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How to be friends with an ex???

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25 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - My ex and I just broke up a month ago and I'm ready to take the next step to be friends..how do I do that?i want to get to know him more..we only got to know eachother or two-three weeks and things got too fast!..but we both don't want to be committed to eachother as we're ... (62 words

I wish I was beautiful and that guys gave me attention, but sadly I'm not like that

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm ugly, and that means guys pass me by, ignore me, don't approach me, or when they do it's obviously a momentary thing just 'cause they're desperate for sex (believe me, I can tell, I've learned to tell!). My friends are really pretty, and they get guys' attention all the ... (287 words

The timing is perfect - so how do not mess things up?

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25 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi. I've known this one girl for a very long time (25 years to be exact). Always been friends and we were even next door neighbors for 16 years... and then she moved an hour away the summer after sophomore year of high school and we lost touch for about two years. Out of pure ... (322 words

Everyone is telling me to walk away. Should I wait as he asked, until his health improves?

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25 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am going through a hard time at the moment with my feelings towards someone special and I don't know what to do for the best. I'm so wrapped up in the situation I can't seem to make sense of it all. To start from the beginning, I have only been in Love once before. I cared ... (570 words

I'm starting to develop love/hate feelings towards my best friend. I'm not in love with her but I'm starting to feel weird and jealous of her boyfriends

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25 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi cupid, here's the deal. My best pal in the whole world is a girl, let's call her Penny. Penny and I have know each other since high school but have become great friends since college which we're in now. At first when we just started getting close I liked her a little, I ... (865 words

Baby due 9 Jan. Which guy possibly fathered my child? Mr early April / MidApril or Mr27 April?

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need serious opinions!! Now i know this is a "medical" deal, but to be quite blunt, talking to my doctor is like talking to a robot. I am pregnant, due january 9th, but, i had sex with someone around the beginning/middle of april, then someone else on the 27th of april. I... (165 words

What's up with her - has she met someone new?

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25 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have had a very rough patch. We split up but kept talking. She would send 10 messages every day letting me know I was on her mind etc. She's needy and high maintenance I've not minded, I like her that way. Though she's been getting on my nerve because sh... (136 words

Major problems, and we've only been married three weeks!!!

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25 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - Am I asking for too much?? I feel like I have been through too much and we have only been married 3 weeks. She won't kiss me very often because she felt betrayed by something that happened over a year ago in which we both nearly broke up. Yet she appeared to get over it and ... (1232 words

Will the stubble in my vagina put my Bf off?

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25 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Okay quick question! I'm going to have foreplay for the first time soon with my boyfriend. I have been shaving my vagina for years, but it always feel stubbly. I know boys prefer a shaved one to a hairy one, but im afraid the stubble will put him off? ... (55 words

How can I tell if she likes me without risking my friendship with her?

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25 December 2011 (M age 26-29 - Theres a girl i like who is way out of my league. However we're pretty good friends and we joke around with each other all the time and talk almost everyday. How can i tell if she likes me without risking my friendship with her and how can i get her to see me as more than a ... (59 words

Why would my friend behave this way?

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why is my friend behaving like this? does she even like this guy?..x? There's this guy that likes my friend. But she's so horrible to him. He takes her out to fancy places, rings her a lot she says she says nasty things to him. He bought her a very expensive gift for he... (152 words

Help me save my relationship!

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25 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - Please help me! Me and my gf have been 2geva 4 nearly 5 years, we have a briliant relationship, wel that is wen she ay got her cell phone in her hand, she wont tell me what she doing and who she texts, she has a password on it to. She says she not in contact with her ex bf but ... (162 words

Why do I feel guilty - my boyfriend cheated on me

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25 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for three years. I didn't think we had any problems,only trying life circumstances, but since he ended the relationship by cheating on me, I've found out he was unhappy. The thing that shocks me about the break up is that I didn't know he was unhappy. ... (636 words

I fell in love with my best friend, but he is after another girl. What else to do?

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25 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - My best friend (male) was dumped almost a year ago by his GF. He was and I believe still is crushed about it and I been with him over all of it. Unfortunately, for me I fell in love with him and now I feel devastated that he is telling me he is seeing a new girl who just broke ... (189 words

I'd like to confront him about the false message he gave me

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25 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello aunts and uncles, I hope you're enjoying the holidays! So, there was this guy that I used to like. Let's call him T. T is somewhat of a ladykiller, he has a ton of friends who are girls, and he's dated a lot of people. Recently, I was leaving school and he tackle-hugged ... (221 words

Help to teach my son what's appropriate

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25 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - Merry christmas to everyone! My question is not about love or romance, but mores about parenting. I would like the older aunts who are raising or have raised sons to answer. I have a preteen 11 yr old who I can tell is getting curious about sex. I know this is normal at aro... (308 words

9+ years in a long distance relationship and I can't seem to understand my boyfriend

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25 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - Happy Holidays to all of you and thanks in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am a bit confused and I find it so difficult to deal with my boyfriend. He is sign Cancer, very sensitive, kind, but very selfish, very demanding and also wants to be in control of... (617 words

I want to wear my bikini, but my Bf gets teary and upset at me doing this. Is he over-reacting?

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets all teary and upset when I express interest in wearing a bikini. He hates the idea of someone looking at me but I'm proud of my body and sometimes I just want to show it (most of the time however I like adequate coverage...) Is this normal?? Should I continue ... (65 words

My boyfriend of almost 3 years loves me but does he love his friend more?

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost 3 years loves me but does he love his friend more? My boyfriend: 1. mentions his friend several times in a day. If there is something that his friend likes, my boyfriend will say "He likes this. I'm going to go with him here/buy some so he and I ca... (373 words

Is it worth waiting a few years till we can date?

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25 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - so how do i forget about this girl? shes four years younger than me but i cant help my fealings. she even said if i was younger shed of asked me out. and she wants to meet me (as friends) her words were 'dont suppose we could meet up somtime?' this was after she pourd her heart ... (384 words

Was my disappointed reaction to be expected? He visited a lap dance place after his work Christmas party

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone and merry christmas. so i wanted to ask some advice and opinions off of you. so i met this guy online 3 months ago and we have totally hit it off and we have chatted loads and got on really well and plan to meet up in a couple of weeks. he lives quite far away ... (206 words

Did he take advantage of my (now shattered) feelings? And how do I get over this?

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have this casual friend whom I met after 3 years. He is studying in a good law school. It was a surprise meet and we talked for 3-4 days. Then I felt that I like spending time with him and would like to give this relationship a shot. I told him that I have feelings for him.... (267 words

Verbally abusive boyfriend keeps saying that I'm dumb and good for nothing

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25 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf used to abuse me verbally once in a while before and now he started doing it almost every day. He says its getting difficult to even hold a conversation without getting angry with me, nowadays. He often says i dont know anything and im good for nothing and ... (175 words

Would it be weird to invite myself over and cook dinner for her?

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25 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - will it be weird to invite myself over to a chicks house to cook dinner and hang out for the second date????? i went on a first date with this chick but.. it was average so i want to spark things up by inviting myself over to herself and cook.. think it will be fun and also... (85 words

Confused about ex girlfriend want her back

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25 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend were in a long distance relationship..she had an abusive ex that she would always bring up as well and being beaten as a child by her father. she also has skin cancer. so it was very rocky at times and her mood swings were the worst but usually i would wait ... (658 words

Missed LOVE Opportunity - Do I still have a chance??

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25 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - I spent 6 months studying in the UK January to July. I met this guy soon after I arrived (also Australian but settled in UK). I’m 33 and he’s 41. We were together for 4 mths and during this time he was very serious and wanted to commit, however as I was only in the UK ... (914 words

How do you learn to let go of the past completely so I can be fulfilled in my life?

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25 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm having a hard time forgiving myself for things that have happened in the past year, and it's starting to hold me back. With the new year coming up I'm hoping for some suggestions so I can let this all go. At the start of 2011 I was living with and engaged to a man that I ... (423 words

Boyfriend lies about his past with ex

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25 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - i have been dating my current and first boyfriend for half a year now. everything has been going well except for several lies and behaviors surrounding the issue of his only ex-girlfriend who he dated for 7 years (albeit 5 years of that was long distance) he lies about the m... (397 words

We have sex a few times a week. He wants to be friends. So why does he want to keep all this secret?

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25 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy who just moved here and we started talking. after one month we hooked up and had sex.i asked him if we're just friends an he replied saying obviously we are more than that...but he doesn't want people to know so I tried my best to hide it from everyone.. we wo... (104 words

Have any of you felt hopeless or clueless with relationships and eventually found love sort of thing?

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25 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been single for a long time - haven't had a proper relationship in 3 years and throughout that time I dated two guys, nothing serious and this time has affected my confidence when it comes to relationships and fearing that I will be alone forever (sorry for the ... (349 words

What is up with this girl?

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25 December 2011 (M age 26-29 - I was having a nice conversation with a girl I like. We had been talking for about three hours beforehand. She said she had to shower, and I didn't respond because I didn't find it necessary. It's been two hours since and I have seen her on Facebook and she hasn't responded ... (106 words

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