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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend stopped talking to me and a girl answers his phone every time I call!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts! So I need some advice on what to do in this situation. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months broke up 2 days ago. He was at a party and I was going out to. Well I called him and was asking who was ther and stuff nothing mean though. And he said he didn't want to argue and ... (379 words)

My wife had a one night stand for years ago but won't tell me his name. What do you think?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age - my wife cheated (one night stand) on me 4 years ago. it was a one night. she just confessed what she calls everything.....But she will not tell me her friends name. What's up with that??? The reason that it is important is this guy works at a family resort that attracts ri... (104 words)

Can this recycled relationship be brought back to life? Or is it time to move on, to someone who cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I dated for 2 years. During that time we had no problem showing each other affection, having sex, being around each other and genrally being in love. We spent as much time together as we could and didn't care who knew about us. Then I was accused of steal... (467 words)

Do I respect that he's still hurting from being dumped, but then maybe lose him, if another girl connects with him first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy I like was recently dumped by his GF. He is in love with her. He used to flirt with me before, but more as a friendly flirt. I like him, but he's telling me he's not ready for relationships b/c he still hurting. I cannot tell him how I feel for him b/c of what he said... (144 words)

My agressive partner ran away with my mother, now they have split up I miss him loads.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex was aggresive and suffered with depression and alchol problems! we had a very on off relationship and have a daughter together! Our relationship was fine until i was about 6 months preganant. Then he started smashing up the house, shouting at me and hitting me. We broke ... (214 words)

Has something shifted? Is he making this effort to show he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4573 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - fairly recently this guy told me, as a friend, that he doesn't think he'll want to be in a relationship anytime soon, because he has bad luck with women; always finding ones that end up screwing him over in the end. I tried to convince him otherwise, without saying I was one of ... (370 words)

Frequent erections.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i have frequent erections. when alone ,talking to a lady or when sleepy.ma dick is not that big and long.pls do i have a problem? ... (26 words)

I want to tell him Oh so very sensitively that I just don't like him now. But how? Any ideas please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I currently have a problem with my ex boyfriend. He is always posting songs on social networks saying, 'this remind me of you' and all this. I would be more than happy to tell him I don't like him, but I would like to also do it sensitively. My friends tease me about lik... (138 words)

I fancy him. How can I drive him crazy? Without looking too forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, There's this guy that I really like. He's a couple of years older than me. He stares at me a lot, and when we talk he smiles so cheekily, it's adorable. He's considerate and kind and he drives me crazy the way he flirts. Basically, I want to know how I can drive hi... (72 words)

I found my wife's sex tape with two guys. Should I moved out for a while to clear my head? I don't know if I can recover from this

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2805 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I really don't know if this is the best place to be asking for advice, but I can't afford a counselor and I'm too embarrassed to tell any of my family or friends. I'm hoping someone on this site can help me. My wife has always been the keep sake type. She loves keeping pi... (642 words)

Is she dropping me big hints that maybe she likes me? She's younger than me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it likely a younger, female co-worker has a thing for you if they tell you you look younger than your age? Or they leave you notes and drawings for when you next come in, and sign it with 'smile!' or 'with love?' Or they ask how you are or what you are up to when not in ... (92 words)

My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years. Why not? he's the one who left me. i miss him so much. well he said hi a few times a few years ago, but i think he was made to. but he still looks at me (we attend the same church) i dont get why he will not talk. Still ... (110 words)

Should I make the first move ? or should I just leave things and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I could use some help, i have a friend. We are really close. im only 14, but i have been through a lot in the past months, and he is the only one who has stuck by me. We have been flirting a lot lately. At first he was acting funny and giving me a lot of mixed signals bu... (272 words)

I just admire her.. How should or can I tell my RE teacher how amazing she is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Six months ago i moved schools and ever since i came to my school i can't stop think about my RE teacher. She exemplifies kind and ever since i moved to the school she has been so amazingly helpful and sympathetic to my disability (very poor eyesight and involuntary eye move... (254 words)

Why is he treating me like this? Seems he's not bothered by breaking up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been Togther for fifteen months. Three months into our relationship I fell pregnant, and now we have a daughter who is beautiful. Though in my mind something in our relationship is missing. he works and all, but it's always about him. He spends his mone... (387 words)

Why would he do that to me? why her? It feels like our love just fell apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he do that to me? why her? i loved my ex boyfriend so much.. Everything was great.. he was so sweet. i thought he was the one, we talked all the time, everyone thought we were the cutest couple so in love. he started being weird and broke up with me saying he do... (210 words)

Did she ever really care? Or was I expecting too much for her to work things out with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This time last year someone I'd known for eight years online confessed their love to me. We had only been speaking about 2 years since a massive break in contact, but we were talking every day since then. She seemed very empathetic at first, but later I noticed that she... (645 words)

Is hejust stressed? Are his feelings for me cooling? He seems to have lost interest.

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok just wondered if this is a boy thing? My boyfriend and I are both at uni and when we first started dating together we were both at home for Christmas. Trouble is he lives in Jersey so I didn't see him for 5 weeks. So we spoke on facebook and msn every evening and it was ... (343 words)

Our sex life is going downhill fast. He looks at porn but rarely wants sex with me. What else can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. We moved in together 6 months ago. This transition has been somewhat rocky, but overall, we get along well. The problem is, our sex life has gone downhill. I have always been the more sexual of the two of us, and have ... (271 words)

He left me when I was a month pregnant and I never hear from him until a year later when he wants to marry me!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody,Please help!My boyfriend left me when i was a month pregnant.I take care of myseslf during all my pregnancy time.I had never heard about him and I did not know where he was neither.I took over everything on my own,no child support,and I have my baby's ... (141 words)

He told me that "we need to talk". I'm worried. Is he going to dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the long story..but it all started a few months ago. My boyfriend and I live together.I cook and clean and cater to him and his friends. I'm a fairly submissive girlfriend. We've been living together for almost a year now. For the past few months he's been jealou... (354 words)

How can I make a direct connnection with this girl who called me on her boy friend's phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi A girl i don't know, but who knows me, called me through her boy friend's phone, she sounded as if she wanted us to be friends. before i could ask her about herself,she ended the call (maybe because of her guy). i called later and the guy picked the call and said they pi... (102 words)

I feel my partner is hiding something from me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and i have had many breaks but feel he is hiding something from me, last yr we had a split for a few months and he went on fb (which he never does usually) someone told me that they had seen other females on his friends list and told me their names, it was people he ... (203 words)

Still getting over a bad break-up and afraid to hurt the new guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I am/was in love with this guys for about a year and a half, but he hurt me. For the the past 7 months I've tried to get over him. So anyway, last week i started gettin butterflies for this new guy. We've been friends for a long time and has had a crush on me for abou... (214 words)

People tell me that my ex talks about me lots

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's a weird one...Today I get a phone call from my best friend telling me he saw my ex girlfriend in town and she kept asking how I am and when I'll never be in town....then another mate tells me last night his gf and my ex gf were talking and my ex told her that she real... (142 words)

Help me to be more confident around girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on how to become more confident and outgoing around girls. Im 15 years old, athletic, quite good looking and quite inteligent. Please give me help as it is really annoying me and I just want to be able to hang round ... (64 words)

My Ex-Girlfriend used to make fun of me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend used to make fun of my bald head"Shaved Head" , my dressing sense , family background and poor financial position ...which hurts me whenever I recall that. My question is that does this show that she was never in love with me and I was with someone who was ... (113 words)

I'm offended and hurt by his ignorance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some answers. There is this guy, as there always is. He gazes and stares at me from afar and upclose and gives me undivided attention, like i'm the only one he sees. It is obvious he feels something for me. But here's where the problem starts. Sometimes and ... (341 words)

How can I get him to realise that he can't let his friends get in the way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so.. There's this boy in my year that I really like.. I first liked him before Christmas last year, but he had a girlfriend then (which I didn't know about), he promised me that if and when they broke up, he'd go out with me. So we stayed friends and he hugged me occasi... (407 words)

I'm interested, but he's older and experienced.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - -This is lengthy. If I want a full answer, I need to give the full story.- This might sound a little...odd, for some people, because it'd looked down upon, more than likely. [I live in a small town with retirees- if it's not traditional, it's Satan.] On St. Patrick's day... (603 words)

I love my teacher, and I understand nothing can happen

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I know that quite a few people have this problem now, which is nice to know- as I'm not totally alone, but the thing is.. I'm in 'love' with my teacher from school. I'm turning 15, and my teacher's 3O. Yeah, big age gap.. I know. I met him in September 2OO8, and at f... (436 words)

I pushed him about commitment and may have pushed him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A short question to help with a lengthy one...! A guy I really like has been unsure if he wants the commitment of a relationship, (we were seeing each other and it was going really well before he suddenly got all mixed up about it) and basically, last week, I said that I wanted... (218 words)

Should I be angry at my boyfriend for sharing his fantasy??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night while I was in bed with my boyfriend making love, he asked me if I had any fantasies lately. I said no but asked him if he did. Earlier on ITR I introduced a little kinkiness to our sex life by talking about fantasies together to turn eachother on. These fantasies ... (740 words)

We like each other, but he has a girlfriend whom he is not sure about!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, Please help me out ! A week ago, I went to this party , and I met this wonderful guy, who was also from the same country as I am. We kept chatting and it was amazing. he took my phone number and he texted me the same night to tell me how much he enjoyed the part... (232 words)

I don't know what my bf wants from our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm 20 yrs old with my boyfriend living with me at my parent's house for almost a year already. We have been together for two years. I'm confused from my boyfriend(20 yrs old) of him being confused on what he wants in our relationship. I know what i want and thats ... (344 words)

I am concerned that my soldier boyfriend wants to use me for sex before his deployment, but I don't know how to tell him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey All, My boyfriend is in the Army. He's deploying soon and I'm currently in a college a solid 7 hours away from him. I want to be able to see him before he leaves but since he has such a short window to be home, I have to miss school. This isn't a huge deal because my ... (281 words)

Should I remain friends with a guy I have feelings for but who is dating another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have known this guy for about two months now and i like him alot like more then friends....he told me he liked me and wanted to be with me and all this...but i went to a friend's house to buy a car and this friend is a guy and the guy i like, he got really mad cause i was ... (113 words)

Will my body issues turn my fling off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm kinda worried right now. I have this fling ( we were on a no commitment zone) and we were planning to get into the sack after his vacation next month. Although we've seen each other in person, this will be our first sexual experience. The thing is, I just got into th... (110 words)

My bf is constantly looking at pics of naked women...is this adversely affecting our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy for a year and at first things were hot and steamy but lately he has been less and less interested in sex or anything else. We are only having sex 2-3 times a week. He works an average of 70 hours a week and although we live together, we do not spend ... (378 words)

In an un happy marriage and in love with my first love. How do I get back with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so let me start from the beginning. I am a good person who until recently has never cheated on another man in my life. I am very unhappily in a verbally and somewhat physically abusive marriage of nearly 10 years. We have an 8 year old together. I have been miserable for ... (551 words)

How do I make my cousin realize my deep feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My matter is verrry complicated! Please give me a solution! How can I win his heart? How can I make him talk to me ? Be mine? I don't know whether it's love or not, whatever it is, I like my cousin a lot. He does not live in the same country where I live. I had a serrriou... (229 words)

Maybe you are the right one and his wife is the wrong one?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. This is my question. Is it possible a married man could be falling for you instead of wanting an affair? Or are all these guys the same, wanting their cake and eating it, too? How do you know he is not truly happy in his marriage and this is why he is h... (355 words)

Can someone love and yet lie to the person that they love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - He cheated while we were dating, and I only found out about it after we got married. Thus, I didn't know he had been unfaithful when he proposed, during the engagment, or during the wedding. He cheated once, and was in touch with the person he cheated with for a few months. It ... (268 words)

He's too busy for a relationship but wants to have sex with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend at uni and we have kniow each other for a while 2 years. We like each other and there is a lot of sexaul tension between us. I want to be with him and be his girlfiend but his actions confuse me. He says he is too busy for a relationship but he is interest... (131 words)

I think I'm in love with 2 men, one of them is my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm in a bad situation at the moment emotionally because i think i'm in love with 2 men, one is my ex. my ex broke up with me twice in the past and after the first time he pleaded for me to take him back and said he would change. he hadn't and things got worse, he had a bad ... (375 words)

How do I deal with jealousy of my friend over a girl we both have liked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was 12-14 years old (2006-2008), I had a crush on a girl who is one year younger than me. She also had a crush on me but then we stopped liking each other. After sometime she met with my friend and liked him. When we stopped liking each other, she did not know my friend ... (1088 words)

Betrayed by my own sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It all started when i was in 7 grade i had this big crush on this guy name Adam. we would flirt all the time! oh how he gave me the butterflies! we had very little classes in school together and we never saw each other out of school! but it was ok it was only 7 grade we keep ... (1651 words)

I like him but he's ignoring me, how do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Me and this guy really like each other. We have been hanging out as friends for the last six months. A couple of months ago, he started working two jobs and I have not been seeing him as much. So we haven't been hanging out like we used to. This is the story. I... (388 words)

Is there any hope left for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So this is gonna be a long one, it's greatly appreciated if any insight can be made for this train wreck of a situation. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now, I'm an electrical engineering student with less than a month to go before I get my diploma I... (1122 words)

Caught g/f cheating twice and now am having trouble keeping an erection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Age: 43 Sex: Male Race: Black About three ,months ago i started a new relationship, everything was grate, we were having sex twice daily, for the first two months, we were attracted to each other so much that whenever we a alone, we could not stop having sex, Now i am... (193 words)

I want to love him for who he is but I can help feeling uncofortable about his looks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been dating this guy for 8 months now but thing is, he's not my ideal man when it comes to his looks. am not trying to be shallow but i cant help noticing that am 2 inches taller than him. ave always wanted my guy to be taller than me cos it makes me very comfortable. ... (214 words)

I have a feeling he is dating another girl and has no time for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i have a guy that i am currently dating. the guy is a marine officer and travels a lot, but the problem is that he doesn't call me always and we don't see always. the only time we see might be after two months or more and he doesn't call me often. infact, the last ... (138 words)

I put forth so much effort in LDR but don't feel boyfriend does the same

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a LDR...have been now for 2 and a half years and I love him, I dont know what I would do without this guy, he means so much to me and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Issue with me is...everyday I tell him how much I love him and either everyday or ever... (258 words)

My lies are destroying my relationships, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I always lie in a UNnormal way , And I'm losing my best friend because my boyfriend , and because my lies and my boyfriend my mom started to not trust me anymore , and my dad will hate me =(( ... My life Is Complicated , I don't know what to do !! , should i break up with my ... (63 words)

It ended before it began, so why do I feel like I just got broken up with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts! My mates introduced me to a great guy last year. All this time we've been in each other's lives without knowing it. Long story short: there was mutual attraction but he wanted to advance too quickly, so I didn't accept in fear of being a rebound as he ... (235 words)

I dumped my girlfriend...Do you think she'll come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ladies, i broke-up with my GF, yesterday, i feel soooo guilty, but it weas her repetitive mistakes, that i used to warn her about, she repeated these mistakes more then 20 time, "mistakes such as not telling me what problems she is facing, keeping secrets from me,she is j... (202 words)

We're swinging with my best friend and her husband...She says if we end it their marriage will end!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband an I are involved with another couple. Its complicated. Best friends with benefits, my best friend sleeps with my husband and I with hers. I think we should all give it up but when we attempt it we all end up missing each other too much. I don't want it to end but... (135 words)

I've been sexting with a friend and he wants to stop now. Can we still be friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and had been chatting with a married friend via text, chat, phone sometimes- mostly sexual talk. We are both very attracted to each other, have a lot in common and definitely have chemistry. He would tell me how much he thinks about me when we don't talk. We a... (192 words)

I'm worried that I'm staying with him out of guilt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my husband last friday..... And now im lost...I need advice. Let me give you some history. I was married at 18 ,we have been married for five years and have two beautiful children, My husband up until this point had been the only man i had ever had sex with. Two ... (307 words)

Sometimes I get so wet, he slips out. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably a stupid question but is this normal? During sex and foreplay I get incredibly wet!! When my boyfriend touches me I get wet and the more aroused I get and the longer the wetter I get and I mean really wet. Sometimes so bad that when we're having sex his pen... (88 words)

She didnt respond when I proposed to her, how can I tell her that I love her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met a girl in my school and i fell in love with her and i proposed her and she didn't gave response but i still love her but she doesn't. how can i tell her that i am in love with her... (45 words)

Should I tell my friend's girlfirend that I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend has a girlfriend and i am starting to really like her. we spoke a little on facebook after i first met her but since i added her on msn the other day we have spoke everytime she has come on which is a few times a week. i thought that she was very attractive when ... (292 words)

He was having sex with another girl while I was pregnant, I know he has done me wrong but he has my heart.....what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Need help please!.... I have known this guy since 2006 we dated for almost 3yrs.. We broke up for good 10 months ago.... We started to go back out in 09 of October im now pregnant by him I will have the baby in 5 days .... im so in love with him I been depressed for the last ... (335 words)

I miss him yet I don't miss him at the same time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i made my ex a friend. he seems not too enthusiastic about it, even when he had begged for it for a long time. i thout i loved him so much when he was gone, but now that he is back in my life am not too sure about it. neither is he...though he sends me messages now and then. ... (165 words)

Is it just physical? How do I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Confused - been dating almost 4 months and he has only called me once. We text maybe once a day, but see each other at least 3 times a week. We're exclusive. When we're together he hardly asks me anything but we do have fun together....lots of fun! Because he isn't talkative ... (102 words)

Why do guys beep their horns at girls? It is really embarassing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Everytime I go out, with my mom, my friends, ANYONE, people would do that whole 'I beep the horn because you're attractive' thing. Before, when I was an insecure person, i would feel really flattered. Now, it's just really embarassing and my parents think that I'm 'making them ... (91 words)

My girlfriend seems really knowledgeable about sex and I am worried she will laugh when she sees my penis!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Ive recently met this girl and shes ready to have sex, shes let it be known that she wants to but im not sure, theirs multiple reasons but one of the larger reasons is because my penis is sort of thick but only 5.5" i don't know what i should do, im not sure if m... (112 words)

Is this normal behavior for an ex girlfriend?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend told me the other night she had a cry because she missed me even though i know she dating someone. I also have had drunken texts saying she missed me in the past. She dumped me and its been about 8 months since we broke up. Is this normal behavior for ... (66 words)

How do I get him to accept we need to both move on?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He is the father of my 2 children, we broke up but how do i get him to accept we need to both move on? My relationship with my ex ended some months ago,there were lots of reasons. We started getting along a little better and one evening he stayed for a drink and we ended up in ... (199 words)

I found out that my boyfriend cheated - should I confront him?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my boyfriend cheated when we were going through a bad patch at the end of last year. Bascially there was a chance I was going to have to move away and having both been in long distance relationships before (his which caused many arguments and ended in a nasty ... (555 words)

Breaking up, back together and now there's another girl involved

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay maybe u can help me..... Im not so sure how to put this so i'll just tell u my whole story. My Bf and i were madly in love....then one day i was thinking about dumping him so i could get my life back on track from all the drama (keep in mind none of the drama was his fa... (320 words)

I'm cheating, want to divorce my wife but what will happen to my daughter?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years and have a 2 year old daughter. I love my daughter to bits and will do anything for her. I have fallen deeply in love with another women 2.5 years ago and we've been together since. The feelings i have for this other women is unbelievable. I ... (222 words)

What is he doing on this network site?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just found out that my bf has being chatting a girl up on a social network site? He adds random girls every night all between the ages of 16-19 and they are tarty. He doesnt know any of them. He has added over 100 since january. Last night he deleted 33 of them and the ... (186 words)

He always doesn't apologise when he does wrong,he puts the blame on me

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now we are crazy about each other or thats what he wants me 2 believe we have been thru alot 2gether we have had fights but we always find our way in each others arms the problem is he doesnt wanna admit ... (200 words)

Is it really wrong to have a relationship with my cousin's cousin?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my problem started on new years eve - I was drunk at a family party and my cousins cousin kissed me in the bathroom. Ever since we've been seeing each other and it's the best relationship I could've asked for but people (particularly people related to both of us) seem to ... (87 words)

Has my new date lost interest?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Please help and advise!! thanks. I have been dating this lovely guy for around a month now. Things were going well, and he used to call or text every morning and around the same time every night . I last heard from him now 2 days ago first thing in the morning and ... (268 words)

He doesn't want sex very much, has he gone off me?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for under 2 years and at first the sex was great with my husband but now it seems he cant be bothered we have sex once a week or once a fortnight and it does'nt last very long, i don't want to say anything to him in case it upsets him but i feel like he has ... (114 words)

4 and half years and now we are no longer a couple! Where did the love go?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After four and a half years the love of my life told me that she no longer loves me. She said that she no longer wants to see me or hear from me again. The hardest part to accept of all this is the fact that just days before we were great. Actually I recall being intimate, ... (399 words)

His low libido and lack of desire to work on our marriage has made me want to leave, but he wont even take that seriously! What should I do?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age - I'm fairly attractive, intelligent, work in the corporate world, and have been married for 15, 5 years, with my husband for 18 years, and we have a 15 year old daughter. His libido has always been very low, getting lower as the years go by, and he never initiates sex. If I ... (1194 words)

Should I tell him how I feel? I'm worried that he doesn't feel the same and only likes the attention!

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm pretty sure that i have strong feelings for my best guy friend. he is all i think about and when i'm not with him, i want to be with him. i have no idea how to tell him, because he's always playing games with me. when he found out i was with a guy one night, he got jealous ... (132 words)

She says she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, so why is she flirting with other guys?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - need help guys, The thing is i have a girlfrd and we've been together like almost 4 years and we've been doing good and i can say she was 100% honest with me and everything. We start it in college now we both have a job. But first there was this guy flirting with here through ... (444 words)

Two year relationship on the rocks, time to end it?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry about the long read; I need help. I've been in a relationship for nearly 2-1/2 years. I love my girlfriend, however, things between us have gotten pretty rough, and last night, she really upset me almost to the point of walking out. At the beginning of our relati... (893 words)

How do I deal with my guy friend's games?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy friend keeps playing games with me. sometimes he acts like he really likes me and wants to be with me, and other times he just ignores me. my friends and i think he just wants me to make the move first, but now i'm just getting frustrated because i believe if you really ... (98 words)

Boyfriend acting out, I depend on him too much, need solutions!

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and at the moment things are really bad. I've always known that his love for me has never been as deep as mine is for him. However recently he has been acting out as if he wants to push me ... (699 words)

Has my teacher got feelings for me? Or just being nice?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being ... (453 words)

Questions about my situation with my boyfriend......

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is my everything! I claim him as my husband, but I have a few questions about this situation. If a man stresses in the beginning that love to him is not to be played with or taken lightly out of the blue one night tells you he loves you does it mean it's true ... (198 words)

Too scared to have sex because of my penis size!

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my penis is only 3inches long I am sooo scared to have sexual relations because of my size Please I need tips and advice what to do... (38 words)

What does my ex's behaviour mean?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been trying to get Over my ex...we went out a year. Three weeks later she had a new bf. Everyone says it's a rebound etc. Today I was talking to a mutual friend who has been hanging around with my ex a lot (My friends and ex live close) and the mutual friend t... (103 words)

How do I come clean to him about the fake pictures, without losing him?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One day i was bored at home and decided to create a Smeet.I decided to use fake pics because I wanted the attention from guys. I searched on google pretty girls and I found this one girl that looked somewhat like one of my classmates in school. I decided to use her picture as ... (250 words)

My boyfriend has got another girlfriend but denies it, how do I get him to stop seeing her?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid! My boyfriend has got a new girlfriend, am sure about that, i even saw his text where he was telling one of his friends about her, that she's understanding, respectful and loving. And these are the same words he used to tell his friends about me. I tried 2 discus the ... (71 words)

I just want his love back. Please help me.... I don't know what to do....

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Three years ago, I had posted a question for relationship advise on this forum. My question can be found in the following link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-took-an-instant-dislike-to-each-other.html This is a continuation of the same relationship. To make a lon... (1555 words)

Is there something wrong with me because I want to try and change my already wonderful husband?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband... Tim... He's awesome! One series character always comes to my mind when I'm thinking about him - Aidan from Sex and The City. He's perfect - not for every girl, but for Carrie. The same is about Tim. He's perfect: his personality, his body, his education and work, ... (296 words)

Marrage gone bad, and lost on what to do.......

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My Wife and Myself have been together for about a year and a half, at first it seemed like love at first sight, everything was perfect except I could never see her because she was in Foster Care and they didn't let her do much even though she was 18. So being teenager's... (788 words)

Would I freak my friends out if I asked them this?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i am guy and ive recently gotten in interest in getting in shape. I have friends who are ripped and have six packs and everything and ive always wondered how it feels like to have one. Im not gay or anything but I just want to know what having one feels like. How can I ask ... (88 words)

Can I please a woman with a 4 and a half inch penis?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I masured my penis it is 4 1/2 inch erect can I still please a woman with it?... (18 words)

Am I a lesbian?

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24 March 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hey guys. There's this girl...who's older than me...and were not friends... And I think about her a LOT and sometimes I get turned on by thinking about her. But when I see her I don't get so turned on...or even feel anything... I'm very confused. Am I a lesbian? Please... (58 words)

How can I get on with life when it has come crashing down on me?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Back in October of 2010 I started dating an incredible woman. She bought me tickets for Nickelback and we had a great time. The relationship blossomed into the best thing I ever had. Unfortunately though I was her first relationship after ending a 13 year relationship with her ... (379 words)

The only thing keeping us together is our kids

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize in advance that this is rather long... I just have no idea what to do. We've been married for nearly 6 years, together for 11. I feel like the only thing really keeping us together is our kids; a 3yo and 1yo. My husband over the last year and a half has become ... (675 words)

I can't seem to make peace with his past......

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now. I'm 19 and he is 21. The one consistent problem we have had is the fact that I can't seem to get over his past. He has told me he has slept with 7 girls and has also been engaged to one of them. I have never ... (275 words)

He didnt go inside me fully, does this mean I am still a virgin and will bleed when I have sex again with my future husband?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a friend in college whom i like a lot.. I would actually say I loved him but he did not love me. But he liked me and we used to make out. But I dint wanna lose my virginity that time. I was 20.Still we were making out and he went inside me a bit once. It pained like hell ... (152 words)

Should I contact my ex even though we have not spoken in 3 and a half years?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am wondering if I should contact my ex? (guy #2) We haven't spoken in 3 and a half years. He was not my first love but the guy I who made me fall really had for. He ended up breaking up with me after a month of dating when one of our fights escalated to me accusing him of ... (501 words)

How do you break up with someone you care for, but aren't in love with?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months and taking a break for the last two weeks. My ex and I separated after a two year, loving relationship just last Thanksgiving. We took our time to be alone and in that time I met my new girlfriend. She was very sweet a... (412 words)

Am I really creepy to guys?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - EVery guy i have a crush on ends up finding out and becomming creeped out. Am i really creepy to guys?... (21 words)

Am I meant to be the other woman?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey to all of you that will read this. ;) OK so my question is am only good enough to be the other woman? I'm soon to be 20 ( yay me ) and Im single. At first I didn't mind but after the months kept rolling me past I started to get down. I'm very nice and super funny, I love t... (553 words)

Why are there such huge differences in attitudes towards sex between the USA and Argentina?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I am from Argentina, South America. Our culture has its roots in Spain and Italy pretty much. We salute with a kiss on the cheek (properly, not a silly "air kiss"), we are very affectionate towards others and very emotional. Our parties get pretty wild, we stay up very ... (1261 words)

Is posting this picture on Facebook disrespectful to me?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for several months - we live an hour apart and spend weekends together, but I mostly don't see him during the week. Also, most of his close friends are girls, who he goes out drinking with on a regular basis. That being the case, I can't worry about ... (148 words)

Girls, masturbation and sex.....what really goes on?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - PLEASE READ THROUGHLY. I know it's a little long but it's interesting :) I want the girls' views on this (any guys feel free to comment if you can add anything useful). You don't have to say if you do it as that is a private matter. Well basically I am pretty sure most ... (683 words)

I am christian and friends with a bisexual woman, how do I stop our inappropriate behaviour without losing the friendship?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to be a heterosexual christian woman and have a bisexual female friend... of course. What if I am attracted to her though. I am really determined to be with a guy though. My church teaches that homosexuality is a sin, but whenever me and her are two together... (189 words)

Will I be able to pleasure my girlfriend in different positions even with my penis size?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this might be similar to my other questions, but I just want some realistic validation, my penis is 5 1/2 inches when it's erect, and my girlfriend are both virgins and we want to wait until we both get married when she gets out of college, I'm still self conscious about ... (167 words)

Is my subconscious trying to tell me that I am not happy in my relationship?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've been in a very happy and loving relationship for almost two years with the most wonderful guy in the world. For a long time, I have pictured myself falling asleep in his arms in order to fall asleep (just because it's a very comfortable feeling). In the past few w... (122 words)

How do I get rid of my ex?

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24 March 2011 (M) age 26-29 - Well I dated this girl for 7 months and when I broke up with her. She asks me if I'm dating anyone now or if i'm single everytime I say "yes I'm dating someone" but recently she's been texting me saying "heyy! Watcha doin" and all I reply is gtg with some made up excuse and now ... (69 words)

She's married, contacting me 14 years later and I told her I don't go out with married women!

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24 March 2011 (M)

age - I recently heard from an old flame who I used to date about 14 years ago. She found me on Facebook. I Googled her a couple of times and saw that she was not married. But I didnt contact her because I didnt want to jeopardize her marriage. It was nice to know that she found ... (627 words)

Is he just distracted? Or is he pulling away?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for almost a year. We have a good relationship and enjoy doing things together. He is very independent as am I (busy with graduate school). Recently he seems to be pulling away, we never really called on a daily basis before so the frequency of calls ... (159 words)

What am I doing wrong?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been trying to figure this out for some time now, and i dont know where else to turn. I have no idea whats wrong with me. I have had only one relationship with a girl in my life. I want to have another relationship but at the same time i dont think I'm meant for one. I ... (80 words)

I don't understand why he acts this way if he does not want to be with me, or does he?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have this guy friend who I am confused about. When I tell him what I'm looking for in a man, he responds with "well I have everything you need", he will ask questions about my family such as...do they know about him...But he never has that talk with me about being ... (121 words)

What am I doing with this guy? I'm concerned about his sexual past

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I am a gay guy dating another gay guy for the past six months. We are very different in a lot of ways, but one is bugging me. I would like to know -- is this normal? is it something I should just get over? He's had a very active sexual past, which is fine, a lot of ... (206 words)

Can an online boyfriend actually be considered as a boyfriend?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He's a very sweet guy. He has sent me videos, pictures, poems, and songs expressing his love and has posted/let known how he feels for me to his friends. He has also said all these beautiful things that make me fall in love with him all over again. He claims that I'm his ... (75 words)

Why is my ex still ringing and texting me when he got another girl pregnant?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, as before i have explained my story which was a relationship with my ex which lasted for 4years, and i found out he had cheated and got another girl pregnant, but yet he still said he could not loose me for the world and he loves me. i have tried to cut off all ... (226 words)

He is not technically doing anything wrong, but I cant help but be hurt by his actions!

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in the middle of a dilemma. I'm with my live in boyfriend of almost two years, and we have a great relationship. He recently told me that he's head over heels in love with me, and that he has decided that he wants to be with me forever. There's only one thing. I re... (195 words)

He's left his relationship status as 'its complicated' even though we broke up. What does this mean?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, we weren't in a relationship for that long, but we had been talking since august in 2010. We broke up because he said he didn't have enough time for a relationship between working and college. We were in a relationship on ... (101 words)

Will my ex be mad because I didnt ask her sister how she was doing?

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24 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So me and my ex broke up about 1.5 months ago. and we have been dating for about 2 years. we were each other's first loves and everything was great and then things took a turn. so anyways, we broke up because she had to go to school up north and we ended things. we had a re... (245 words)

Sex is no longer on my agenda

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 6 yrs, married less than 1 yr. I'm never in the mood to have sex. I believe this is due to that fact I have been feeling down lately about my body as I've put on a few pounds. But I also don't find my husband sexy anymore and not sure why. My ... (94 words)

Should I take this personally? He seemed fine with other people.

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) About a month ago my friend found out that one of his classmates died, and i've been there for him ever since it happened. I was there when he found out and I did my best to comfort him, I listened to him and gave him advice.. I basicaly was a shoulder to cry on. But ... (200 words)

I like him, but does he really like me, and what should I do next?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So here is my dilemma...I know some of you ladies have seen this before. I have a great guy friend who I met a year ago. I fell for him right away, but I kept my distance because of a girlfriend that lives out of state. He calls her that, but I am pretty sure it is a F*** ... (265 words)

Am I wrong for asking him to take a break from us while I figure everything out with my family?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. I am 19 and he is 23. Everything is good between us but my parents failed relationship has always made me scared of being in a relationship myself. When I was younger I always thought it would just be easier to not get ... (255 words)

Do men avoid women they're interested in and are attracted to?

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24 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy is interested in a woman, would he avoid her? I normally see this guy at th gym and we talk almost everyday. We're both attracted to one another and he's quite the gentleman, if you ask me. But the past few days, however, he's a no show. I'm sure he's busy or tied ... (102 words)