is part of who I am, drawing means everything to me as it's not just a hobby, it's something I hope to be into within my career and literally make a living ... (219 words)

How do I tell her I like her when she has stopped talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Friends please help me i have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily we just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship and she is a bit shy and doesnt like this that someone is saying that we are in r... (210 words)

Queries about love, long term relationships, choice and looks.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been in a problem of fancying about love a lot.I must say that I am a shy kind of person and short tempered sometimes but get well while flirting with classmate or joking around with mates.I am 22 and had never been in any long relationship except 1 very short 1 though. I ... (422 words)

Mycosis, again, ...really?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - mycosis, vaginal mycosis. really so a few months ago, my gf has a swollen / red p**sy, my own fella is a bit white colored - 7 day bateria treatment program including sheets, towels (changed daily) plus a creme both of us... nice. im ''assured'' it cant be down to std's it... (175 words)

My younger GF is jealous of my ex + child !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi - where do i start? Ill try to be brief (lol) im over 35, seeing a Young Woman, 22 we get along great, shes not a bimbo, very compatable sexually, shes stunning, adoring etc been together a year and shes living with me most days and at her parents home a few nigh... (867 words)

13 year old boyfriend wears briefs. Does it really matter?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these: http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html... (22 words)

Is giving her space all she needs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have posted a question about my girlfriend before who wouldnt introduce me to her kids, her parents or her friends. I can accept the situation with her kids becuase I have kids of my own and I can see you wouldnt introduce them until you where 100% sure that it was going ... (364 words)

First time BJ! I might freak out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin and i have never gone further than hand jobs with my bf. I really want to give him head but i'm scared that i'll start to and then get grossed out and offend him or something (it ISN'T gross, it's just my first time and i'm nervous) As a guy.. would you mind u... (84 words)

Violence...What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm in need of some help. For about a year now, like clockwork, once a month, me and my partner have a massive row, brining everything up at once about everything that has pissed the other one of in the past month even if it is relevant or not to what started the disa... (464 words)

The most wanted pennis size

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u... (34 words)

I've had it with drinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age - my boyfriend of 10 months is a binge drinker, my mother was an alchoholic i dont want to end up the same, do i leave this man or stay with him, i do love him an he says he loves me, but it seems he loves the drink more... (49 words)

Baby daddy attempts to have sex with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just came out of a 4 year relationship,not by my choice, i am davastated beyond belief. i know there should be no contact but we have a 1 year old girl together so have remained "friends'' but everytime i see him he tries to sleep with me and tell me all the things i want to ... (132 words)

Anal sex resulted in bleeding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is alexis im 18 and i had anal sex with a condom but ive noticed that i have anal bleeding wen i wipe my bottom and it hurts after i go to the toilet is this normal ?? im getting a quite worried Please help... (49 words)

Am I heading for a big fall here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

4 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Im in a real mess and need some direction. After being married 20 years which has been loveless for 10 years and had 2 children from it, ive developed a relationship with a lady whom I love so much that perhaps my judgment is clouded. She has had a very difficult life ... (234 words)

Is he just taking things slowly or I'm just a "casual gf" to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being in a relationship for the past 4 months. We are still at casual dating stage. We only see each other a couple of nights a week and I dont get to see him much on weekends and we never go anywhere through the day time. He says I should go out on weekends with my friends ... (348 words)

I compare my current BF to my Ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I know that it is not right to compare people. But I can't help compare my current bf to my ex. My ex cheated on me before and that led to our break-up but then communication-wise, he never failed to check on me around once or twice a day. Ask me how my day went, if i ... (313 words)

He said he loved me too soon...but now I'm catching feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 yrs old.there is a guy, we studied together in o level the same school (boarding). after final exams we all returned home. when i was home after two weeks i saw a text wishing me good nite, since it was new number he introduced himself, honestly i was astounded cuz we ... (140 words)

How can I tell if he he likes me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy at school. He talks to me, and we text each other from time to time. He always says hi to me in the hall ways and smiles at me. We don't have lunch together, we're in different social circles. I saw him at lunch today talking and laughing with this other girl. ... (77 words)

He's so handsome and so inexperienced? What does he want?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - one thing that is troubling is that the guy I've been seeing for almost 4 months now is he's never had a girlfriend let alone had sex either and he's almost 23. I was VERY surprised because he's very, very attractive, very affectionate, smart, kind, funny, not pressuring me ... (216 words)

He can't get over my sexual past....and his behavior is ruining us

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Mkay so basically i've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasnt my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didnt want to. we eventually broke up because i couldnt take it. well 3 month... (231 words)

Do you think he likes me? What should I do now?

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4 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a freshman at high school, and um... how do I put this... Ok, so I'm bi (or gay, i'm not sure which one) and I was interested in this guy in my P.E. class. Well anyways, so after observing him for about 3 to 4 months I decided to tell him that I like him, so on Va... (360 words)

I think I could be bisexual...

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys! I've asked a question on here before and the answers were very helpful, but now I have a different question. I'm confused about my sexual orientation! I think I could be bisexual. I wouldn't have a problem with being bisexual, but my parents would. My father is very ... (174 words)

Communication & Sex

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with a guy who is 3 yrs older than I. We are both still virgins and we want to have sex, but everytime we try to, something happens and it gets put off. I love when he holds me and kisses me and such, but I'm afraid he won't like what he sees when we ... (98 words)

He's not at my level career or education wise!

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I don't know if I'm wrong to be concerned and feel bad about getting more serious with him simply because our future career views are different. I currently have a Bachelor's degree in Alternative Medicine and want to continue my education. When we met, my plan was to trave... (373 words)

I want strangers to see my wife naked!

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4 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to show my wife nude body to strangers accidentally plz advice me what should i do?it makes me excited...and is this normal?.... (24 words)

Broke up with BF. Hes Making little changes..but is that enough or am I wasting my time?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend.. we have been dating for 6 months. We got along great, he makes me laugh and i could see myself marrying him(he said the same about me and talked bout the future alot) cept for a few important things that bugged me - we hardly saw each... (525 words)

I'm too young to be thinking about this stuff! right?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunties. I have a new question. I am a commitment phobe, and my boyfriend is the complete opposite (seems kind of rare, huh?) We've been dating for two years, and he was my best friend who I never fully realized my attraction for until my last boyfriend and I broke up... (244 words)

I feel as though I'm holding my emotions in.

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. This isn't really a relationship question but I need help. One of my friends passed away on Febuary 4th. I haven't cried right. What I mean by that, I mean I've only cried for 3 minutes each time i do. The day he dies three minutes at school. At the viewing 3 minute... (223 words)

No orgasm from oral sex. Am I weird?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't orgasm from oral sex! Only from masturbating can i do it. When my boyfriend uses his hands down there it feels good, I just think I haven't had an orgasm from that because I'm too nervous (performance anxiety) about NOT having an orgasm. So I know I need to relax with ... (173 words)

I found out my boyfriend of 2 years was having a long distance relationship! Should I forgive him?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I just found out today that he's had a long distant relationship with another woman for the last year, so I wrote him an email to end our relationship. I found out by making a fake profile on a social networking website and requesting ... (148 words)

I'm 31, have 2 children, and I'm divorced. I know I'm a lesbian, but how do I convince others this is who I am?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me... I am 31. I have 2 older children, and was married to their dad for 10 yrs. Ok this is where it gets complicated... I always wondered why I seemed as a 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13yr old that I had thoughts about other girls, I even went as far as to fantasize and even ... (430 words)

My boyfriend tells me he would be happy with or without me! We're supposed to marry next year. What should I do?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please give me advice! My boyfriend who wants to marry me next year is telling me he is happy with me or without me. Why would he say something like that? Is it because he doesn't love me? I can't get the answer. Please you might have good answer for me. Should I still marry ... (80 words)

Will lose my home and my car if I continue dating this boy

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So my problem is that my grandmother(with whom I live with) absolutely hates the boy I'm dating. I am 17 years old, he is 18 and as of the moment she doesn't know we're dating. We've been dating for about 6 months now without her knowing but its getting harder to hide ... (252 words)

I love this girl in my class. She's all I can think about! What should I do?

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4 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi friends, Please help me. I am a student of class 11 and I have fallen in love with a classmate of mine. I just truly love her, but all my friends and her friends now know that I like her, and most probably she also knows that I like her. She is somewhat of a shy type of ... (185 words)

We argue a lot, and I feel like I'm his slave! I don't want to leave him, but I need to know how I can make this relationship better. Please help!

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. Please advise me. I really need it. I'm afraid my future husband and I will be breaking apart. We have been together for 3.5 years. The first year went pretty good we had a bit of fight but not too big of a deal. But the past three months I felt so stressed out ... (397 words)

Do these signs point to an orgasm or is she faking it?

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4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had this fear until last week that my girlfriend was faking orgasms. We are each other's first sexual partners, and I relied on my fingers/tongue, rather than my woefully average 5 inches in girth to get the job done. I don't see a reason why she would need to fake them at ... (182 words)

Should I tell him I like him? He's graduating soon and I'll still be here.

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a thing for this guy, but he's also my friend. I'm not sure why i do this, but I have a habit of hugging him a lot. We see each other a lot so thats quite a bit of hugging. The other thing is that they aren't short I hug him for a really long time. The first few time... (393 words)

What's the best way to get us communicating better together?

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4 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this girl at the moment. We were dating last year for a month or so, when she decided to cool things off. After about 2 weeks of her being cold with me and not knowing where I stood, I called the whole thing off. A few months later, we see each other again, and she ... (299 words)

Is it normal that it takes me 6 hours to climax when I'm having sex with my girlfriend?

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4 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hello again. I have a question about my performance. My girlfriend and I had a lot of sex during the past summer. We had sex for about 6 hours every time we had sex, almost non-stop without me climaxing. I know she climaxed many times, but what does it mean for me that I ... (63 words)

I love this woman, but she has lost her feelings for me. I'm in emotional turmoil! How do I get her back?

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4 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. So... where to start. About a year ago, I met a girl online, and we started talking via IM. We grew closer and closer as the conversations got more frequent, to a point where we'd talk for hours on end every single day. It was obvious to both of us that we're developi... (456 words)

The whole time he seemed like he wanted a relationship too but then just changed his mind..

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating a guy for 2 months on a regular basis and he kept persuing me for more dates and everything was going great. He invited me to meet his parents, I hung out with his friends but we both never really spoke about what we wanted we just went with the flow and I didnt th... (382 words)

My facebook pictures make me look amazingly perfect and a lot of guys have been asking me out based on them...but thats not how I really am! What do I do now?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I would really appreciate it if you could help me! Ever since I made a Facebook account, I found that I looked so much prettier in my photos, whether they were mobile uploads, photoshopped, or profile pictures. Somehow my itouch was able to capture my face in a way that ... (259 words)

My boyfriend's turns 16 on Wednesday, and I need gift ideas! Please help!

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid...my boyfriend's birthday is on Wednesday and he's turning 16. I have absolutely no idea on what to give him. I want to give him something REALLY CUTE that shows how I feel, and something that he will greatly appreciate. I already gave him a necklace with both our ... (74 words)

He holds eye contact, is he interested?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So if a guy always makes really prolonged eye contact, would you say that it's because he might be interested? There's this guy that I catch looking at me pretty often and we'll hold eye contact for quite a few seconds (usually until I look away). Sometimes we'll just stare at ... (77 words)

I am getting mixed signals from this guy! Does he like me?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this boy about two years ago. I met him through a friend, and only started talking to him because my gay friend fancied him. So, as soon as I started talking to him, I felt this really strong sexual tension. Honestly, you could cut through it with a knife. I thought it ... (703 words)

If your partner smokes weed, what effect does that have in terms of your daily life and sex?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone I like smokes weed does what does that affect in terms of everyday life and sexually? I really like him and he feels the same but I feel turned off by him smoking weed and his friends do to, I have read many times how it stops them getting an erection or reduces sexua... (117 words)

New relationship insecurities or valid concern?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really, really like this guy that I work with and he seems to like me. We've been on a date to the movies and he's come over to my place twice we made out and talked for hours... so much fun. He's very affectionate and we're having fun getting to know each other better. As ... (348 words)

A co-worker has a crush on me. Is it my turn to pursue him?

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4 March 2011 (F)

age - I have a question regarding the game of romance. A co-worker has a crush on me. It used to be that he would just stare at me. Next step was going out of his way to walk past my desk, etc. He knows that I have feelings for him also. We doesn't talk much, mainly just eye ... (166 words)

My dominating boyfriend who thinks he's "Gods Gift" is making my life miserable...

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, so im about to turn 17 and my boyfriend is about to be 21. we have been together for a couple months and things are getting very complicated. im becoming scared of him. he keeps pressuring me about falling in love... he always says "i dont think you love me". and i dont k... (431 words)

I'm abusive to my boyfriend, help!!

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - About 8 months ago, I got into a relationship with an amazing guy. He's sweet, caring, funny, and he'd never do anything to hurt anyone. Unfortunately, I have emotional issues that have never been resolved, and a couple months ago, I began physically abusing him. I get so ... (188 words)

People don't think we look cute together

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4 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this boy and he told me that he loved me but I'm not sure because we've been best friends since we were babies and I'm 15. So, I'm not sure what to tell him because people don't think we look cute together. I think I like him but I'm still not sure what to do.... (57 words)