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I don't want to be number 2 I wanna be the only one for you

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - theres this guy i met and sparks flew instantly we went out two times as friends and dealyed our third ( and romantic ) date due to both of us being usually busy the thing is between that time he returned with his exgirlfriend ( open relationship) but i like him so much i ... (136 words

An overture for a divorce or a passing crisis?

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25 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Have you ever loved someone who unintentionally turned you into the worst version of yourself? I hate where I am and who I am right now. Let me redefine “right now”… how about the past 6 years? Times are tough for everyone. Crisis, lack of stable work, financial insecurit... (1162 words

Should I let my 6-year-old daughter see her Mum, even though it may break her heart if her Mum then disappears again from her life?

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25 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi All, I have a beautiful 6 year old daughter, absolutely beautiful. I was with her Mum, a successful Uni graduate, for a short time when she was conceived, but we split up before she found out she was pregnant..anyway...she gave birth and I went to see her and the baby, an... (272 words

My bf is a nsaty drunk who is ruining my life, but if I leave him, I will be completely alone.

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a nasty drunk. hes put me threw hell for years with his drinking. he lies constantly about if he drank. recently i came home from work and he was drunk, ranting and raving. i ignored him and after 3 hours of his bullshit he passed out. when do i say enough is ... (92 words

I think my bf said his ex-gf's name when we were making love. How should I react?

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Well, I don't doubt that my bf loves me. He has never done things with his past girlfriends and I know it because I was his friend before we are bf-gf. Anyway, last night while we were making love. While he was very hot, I thought I heard him mention his ex gf's name. I am ... (328 words

I'm happy with my bf and my new life, but I still obsess over my ex! Am I sad and pathetic?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Just over 2 years ago, I met this guy at a party and for just over a year after that we were seeing each other on and off but the whole thing was really strange and there were always things stopping us being together and we wouldn't speak for months. The longest time we didn't ... (304 words

I was flirting with this guy on Facebook and then he broke up with his gf. Should I feel guilty that maybe it's my fault?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Recently I've been flirting with this guy I really like, and we seem to be getting on quite well. I was on my Facebook page, and it popped up that he had 'gone from being in a relationship to single'. the girl he was dating is a really nice girl. Although I had no idea th... (115 words

I spent a year getting over my ex-bf...and now he wants me back! What should I do?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My ex boyfriend and I were together for 20 months. He was my first long-relationship. When we broke up he told me that he had been cheating on me and was bored of us. After our breakup him and the girl he cheated on me with got together and they would always send me mean ... (160 words

Older partner who's going to be a grandpa soon; I love him but I'm not "in love"...should I stay or leave?

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25 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello,I have a couple of issues here. 1: my fiance is 9 years older than me. I'm 29 he is 38. He has 2 grown kids 18 year old boy and 20 year old girl who is married and 9 months pregnant. I have never been married(neither has he) and I have no kids. He has not only 2 kids but... (268 words

The girl I am dating won't tell her parents about us. How can we be serious then?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Me and this girl have been dating. My mom knows im gay but her parents dont know about her; neither of our parents know about us. Im going to be going to college here soon and i dont know what to do. I want us to be serious and she does too but its hard with neither of our ... (244 words

Is this behaviour between my fiance and his 20 year old daughter normal??

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25 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - This is kind long lol. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, he has a 20 year old daughter. When I met her the first time we got along then me and my fiance had some issues which he ran to her about no she seems a little cold to me. Everytime they talk on the phone ... (292 words

I'm desperate for a relationship

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - hi i'm very desperate for a relationship. it's a natural thing but not said much but i masterbate almost every night due to stress. i've tried to cope this week and i did well talking to friends but just can't talk to girls in person. I wouldn't want to use a girl or sound too ... (143 words

Opinion on friends with benefits?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Friends with benefits. What's your opinion? Do these kind of "relationships" always turn into something much more complicating? ... (20 words

How do I find someone interested in a sexual relationship?

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I'm 17 years old and want a sexual relationship with someone. I have never had sex before but I want to start. I'm not some skank, I want a relationship where I can love someone and be in a relationship but I want it to be a sexual one. I'm in a relationship right now with ... (259 words

Can I trust my online gf who I have never met? I even doubt sometimes that she is a girl!!

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hello first thanks for reading me and a girl met online. i met her while she was waiting for a boy that she said loved him. first she met him, so i hung out with her for sometime. then she started to love me but i used to love somebody else. i didn't care for her and she used... (1011 words

She wants to be friends, I want to move on

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - It's been almost 2 weeks since my ex and I broke up. We decided mutually to break up, even though she brought it up and that I still loved her, I lied and let her go because I didn't want her keep going with me. Okay can't be arsed to tell the sob story. She just messed around ... (141 words

Are all men after tall women?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm 22 years old, less than five feet tall. i am as pretty as any other girl and healthily thin so will any guy be interested in me?its not my fault or anyone else's why i am the way i am. I'm in college for 2 years and no boy has even dared talked to me in that way. Are all ... (66 words

My fiance's sister wants to date my ex?

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25 March 2011 (? age 26-29 - So a couple of years ago, I dated this guy. He was a HUGE part of my life, and we dated for a long time. However, we grew up, and went our seprate ways. But we still talk. I moved 6 hours away, and...every couple of months, i'll get a text or a phone call asking me how i was ... (226 words

He was using escorts during the first part of our relationship

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25 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - I've been dating a guy for just over a year. I know I should'nt have done it but he left his laptop on and I had a look. It transpires that he was sleeping with escorts in the first few months of our relationships and even up to six months into it he was emailing woman on ... (119 words

Why does my Ex want to talk to me???

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I hear from People that my ex girlfriend wishes she could/wants to talk to me.. But the girl got into another relationship 3 weeks after we broke. Personally, if I were her I want to spend time getting to know my new partner rather than worrying about not speaking to my e... (71 words

Break Up Advice, I still love her and confused to the next step...

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25 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago....heres the story... we were in a relationship for going on 2 and a half years, im english, she is dutch, we met over the internet on a game and we met in real life a few months later, I was at Uni at the time in my las... (1138 words

I like him, he's not into his g/f, but I'm afraid of being labelled a 'man-stealer'

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My friends boyfriend has never shown a big interest in me besides little signs that always make me think he sort of liked me. And my friend has been dating this kid for not a long time and he even admitted to me that he isn't feeling it with her. Then he said he liked me and I ... (131 words

My boyfriend is controlling

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. 3 months into our relationship he asked if i had been texting boys, he then took my phone and seen 5 boys on my recent contacts that i had been texting but i had deleted the sent and inbox messages, now on my mums life i swear ... (176 words

Lost the passion in my relationship after my girlfriend lost her libido completely

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - im 18 years old and the girl im seeing is 17 we have been seeing each other for nearly 11 months now and have been sexually active for about 9 and a half months, she was my first but she has had a few before i am very much in love with her and she is with me. however recently ... (167 words

I'm bothered by her contact with her ex

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Is it okey to feel insecure about my girlfirend keeping in touch with her ex boyfriend? She is texting with him, speaking on the phone with him and sending messages to his facebook inbox. When I told her that this is really bothering me, because I never keep in touch with my... (283 words

Still feel drawn toward a bad-news ex

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - I cannot stop loveing her its consumeing me. Ive posted about this before but things have changed and i need some more help. To anyone reading this i thank you just for takeing the time. Five years ago i began a relationship with a girl three years older than me. My li... (340 words

How do you fight feelings for someone you can't be with?

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - How do you fight feelings for someone you can't be with? Is it possible to be "just friends" with someone you are attracted to? (We are both in relationships, by the way).... (34 words

I love him and so does my best friend

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I need help. It's a very hard love on me. There is this boy that is popular in my class he is handsome smart and the top of the class and were kind of friends i guess. He sits in front of me. I love him so much i want him to know i love him. But i cant tell him my best friend ... (168 words

How do I tactfully deal with my boy friend's lonely Mom? Am I being bitchy not wanting to go out as a group of three on dates with my boyfriend?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend's mom is very nice and friendly, and I do like her. The problem is that she is always around, and several times while he and I are hanging out, she has tried to get us to do things with her, like go out to dinner, go to the movies, etc. I have no problem spending ... (140 words

He says he wants friendship but acts like he wants more - is there "unfinished business"?

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met someone not too long ago and basically it was bad timing that made us decide against a romantic relationship. After some time apart, we've just begun hanging out again as friends. I know it'll take a while to get used to, since we never started out as friends but as ... (282 words

Was I the very very last to know? Has he been a liar to me all along? I'm devastated

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - i started seeing my bf last june. we both work for the government and there is a strict non fraternization policy so we keep it on the DL. i have been 2 LTR's and do not have a lot of experience playing the field. but i really liked this guy so i was like what the heck im gonna ... (956 words

Could it be that my personality repels boys?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I know will sound like every teenage girls dilemma but I have tried all te usually advice about wait for the right guy and it still doesn't help me. When I was younger I had a tendency to be a bit standoffish with boys but im not like that now. But no lad is interested in me or ... (210 words

I'm in love with her but I don't get her behaviour back?

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - i am 16 and i am in love with this girl alot...she knows i like her and bcoz of this she does not interact with me as much as she does with my friends or other guys, does not reply to my comments on fb, doesnt chat etc..(probably hates me). I like her alot and i do not eve... (186 words

Confessing to cheating..ONLY experiences from cheaters or cheated-ons.

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25 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello, As the title says, I would like to know FACTS from people who’ve been through this. I’m not working on a survey or something, but yes, I've cheated on my gf (a fling without intercourse and no feelings) and I'm living hell right now (guilt, shame, remorse, low sel... (234 words

My boyfriend's ex won't go away!

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - So, this is a simple question with complicated details. My current boyfriend, "Jake", and I have been together for just over a year. We have known each other for almost 13 years and have been on and off since we were 15 years old. When I turned 18 I went away to college and ... (609 words

What rights does my child's father have?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Im pregnant and I am keeping the baby because I don't want to have to go through having an abortion. I am happy with my decision but the baby's dad is not and says 'get rid' but I'm not going to. can anyone tell me what are his rights? (UK) and if i have the baby what do i H... (86 words

Guy A versus Guy B...How do I choose?

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - 2 years ago, I became friends with this guy, he had a girlfriend, who I was friends with, so we started as just friends. I had NO intentions of dating him. I was single and started dating this other guy, things were going well, until, my friend became single. The confusion then ... (196 words

Am I asking too many specific questions about her sexual past?

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25 March 2011 (? age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are very much in love and very open in talking about our sexual past, although I tend to ask a lot of questions and she does not. I know she feels a bit uncomfortable talking about detail, so I don't ask too many questions, but I admit I am curious. For ... (248 words

I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm already asleep, and she woul... (165 words

My problem is his pregnant partner. Is there a chance he will just love me and leave me?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Am girl who is 21 years of age,there is this guy I just met and I love him and I do want to have sex with him, but my problem is his pregnant partner. What if he loves her more than he loves me? What if he just want to have sexual relations with me then leave me? ... (60 words

I want to get over my ex!

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - It's been a year since we broke up, me and my ex dated for 2 years. After a week i heard he was flirting with my enemy then after 2 weeks he had a new girlfriend. After the girl next to me, he was playing with girls but he would always tell me he has feelings for me. A we... (208 words

My girlfriend says I'm too young for a relationship!

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I am 21 and my girlfriend is 25, she thinks that I am too young for a relationship. We get along great and the sexual activity is excellent. HELP!... (32 words

We broke up and he hasn't even tried to get me back. I need closure!

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I split up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I am finding it really difficult.We were in a LDR but he hardly ever got in contact which really hurt me. We'd been together 2 years and he wasn't really treating me like a girlfriend, i always came last. Anyway he hadnt spoke ... (293 words

My 3rd cousin is checking me out. Does he want me to help him with relationships?

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25 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a small concern and issue. I havent seen my cousin for many years. He is my third cousin so we are that distant. Well we moved to a new town and we just happen to run into each other. Him and my fiancée are really good friends. Well I have noticed he's been checking me ... (232 words

After every fight he calls his ex! Is he not over her?

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been married for 5 years. We have baby, but whenever I argue with my husband he always start calling his ex. Then it takes time before I notice. When I confront him he say they are just friends and it was out of frustration. Could it be he still loves her and am I taken ... (77 words

What do I say to my daughter who wants birth control?

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - My 16 year old daughter came up to me last night while I was making dinner and asked for birth control. At first I didn't say anything I was in total shock. Let me give you some back story. She's a good kid. She's no straight A student and she's not perfect, but she's good. ... (365 words

I'm jealous of all her exes!

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm in a relationship with a woman I absolutely adore, we're both 22, the problem is I know she's had quite a few boyfriends and I myself haven't really had a huge dating history (but not non exsistant). Basically I definitely don't feel good enough for her (even though she ... (301 words

Do you fantasize about other girls or your girlfriend?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - This is a question for the males. For those of you with girlfriends/fiances/wives/partners etc do you always think of them when you think of sex and your fantasies? So when your maybe daydreaming or watever it is that gets you thinking, who are you thinking of? This is ... (110 words

I want to surprise my boyfriend for birthday!

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My spring break is the week of my boyfriend's birthday and he has no idea I am coming to see him for his birthday. I told him my break is the week after, What is a good way to surprise him when I get there?... (45 words

How do I get him to chose ME not HER?

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - the guy i am seein right now has a girl and there relationship according to him has no future that is why he started a new one with me we been together a bit over a month but now i am in too deep and i do not want to fall any deeper so fast what do i do we done it all we ve hd ... (138 words

He says he doesn't want sex to get in the way of our relationship!

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Please he doesn't want to have sex w/ me anymore. I am about a size 14-16 and work out frequently, keep my hair and nails done and legs shaved, lol! He is good to me but since we became engaged he avoids any situation that might turn sexual. I have ask him what I've done to ... (152 words

Do I need to seek help? I like older men!

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Okay so im a 18 year old single mum to a 10 month old baby, for a long time i have been attracted to older men. My daughters father is 38 and i am currently dating a man who is 52, is this normal? Or do i need to seek help??... (51 words

Please help me save my relationship today before my boyfriend and I meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - i am desperate for help asap. my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 yrs on and off. since this past december we have been wonderful. we got into a discussion and it has led to him saying he needs time. my boyfriend is very straight forward. In the past when he would say he ... (598 words

We are friends with benefits, and while I don't have romantic feelings for her, her having sex with others still bother me. Why?

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25 March 2011 (M - I have, what is common called, a f**k buddy. She and I both came out of long term relationships recently and sort of found each other. We have known each other for a long time and it just felt right. This has been going on for over a year now. We have spoken about a r... (337 words

How do you respond to "tell me more about yourself"

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi guys i was on a dating website and Girls have this auto reply message that always comes back with " send me a message, and tell me more about yourself" like what am i supposed to write? is there any ways to get her attention in the first message... ie flirting... (123 words

Do girls think I'm desperate? Is that why I can't attract anyone?

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25 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - Why can't I attract anyone? What am I doing wrong? I'm 22, I'm at university, I work out, I watch what I eat, I'm by no means a bad looking guy... and yet when I go out I seem to get a few looks from girls, but that's all. No clear cut signs of interest. As a student, clubs a... (346 words

How will I know he is cheating on me?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy online.. we chatted for a year now..and we are in a long distance relationship..we haven't met e yet..but he has plan to see me soon..but then we broke up.. because i think he is cheating on me.. i am wondering why he is invisible on skype every time i tal... (194 words

My cousin has a total lack of respect for me

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - How should I deal with my cousins behaviour? I am not quite sure what this means when someone does this but my cousin refuses to engage in serious conversation with me like he does with the other women in the family. He avoids serious topics altogether. If he does or sa... (174 words

Fiance got a job away without even consulting me!

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25 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were living together, got engaged last year and planned to marry this year. 5 months ago he got a promotion and went to work in another city 400 miles away. He also accepted the transfer because it would mean he lived closer to his daughter from his 1st ... (528 words

In his 40's yet playing games like he's a teenager! Do I walk away?

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Am i just paraniod? Im at my wits end about this and its destroying me inside. I am a mother of 3, 2 of which i have with my current partner, the only problem is his ex. We used to live together but i suppected he still has feelings for her. They were together when they were ... (340 words

Should I stay or go. Don't want to be 'second' in his life. I think I am about to break up with my boyfriend.

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I am about to break up with my boyfriend.. The reason is because I found out sweet messages between some chick who he met years ago.. I checked the messages and sent time, was the time where we went through the darkest time together as a couple, to be obviously he tur... (198 words

Two months ago he got a promotion at work, and suddenly I wasn't as interesting, and got dumped! What happened here?!

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I were in a relationship for a year. We're both 21 years old, and it was the first serious relationship for us both. We had an amazing relationship, to the point where we did start to talk about a future together. Moving in, traveling etc. Two months ago... (201 words

My crush found out I like him, and now I'm worried he might hurt me.

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Is it normal to feel depress when your crush found out you like him? I mean he said he was sorry for trying to get me to hook him up with my friends. I should be happy because he hasn't let our friendship be awkward at all. But i can honestly say i was better off him not ... (130 words

During argument I told BF he was with me just for sex and now he won't have sex with me!

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey I'm in this relationship since 4years and we both love each other alot and everythin was great until we had a breakup 2months back it was becoz of the family issues now we are together again and everything is the same as it was before but when we had a breakup in that arg... (125 words

My husband is having an emotional affair

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25 March 2011 (? age 36-40 - - hubby is having an emotional affair..The girl start flirting...sharing jokes and questions about herselF i.,e my bad and good habits...beautiful tfhing on my faceher familY matters and issues even her secrets...ask for hnelp for every family prdoblem...my hubby thinks he is ... (156 words

I'm mature for my age, but don't know if this teacher has feelings for me? He gets overprotective and jealous when I get close to other guys....

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being ... (455 words

Ex wants me back but I like someone else

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - i have broken with my boyfriend 6 months ago and these 6 months he was very angry with me because i was the one who broke up but suddenly after 6 months he become friendly with me and know he wants to start our relationship again but know i like someone else.i don't know what ... (57 words

Why after months is my ex driving by my house and telling friends he screwed up losing me?

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25 March 2011 (F age - Please, help me understand what is going on with a situation involving my ex whom I have not spoken to since he left me 10 mths. ago and soon after became involved with someone else. We were together for 7 yrs. and engaged to be married when he ended it. Three mths. into ... (508 words

She liked that guys flirted with her, I broke it off, but I can't get over her and she wont talk to me!

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25 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - SO this is my story. I dated this girl 2 years ago ...now after a year and 10 months she was texting a guy behind my back i forgave her ...then again there was another guy that flirted wiht her on fb and she liked the post! now i dont like that and she knows it and we had alot... (534 words

Do I have a shot with him?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - This guy i like... He has a girlfriend and i never see them together and i never hear either one talk about the other. Does this mean i might have a shot with him?... (34 words

How long should I wait to ask her out?

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - How long should I wait to ask this girl out? So I really like this girl that see at least few times a week and she just broke up with her previous boyfriend. The same night she broke up with him we talked on Facebook for an hour and a half( not about her break up), and I think ... (95 words

My mom says he says that to all the visitors!

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - i met this boy in the bahamas he works on the beach and i thought it was love at first site he keeps telling me to move to florda so we can live together and get married my mother told me he says that to all the visiters..i have my money saved up and im ready to go is this a ... (63 words

Is a week too early to have sex?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok i have a boyfriend and weve been talking for a week now...I want to have sex with him real bad but i dont know if its to early i dont want him to think im a whore... (38 words

Should I make a fake account to check on my boyfriend's facebook?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I had a beautiful, sweet and happy relationship but then I had to leave him after four months of being together in a relationship. But he insisted to have a long distance relationship so I agreed because I really love him. We were all over each other even ... (415 words

Should I just maintain a friendship with my former instructor and see if my feelings fade?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid or people on the web, I still like my former instructor. I still talk to him and I am planning to go visit him during his office hours, but I haven't gone to his office hours for about four weeks because I've been busy and didn't want to take up all his time. Bu... (279 words

I don't want to be mean but I want my boyfriend to care about his life!

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 1/2 years and I take school pretty seriously because i come from a well educated family and want to live great without struggles. The problem is that my boyfriend was raised in a broken home and his moms a nut job, and none of her kids ... (111 words

My father died of AIDS and now I'm terrified of being in a relationship

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25 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Dear response, since losing my father back in 2006, to AIDS, I fear engaging myself into any relationship, and this has killed all my feelings deep within my soul, and I end up thinking that may be I may catch the disease which I so much dread, pleaaase advice me on how to go ... (224 words

Is it ok to ask to take a picture of my professor?

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok,please don't say anything like "don't be stupid" or "get it over with" or whatsoever. i just have this feeling that I can no longer hold and really need to share it with someone~ So this is my last semester in my college and there is this professor that i really like. I'... (556 words

I don't think I want to go to college anymore, I think I want a baby

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm 20 years old and in my second year of college. My dream career is to become a veterinarian but ever since I started college, I've been questioning what I want to be when I graduate. And because of this, I don't feel like I want to continue college. I hate my school because ... (225 words

I don't want to just lie there! What do I do?

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25 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've had sex before but im usually always on the bottom just lying there. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but. How do i turn the moves on him! ... (38 words

At the end of the day I'm not sure where we are anymore!

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25 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I met my now second Husband in May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 and he was in the process of splitting with his ex. After six weeks the relationship was going strong he went back to his old house wh... (1439 words

I'm confused about my guy friend

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25 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have this guy friend who I am confused about. When I tell him what I'm looking for in a man, he responds with "well I have everything you need", he will ask questions about my family such as...do they know about him...But he never has that talk with me about being ... (136 words

I cannot get over my 1st love

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25 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - well i never forget my 1st love as we broke up for unclear reasons i thought to get over i must get in another one which what i certainly did :S now i feel like am trapped as i really cant forget my 1st love with all the great memories and feelings and do not know how to tell ... (82 words

I like an older man... help?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I'm 17 years old, gonna be 18 in a little under two weeks. I'm just gonna be blunt, I like this friend I have, and he's about 36-37 years old, and we met online, of course, we have a lot in common, he knows how to cheer me up, and he's an amazing friend despite the age gap. I'm ... (160 words

Why can't I be open and trusting enough to tell my friends about my crush?

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25 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - For some weird reason I am not able to talk to my friends about my crush. They don't know that I have a crush on this boy, but I think they are figuring it out. I can't even tell them about boys I find attractive like celebrities. They tell me everything, but I can't tell them. ... (57 words

What are top tried and tested ways to tell our families that I'm pregnant?

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25 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi. I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 3 years. He lived 2+ hrs away but he moved in with him aunt and her husband when were positive we wanted to be together. We have know each other since I was born since I'm 17 and he's 20. I'm graduated but we went out for a cele... (203 words

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