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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not attracted to him even though we're perfect for each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is that I'm currently involved with a great guy, but I'm not really attracted to him. Here's the deal: We're high school juniors and we've been friends for a while. I've only ever seen him as a friend, nothing more. Well, a few weeks ago, my other friend told me t... (460 words)

Will anal sex hurt every time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my boyfriend and i want to have anal sex..does anyone have tips. and is there anyway to make it hurt less...other than a lot of lube.. and will it hurt everytime..... (33 words)

He doesn't deserve my trust or faith but is love worth the gamble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - This is a bit long because I feel like I should explain everything. I met this guy randomly on a night out. I was feeling a bit down cos my little sister had recently moved in with her boyfriend leaving me the only one in the family single (except for a few widows). So when... (1038 words)

Why does this girl blurt out bits and piece of her past, and was she a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So guys, I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, and she keeps telling me bits and pieces of her past, without me asking her to, so not too long ago we were having some alone time, and again she blurts more things out, and I ask her "why are you telling me this?" And she ... (599 words)

Is the first kiss always the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Not so much a question as I need peoples opinions. Okay, first kisses. The first kiss you have with someone, is that always the best? With my boyfriend, the first kiss had so much build up. And when it happened, my belly was literally doing loops and I got amazing butterfl... (169 words)

Married 4 years and we have never had sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for four years but have not had intercourse with my husband. he is little shy n in the beginning never took an initiative but he masturbates on regular basis. he even refuses to see a doctor. with much pressure from my end we attended 2-3 counsellings with a ... (118 words)

Girlfriend or father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, i'm a fourteen year old boy and il tell you a little bit of background about my situation first. i'v been going out with my girlfriend for eight months now and i really love her, i can't think about anyone else and its going really well. it's a long distance relationship ... (172 words)

I lied to my fiance about my sexual past because I didn't want him to think I was a slut

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have not been totally honest with my fiance... i did not want him to think i was a slut so i lied to him about how many people i have slept with and the kinds of things i have done. i had very low self esteem and emotionally abusive parents so i sought love from men from the ... (266 words)

Her breath smells bad during fingering and sex...why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I want a little help on something. This question got rejected 2 times and I am again editing it. I hope it gets published now. Ok so here it is. Whenever me and my girlfriend have sex, as soon as I start fingering her, I smell a strange bad odour from her mouth in... (134 words)

What should I do? Ring him or wait for him to call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? ring him or wait for him to call? My ex boyfriend broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship, I later found out he'd been cheating on me for 2months. I told him I know about his other girl, he begged to see me and to talk, I told him I neede... (174 words)

I hate feeling like his sugar son!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I've been in a relationship with my partner (also male) for the past 5 years. He's done a lot for me, i.e been very supportive of my new career, moved to a new part of the country to be with me etc. When we first moved in together he was out of work and remained ... (186 words)

LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Me and my bf are in LDR for the past 6 months. I'll be going back within 3-4 months. My bf wants to have sex with some callgirls, since there was no sex for the past 6 months. I dont like the idea, when i said even i didnt have any sex for 6 months but i am not hving any... (121 words)

Confused about directions on bottle of Nair...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, i'm kind of confused. i was reading the back of a bottle of nair, and up at the top, it said that it could be used on the bikini area. then, i kept reading, and it said that it couldn't be used in perianal/vaginal/genital areas. soo, like i said...i'm confu... (104 words)

Is dry sex illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 15 born in 95 and my Girlfriend born in 97, We've just discovered the joys of dry sex, The legal age is 16 in the UK but as we are under 16, Dry sex as some of you might know doesn't involve intercourse, Is it illegal? Just want to know, not gonna break up w... (77 words)

I know that SOME disappointment is part of life, but it ALWAYS happens to me! No one has EVER returned my feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to be happy, and for the pain to stop but I've never felt so alone! I would like to share my life, and I don't know if there's any hope of that or if I just need to GET OVER that desire... furthermore, how do I get over it? I'm 29, and I've had feelings for a ... (206 words)

Why did my ex un-friend me on facebook when she found out I was dating someone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I date this girl for about 4 years. We broke up in August very amicably. We both loved each other but knew because of our circumstances could not get married. So I found out on fb 2 months later that she had met someone then she got engaged to him and then got married..all ... (174 words)

My wife enjoys telling me all about her past sexual encounters...is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) age - my wife tole me about all her sexual encounters after her devorce from her st husband and seemed to enjoy telling me even though I hadn't asked. Is this normal.? xxx... (34 words)

My boyfriend is stessed out and busy, I have to beg for sex, and his good looking team mate is flirting with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend Eric for four years, and we've been living together for over two of those years. We've been good friends since the ninth grade (we're both 27 now), and we share a lot of the same friends. He's a really great guy; he treats me with respect, shows ... (570 words)

Is it okay for my boyfriend to still see his hairdresser if he has slept with her in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Here is my dilemma. My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and I think he is the person I am going to be marrying, but recently I just can't get past this issue. To make a long story short, my boyfriend had too much to drink one night and made a comme... (289 words)

Problem friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I suppose I'm just sad and don't know what to do. My problems are two-fold and probably generic so i'll try to keep it short. 1. I like this guy. I really like him. He's into all the same stuff as me, friendly, nice, funny and someone i can just be myself around. We talk a... (538 words)

His schooling is a HUGE issue between us...He has no time for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've not been with my boyfriend for long, but I knew him when we were children (ages 4-11). He's a very sweet when we're together, and though his texts and messages are short, to the point and anything but conversational, he tries. But, no matter how hard he tries, I just don... (325 words)

He's got me and her and I'm left alone 4 nights a week

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi been with my guy for 11 yrs why wont he become a fully grown couple. i already know what ishould do but i love him so much. you see we were both in relationships when it started we were each others 3 legged stool. he left his wife but i never at 1st,so he started a new ... (186 words)

Husband doesn't want sex unless he has taken a drug

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in a married relationship i am 43 and my husband is 36 when we met we hit it off straight away sex was great and regular we got married a year ago and my husband takes a drug which is called speed i think our sex life has been very boring and we hardly ever make love but ... (183 words)

How can I interest him? How can I tease him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with a guy, but I don't know if he likes me. Once we were working together and I asked him for some help, he came over and said I'll get up for you, not anyone else ;) and then he said look you made me get up now and looked at himself then back at me. I didn't ... (194 words)

Help with premature ejaculation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - WHILE HAVING SEX MINE EJACULATES WITHIN 2 SECONDS AND I CANNOT SATISFY MY WIFE. PLEASE ADVISE ME FOR IMPROVEMENT... (19 words)

My friend doesn't treat his girlfriend well...and I like her. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my friends girlfriend have been talking recently online and when we see each other in person. my friend isn't a good friend and he isn't a good boyfriend either and i don't see their relationship going anywhere. i told her on that i think she is a great person to ... (241 words)

I was too pushy, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I met a guy who really liked me and made it obvious. He chased me for ages. He started to text me regulalry and then suddenlyy stopped. Then I started to text him and went a bit over board. I told him I really liked him and he backed off comepoletely. I realise I was far too ... (112 words)

Has anyone ended a marriage to pursue what was an affair? Results?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I have a question for anyone who has ever ended a marriage or serious relationship to solely be with the person of your affair instead of your spouse. I know statistics are really low in the favor of it actually working out and I always hear a lot of negative remarks. So ... (89 words)

We had an affair now he doesn't seem to care

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some help getting some answers on something I did and something that happened to me recently. I was in a relationship but noit very happy. I considered leaving the relationship but cared about my bf and wanted to see if we could work things out by talking and c... (861 words)

Boyfriend invited girl he used to crush on to his holiday house and now the trip is ruined for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has decided that in the Summer, he wants to take me and some friends to his holiday house. This sounded great to me and I couldn't wait for it. He has now invited a girl he used to fancy (and who, in all honesty, I feel I was 2nd best to when we first started to go ... (239 words)

Is he afraid of commitment or he just doesn't like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I might go to GRAD school in three years (my second bachelors) out of state. guy im dating says he is too scared he will fall in love with me, and wouldn't wanna deal with me moving. now, i might stay in state for grad school, not move, and he is still saying im too good for ... (113 words)

I have him wrapped around my little finger and I really adore him. So what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's a guy (as there usually is, huh?) and we are the best of friends. For some reason we grew apart last year and didn't see each other for an entire six months, until suddenly i was hanging out with him one weekend, and the one after-- and now regularly. And s... (228 words)

I feel our relationship changing, I don't know what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4635 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Basically I am stuck in this situation because I always try to be the cool one. The one how never complains and keeps going on good terms with every one, but this time I feel sad. Sad despite I never show it and I am always laughing and smiling. So it is going to be a su... (376 words)

Is it wrong to suck up to your teachers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wrong to "suck-up" to your teachers? I have complemented teachers about many things, their hair, jewllery and cloths. I usually only do it to teacher that know me and I get on well with. It is custom in primary to give presents to your teachers. I always did. In ... (256 words)

In the garbage I find evidence of my wife's affair...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age - I am in a situation that has devastated me. I have always trusted my wife of 15 years, was not suspicious or jealous of her having multiple male friends (mostly musicians with whom she performed amateur sesssions), and in general did not worry about what was going on when she ... (500 words)

HELP!!! My best friend is mad at me and her bf for us having sex together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my best friend had sex with her boyfriend but then he was hitting on me and we went back to his place and we were having sex and my best friend walked in whilst we were having sex and shes made at me and her boyfriend. I didn't for it to happen and I need advice. HELP!!!... (60 words)

Is HPV a major cause for concern?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have a few questions regarding HPV... Obviously any sort of virus is a cause for concern, but it seems recently HPV has been talked about heavily, especially for and by women. I recently saw an ad on the TV for some drug for women and it said something like 4... (251 words)

I want to show him that I too am a romantic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo there's this guy that i've recently taken an interest in; a mutual friend gave him my cell phone number, he started texting me, and we just really hit it off. we've been on three dates, and they were all absolutely awesome...especially our first date. he d... (148 words)

B/f confessed that he is married with a child on the way in 3 months! I didn't see this and am devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Until yesterday I was seeing a guy for about 6 months - we just dated and spent the odd weekend together. Two days ago he came over to my house and sat down and said he had something to tell me. He was married, already had a two year old and as I was trying to come to terms ... (355 words)

We keep butting heads, I want to work it out, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm 26 and i'm in a 3 way relationship. i'm not very good at things like this so i try very hard to make sure i do the right thing. both of the other men with me r 2x my age. one of them i get along with very well but the other one is just like me (just older) so we bump ... (157 words)

My ex moved on, now having a baby, I'm not over him, heard he still cares, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently wrote in and asked 'how do you mend a broken heart?' My ex of 2 years and i split up 10months ago. We were in a LDR between Uk and USA. He tried to get me back for ages, saying how much he had messed up and missed me and i generally thought 'ive heard all of thi... (376 words)

I'm six months pregnant and he does not want to have sex, how do I get him interested??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 6 months pregnant and my fiance turned me down when I wanted to have sex a few weeks ago. I was really hurt because I felt rejected and like I'm not attractive enough right now for him. I'm now scared to try and initiate anything in the intimacy department. What would be ... (77 words)

Has anyone ever kept the truth from their partner and it did not destroy the relationship??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is a relationship where you have lied, and cannot get yourself to tell the truth, a relationship worth staying in? Will the guilt of lying and of having betrayed someone you love get to be too much? Cannot confess a truth, but don't know if the deception will wind up destroying ... (70 words)

We have a special bond, he stares at me, says I'm beautiful and perfect, he's a teacher, does he like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a young Canadian teacher in school and he's extremely handsome. We get along very well and always have a good laugh and he knows about my health problems. He's even going to let me go to stay in his house when he has to go back to Canada to study Zoology. We have a very ... (126 words)

Why does he send dirty pictures to some girls and handsome pictures to another??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy send dirty pictures? Why would a guy send dirty pictures of himself and ask for some in return to other girls but only send handsome pictures to another girl? He says the one he send handsome pictures to, he respects her. Is this really true? does he ... (77 words)

Should my baby have the father's name if he does not show up for the birth??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What as should I do???... I am 39weeks pregnant an well be getting induce tomorrow!..My babys father left me about a month ago . he completly ignors me an does not check to see how im feeling. You can say I have ((dead beat baby daddy)) for some resson he still has my heart. I ... (135 words)

We talked & not talked, fooled around & stopped, now he stares saying nothing, what does this mean??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ive liked this boy for about 2 years, and we used to talk constantly, then one day we went out and we got really close, from then we started going out loads, weve kissed millions of times and done other stuff, we both admitted to liking each other, but it was secret between me ... (123 words)

Will my shorter penis please her as much as a longer one?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, been lurking here, and have seen all the questions on penis size. I know these get asked a thousand times, but I have another one, sorry. I have never been insecure about my size before, but I am with a girl who was with a guy much, much bigger than me before...about 9" ... (195 words)

Why didn't I see this coming? I was dumped over text message!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - met a guy in January. He approached me. We hit it off. In the beginning of our courtship, I was a little cautious simply because I didn't want my feeling hurt by this guy. I expressed my concern to him and we had at least 3 good conversations about his (and mine) ... (620 words)

I'm having pain after sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a rather embarassing question to ask. On friday night my husband and I had sex that seemed to last a long time, maybe over an hour or more. We did have foreplay so when we went to have intercourse I would be ready. Well anyways, we did it for a while till... (320 words)

Inlove with my boyfriend's cousin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, for some time now, about 7 years, I've been with the same man, we had a baby very early in the relationship because I just wasn't damned careful enough to use more than a condom to prevent pregnancy. We had a son, whom I adore, he's my world, and I've stayed with... (618 words)

Does anyone know if hypnosis, or any other sort of alternative therapy works for self acceptance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) age 30-35 - How can I accept myself? It seems so difficult. I like my personality, my brains... I just don't like my looks. And sadly, appearance is the most obvious part of a person. I feel like I'm never thin, despite being at a normal weight, I still get rolls, especially around my ... (402 words)

Would any boyfriend stand seeing his girlfriend with facial hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 now and i've had this problem since I was 14. Unfortunately, when the hair started to grow very light, i didn't know that tweazing and waxing it would make it worst. Now, i'm at the point where i shave almost everyday (and if i skip a day, my chin and sideburns feel r... (213 words)

How much space can you have in a relationship before it turns casual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused as to where I stand in my relationship. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now. We're just now exclusive and for the most part he seems genuinely interested in being with me. We didn't jump into dating, it was very slow and easy. We have a great tim... (227 words)

He wants to talk but I'm scared

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - In my life I have alot of drama so I perfer my love life not to be affected. I met this guy on an online dating site and its nothing for me me to lie to a guy because the relationship is not going to last long usually, but this guy I met I feel in love with, so I had to tell ... (115 words)

Kissed another guy and I have a BF help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I did something I feel really awful about but I don't know if this makes me a bad person or what I should think. I got pretty drunk with my friends and this guy was hitting on me and started kissing on me. I was really uncomfortable and I felt really awkward. I kinda shrugged ... (232 words)

I'm only 31, but I feel too old to attract a man. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday, someone commented that I appear to be five years older than I really am, and I've been feeling depressed ever since. It might seem like I'm overreacting but there are underlying feelings and this just made me feel even worse. An ACQUAINTANCE, not a friend, ... (425 words)

Is his paranoia a sign HE is cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is paranoid i'm cheating on him. is this a sign he's cheating on me? we both have cheated in previous relationships and cannot fully trust each other...... (29 words)

The more serious we get, the more she treats me like a child. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid As I get closer to committing, my beautiful lady "babies" me more and more. (This is not kinky) I am a man, I have the ring to propose to her, I adore her. I can't live my life as a half child! Or maybe that is something we will deal with, mid-rela... (87 words)

I feel ready to lose my virginity, but am I wrong to think this way?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old Christian girl who likes to take a, as my mom would say "ride on the wild side". and lately i've had one thing on my mind when im near my bf. well actually more then one but them all leading to the same thing. SEX I am a virgin and never thought like this bef... (88 words)

Can someone help me figure out my BF? Is he just selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for almost 18 months. we both love each other, but in some situations i find my bf very selfish. he only thinks of his own good. sometimes tells me that i didn't share my feeling to him. i do share but sometimes i think why should i tell him how good or ... (142 words)

I'm not sure I should believe him when he tells me he loves me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex wants me back and i want him back so he has been kissing me and calling me his gf again. I know how i feel about him, i know how he SAYS how he feels about me, but some times i don't believe it. My "BF" says he wants to marry me one day and wants to buy me a promise rin... (126 words)

Does he care for me or not? He's sending mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was seeing this boy who I live with (in Halls) for a month or so, and one night I got really drunk and kissed my best guy friend in front of him. Naturally he was really upset and we didn't speak for a while, but then we decided to be friends again. After a while ... (311 words)

I don't like some of the things he does. Am I justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think i should be concerned about some things this guy has done? The first time i went to his place, he came and stood outside his apartment with me while i waited for my taxi, but when i went there last time, he told me that he wasn't going to come outside with me, as ... (382 words)

My BFF is being a jerk. Is there any hope for this friendhips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my question is I have a huge crush on a boy in my class but he likes my bff and she knows I like him!!! Anyway she brags about how much he loves her and how much he wants to be with HER! and it's kinda getting on my nerves. Like last year he would defend me when someone ... (228 words)

I don't understand why my husband watches porn and it hurts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Why do men like to watch porn? I was raised in a christian family, and for me that is so hard to take...I feel betrayed when I find out that my husband was watching it and masturbating...and the worst is, i feel like he does not find me attractive anymore... if he did, why ... (152 words)

I admitted I was jealous and things haven't been the same since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My girl and I have had the best of times together, we used to be close and tighter than anyone could imagine. We used to tell each other about everything and speak about everything that comes to mind before hesitation. One day i decided to be stupid and not... (256 words)

He sayshe wants to be with me, but why would he act this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - dear everyone. Please can you tell me whats goin on with my boyfriend as i just dont understand? Over the weekend he has snapped at coments which were obviousky jokes. Not listenede to what i was sayin and before heard all jumped down my throat. . Then when feelin ill as i was ... (213 words)

What are you supposed to do if your BF is losing interest but won't talk about it?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - With the bad breakup I had last year, I was completely blindsided. My ex left things completely unresolved between us. Everyone says that you have to get better at seeing the signs when your bf/gf is losing interest. It seems like you can only gain this by getting more ... (103 words)

Are my feelings towards him changing just because I don't see him as often as I use to?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I first starting going out with my boyfriend about 5 years ago, he cheated on me and really hurt me, so we split up about 2 years into the relationship. Now we're back together, we're both mature enough to have a relationship. He then got a job 2 hours away and lived in this ... (190 words)

Do you think I can rekindle a friendship after three years?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you rekindle old friendships that died at your own hand years ago? The reason I'm asking is because 3 years ago I was part of a group of tight knit friends but after a severe falling out with one of them, they abandoned me. I'm not blameless in the situation: in hi... (202 words)

Am I gay if I'm attracted to male cross dressers?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I find 'Lady-boys' and trans gender dressers (male to female) sexy and oddly a turn on for me, could this possible mean I am gay?... (25 words)

I dated him because I felt sorry for him...How do I break up now?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm gonna just cut to the chase if that's alright. So here's the thing, I have this ex who misunderstood everything I had told him. When I was speaking to him on a social networking site before we ever were together, he had asked me if I liked him. I replied with a maybe I ... (246 words)

Please help me with my shyness before I scare another girl away.

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a very common but big problem. What I wonder is How do I get a girlfriend? I know it's a bit hard to answer but here's the thing; around girls I like I get nervous. So nervous I can barely talk. I get very annoying and silly which then makes me even more nervous. It ... (145 words)

I don't know how to overcome my fear of giving presentations.

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently posted questions on here about doing presentations and some people gave some advice saying that I need to make sure that I am prepared and everything however I don't think this is the problem. Weeks before the presentation I get really panicky and on edge all... (276 words)

Was I being childish and selfish over this situation? And how to deal with our opposing families?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Just wondering what your thoughts are on this – I’m in a 2 year relationship with a 32 year old Muslim man from a country outside mine. I am 26 and a white Muslim convert (I don’t wear hijab but I do believe in the principles). We have always spoken about the im... (486 words)

No reply. No response? Is this his way of just saying goodbye?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for one month and things were great. He honestly seemed too good to be true. He was so nice to me and I was very guarded because i have been hurt in the past. He promised not to hurt me and is about 4 years older than me. Everything was perfect and then... (225 words)

I had sex with someone else while we were on a break and now he says I am 'dirty' to him, what can I do?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who I love more that anything else told me we should take a break so he could deal with some issues. A week later I saw he was taking someone to prom and I knew he liked her. Out of jealousy and a need for security, I had sex with a friend of mine who has been ... (144 words)

Why am I hurting over him?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid ... Im hurting. I wish if you can say something to make me feel better here is my problem, i filed for divorce almost 6 months ago even tho i tried hard to make my marriage work but there were too many issues that cant be solved and Love wasnt there, i wasnt s... (830 words)

Is he looking for someone else online?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being with my bf for 5 months. This is a taking it slowly relationship. I have posted this question before but over the last few days things have got stranger. The thing is I just dont get what he is doing on a 'social network site'. This is how I met this guy, he added me... (213 words)

My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend regardless of Whether she gets ... (101 words)

Help me to trust her.......

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help me I need suggestion on this issue, I may appear you a fool but this is what I am, I have g/f for long time and after long time I came to know that she was being abused sexually in her 8-10 years of age by multiple elderly persons and she had boy friends too, but ... (180 words)

Is he only talking to me because he is a gentleman, or does he like me?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,well there is the guy I have a huge crush on this guy in my math class. I am not like other girls, I am just your plain ol' fat girl. Not by any means morbidly obese, just fat. I don't know if he is talking to me just to be a gentleman, or if he really likes me. I've ... (87 words)

Why do some women get themselves pregnant on purpose?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my ex co workers got herself pregnant on purpose. She even told everyone about it. She had a short fling with someone and knew that he didn't want any children. They weren't even in a exclusive relationship. But she lied about what contreception methods anyway, so she'd ... (98 words)

Is my ex being genuine this time?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy last for a couple of months. We had great chemistry and I really liked him. But he was immature, he started standing me up. Then he only wanted me to come over late at night. Then the next day he'd be desperate to get rid of me. We had a huse fight when he turne... (115 words)

Is it bad to masturbate?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I been raised in a Christian home all my life. I been in that phase where i want to masturbate. I'm a virgin, nerver been kissed,or had a bf. Last nights i masturbated but i get to the point where my eyes roll back and i start getting the guilt feeling. Is it bad to masturbate ... (64 words)

My crush told me he doesn't like me, how do I move on?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i know i been asking questions about my crush. I need help to know how to move on or get over him when he told me he dont like me. I've seen him talk to some girl no they go out on dates and yea just hurts me. But i know the only one getting hurt is me. I want to know how ... (78 words)

She lies to me about going out with her friends, when I know she doesn't have many!

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 months on. She ain't those very outgoing type and doesn't go out very often with her friends. However, each time I say I am going out with my friends, or to watch a certain show etc. She will lie to me and say that she has her own ... (122 words)

My best friend and I have had sex with the same guys, she tested positive for an STD but I didnt, how does this happen?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I have sex with the same guys (threesome). She recently was tested positive for chlmydia. I freaked out and got tested too but my results were negative. How can this be? Has anyone ever had an std and been through a similiar problem?... (47 words)

Is it unacceptable to be with someone this much older?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 27yrs old woman in a relationship with a 55yrs old man. We've been together for 4yrs. I love him and he loves me very much but the age difference has been bothering me a lot lately. He wants to get married but the problem is I have a large family and I havent had the ... (128 words)

The tests say no, but I think I've convinced myself that I'm pregnant!

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - the past couple months i have been really convinced that i may be pregnant, and as each day passes ive been more and more convinced. i have taken tests and they have come back negative, but i still cant help but wonder. i would love to become pregnant, and think i may have just ... (75 words)

I don't want to do wrong by my friend, but I don't want to miss this opportunity with the girl I like either!

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'l put the situation simply before getting into detail. Many months ago i met a girl in which we got along really well but due to there being some other guy before me, nothing happened. But recently the spark has been what seems like reignited but once again there is... (297 words)

Why he has changed from the incredible man I once spent hours with, to someone who treats me like I'm suddenly beneath them?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, So I have this lovely relationship question that's bugging me. I realise my sarcasm isn't evident but now you know, I am being sarcastic. It is no way "Lovely." I hope this isn't too repetitive for you as I know there are many,many, many questions on her... (844 words)

How do I get over someone who treated me like crap?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get over someone who treated me like crap? my ex was jealous controlling and cheated but i still love him i even caught him with a girl and he denied me in my face....how do i wake up and see that he never treated me right? i was good to him and he wil never see that... (75 words)

My boyfriend, and the father of my child, cheated on me! Should I give him another chance?

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28 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I found out that my bf cheated on me. I found out he cheated when the girl he cheated on me with texted him saying that she had fun last night. No I don't read his texts but at the moment she sent that message I had his phone. I asked him about it and at first he was hesitant ... (149 words)

What do you think this means?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have the biggest crush on this boy, it all started when I met him last school year. We became good friends, i never really told him how I felt at the idea of being rejected. He was complicated to read, and always sending mixed signals. One day he acted completely and u... (304 words)

She has not told me she loves me for a year now, what is going on? What have I done wrong?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im in love with a married woman and her husband has never meet me and he hates me. i had meet her online 2 in a half years ago. and when i meet her face to face i feel in love with her.i thought i was in love with someone else, but i honestly dint know what love was until i ... (431 words)

How do I get this new girl out of the picture and get my friend to care about me again?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, guys. Before I begin, I would just like to start out by saying that my question/situation isn't about a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend, it's about my relationship with my friends. I really only have 2 people in my life that I can call true "friends" and I ... (262 words)

Is he being selfish for repeatedly bringing up the fact I cant have kids?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 13 years. He has 3 kids by 3 different women - 2 of these children were born when he had just graduated from high school. the other child was born 2 years before I met him. He and I tried having a child but we weren't successful. I was ... (179 words)

Does my FWB guy have feelings for me?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with this guy for four years (with some benefits.) I recently met one of his friends that I knew of just had not met yet. The friend told me that he has heard so much about me for the last 3 or 4 years, he also told me that my guy is "hiding me". I was ... (140 words)

What can I do to get the message across to her or make things better? Or is this my problem that I need to deal with?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my girlfriend have been talking for 9 months and have been official for about 4. Before we were official everything was all good, i was talking to other girls but she was always my main. Since we have been official I have been completely faithful and I love her and ... (438 words)

Should I tell my fiance what happened at the party? Or ignore it and pretend it never happened?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i can already picture the yelling and the crying in my ear at the other end of the phone i can see his face and how hurt he feels . thinking about it tears me apart and i can't do it . i'm 20 and i'm engaged to my bf of one yr i'm super happy with him i love him and i miss him... (598 words)

If you had the opportunity to go through your girlfriend's facebook, would you?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, guys if your girlfriend had her facebook open would you go through her email and page to see what's going on in her life even if she told you not to?... (32 words)

Married woman, Husband in prison..me in the middle!

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - some please put me out of misery many thanks. I met a beautiful girl through my close girl mate on new years eve. Intelligent (masters in psychology), green eyed bombshell, smart and very attractive. My friend had warned me to be careful because she can flirt for england ... (674 words)

Is this hate towards me, or just towards a race?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a muslim, and my boyfriend or ex is Catholic. Anywhere we go or anyone he hangs out with he says I hate "paki's"..all indian's he calls paki's. I have indian in my blood when I tell him that he goes but your Guyanese so that doesn't matter. Every single time that he said "i ... (263 words)

How could he do this to me after all I have done for him?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm pretty upset right now. My boyfriend of over 2 years kicked me out of his life a little under 2 weeks ago and i have't heard from him. About 3 weeks ago, i went over to his house and told him he could borrow my new ipod that i got in January. But that was before ... (477 words)

What is going on in this dramatic situation?!?!

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have very limited time to see each other because of our jobs and him being in law school as well; so please keep in mind as I continue this story, that weekends are usually our hang-out catch-up time--my boyfriend told me on Saturday morning that he had to go ... (497 words)

Are preacher's kids/sons unnattainable or stuck up when it comes to talking to girls like me? And how would I start up a conversation?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an odd question and would appreciate some help with it! Well, I've gone to my church for around ten years now and have always thought that my pastor's son (lets call him Johnny) was very cute. He's handsome, a year older than me and very well known, of course. I'm shy ... (162 words)

Is he actually shy or just trying to blow me off?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i asked out this guy whos a year younger then me, ive never been with a younger guy, so it takes 3 weeks before we can actually go out... hes grounded, ext anyways we finally go out and i just want to hook up at this point ive waited long enough. it was so PG but it was cute ... (159 words)

I cry too much!

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a sort of strange problem...It's that I cry too much. I'll cry at almost anything. Whether it be on tv, or in a movie, or just from a story. It's not like I want to cry. Half the time I do I'm sitting there asking myself "Why am I crying?" I feel like it's almost just a ... (557 words)

Help! I'm in love with my housemate!

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am at uni and am mad about my male housemate. It is getting to the point where I feel I definately need to say something as its doing my head in. We have lived together for nearly a year now, and had casual drunken sex numerous times through out the year and a few times ... (216 words)

How do I deal with all the issues surrounding dating a man 20 years my senior?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in my 20s and have recently started seeing a guy 20yrs my senior. We have been friends for years prior to dating each other. He is stable, but not wealthy, and I have a good job and support myself - I am not looking for a sugar daddy relationship. My problem is three-fold; ... (351 words)

Sex addiction is wrecking my relationship.

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i am a sex addict and I need help to stop my . Before I go on I don't want anyone judging me. I was in a happy relationship with my boyfriend but things started to go south and I wasnt getting the amount of affection or sex i was used to so before we had split up i w... (329 words)

I don't want to be 40 years old and coming home to a computer, not a husband!

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im just curious here but im in a LDR and have been for around 2years and a half. I met him online and yes I have met him. We have many ups and downs and have had some incredibly low times where you would think we would break up but havent. We truly love each other and I ... (281 words)

Isn't love in your actions, not your words?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married, and very unhappy as late. My husband is a kind man, but is also very inconsiderate and rarely expells any energy on me. He works long hours, and spends his free time working on his car. Which is all fine, but lately I am feeling very neglected. He rarely co... (649 words)

What makes a guy ask a girl to marry him?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some advice, esp. from any male readers, about what makes a guy ask a girl to marry him. What is it in a girl that would make her marriage material? What would make you not want to marry a girl? I'm asking because I've been with my bf 7 months and have ... (483 words)

No matter what I can't cum

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I never come during sex. Even if my clit is being stimulated. I find my clit is less sensitive during sex. Is there something wrong with me? ... (27 words)

She likes another guy more than me, but she admits to having a soft spot for me....should I give up and move on?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl a few months ago and we have been talking lots and lots. We have been texting near enough every day. I really really like her and she has said she has 'a serious soft spot' for me. She puts 6 x's on the end of each text. I normally don't read much into that stuff ... (228 words)

How do you approach a guy?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you approach a guy that you are attracted to and would like to get acquainted with?... (18 words)

Waiting for Your Love as They Explore: Foolish?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently separated from my girlfriend of four and a half years. We are both you, college aged individuals. The breakup was on her terms and she claims that it was because of our lack of common interests. I strongly believe that the real main reason for the breakup was because ... (224 words)

I cant choose between the older boy or the boy I have been in love with for ages.....what should I do?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. I'm 13 years old and I'm in Year 9. I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Between two boys. I'll call them Boy A and Boy B. Boy A has been my best friend since Year 8, even though he's in the year above me. He's one of the funniest, kindest and most caring people you could ever ... (794 words)

What does a girl really mean when she says she doesn't want to jeopardize a friendship?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this an awkward situation? I was at a party last night. I like a girl and was talking to her friend who said she'll talk to her for me but now I think I fancy the friend. Why I never felt attracted to her before. Could it be that she was really nice to me? And what does a g... (80 words)

My ex boyfriend was so large I'm afraid its ruined me for anyone else!

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, agony aunts. Thanks in advance for reading my question, and for any thoughtful advice or answers. I have recently come out of a two year long relationship and I am now fresh on the single scene. My ex and I got together when we were both pretty young and inexperience... (430 words)

My soon to be ex husband is moving on so quickly and I'm confused

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I am having issues coping with my feeling here. I was married for 8 years to a very wonderful father of our 2 kids but a really crappy and neglecting husband. It was wrong but I ended up having an emotional affair with a colleuge of mine. We never had sex but we kissed a ... (299 words)

Emotional connection or LUST?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a question here............................... IAM in a LDR.... and living 2000 km away from my guy so it gets very difficult for us to see each other .......... in these 3 years we could hardly meet twice a year..... and each time we plan for 4- day trip .... i wonder... (289 words)

Why is my ex still talking about me and telling friends she loves me when she has a new boyfriend?

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28 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's a weird one...Today I get a phone call from my best friend telling me he saw my ex girlfriend in town and she kept asking how I am and when I'll never be in town....then another mate tells me last night his gf and my ex gf were talking and my ex told her that she rea... (138 words)

Why do I look smaller when I'm the same size?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a petite girl with a large chest. I've always thought I was a 32DD but when I got measured the other day I was told that I'm a 30FF. Why is it that other women who are a 34FF or 36FF have really huge breasts but mine aren't as huge as theirs when I'm the exact same ... (68 words)

Why do I still love me after all the times he broke up with me?

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28 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so its been 7 months since me and my ex actually broke up...we dated fro 2 an a half years...he broke up with me for no reason.. After a while we started missing eachother...we got back together dated for a month then he dumped me cuz he thought i was cheating on ... (183 words)