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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Depression+Weight Gain=MORE DEPRESSION

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - about 5 months ago when i was told i wasnt aloud to talk to my boyfriend anymore i got very depressed and gained some weight. i didnt think it was that much at 1st but now im realizing, since its winter, that some of my pants and coats are really tight. How do i shed this ... (64 words)

My ex and I had such a nice talk today. Do I have a shot of getting him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some serious advice!!! after a while not talking to my ex, i decided to show him that i still loved him and wanted him back. he talked to me on the phone (we live in different cities) like a friend, but whenever i tried to say something about how i felt, he changed s... (230 words)

Is my weight appropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the average weight for a small sixteen year old girl who is 5 ft 2? Im 6 stone 8 pounds, i'm probobly the thinnest out of all my friends except from one who is not much more thinner than me, alot of people say im realy thin, but i dont think i look unhealthy no one has ... (79 words)

I'm scared my parents will throw my 24 year old boyfriend in jail!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now despite some pretty tough odds. He is 24 and i am 17. We kept it a secret for a long time but eventually my parent found out and were furious. They wouldnt even take the time to get to know him before rejecting him and judging ... (145 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like it when I go out with my friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same guy for two years and 4 months now and he is kind, giving, funny.. he is very opposite of me, that is why i love him so much. to me, the only problem we have is i like to go out with my friends... it's actually specific types of club where my friends ... (267 words)

I have trouble choosing the right guy for me...please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now. I use to be really happy with him but I don't know if I love him anymore. We never do anything together except sit around and home , and we have completely separate social lives. He is an amazing person but I don't know ... (319 words)

Hubby's clothes have body glitter on them...is this from another woman?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Three years ago right after having a baby, I found my husband's jacket that he wears everywhere (especially on business trips) covered in body glitter, on the front. He of course told me a female co-worked sat on it after he had thrown it on a chair. And that she wears, ... (211 words)

Is this the end of the road or do we still have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I was recently seeing a guy that I went to school with. We met up again after 15 yrs and had so much in common. We were together for about 7 months. This was quite a serious relationship and we both fell in love and would text and call each other everyday an woul... (357 words)

Is she seeing a guy behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met an amazing girl but last week we hit a bump in the road she has a guy freind who has a girl but they are going to a new years eve wedding together and I'm ok with that I knew that when met they went dress shopping together before hand I told her I had no problem going and ... (126 words)

I am no longer religious, but the girl I am interested in, is. Is this a bad road to go down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For 4 years, I attended a small private Christian college and in my last year, ironically enough, I slowly became an atheist. Well fast forward 8 months after graduation and I'm just working day to day and seeing friends on the weekends. Most of them do not know I've become... (482 words)

I want to reconcile with my ex-boyfriend..how do I go about doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I am 21 and my now ex boyfriend is 24. He has graduated and I have another 6 months. My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me over the weekend. It wasn't too much of a shock, as it was something I had considered myself. His reasoning was that he couldn't ... (294 words)

Happily married, but I hold another guy close in my heart. Any thoughts on why I feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends, I'm happily married, 28f. Two years ago I realised that love doesnt have reins. I began to like a person very much quite secretly. Though it did not cause any of us any harm I still like him. I have also deduced from his eyes that he likes me too in some way. I w... (109 words)

Is he just insecure....or possessive and controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - okay my relationship is so complicated. i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years and i have noticed some things like i cant go hang out with friends, i have to be very carful whom i talk to other wise he accuses me of cheating on him and being with other people. ... (91 words)

My husband accused me of being insecure after he was flirting at his christmas party! Am I insecure?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently my husband and I went to his company's annual party. I have met a few people he works with but I do not know anyone well. It is awkward for me because once we get to the party he acts like I do not exist and gets mad if I stay with him through out the night. ... (289 words)

Our sex life has stopped being fun, she says its because she is not comfortable 100%, any advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years, the relationship is going alright, however certain things are making me feel a little unappreciated, and I know this sounds selfish, but it's all to do with sex. For the first year, the sex was adventurous, fun, lively and spont... (196 words)

Is inviting friends over to your house during a family get together rude? This is what my cousin did!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We recently had a Christmas get together with family. My two cousins, the ones who lived at the house we celebrated at, made no effort to change their plans for that day. One invited her friend over, whom none of us knew, and disappeared up to her room with that friend fo... (131 words)

My gf is upset after we have sex, she told me she was abused. Any Advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seing a girl for about 6 months now, I am also a girl. We have just started sleeping together and i noticed that she always seemed a bit off after. She eventually told me that she was abused as a young child, she didnt tell me who it was by. Because of this ... (125 words)

I cant control my erections! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a reserved guy of 22.anytime a girl tourches or even playing or discussing romantic issues with a girl i usually gets an erection which i can't control or surpress.i don't actuallly know what's wrong with me or know the reason for that or what can be done to control ... (56 words)

I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I accidently got pregnant last summer with my boyfriend (we've been a steady couple for 3 years) and then had a early miscarriage. I took the MC very bad but by bf just shook the whole thing off as "those things happen". Now I've been wanting to try for another kid sinc... (581 words)

Do I have the right to be mad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I rarely go out. We visit alot with his family and we go out as a couple often. But we dont go out with other couples. He has has a job almost a year now, and we have gone out 2x with the owner of the company and with the owner and his son to shoot pool. ... (592 words)

What did he mean by this? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm quite confused. I'm not too sure what my friend meant by this. He said to me someone asked him if he liked me and he got scared that this person would tell everyone. I'm not sure what to think. Does he like me or not??... (46 words)

How do I stop crushing on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I stop crushing on someone I have to see and work with everyday. The other night we were at a sleepover. He started sleeping by my side, holding on to me. At sometime during the night, I realized he had his back to me and was making out with a friend. Needless to say, ... (153 words)

So hard to walk away after so many years. Where do I find the strength?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So the holidays are fastly approaching and I am dreading every minute of it. My husband and I have been together for 18 yrs now and it is now over. We decided a few weeks ago that he needed to leave after the holiday (only stayed cause of our 3 kids). We have been having ... (408 words)

Had sex with my younger personal trainer who is in a relationship and now I feel totally used!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - So after being a client for the last 5-1/2 months (he's my personal trainer, once a week) We started texting each other, then we starting sexting, sending pictures of our selves. He is not single, I am, however he is 17s my junior. We broke down and had sex, however it was not ... (145 words)

My wife's sister openly flirts with me and "accidently" walked into the bathroom wearing just her panties!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age - Do many young girls flirt (and more) with older men? My wife's younger sister has openly flirted with me many times and touches me and last summer she "accidently" walked into the bathroom wearing just her panties. Ever since I married her sister she has been coming o... (101 words)

I like my friend's ex boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, he’s lovely, we get on so well and we really like each other. Problem is, he’s the ex boyfriend of one of my best friends. For months I’ve tried to ignore it thinking that it was just a crush that would go away but it hasn’t it’s only intensified. Every ... (148 words)

I think my boyfriend's in denial of being bisexual and won't admit it for fear of me telling his family & friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupid, I am a 46 year old heterosexual female and have been in a relationship with a man for 2years. I recently found some gay porn and photo's of young boys having sex on his computer. When I confronted him about this he denied it straight away, said he'd been looking at ... (266 words)

Is what I'm feeling normal and will I adjust over time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I broke up with a very long term partner - nearly two decades a few months ago - and at first I found it really difficult because we had become co-dependent. We want to remain friends because we have such a long history together and although it is hard we think in the long ... (391 words)

I'm falling for this guy, but the possibility of being just another one of "those girls" is really starting to scare me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm almost sixteen, but before you start judging me and my situation based on my age, just know that I am a lot more mature than some people. I've had the opportunity to have a boyfriend in the past, but this is my first one. He is everything I could ever want. He is swee... (322 words)

We are just friends but could there be more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there . Here's my little dilemma : I have a friend , she;s a colleague , we study at the same college . Short story , first we didn't speak to much , after one night when we studied together we talked every night for the next couple weeks (the past weeks) . After that she ... (266 words)

My brother and I are both gay but how do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hey, so it's not really like a conflict, but my brother and I both happen to be gay. I'm in high school and he's in college, and just this last time he came home to visit with his gay (platonic) friend. Three of us went on a car ride and eventually got around to talking about ... (178 words)

I want to give this girl a present, should I make up a story or just give her the present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there! I hope you can help me out. A few weeks ago I met a girl who was helping out with casting. We hit it off pretty well so before she left I asked if she'd like to hang out sometime and she said she did, so I asked for her number. I called and texted twice in t... (270 words)

My b/f says that since I have been with others, he needs to have that experience too

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been together for 3 yrs now. I was with other men before we got together but i was his first. i love him very much and he says he feels the same but he wants to be with other women. he says that since i have been with other men he needs to be with other women. ... (147 words)

My b/f is too jealous and I'm afraid it might get out of hand!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this was my weekend! I went to my boyfriends house with his friends and when his one friend (Josh) saw me he ran up to me and hugged me and said i look sexy. my boyfriend got really really mad and pushed him off me i felt like he went a bit to far but i ignored it. late... (173 words)

I kissed my 1/2 brother. Is it illegal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay... I will admit and I feel EXTREMELY guilty for it... I kissed my half-brother and I KNOW its wrong.... but I wanna know out of curiousity sakes: is what I did illegal?... (33 words)

I like this girl but haven't come to terms yet with what I am. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - When I drink, I tend to make out with girls. Specifically my friends. I made out with this girl lastnight who I'm close to and I think I like her. But I am scared because I've never actually felt feelings towards a girl before. She is bi-sexual but I haven't come to terms with ... (60 words)

How do I handle "meeting" his parents over the phone? I'm pretty sure they don't really like me to begin with

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19 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He has met both my parents, but I have yet to meet his because they live in another country. I know he would like me to because we're getting serious, but it hasn't been possible so far. He has gone home to visit them for the hol... (382 words)

If he loved me he wouldn't be thinking of sleeping with others, would he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

19 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've been with my partner for around 9 months, and in more or less everyway, we have a really strong friendship and relationship. He has had some pretty big fears of commitment, but has been really open and hardworking about getting past them. However, recentl... (414 words)

What does it mean when you can't forget your first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when you can't forget your first love? We only dated 2 years, but I still think about and miss him every day. We have been broken up for almost 2 years also, and have very little contact.I have dated many people since, and things typically start out well, but ... (135 words)

I don't like my friend at all but I think he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 years old, and there is this guy that i have become friends with (A). We've een friends for 3-4 months, and recently I've begun to suspect he might like me. People have told me (but they arent the most reliable. On a scale of one to ten, i'd say a 6), and he's been ... (195 words)

When You Get Married Do You Really Get Bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm obviously way to young to be considering marriage or anything but I'm just curious... When you get married does the flame die out and you want to move on to someone else? Or when you really love someone does it not get boring? Lol I'm just wondering :)... (50 words)

I sent my fwb a drunken text and he's been distant to me ever since!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about three years. And after a few months of breaking up with his girlfriend we started hanging out more often ( just as friends) then he started telling me how he always kinda had a thing for me and how much he had started to a really like me. After ... (204 words)

B/f was cheating on me with his best friend's sister and I'm afraid it will keep happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i just recently found out that the father of my kids was seeing somebody else last year i seen everything what they wrote to each other about them sneaking around and seeing this other woman mocking me askin my bf if my bf would take her to my place i am so upset by all this ... (254 words)

Is drunken fumbling meaningful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Does he like me or was it because we were both drunk? Guy in my class invited me to his birthday drink up with a couple of his mates.I was the only girl. Didn't mind, we're good friends( forgot to mention i kinda fancy him!) So we got drunk at his, he got high then we all... (209 words)

Is he hinting that he wants a sexual relationship in the future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i started working with calls me the other night, and told me when i come into town he is more then happy to have me stay at his recording studio if i need a place to crash, but then he goes "but i feel your the type of girl that if i was to pull a move on you, you ... (112 words)