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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I just pretend everything is fine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I are both in our early 30s and have been dating for 4 months. Everything was going really well until a couple weeks ago when we had our first major argument. We made up but I think things have changed a little bit since. He used to be really into me, thought I was ... (177 words)

I miss the freedom and thrill of being single but I do love my boyfriend and don't want to lose him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a difficult time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 3 years now and I love him to pieces. However I miss the freedom and thrill of being single. I don't want to lose him as I love him so much but I'm not sure what to do. My boss and I are very fond of each ... (138 words)

We're both virgins, should I expect him to be somewhat skilled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this might be a little odd and maybe shallow, but I was wondering: guys, how were you the first time you had sex? And girls, were you pleasantly surprised or not? I ask because my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time and we are both virgins,... (326 words)

My boyfriend isn't showing concern for my problem!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. Okay I'm having a serious problem now with my boyfriend "Jim". Everything was going fine until just three days ago. One of my best friends got all mad at me because I was TRYING to comfort her after the guy she really liked rejected her. And because I said maybe he... (287 words)

The issue doesn't warrant us breaking-up, but it really bothers me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm in a mostly-happy, well-adjusted four year relationship. I'm pretty good about not sweating the small stuff, but what about the medium stuff? How do I get past a relationship issue that really bothers me, but that I can't resolve and isn't serious enough to warrant ... (346 words)

Should I change myself for him or stay the way I am?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my man is 9 years older than me, he is stuck in his ways n believes women should act n be a certain way. I'm conflicted because I'm falling in love with him and I am nothing like what he believes in. My question is should I change ways and be like what he belives is a lady ... (81 words)

I like this guy, but what does his behaviour mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I like this guy and me and him are really good friends we have two period together. We both flirt with each other. In one of the periods its just us two and none of our other friends are really in it. And in that class hes "normal" we still flirt and everything and were ... (178 words)

Anxious, nervous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, whats my problem ? I dont realy have any friends (well i do to talk to on Facebook xbox and such like)so I dont go out much, besides work Monday to Friday 8;30 till 5;30. My school friends I have distanced my self from due to them using and selling drugs and such like, but ... (428 words)

Help needed getting over my ex-girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I've just been through a tough break up and I can't seem to get over this girl, I loved her so much has anyone got any ideas on how to get over her??... (35 words)

Father with two kids and a persistent housewife

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We have a married couple with 2 kids where the husband wishes to divorce his wife but she wants to continue with the marriage. Here are some questions I'd like to get your answers to : 1)How can a single father protect himself and the kids when he maintains a highly paid job ... (110 words)

What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No confidence issues here, im not a ... (127 words)

Help me reach a decision regarding my mortage/stress situation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, this is not strictly a relationship question but it relates to the situation that I have been left in after a break up. If your health had been not good for some time (due to the stress of the relationship and also because of having to do the wrong kind of work for too ... (289 words)

Want feeling back in penis.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so the deal is my penis is very imsensitive, and only becomes sensitive when I orgasm. For maybe two years I was an idiot and did that stupid bed humping thing. It's not too bad but head doesnt feel like it used to, and my gf's handies doesn't feel as good as they ... (92 words)

I was cheated on, how can I get my confidence back to date again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey all. I need your help again. As many of you May know that answered my questions many months ago i was having problems with a cheating girlfriend. well after much sole searching i finally managed to make her my ex though it has taken a lot to get over her. I want to start... (110 words)

Unhygienic session of anal sex.. Will I get sick?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and finally had anal sex. I've had anal sex before but they've always taken place in the shower (with my ex of five years) so it had always been clean and super enjoyable. Well, it kind of happened unexpectedly with my ... (178 words)

Did he cheat or is it all in my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a folded up condom wrapper on the ... (746 words)

My husband makes no effort for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband used to be very GQ and with his former wife and a couple of former girlfriends he always dressed up when they went out. But ever since I've known him he puts absolutely no effort into his appearance and if I suggest he shower, or put on some clean jeans when we're ... (388 words)

Where is he getting his sexual needs met? I'm worried he has an addiction to meeting new people....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been datiing this man for a year and we fist we all over on another and then as a year approached it became less. i know how relationships go and they do settle down in the sex department the longer your together. i was even married for 15 yrs, Divorced now and my ... (347 words)

I don't want to be the controlling type, but I'm so sick of being ditched for his mates!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is going to be a very long story, so thank you to everyone that carries on reading. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years and I was 13 when we first got together and he was 15 but the year above me, we were both in sixth form together although... (916 words)

I forgave him so many times but now he cant even forgive me once! I feel like I'm being punished!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys this might sound like a stupid question, but a week ago my ex boyfriend, we were potentially going to get back togther as we both still love one another but things have been very complicated over the last few months ( well i assume he loves me), stopped talking to ... (547 words)

Is it okay to have two wives?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have 7-year old wife to whom I have loved somuch and trust but later I realized she had had hidden lot of past history, for which I have gone through the hell and got fed up with thinking about but not able to leave her and go away and I had many time orguements(quarrels)at ... (102 words)

I've pretended everything is ok, but want to break up with him. How do I do that when he thinks everything is great?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about 6 months, we are not official but it was definitely heading that way. I have always been iffy about the idea of being with him coz he was a player but I thought Id give him a chance. He hasn't done anything wrong exactly, but I now know ... (224 words)

Is there such a thing as a "leg-fetish"?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I understand the whole foot-fetish thing, but is there a specific fetish toward 'legs'? A female friend and I were discussing what we were in to and I told her I'm a sucker for a killer set of legs, which she said is a foot-fetish. However, I'm not interested in feet, just ... (75 words)

Did he put his ex before me, and should he have told me he went out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just broke up for what seems like such a stupid reason, so I need some advice on whether he is right (if so I need to remodel my thoughts) or I am right. I'm trying to keep it short and to the point. I was having a bad day, he said he would give me a call ... (637 words)

My wife doesn't want sex anymore and her behaviour is odd, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a married guy, i am 34 yrs old i have 1yr baby. i have some problems i am working in bsnl as a casual labourer, my wife fights with me for small reasons e.g. when we go to bed if i touch her body she becomes angry, she tells me dont touch me when i am sleeping, she avoids ... (217 words)

How do I stop this "daddy complex"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - right im in a bit of a situation i seem to have developed a bit of a 'daddy complex' and i dont know how to stop it. im 16 and to be honest i dont have the best relationship with my dad ( whihc i believe contributes to this ) but all the men i fancy are a lot older and no... (149 words)

My girlfriend was my best friends "booty call". How do I get over this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of about 5 months now slept with my best friend two years ago - multiple times. I know this shouldn't bother me, but the fact that I know her past, and how she was (sleeping around/being a 'booty call'), has me skeptical. I have been thinking about it a lot, ... (96 words)

Will our sexual spark come back, even in our 40s?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife says Im too horny all the time and we are in our 40's and Im wondering when the sexual spark will return. I have waited for a long time for this but lately I am thinking she has lost hope and is not intrested in me anymore or sex for that matter. we have 2 teenagers ... (73 words)

My friends don't support my decision to take a year long hiatus from dating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Aunts. I just found out that my bf of 11 months got a new g.f . So i left him last week and decided that i won't date for atleast 1year. But my friends don't accept my decision, they keep reminding me that i am weird, (especially now because now is a festive season) i ... (77 words)

He seems to like me except when he's around his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy in my classes and he really seems like he likes me. He stares at me sometimes.. When he talks to me, he looks right into my eyes. He teases me in a friendly way. He sometimes "jokes" around about stuff. Um.. Like, for example, I was moving my desk an... (279 words)

What do you think of this matchmaker's insights?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was watching this um...interesting show the other day, "Millionaire Matchmaker" and my first impression was, "eh. Superficial, loud. Predictable to an extent." But, the "matchmaker" said something that interested me in a sense. Her advise was: if a man doesn't know he loves... (85 words)

How can I avoid sex in a loveless marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to stay married, not be love and avoid sex with husband all the time? Is there anyone here who has been in this situation? Please share your views and experience to help me. Many thanks..... (44 words)

My boyfriend's friend has crossed the line

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I am friends with my boyfriend's guy friend and his girlfriend...We double date occasionally. Well, I never really talk to the guy friend and my boyfriend never really talks to his girlfriend, except when we're all together...so this guy recently started facebook chatting me. ... (305 words)

I've developed feelings for a friend's ex-boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my friends ex-boyfriend. She broke up with him 6 months ago because he was kind of controlling. They had been going out for over a year. Two months ago, I harbored no feelings for him, only as a friend of course, but then we started to talk and I don't know how... (264 words)

My girlfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright people I would like to thank anyone who took the time to read this post. Ok so I am in this relationship that will be 2 years in a few days. I've been with this girl since my sophomore year in high school and recently I have a "Wall" in this relationship. Let me ... (517 words)

My married lover wants to continue seeing me while he ties up loose ends with his soon to be ex-wife

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am involved with a man who is still married but unhappy. he tells me he will file for divorce within the next 5 months because he is unhappy. he wants to wait to do it because she is not able to support herself financially due to their debt....and so hes helping her pay off ... (141 words)

How should I deal with a guy who flirts with my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So theres this guy who flirts with my girlfriend and it pisses me off. He bribes her for pictures and tries to turn her on. Just like every other woman, she hides a lot and i know it, and she tells me not to say anything. What should i do?... (50 words)

Is this weight gain normal even during pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm just under 7 weeks pregnant and am due for a termination tomorrow due to medical problems that could risk my life if I continue with my pregnancy. I've come to terms with all of this and I'm okay in myself at the moment. I've got the support of my partner and my f... (192 words)

What is 'fatal attraction'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is a fatal attraction?... (5 words)

What could cause a mental block causing no erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

2 December 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Do you know, what can be a mental block, for getting an erection? There is no explanations of my sudden loss of erection, now chronnically. ... (25 words)

Is this a physical or psychological problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a woman in her early 20's dating an virginal Indian man in his early-mid 30's. Well a week ago we went to have sex for the first time and I was ready (moist) and I could arouse him but as he went to penetrate his penis kept getting flaccid, I know he is sexually... (147 words)