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We're both shy, how do I proceed?

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10 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - I'm really shy and I don't know how to show my shy crush that I like him. Please help!... (19 words

Do you think doggy style is romantic?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - honestly ,do you think doggy style is romantic or it`s just for fun ,animalistic passion . would you have doggy style with a woman that you`re in deep love with ,if she `s the sweet n nice type ,if not which position would u choose ? think u guys for the answers :) ... (58 words

We shared a bed, he kissed me, and then acted normal the next morning.

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10 March 2011 (? age 26-29 - Well Ive been here for ages and have gotten some great advice, and now I need some more! I ended things with my long term bf in August, it was as amicable of a split as possible, and I was really and truely over him, by the time it ended. Now, I have a friend, he is a ... (360 words

Ex-husband won't move on.

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I'm separated five years from a man who is both extremely controlling and manipulative. He was mentally abusive throughout, to the extreme that he would hide things on me. We have three gorgeous kids and I've always said he could see them when he wants, because I didn't ... (317 words

Texting a girl from work and complimenting her, should I worry?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - my boyfriend sent a message to a girl he works with saying: "you and your son are beautiful :D i really like your style outside of work! i can dig your style! have a good night ttyl" i asked him about it, he said he was drinking and didn't even remember he did it unti... (161 words

He said he had a great time and then just vanished!

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I went on a date last Saturday night with a guy I had met a few times before. I was thrilled when he asked me out for a drink as I had liked him for a while. We had a lovely evening. The conversation flowed and we spent hours just chatting until the early hours of the mor... (236 words

How do I bring this up to Bob???

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - so im bad i was snooping in bf of 2 yrs phone and found a recently contacted out of state #. so i memorize it and call from my phone. girl answers. so i freak and hang up. then i text and pretend i went to high school with her and name off random people and noncholantly ask ... (224 words

How do I give him a french kiss?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - I'm 16 and I have been with my first boyfriend for over a month now and I really want to french kiss him but the problem is I'm not sure how to go about starting it! At the moment when I am with him we always hold hands, he often holds me really close and we just hug for ages ... (162 words

My fiance got a vasectomy behind my back !!!!

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10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 32 and my fiance is 45, we had a baby a year ago after not being able to for many years. My fiance that I have been with for 5 years got a vasectomy behind my back 6 months after the baby was born. I would love to have another child in the future, he knew I was 27 when we ... (176 words

Since my brother went to Australia I'm really down, I miss him so much!

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - I really need help. I don't know what to do and i just need other peoples views on this whole situation. Everything is becoming too stressful and i don't know weather i should go and see a doctor to give me some calming tablets or what. My brother moved away about 2 years ago ... (303 words

I revealed too much on webcam and am worried she recorded it!

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10 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - i am extremely worried. recently i had a webcam session with a girl (was a fake) and i ended up showing my face and revealing a little too much. now i wonder whether the session was recorded and that it could be pasted on the net. i did ask the person if the session was being ... (121 words

What did he mean by his comment?

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10 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - ok, maybe some of you can decipher this. what does it mean while having sex, your boyfriend grabs your thigh, squeezes it and says, this is what I want not some stick. I'm not fat, but I'm not a stick either. it totally took me out of the mood and i was thinking, who else has ... (89 words

Bye... talk to you later!

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend's job has picked up a lot which is good but now when i text him and I am done talking i usually say bye or talk to you later to end the conversation but it drives me nuts if he doesn't say bye back or something. Should I just tell him to try to remember to do that ... (96 words

Would a woman really lead someone on knowing they were taking the piss out of me for a laugh, or is this my low self confidence

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1235 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I would love some advice on a situation I have at the moment. Not long ago, I moved to a new area and have got myself a job and really settled well. Since starting I have noticed a girl at work who I really like and get on with. Not long after getting to know her I foun... (334 words

He's distanced himself from me since I asked if we could move in together...

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10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we are very close and I thought it was time to ask him to move in with me so i did but its only worked the other way, we see less and less of each other since i asked. Is it because he doesnt want to be with me even though ... (89 words

My boyfriend of 4 years hit me and I feel desperate, please help!

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10 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - My bf hit me because I made a bad comment about his mum because I was angry. He hit me, spat on me, told me he hated me and didn't want me, he even said he couldn't get his p**** up for me because he didn't want me. He has said all these things before but we have got back ... (136 words

I wish my boyfriend would hit on me!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I will be dating for a year next month and I feel like something is wrong. It shouldnt be like this so early in the relatinoship. I cant pinpoint the problem but I know I dont want to break up with him. He makes me happy all the time and and we c... (194 words

B/f 3 years younger and dad doesn't approve!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My dad doesn't think i should be dating my boyfriend because he three years younger than me. He is 17 and I am 20. How do i get my dad to approve of him. ... (35 words

Do I choose my friend or my boyfriend?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - im so confussed, me and my boyfriend have broken up because of my friend. she kept getting invovled, and emailing my boyfriends babies mother. due to this he couldnt cope with the stress as it was one thing after another. me and my friend had a huge arguement and feel out and ... (202 words

If your hymen is broken will you bleed during 1st time sex?

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10 March 2011 (? age 22-25 - dear cupid, are you still considered a virgin if your hymen is broken and you haven't had sex? also, if your hymen HAS been broken before your first time, is it likely that you will still bleed?... (40 words

Is squirting fake?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1231 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys!! Do women really squirt?? i read many articles stating that it is fake?... (19 words

I just told my ex that I can't stay in touch with him anymore, any tips on what to do next?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - So, I just told my ex that I can't stay in touch with him anymore. He's been cheating on his gf with me and i'm just trying to minimise the hurt i'm feeling. Any tips on how i can move on from this? Obviously, to actually make sure i cut all contact (i think i can manage thi... (111 words

I'm really hurt that boyfriend doesn't want to commit to me

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 1-1/2 years. We are both over 40, educated, mentally stable and own our own homes. I want a relationship that will eventually (not too long, but not rushing into anything either) lead to a normal relationship progression: engagement, living ... (344 words

My marriage is in trouble.

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Been married for 26 years. I found out he has been taking hydrocodone and I believe he is addicted. He spends more time with a male friends than me. Nothing is the same. I asked why he doesn't want to spend time with me - he says he has more in common with his friend. ... (72 words

Can I be the one for her if I change?

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10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - hi i need someone else view on whats going on with my life and maybe some advice recently my relationship ended with who i believe is my "one". However i couldnt fight it, she was very unhappy with me, and basicly i fucked up. Its my own damn fault. I wasnt the right person... (473 words

Should I tell her how I feel?

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10 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - Hi.i need help on this.i have known a girl for some time now,i like her and i think she likes me too.i don't want to ask her out because i feel i am not ready yet for a date.should i tell her how i feel in order to clear my thoughts or i should just pretend i never liked her ... (68 words

What do her questions mean?

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10 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - dear qupid i like this girl, she's about one year younger than me, and we're close friends (we always come to eachother for advice, and we always hang out). not too long ago, i told her how i felt, and i got a really long responce about how she doesnt feel the same way, but wi... (152 words

Does he like me or is he just bored?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I went out on a date with an old friend of mine after which we really didn't hang out much as he had to go for a few days for his sister's wedding. When he got back, he sent me a text saying we should hang out. So i called him up twice yesterday and he didn't call bac... (159 words

How do I find meaning in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Am a 24 yr old male. Am very talented in academics and I have been very successful in my career and I feel am gifted with high intelligence. I always top in everything I take up. I have been working real hard in my career and also trying to prove myself to the world. But this ... (456 words

How can I help destiny?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - My mum is single and she thinks my teacher is cute, I love my teacher like a dad already and I really want them to get together!! How can I get them to casually meet etc.. I'm an only child by the way. They are made for each other but how can I help destiny?!... (55 words

I want to be ME again!

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10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - I am 24 yrs of age and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 5 yrs. We have two lovely children at 4 and 1. For a long time now we have been very distant with each other, we're not affectionate or passionate in any way. Our sex life has never been too great but is ... (258 words

I'm so confused by his texts... what do they mean?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - me and by boyfriend have broken up and he said that he was goin 2 change his number but i had a text today saying he still loves me and that he will give me a ring after he finishes work, but when he finished work all he said was 'i told you that you wouldnt take it that bad', ... (120 words

We've broken up are going to live as friends and I feel guilty

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10 March 2011 (F - I ahve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He's 32 and I'm 39. We had some problems last year, but had booked a holiday to Thailand which we wnet on and things got back on track. He started talking about buying a house together and arranging things for the year ahead. We're ... (264 words

I look like a liar but I'm not!

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of a year and I got together back when I was going through a divorce from a very physically abusive man. I got therapy and got better. During the beginning of our relationship, though, I wasn't always honest with him about when I talked to my ex or saw him, etc. I ... (623 words

If you have sex, how do you feel, if you cannot make her finish?

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - If you're a guy, how does it make you feel if you cannot make her finish during sex? ... (18 words

Was she just hiding her nasty self and now its coming out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

10 March 2011 (M - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now, she is 20 and I am 23. The first 6months were amazing, she came across as a very shy, nice, butter wouldnt melt kind of girl. More recently though she is like a different person, she is usually miserable, moans about ... (198 words

How long does the honeymoon last?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'd love your opinions, males and females please, on how long the "honey moon" period of a new relationship generally lasts :) I've been with my new bf for coming on 6 months now. I've noticed things have cooled a little in the last few weeks...like, for the first few mo... (384 words

What can I do to be less self-conscious around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1236 days ago

10 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - I am so self conscious and don't know what to do anymore! Every time I am around my bf I feel so fat, so i suck in my stomach and wear my belt on the tightest loop. Since i have started to date him i have lost 10lbs and now i never want to eat. I still think i am fat so i st... (124 words

How should I dress to play football with guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone.! :) i need your help guys. Recently, me and my bf have decided to play football together with our friend circle like girls vs. Boys.! But the problem is i am really confused and nervous about it as it would be my first time with him. I am neither a very girly gi... (252 words

B/f doesn't go anywhere or do anything with me but will with friend!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, this will be our third year together. We never go out during the week, and I always though it was alright because he works during the week, but when the weekend comes around we never go out either. Just sit at home, him ... (157 words

Why do you want to meet up with your ex that broke up with you?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Ok so this is probably nothing much but i'm really upset about it. So my boyfriend and i are dating for half a year and before that he had a seriuous relationship with a girl 1.5 years ago. So she and he still writes to each other. After seeing that they chat i got sad and he ... (155 words

My much younger wife cheated, left me remarried and I still can't get over her!

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10 March 2011 (M age 51-59 - I'm well established businessman and very well off . 11 year ago I got involved with a young girl 16 years younger to me. First it was like an affair as I was married but then she was openly known to everybody as my wife. 5 years ago I married her because she was deported from ... (180 words

I don't want to push her totally out of my life but I don't want to be hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1217 days ago

10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me 4 days before my birthday. i was so devastated even though i already see it coming. we are on a long distance relationship and we are both girls. she is way younger than me. we met cause of an exchange program. we had lots of plans but none of ... (333 words

Can I confide in a friend who has feelings for me?

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10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - as a guy, would it be wrong for me to confide my personal feelings (regarding girlfriend, family and etc)to a friend who has feelings for me?... (26 words

Why would he touch if he's not a touchy kind of person?

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10 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, This thing really puzzled me the other day. I was hoping you could help me out with it so... here goes. Why would an older man (mid-fifties) touch a younger woman's arms and back, if he isn't a touchy feely sort of person usually (I've never seen him invade anyone els... (114 words

My Boyfriend always leaves me flat when he is hanging with his nephew

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1214 days ago

10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My Boyfriend leaves me flat every time he is with his nephew? what should I do ? My boyfriend is 41 years he is 16 yrs older than me, I love him with all my heart, but we always have conficts in our relationship , the reason is because he be hanging out with his nephew ... (259 words

I cant get turned on by men my age!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1231 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - I'm a 17 year old guy, and so far it's been pretty much impossible for me to get into working relationships. Essentially, I can't get turned on by men my own age. Very occasionally I might be attracted to someone who's in their early to mid 20's, but the likelihood of them ... (170 words

Guy of average height being very negative on going after taller girls

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10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I am 5' 7" guy and I am not comfortable at all with with my height especially making the first move with girls taller than myself.... And I found myself increasingly attracted to girls taller than me. The worst is I've been rejected before by someone for the specific rea... (156 words

Who is she leading on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Recently my girlfriend and I moved in together but things haven't been so great. The reason being that I love herewith all my heart, and she assures me that she wants to be with me as well. Although she does have feelings for a close friend of hers, and tells him all the time ... (84 words

I cant have him and yet I cant seem to walk away...

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10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi - I have been married for 4 years known my husband for 10. We have never had an easy relationship. About 8 years ago I started chatting to an old uni friend we had always fancied eachother but had partners at the time so never took it further. We started chatting all the ... (197 words

I'm living in a virtual world and I'm depressed...

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10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - hey everyone . im in a long distance relationship with my gf that i ve never met yet ! we met online a couple of years ago and we really got along ! we talk a lot and i really do love her like crazy and i guess she does to !! anyway my problem is i cant go and see her at the ... (242 words

A man tells me not to text after I text him that I love him...

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm sexually invloved w a neighbor for several yrs. I finally verbally admitted I care and love him and He must know it . I stroke his ego via text alot to make him feel confident.So I sent him a text yesterday telling him how wonderful he is and that ... (163 words

I don't know what to say to her or if I should say anything at all...about my feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Five years ago I met this girl we became best friends and I was crazy about her, a year into our friendship I got really drunk and told her I loved her, but I didn't remember until some one told me about it six months later (I got rejected obviously) by this time she had a boy ... (415 words

I find myself wanting my exhusband back, even though he left me 2 years ago and has a fiance!

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - my husband left me over 2 years ago because of a midlife crises,he has been so so nasty to me,he is still living with his parents but does have a girl friend 13 years younger than him self and they are seemingly engaged and planning to marry next year.i have recently found ... (68 words

She's behaving like a stranger ever since she found out Iike her!

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10 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - i am 16 and in high school. I am in love with this girl in my class...all of this started months ago. I have known her for about 3 years now and we were kind of friends before. She is very smart, gets good grades, good looking, nice to people, very social etc etc...and i am ... (173 words

What's this with me and my male friend? Views on our relationship please!

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10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know I love him even when I am married to a very nice guy. But no alarms here. I don't try to get him to wreck lives. But I need all your views on our relationship. I know this guy for a few years now. He is a junior advocate and I am a client of his. Since last year ... (436 words

Two children, one on the way, I'm in the hospital and he's on the internet looking for f-ck buddies and porn!

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - i'm 25 have 2 girls a 3year old , a 1year old and 5months pregnant, my partner father of my babies betrayd me,hurt my feelings. i was in hospital for a week spend my birthday alone in hospital, the day before my bday i call up my partner 3 hours after he left from the hospital ... (312 words

How to cure my stretch marks for losing confidence?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I am now being the whole body of my lower parts.I am so sad for that somebody thought that I am not virgin.I am now still virgin and I am now 22 years old.I felt that I looks like 60 years old women.I wanna wear short skirt what should I do? I felt I lost my confidence and ... (128 words

Does my boyfriend only get on with women and why?

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10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is he making an idiot out of me or not? My boyfriend is coming across like a guy who just doesant get on with guys. But with everything that's happened I wonder why? -is it because they can be flirted with and therefore its easier to get what he wants?-Because I don't like ... (386 words

How do I keep our marriage together when we are moving apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1227 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I have tried for almost 10 years to start a family. We have gone thru failed adoptions, miscarriages, surgeries, and more procedures than I ever knew existed. We have depleted all of our savings and now have started going in debt trying another avenue. Infertility ... (117 words

Does this mean we just cant have sex or can't have sexual play whatsoever?

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10 March 2011 (M age 18-21 - Ok I need some help. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few weeks now. Sure its not long but we realy have clicked. We love and hate the exact same things and things are going great. But she said to me today that she wants to go further than kissing and hugging.... (155 words

Long distance: she won't text me back, is she extremel busy? Or is she just playing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1226 days ago

10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Long story short, and ill explain it the best i can. I am having a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 months now. We seen and hung out with each other for a week over winter break, but after that she went back to living in florida and i went back to ... (494 words

I suspect he wants the pictures to start internet dating again!

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 18 months and I were very close and discussing marriage. Then he got a new job and had to move to another town. We continued in a LDR but it's not the same. Recently he asked me for pictures of himself where he's alone on the photo. When I asked why he said ... (157 words

She needs space but still loves me!

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10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Please read entire post as I really need an answer: So, I recently got out of a 1 year and 2 month relationship. For about the first 3-4 months things were perfect as they always are, and then the fights and arguments started to happen. I'll admit that we didn't treat eac... (498 words

How do I become ok with just one man who is good to me? How do I go about finding one?

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Me again with another question. I have become friends with a married man. We met online and he did not say he was married until after we met and realized we were attracted to each other. We have had a relationship for over a year now. Some sex, mostly talk, he calls me his ... (166 words

Is it wrong for me to like my step cousin?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Is it wrong for me to like my step cousin if I liked him before we found out we were cousins? He went to primary school with me and he was the only guy who was nice to me. Now we're both in high school, and even tho we go to different schools we catch the bus every afternoon. I ... (75 words

How do I move on from this drug-addicted narcissist who now is expecting a baby with his new gf, the one he cheated on me with? Help!

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I had been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we have now been apart 2 yrs. He started seeing someone else when I became more independent and my mom was dying. Anyway, he is still with the woman he cheated on me with. I know he is a drug-addicted narcissist. AND thru much therap... (541 words

I don't think she wants a relationship with me right now!

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Ok so, I'm 19 years old and my best friend is 17. I'm gay and she is bisexual. She also split with her boyfriend about a month or so ago and she came around to my house to catch up and what not. We talked and I played some music from a kinda old cd and we were dancing, having ... (200 words

My boyfriend doesn't have my number saved in his phone!!!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now. One day, he lost his phone at my place. We decided to use my phone to call it hoping to follow the sound of the ringer. When I found it ringing, I noticed that my number was not saved in his phone. I asked him about it ... (201 words

Why didn't he text back?

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10 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a few months ago, and we haven't talked since then. He sent me a text on New Years Day to wish me a Happy New Year. But he never sent me one on my birthday. Last week was his birthday and I sent him a text - a very simple one - ... (94 words

A group of friends has asked me to go on holiday, they don't know about my affair!

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10 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I had an affair with married woman who is very much older than me. I broke up with her few months ago. She called n sms me many time but I just ignore it cuz I realised that it's too awful to having a relationship with someone's wife. Now, a group of our friends cal... (131 words

I can understand being busy with work,but how can he totally ignore for so long, and not even a reply to a text?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 23 year old female seeing a 35 yr old male for the last 13 months. it started out as a friendship for 3 months then we become intimate. The problem is he just disappears for long periods of time (6 weeks or longer). his done this atleast 5 times that I can think... (229 words

I think I've ruined my genitals forever and I'm not even 16 yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Okay, this is SO embarrassing but I don't know who else to turn to and the people on this site seem fairly nice. If you're gonna' be a douche, okay, I guess. It is the Internet, but please... I've been FREAKING out about this since it happened, which was actually a while... (296 words

I seem to have hit it off with my military recruiter!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I'm about to join the military and after I take my physical and oath, i'm in. It's weird though, because I really seemed to hit it off with my recruiter. We have a lot in common and it seems like we have a mutual likeing of one another. I'm not going to make a move b... (228 words

How will I know if he is flirting over the phone?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - how will I know if he is flirting over the phone ? .. what signs should I look out for .. considering he is 5 years elder to me and we know each other for many years (we only knew each other we don't know abt each other till recently) .. we talk over the phone regular... (132 words

Does this big smile means he likes me?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Today we had an assembly at school, and the guy I like was helping with set up during it. He was out there in front of over 1,000 people, and he smiled at me really big. I blushed horribly while I was smiling back. Is this a good indication of him liking me? or just being ... (57 words

I am very jealous of his past, his ex, his kids

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Im In a realationship,living together.We were married and together for 3 yrs.He broke my heart.I never got over him.25 years later(recently)he contacted me on facebook-Both of us married living an hour apart.Both miserably unhappy...He left his wife first,my marrige ended ... (217 words

Need help with drug addicted boyfriend

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello. I seriously need help. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years. I am 26 and he is 25. At first, things were great. We got along really well and had lots of fun together. I knew he had problems in the past, and had done drugs before we met. But he a... (414 words

I am still in love with married man even though I ended things!

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - After my ex-husband and I decided to split, I started seeing a man seriously. This man I had met at work turned out to be married (unhappily or so he has professed) and 21yrs my senior. I would have never guessed his age that's for sure; I figured him for in his early 50's, ... (203 words

I don't know how she feels and I cant get a straight answer out of her

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10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - ok, well my situation is this, im a college student attending Utah State University, and ive fallen for a friend of mine, the feeling has grown over the past five months, shes a beautiful girl and very intelligent, with a very unique personality. the issue comes in the fact ... (280 words

Am I being overly chill?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I just got out of a horrible relationship. We were together for two years, but things weren't the greatest while we were together. We loved each other but for some reason he didn't know how to treat me right. The whole relationship was dysfunctional and it really messed me up ... (486 words

Boyfriend always accusing me of doing things wrong!

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Well.. my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now and everything's been going pretty well for the most part, but it just seems that he is always accusing me of things I'm not doing, and it really hurts me, and I don't know what to do.. like the other day he was ... (412 words

One day hot, one day cold!

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Lately, I've been crushing on this guy and he knows because I drop major hints, and even TOLD him. He was the one to tell me he liked me first, but then one day, I asked him if I should give up because he started to act strangely and he said "If you want, I still kinda like you ... (180 words

My aunt hates me now and I don't know why

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - what do I do I am so upset? My aunt and me live kinda far but we have always been kinda close even because she is not just my aunt she is my godmother and so it means a little more to us usually. Well I went to send a request on facebook for her to add me and she did I told her ... (255 words

We can't figure this girl out!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone, my cousin asked me for advice but I seriously can't figure this girl out... (you'll understand me in a couple of seconds) He met a girl about a year ago, she was instantly attracted to him but he didn't like her that much. They were in french class together... (277 words

I want him to want me... again.

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - okay so i need advice pronto! so for a really long time i was pretty much head over heels for this boy, lets call him mike. so mike and i had a on and off dating relationship for a year. then out the of the blue, one of mikes friends, a player named tim, started texting ... (289 words

Husband cares more for his family than he does for me

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10 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for 2 years and recently seperated because he cares and does more for his family than me. We lived next door and all they had to do was call and he would run no matter what we were doing or planning takes care of their house and etc befor his own. We went to ... (209 words

Leading a double life, I thought I could go back, but I can't!

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - When I started uni I decided to do something I've wanted to do for as long as I remember but never had the freedom to; explore my sexuality. I had a one year relationship with a boy in high school, pretty much because it just sort of happened and was expected and was easier ... (480 words

My boyfriend has this malicious female friend who is way too close to him, and he's told me to get used to her being around. What's that all about???

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend of over 3 yrs has a friend who is a girl. I also have make friends but I am becoming slightly alarmed with the amount of defense he puts up for their friendship. I have expressed my uncomfort for a while now but I have got nowhere. This girl is extremely attached... (294 words

What can I do? because my reading is, he wants to break up.

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10 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - I'm really worried. I think my boyfriend wants to break up with me! He told me he loved me though. Today at lunch my friend pulled him over to sit by me and we didn't talk once. We didn't even look at each other. Then We started texting and I asked him if he still loved ... (156 words

Am I wrong to be so upset with my husband? Because I am so upset

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Am i wrong..?? i used to get angry when my husband started talking to other... this is after the time when i found out about my husband after our marriage...that he was already slept with another women, just after we got married. i hate myself for not knowing this. i came... (116 words

She's married but her attachment to my BF upsets me. What can I do?

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend of over 3 yrs has a friend who is a girl. I also have male friends, but I am becoming slightly alarmed with the amount of defense he puts up for their friendship. I have expressed my uncomfort for a while now but I have got nowhere. This girl is extremely attached... (300 words

Why is she hiding her bi self from me?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 years old,female,and bi. Anyway there's this girl that I like, a lot. She says she is straight, but I know she isn't because she told my friend the other day that she is bi. She denies it though because she doesn't want to be that way and hates herself for it. I would ... (93 words

How do I give him my number?

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10 March 2011 (F age 16-17 - see, there is this guy i like, but he doesn't have my number. i have his, but i don't wanna text him first and seem obsessive or something. how do i give him my number without making it to obvious that i want to make sure he has it? please help!... (51 words

I like this Capricorn guy

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Just a heads up for anyone who doesn't believe in them - This is a question about star signs/zodiacs. I respect a lot of you don't believe in them, but I do. So please don't comment saying what crap it is. I like this Capricorn guy. He's the definition of Capricorn, I swe... (320 words

Does anyone think he loves me?

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - ok , so after my divorce in 2004 , me and a long time friend who was divorcing too . started to sleep together the first time once , did not see him for 9 months he called apologized and said i did not deserve that , we got to gather a few times a week for a while , then ... (333 words

Just split up, what can I do?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - iv just split with my boyfriend and all i can think about is him. hes changed his number and blocked all contact so i cant get hold ov him. know this is for the best but just cant stop thinkin of him. when ever i go out everyones askin me if we still together and everything due ... (95 words

B/f keeps photos of his ex even though I have spoken to him about this 3 times already

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10 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - My partner keeps photos of his ex My partner and I have been dating now for 17 months and practically live together although we still have separate residences, i.e. he lives at my house, or I occasionally stay at his house. My concern is he has hundreds of photos of hi... (469 words

Was sure I was gay, but now having thoughts about a girl

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10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - Ok so Im gay and have been forever. When I was younger I slept with a lot of men, only once had an experience with a girl after a lot of alcohol but neither of us enjoyed it in the slightest. At 21 Im getting ready to settle down, found a man I love and we are getting marr... (197 words

How do I start a conversation with this guy?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - I work in a mall on a stand where smoothies and drinks and things like that are sold, its sort of like starbucks. And in malls there are always security guards walking around and where I work theres a security guard who is really hot. He comes and buys a smoothie whenever he ... (114 words

Want to send my b/f some texts

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I want to send my bf some texts to let him know that im thinking abt him and how much he means to me, but i don't know what to say. What should i say?... (36 words

My ex wants to be friends

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10 March 2011 (M age 22-25 - me and my ex just broke up a month ago and she has a new bf. how ever she wants to be friends. she texts me every couple of days to chat,calls me on occasions, and wants to be able to "see me" because i "mean the world to her". Not sure if i can live with being a casual friend ... (82 words

Can two people go into a genuine relationship and make things work when you've jumped right into the sex part?

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10 March 2011 (F age 18-21 - Hey guys. I've already posted about this person before when I was seeing him last time, but he broke up with me claiming he didn't want a relationship at that point. Well we still spoke after it and stayed friends, but he asked me to meet up with him again and I stayed wit... (194 words

He doesn't have feelings for me so how do I move on?

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10 March 2011 (F age 22-25 - I still have strong feelings for this guy. Who says he loves and cares a lot about me. But isn't in love with me. Therefore doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. What makes it hard is we have a child so we see each other a lot. And I enjoy spending time with him. So I ... (82 words

I think I'm in love with my bestfriend, but I need to pull myself away from her

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10 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I think I may have feelings for my best friend of 7 years, and I sometimes hate myself for it. I feel I have to distance myself away from her, I don't know how she feels but I feel like she plays with my emotions and I hate it. I don't want to get hurt. I don't even know if ... (389 words

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