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Help! I think I 'like' my doctor!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1265 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello :) Straight to the core. I am a 29 year old (single) man. I have been seeing my doctor on a regular basis due to several personal problems. Now, I think I love her. I used to think that I liked her, buuut these feelings are too familiar. =\ Sooo... I don't wa... (417 words

I've given him my virginity, and he means so much to me...but I don't know if I trust him completely because of his reputation as a player..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1266 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Let's start at the beginning of it all, shall we? (This'll be long, and complicated, but the background story is needed for you to possibly be able to answer the question because it really is complicated. Either bear with me, scroll down to the third paragraph from the ... (1091 words

Could a man use a woman to get back at another who rejected him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is it possible that a man could be using a woman to get back at the one who rejected him, if the woman he is using is her best firend? What If he treated the first one as if she does not exist, and give all his concerns to the newer woman, while still from time to time, sh... (71 words

How do I get my ex-gf back??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1266 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have been with a woman in a long distance relationship for about 1.5 years, but she broke up with me half a year ago and i still love her so damn much! She recently got a new boyfriend but that already ended within 3 weeks for whatever reason. I love this girl and feel ... (150 words

My bf is angry at me because I took drugs as part of my religious ceremony!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Okay basically me and my boyfriend have been together about 8 months. its a long distance relationship. he is 20 and i am 16. we are both different religions. in my religion about once a year on a festival they make a special drink which contains drugs. now in order to get high ... (314 words

Why do I hesitate in making the moves on this girl I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1114 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - Hey guys i have a question that i have thought on and i just can't seem to find the answer. There is this girl that i have known for about 8 years and for some reason i just can't stop thinking of her for the last couple of weeks. I have not seen her in like 2 years but we talk ... (133 words

How do I make amends after I betrayed the love of my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Below is a very short insight into the world I shared with Peyton. The tone of this insight is rather dark and negative. But as that is the feeling of this time we are going through, even if it’s not together, I thought I would express that even though for the most part, the ... (1491 words

How do I interpret his signals on our gay dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - ok, so I have gone on two dates with this guy I like a lot (which I just met like a month ago). anyways,in the last date, we went for dinner and then to the theater to watch a movie, and I noticed that he stretched his arms a lot...and later I felt that his arm was touching ... (183 words

A rich guy or someone that you love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - hey i'm a heart broker and don't know what to do.. i'm chinese, stay in shanghai, i'm from hk worked in shanghai now, i met a pretty girl in my life 1 years ago, as first we just friends, cos i have a girl friend and she has a boy friend too...but things goes different last Nov... (202 words

Confused about my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm confused about my feelings for my fuck buddy. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last summer and hooked up with this guy really quickly after that. At first, I wasn't interested in a more serious relationship. We've known each other for several years (not that well, though), ... (406 words

Overweight and unhappy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Okay I'd really like some help on this. Something that has got me down for about 4 years. I'll shoot straight into it. I'm overweight. I'm not huge but I feel it. I don't wear anything that reveals my arms (because they are gross), and i don't wear anything revealing ... (91 words

How can I overcome my fear of sexual-intimacy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - I am seventeen and have been in a relationship for 4 months or so, and it's getting to that point where we need to move on to the sexual side of the relationship... I've had previous relationships, but they haven't worked out because I just wasn't prepared to do anything... (115 words

I cheated on him when drunk but I suspect he cheated too!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I'll probably get judged for this post but what the hell my head is FRIED!! I could seriously do with some non-judgmental advice, oh and by the way, don't tell me to break up with my bf cos it ain't gonna happen. Okay... Me and my bf have been together over a year. We... (652 words

Female input needed!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 1255 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - For women only. How would you feel if a guy that you are interested in had 9 inch long penis?... (20 words

I think I might be bisexual or bi-curious, how do I tell people this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Ok I think I'm either bisexual or bi-curious. And I'm not too sure how the girl I like will respond if she finds out. Please help how should I go about telling people about it? Thanks ... (40 words

Sometimes when I masturbate I think of other woman!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Hey everybody, I'm kind of confused. Sometimes when I'm masturbating I think of having sex with other women. I'm straight, and the thought of other women sexually repulses me, so I don't get why this would happen. Most of the time in the fantasies it's in a humiliating way,... (123 words

He turned me down, what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - First of all, I'm 13 turning 14 soon... I liked this guy and I was pretty nervous and some of my form friends said to me he liked me (not sure if he was just getting them sick of asking him though he's a pretty shy person). Also he seems to tease all the other girls just... (136 words

How do I show this jerk in a classy manner that I have moved on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Okay guys. My question is how do you handle a guy who has been ignoring you for the past two months. He liked me but then ran away because he was in another relationship and couldn't handle his feelings. So now he is back in the picture. He just blew me off in the past even... (183 words

I know he's no good but I am addicted

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - i always stay in bad relationships rather than be alone. i do have friends and could make my life fuller than it is, but i get so involved in the problems of the relationship that i cannot pull myself up out of the misery and i get obsessed by thoughts about it. why do i do ... (199 words

Anal sex with no condom, should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Last night me and my boyfriend were having regular sex when the condom broke (I'm on the pill so no worries about being pregnant, we usually just use condoms anyway to be on the safe side) so for the first time we tried anal sex. No condom, no lube, it was very much a ... (165 words

I'm dating a guy who told me from the start that he's not "dating material" but I've fallen for him anyways!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (? age 30-35 - About a month ago I started a fling with this man I really really really like. He made it extremely clear right from the start that he was unreliable and not a good person (his words). He also said he loves spending time with me, but he also made it clear that he's not ... (180 words

Why can't my friends just be happy that I am dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1266 days ago

2 March 2011 (? age 30-35 - I've recently started seeing a guy and am shocked at how my friends are behaving. One of my friends seemed extremely jealous, then started talking about a guy she knows. (A male friend of hers- they are not even dating!) Another friend wanted to interrogate him, find out where ... (195 words

I don't know if I'll ever be able to love her. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1264 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Short version: I had a girlfriend I was mad in love with. After 6 years of knowing each other, she suddenly was convinced our plans for the future were too different to keep us together. She broke my heart, started dating another guy, I went through depression, got better, ... (380 words

Brain lapse re my birth control pill... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I've just had a moment of confusion about my birth control pill. I took my last pill on monday night and it was my last pill in the packet. So i am now on my pill free week. Do i start the next pack on the following monday or start it on tuesday? I've been on the pil... (85 words

How can I tell him I'd like him to show me that he loves me more often?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1264 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Well, to start with me and my cousin (not first) are in a relationship and my mum knows about it too. She's completely supportive of it and wants us to get married. That's the bottom line... The problem is, for the past few days, he's been acting really different (like ba... (1185 words

I know she's still in love with me, but what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi there, I'm going to try to tell my story briefly, but I have a lot of background info I need to explain. I have been in a relationship with my gf (I am also a girl) for a little over 2 years. We've been crazy in love. For the first 6 months, we had sex one or more times a ... (476 words

I am seriously in love with this older guy!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1246 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Help!!!! i think i am in love with this older guy(25+),!!!! I've been out with older guys before but this time i am totally stuck. Basically we both work in the same shopping center and i am purposely making up excuses to end up in his shop, we talk all the time whenever... (151 words

Feeling confused about my feelings for my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1258 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - I have a boyfriend I am happy with but if I ever think of myself kissing a boy it is never him I am thinking of. Also, I asked my friends who we should all ask to my party. Does this mean i should break up with him?... (48 words

Do you agree with hooking up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1260 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I'm looking for opinions, since I can't seem to find a strong voice anywhere. 1. Do you hook up, if neither party is in a relationship? 2. If you do, why? If you don't, why not? 3. If you found out about your current partner's past hook ups, would you confront the... (74 words

I have the birthday blues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and we have a 7 month son together. its my boyfriends 28th birthday today and i went out of my way to ensure he had everything he wanted even though it has left me worse off. I even got him a silly cake to make sure he had a ... (116 words

I've become obsessed with my body and finding it difficult to resume a healthy eating pattern.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi, i'm hoping you can help me out on an issue with my weight. I'm a tall woman, around 5"9 and have a BMI of 19.3, within the 'normal' range. I've always been self-conscious about my weight, believing I was fat, so last summer, weighing almost 11 stone, I decided to go... (424 words

Love my girlfriend so why do I keep having crushes on others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - I have a girlfriend, we had been quite steady together, I really love her a lot. However, I tend to have a lot of random crushes on other girls and really would like to be with them them. Please give me some advice on this!!! I need to get it out of my head!... (54 words

Do I hang around waiting on her???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've been in love with this girl i've known for about 5 years. For the past 5 years she has had a boyfriend. She has now been single for 4 months, and 2 months ago she asked me out. We've been dating now 2 months. Nothing has happened. And so i asked her 'what happening with ... (106 words

I don't know how to help my daughter let go of the past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age - I don't know how to help my daughter let go of the past. He left my daughter and my grandbaby and went back to his ex. Then he started calling her saying he wanted her back while he was still living with his ex. Everyone told my daughter not to go back that he was not ... (171 words

Two friends, but I like them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - ok, here goes, two guys, P and R. they bith say they like me, only problem is, i like them both back. P and i have been flirting for about three months, but he has even said himself that he wont take it any further than that, although he claims to love me. and he wont even talk ... (161 words

Why does he add all these girls on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Should I be worried that my boyfriend adds random girls on facebook? He send out requests every night. He as added over 70 since January. They are all about 17-20 year olds and are usually 'sexy' or 'tarty' looking girls who he adds. The thing that worries me is that how we m... (152 words

I'm worried this may be termed as incest???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok so, I'm 22 years old and living in Canada. My dad's uncle George (my great uncle) has lived in the US for like 20 years. When he moved to the US he married an American woman named Kate (my great-aunt by marriage I guess?). Kate has a sister, who has a son named Eric. ... (177 words

Should I say something about the picture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I've being texting this guy for the last couple of weeks, he then just sent me a pic of himself... well his penis. It came just out of the blue. I felt totally creeped out by it. I have never met him either. We arranged to meet up the other day and then he said he was going ... (106 words

How to make it past 3 months?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - About to hit our 3 month dating mark - I haven't made it past the 3 month mark in 5 years, I'm nervous and trying hard not to show it. I'm the polar opposite of his ex (of 17 yrs) whom he chased for a year, lived with and tried to marry but she was not into marriage. We ... (196 words

Is it understandable to feel hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have recently broke off an affair. Definitely the best decision but hurts like hell. Only been shy of a month. He is already seeing someone else. Is it understandable to feel hurt?... (36 words

Crush on my housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - i studied abroad and had to share a house with a guy that i just met. he's from the same country i came from. at first i felt nothing more than friendship relationship.. however as time passes by, i started to fancy and admire him.. we can really talk about any topic till l... (179 words

Betrayed because he thought it was okay to be friends with his ex's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi.. ive been with my fiance for nearly 4 years we've a kid together we started of as best friend cause we've knew each other from we where kids an then we fell madly in love.. only when we started going together his ex's kept texting and phoning him even when we where in bed. ... (177 words

He won't leave his work where he had this affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 14 years had a affair for nearly 2 years i only found out about a month ago but always suspected he had cheated. he has a good career but the woman he went with works there and he wont leave his job. he wants to come home but doesnt want to change anything about ... (78 words

Why won't my married man text me back any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - im giezelle 26, i have currently an affair with a married man he's 45. we were together for 2 months and he was just the sweetest one ever. he came into my life unexpectedly. we met in a bar.. we got to talk and since that night, we kept in touch.. he communicated with me. ... (266 words

Do you think my teacher is creepy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1264 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - hi everone well there is that teacher who's totally creepy in my school. Anyways, 2 years ago we had some problems and she doesn't call me my name, she already knows my name but she wanted to insult me, then she started smiling to me whenever i talk to her. I was kind of ... (211 words

I think I love her too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - I think i love her too much There is this girl that i fell in love with last year and have been going out with for about 6 weeks now and things are going good and im happy but im concerned about how much i love her. I dont know if its just me being silly or not understandin... (181 words

I feel that our relationship is under a little stress...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. I really love him but have had some conflicting feelings lately. We are both in school (I am 20, he is 25) and talked about moving in together... he eventually said he thought it would be bad for our relationship ... (313 words

I told him I loved him at the 11th hour and now it's too late!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - The guy I've been seeing who wanted me to open up to him is now giving it another go with his ex. I feel rubbish. I wish i opened up to him earlier. He said he thought it was a bit of fun between us coz i never told him my feelings. He tried talking to me a couple times but i ... (163 words

What is this fluid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1266 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - I'm a 17-year old male , but i haven't any ejaculations yet , i only get seminal fluid (transparent fluid) at the tip of my penis but no cum or ejaculation at all , what would that be ??... (39 words

What type of girl should I go after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 16-17 - I have white skin with a light tan, I have medium-long dark blonde hair, I am 13 years old, weigh 40kg and am fairly skinny, I am very bouncy but can change my hyper-ness to help the people around me and will calm when someone needs help and always friendly and happy, but do ... (102 words

Do people marry for love or to just settle down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1261 days ago

2 March 2011 (F - hey all, well my question is a bit weird. Im 27 years of age and single.In my lifetime, I have had relationships with 3 guys who I felt strong enough about to want to spend the rest of my life with. However, these relationships didnt work out. Ive also had relationships, around ... (240 words

Is 2nd base too far at 17?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - So, I'm 17 and got to second base with my boyfriend whom I've been seeing for 3 months. I can't say I didn't like it but it made me a bit uncomfortable. Is 17 really an age to going so fast? I would like to take it slower.. but I need to know if there could be any dire ... (85 words

Falling in love with a guy in the divorce process

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Am a single mom,21 yrs old, recently a fall in love with a man who is on divorce process.he is 35 yrs old.he had a daughter with the other wife.the man is so caring especially to my son.this makes me feel him more.he opened up and told me they are divorcing because the wife was ... (134 words

I'm into Buddah...where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - ok i have a question, im into buddah and would really like to start practising this religion, but before i do i need to know a litte bit more about it, i have books and stuff but would i have to attend church or something? any advice appreciated :-) Thank you... (51 words

How do I start loving myself and feel worthy? my self esteem is at rock bottom

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1261 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Will I ever feel good enough is the question. I am nearly 36 and to cut a long story short, I feel pretty worthless and not good enough and not accepted and worry about being judged and people realising this about me. I am fairly sure it stems from my parents never actually ... (431 words

I'm pregnant but our relationship isn't working out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 8 wks pregnant and have an 11 month old baby girl already. My morn after pill totally failed me hence me falling pregnant and the condom we used broke. I am trying to be happy about this new pregnancy and I am - its just my partner is wrecking my head. We are living ... (558 words

He moved on so quickly and I sitll haven't...Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I suppose this is more of a "share your experience" question. I just feel quite low because it's been 8 months since my ex broke up with me but I'm still not fully over him. But I know that he's moved on with his life, and he got over me pretty quickly. He said he loved me and ... (121 words

My first breakup...Is feeling this bad normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 1/2 yrs and it hurts like hell. There has been many different problems for months and months some fixable some not but when we tried talking about the problems I knew it was over, it's hard to explain but it was like every ... (124 words

Texting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - So I just met this girl and she was really cool, she gave me her number. The next day we texted through out but it tapered off that night. I got a couple of weird answers when I asked where her favorite place to eat was and what not, she would say she didn't have one and stuff ... (92 words

I'm afraid of giving up my affairs...help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 41-50 - when i split up from my marriage i started going out immediately with an old girlfriend( i know i should have waited) and the relationship was good initially but i was carrying a lot of anger from my marriage which ended badly. The new relationship was volatile and we split a ... (241 words

I want to make her love me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - when i was of 7 years i liked a girl we were good friends and we liked to spend time with each other i used to watch bollywood films a lot we lived in hostel i started realising that i love her we bunked yoga classes and we just spent time with each other whenever we could i ... (186 words

Are suspicious partners untrustworthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - My question is quite a general one, and this is something that has been bugging me for some time. I am wondering, and would like people's opinions on, whether people who accuse others of cheating, act jealous, distrustful, controlling, suspicious, when they have something to ... (107 words

Am I a bad person for setting the trap for her to fall into? In my defence, she did some really horrible things!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1049 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - So I met this girl (we are both 28) when she came to my country on a two month vacation. She was attractive, beautiful and smart (basically the opposite of me ? ) but anyway, we got on well together and things got serious towards the end of her stay (serious in that we were ... (701 words

Now he won't even look at me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years and what seemed to be the most wonderful and amazing realtionship has slipped away from us. When we met, he said he did not even find me attractive, but fell in love with me and see everything beautiful about me once he ... (1182 words

Did I misread the signs? Is there anything I can do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - A couple of weeks ago I went to a friends bday party and met this really beautiful, funny, cool girl. We laughed and joked all night. Danced a little bit. It was one of those nights where you meet someone and go "Wow, I really like this person" Eventually, I found her on ... (323 words

First sexual experience...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - Hey, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 1 month now and she wants to get a bit 'sexual' and im keen for this. Were both 16 and we have both never had sex or given/received a blowjob. I know she wants to but im a bit nervous I might 'cum' too quickly and ... (77 words

My secretive boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend 2 years. I am 39 he is 29. He takes care of me and my 2 boys financially. he gives us anything we need or want. He is very controlling and smothers me to death. I have depression on and off. I am sometimes happy but for the most part i am jobless ... (185 words

I'd like to have a relationship with her but I'm afraid of being hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1265 days ago

2 March 2011 (M age 41-50 - I met this girl a month ago and we did a few activities together. I tried to kiss her on our second date but she said she was not ready for a relationship. We hang out and cuddle in the couch for hours. She writes me emails every other day telling me about her day; I do th... (272 words

She was with another guy during our break

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1267 days ago

2 March 2011 (? age 18-21 - now i have a question me and my gf have been in an up and down relationship for about a year and 7 months now during our break up she had drunken sex with some guy and it hurt me so much cause i still loved her so much and now that we're back together i can't get my mind off of ... (121 words

My Bipolar Mother Dislikes My Boyfriend. Now What?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - This is kind of a two-part question. The first part is what do I do about my parents not liking my boyfriend for a reason that isn't true, and the second is am I living in an abusive situation? My boyfriend and I are really close. We are best friends as well as partners, and... (765 words

Did I really hurt her ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I live with my ex and I somewhere feel for her though she's in a relationship with someone else.She loves drinking and hanging out with her friends. I have serious issues with her lifestyle and her bad habits.More she's not physically sound as she has some auto-immune disease ... (220 words

His self-esteem is so low that he tells me I'd be better off without him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1268 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I've been having problems lately with this guy that I've been sort of seeing: I've known him since October. We started hanging out in December, in which we spent a lot of time together and had a lot of fun, but then there was winter break. We talked some over break, but not ... (476 words

Met someone else but afraid to hurt my husband by leaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1264 days ago

2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I´ve been married for 7 yrs..got married when i was 18..too young..have two beautiful children... me and my husband had an abortion and that made us grew apart from each other..after that i was feeling depressed and met someone.. an older man, married, whose marriage was over, ... (216 words

In love with my boyfriend's brother!

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother. To be fair, I've known and liked the brother longer. To make it easy to understand, we'll call the brother Ted. I worked with Ted for a good year; that's how I met him. I knew from the start that he had a girlfriend, but that didn't ... (539 words

I actually hate him but I feel so crazy and pathetic right now. What do I do?

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2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just left my boyfriend of six years, living together for five years. We have a beautiful baby girl, who is the most amazing, loving person. I am 28 years old and I am a lawyer and have worked very hard in my life. I met him, fell in love and it was, looking back, fu... (743 words

Inappropriate contact with my boss but I need this job! Help!

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Please help me! I'm 27 and my boss 60 years old. I just joined this company 6 months ago.My boss started talking to me sex related stories........and almost everyday he told me want to smooch me.........but I refused but one day I cannot control my feelings he ask me to just ... (146 words

Is there something wrong with me or is it him?

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2 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am a 36 year old Im at my sexual peak and want sex all the time I try to wear sexy clothes for my 40 year old boyfriend and try anytime to have sex with him day or night but he says im not normal people dont have sex that much because I want it more than once or twice a day ... (73 words

I'm confused and lost, I like this guy, it's a LDR only over FB as he doesn't own a phone!

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Do long distance relationships work.? I like this guy Doesn't own a phone I only talk to him on Facebook he lives 1 hour away We see eachother once every two weeks Potential? Do they work? And do you think this will work?... (50 words

Is it strange that I'm falling for this guy over Skype?

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2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hey Everyone, I just wanted to know if what I'm feeling is completely crazy. So a little while ago I met this guys online and we exchanged skypes and we've been video chatting on there everyday for 3 to 4 hours at a time. Is it strange that I'm really falling for this guy? He... (114 words

Sharing stuff with fiance, what is going through her mind?

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2 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - i have relationship problem i shared showed a love liquid and kamasutra gel with my finance i showed her in totol faith and love but i axed my feet and she didnt supspect me of using such things before because i told her i got it in exctiment and hence sharing it w... (179 words

How do I let her down nicely?

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2 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I'm a 24 year old guy. I'm a bit shy, I'm not a lady's man or anything, but older women sometimes hit on me in an aggressive way. The thing that really bothers me is that sometimes it's as if they do it only because they know I'm shy. p / p / Lately a female coworker ... (202 words

Is he flirting with me and actually interested?

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2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - so there's a guy that i've liked for a while. when i first met him a little over a year ago, he gave off some pretty strong signals that he liked me too. i sort of messed things up, though, because i was going through some things in my life at the time and didnt always give off ... (424 words

My husand used to abuse me, but has stopped...Is this real change?

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2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Its been 7 months since my husband has been verbally or physically abusive to me or anyone else. He says he is changing,and has been on meds for the last 7 months. we have been together for almost 6 years. At the 4 1/2 yr mark is when he bacame violent towards me. (It lasted ... (130 words

I'm having trouble performing, but she say's I'm the best

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2 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Hello, I am new to this, I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time a few nights ago but I couldn't get erect at all when I got near her Vagina but when we kissed I got hard, she gave me a blowjob and a handjob, but still couldn't get it up or even cum, but when I fingered ... (85 words

Is moving back to a town where there is nothing to do a way to keep ourselves out of trouble? Can you really start over?

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay so here is the deal. Growing up I lived in a tiny isolated town. It's in the mid-west so it isn't pretty or thriving and is really small with only like 1000 people. Recently my grandmother passed away and my parents own the house that she lived in. My father has been ... (803 words

I know he'll eventually get the message but I feel cruel!

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2 March 2011 (? age 36-40 - ok I have ceased contact with the man i was having an affair with, just stopped, he keeps txting me worried if im ok and asking to meet ive been ignoring these txts, am I doing the right thing, I know he will eventually get the message but I feel cruel. I want to make a go of ... (192 words

Double boy trouble! Part 1...

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2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - This problem is several fold so I guess I'll ask one part at a time rather then all at once 1) I love a boy (pretend his name is Dylan) so I've known him since basically infancy as his family and my friends are rly close and I was always at my friends house. So I started ... (308 words

Boyfriend is using me and he has never put me first

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2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I fell in love with a person younger to me by 3 years and he said he loved me too. We are together for past 1.5 years. I love him dearly and i always put his needs over mine. But lately i started realizing that he is using me and i never came first for him as... (144 words

Is being acting weird & possessive because he's done something wrong?

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Should I be worried that my boyfriend seems really possessive lately? Does it mean he's done something he knew he shouldn't have? When we first started dating (we have a long distance relationship while he goes to school) he seemed jealous but not over the top. He repeatedly ... (291 words

Is there a future for our cross-cultural relationship?

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I would like to hear some people’s opinions and maybe some advice on a very hard situation I find myself in at the moment. Let me start from the beginning.... About 4 months ago a new guy started at my work. As his supervisor I had to train him in his new role. As we work... (760 words

The only guys approaching me for dates are either weird or creepy

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2 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - This probably seems like a stupid problem but lately the only guys who have been approaching me for dates have been weird or creepy guys. It's really killing my self esteem. Some of them I gave the benefit of the doubt and went on one or two dates to see how things went, but ... (166 words

Does this married man still have feelings for this woman?

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2 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - If a man (married) tried to get a younger girl's attention for 2 years, but felt he got turned down by her because she respected his marriage, will he still have some feelings for her? What if he started to ignore her and gave his attention to her older best friend? Will his ... (89 words

How do I make him see sense and that I am not ignoring him?

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2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, My crush is mad because he thinks i ignore him, but that's not the truth every time I see him my heart skips a beat. Now he won't speak to me, which is confusing me, he's ignoring me because he thinks I ignore him? I don't want to lose another person that I ca... (62 words

He initiated the whole thing a few months ago but now its gone to nothing with no obvious reasons.

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2 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Argh! Whats going on?! I went on a date with a guy I'd liked for a while. Was a simple, rather unromantic date, cinema and fast food. 3 weeks later, despite texting him and messaging him, I've only had a few words from him on facebook chat, and he was rather blunt and unrespon... (327 words

Used and dumped by supposed 'good woman'. How do I get over it?

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2 March 2011 (M age - how to forget and move on in my life after the deviation of being used for five years by a 'good woman' and then dumped. ... (25 words

He seems to be what I need to come out of my shell, but I'm not sure if thats for the best in a long term relationship....

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2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - I recently met a guy who is really nice and awesome, and fits pretty much my ideal. He is really extroverted and I am introverted, and even though we are just friends, he pushes me a lot...to study, to feel better, to do things with him, etc. which is good for me. But I'm... (102 words

My boyfriend goes to parties and takes pictures with girls that I do not like.

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2 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend goes to parties and takes pictures with girls that I do not like and dont have the best reputations, their sluts. He as he arms around them and they always include one girl inparticular, this same girl I think has feelings for him and at the most recent party, ... (90 words

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