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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I end this friendship? Is it toxic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently invited my best friend to meet a man I am very fond of and have a deep friendship with. We went to his house and during the course of the evening we talked about relationships. I said I had never been married and she told him it was because I was difficult. I was ... (272 words)

I have sexual feelings for men as well as women, am I bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

14 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and have always had some sexual feelings towards men as well as women. I assumed everybody goes through this as a teenager, although the feelings are still there. I am sure I will be marrying a woman eventually as my feeling for females is more dominant, yet I still ... (65 words)

How can I stop being bitchy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been really bitchy lately and its really making my boyfriend upset..its all because I've been unhappy about the place that we live in. I'm sooo fed up with our roomates! Their so filthy and lazy and they have nasty animal that they won't clean up after..I want to move out ... (77 words)

Sometimes I feel he wants to be back with his mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 years now and my husband and i have had our share of problems, and it seems like things are the same to a point, everyday he goes to his mother's house, don't get me wrong I love my mother in law very much, she is always there for me but she can't ... (219 words)

He seems unable to make concrete plans! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I met this guy a two months ago. He is very funny but a bit of a party animal. But very nice too. We went out twice and we texted during the last weeks. He was cute and always replied right away, he called me darling all the jazz but I was a bit fed up (because he seem... (266 words)

Is a one-time infidelity forgiviable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Did you forgive and the relationship was saved? Did you cheat, a one-time thing, and was truly remorseful and got a second chance and truly did not repeat the mistake? How did you show you were sorry and how did you make it to your loved the pain you caused?... (56 words)

Is this online guy a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

14 December 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Here's the deal. I met this guy online and started talking to him (after a long ordeal of me ignoring him) and we eventually started hitting it off. We have a lot in common, have the same views about life and are physically/intellectually attracted to each other. We would stay ... (1246 words)

Can I get her to open up her heart to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

14 December 2011 (M)

age - In June of my girlfriend of many years left me for another man,It was painful and traumatic. Three months later we made contacted and started the process of talking and seeing each other occasionally ,while she is still with him. Things progressed well enough that we were ... (157 words)

I think I have a cheating boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'll try to keep this short. i think my bf of 3 yrs is starting to cheat on me...our relation is a long-distance one. we talk to each other abour 2 hrs over the phone.recelty he is under a lot of work,so he comes home tired. 3 yrs ago, a girl was added to his list.. but not ... (400 words)

Did I lower my image and my standards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont know if what I did was wrong. I dont like this girl at all. not even a little bit. I just wanted to have sex. I know that sounds kinda the guy image but it was kinda already understood that we were going too.. but now i feel like shit after. I called her, she came ove... (157 words)

I'm always there for my friends but they aren't there for me. How can I stop being used by them and find new friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a relationship site but thought I would write on here. I am a quiet and shy person naturally and tend to be the friend people walk over. But I will be there for my friends at the drop of a hat because I wouldn't want them to be treated in the way I am. I am there ... (103 words)

I'm pregnant. When will airlines say "No" to me flying between New York and England?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Are you allowed to fly aboard when you're pregnant? my partner wants to take me to new york before baby is born?? if you are allowed to fly then how many months pregnant can you be, and still be able to fly? many thanks ... (49 words)

How do I handle the fact that family are not taking our wedding plans seriously? He's 28 and I'm 22.,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22, and my fiance is 28, We've been together for 2 years. We're both in school, and I'll be moving away to University in a couple months. We decided to hold off getting married until he graduates (about 2 years), as I'll be in school for a long time as I'm studying ... (166 words)

Is she a threat to our relationship? Why does she back out of plans if she knows I will be there too, with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - There is only one friend of my boyfriend's that I am a little iffy about, and it's a girl. He has other girl friends and I don't feel as threatened by them as I do by this one. She seems to always want to hang out with him but when he includes me in the plans, she first agrees ... (308 words)

He's frustrated. I'm unhappy. What could be causing my Bf to suddenly get erectile dysfunction? It's never happened before.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My and I boyfriend have been together for 4 months now, and recently we've had a problem with him staying hard during sex. I'm on birth control so we never use condoms but it's just so weird because during foreplay or oral sex he stays full on hard, but then when we have sex,... (124 words)

What should I do? My bf is avoiding me after I found his profile on a dating site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My friend saw my bf's profile in dating site few days back and she told me about this yesterday. and i went and checked and saw his profile there, when i asked him about it, he said he's just checking what's out there. Now he has blocked my number in his mobile. Its... (110 words)

If your ex is gonna send you letters saying they love you it's probably best to stay away for a while - right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Right so. My bisexual girlfriend and her ex-girlfriend broke up about a year ago. Her ex did something very intruding and my girlfriend was left with no choice really. Anyway, a few months later my girlfriend and I started going out. We're both in love, she tells me this is ... (949 words)

Live with family or live with boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I promise it's a quick read, if a bit long! This is a two part question: Part 1: My parents are asking me to pay for bills now that I just graduated and got a job (I make $25,000 as a receptionist). I would be okay with that but 1) My family is rich and doesn't need t... (371 words)

Can we salvage this relationship? Do we need time and space? Will we be stronger for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For a long time in this year-old relationship I've wondered where we stood and he wasn't sure what he wanted. He ran hot and cold for a long time. Little by little he's been more consistent, more affectionate, making small steps of progress in fully opening and committing to ... (319 words)

Caught her having sex with 2 of my friends at our housewarming.....I'm so hurt she cheated but turned on at the same time!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

14 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. my girlfriend and i met a year and a half ago and weve just recently moved in together. Its both our first place on our own. A month after we moved in we had a house warming party. after a night of drinking i woke up to find my girlfriend having sex with two of my fr... (175 words)

I just can't read him, it's hard to know if he likes me the way I like him or not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there cupids, I shall try and keep this as short as I can. I had to come to all of you for your advice as this is driving me nuts! So basically, I really like this friend of mine, we shall call him 'bob'. Me and bob used to go to school together and we used to be really c... (598 words)

Too early to talk babies?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship and have been for 10 months my partner split with his last girlfriend of 9 years they have one child 6 and still txt as if there friends in jan she walked out I was there for him and we got close and now where together he really wants kids but im not sure ... (70 words)

Does he really think of me as just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked a guy out at the end of September that I had been crushing on for the whole summer. (he's 29 I'm 21). I was proud of myself that I was so straight forward with him. I asked him on a date and he explained he didn't have time. So, I straight up told him I really liked ... (313 words)

I unfriended an ex on Facebook, and I just added him again. Now its awkward!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated Mr T for a short time and he ended things. We were friends first through work. I've carried a torch for years btw it hurt a lot when he ended it so I defriended him in FB not to hurt him but for the following reasons, to: Keep me from spying or seeing his other gi... (115 words)

Premature ejaculation with a handjob!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend is 18 years old. When I give him a hand job, he ejaculates within 2 minutes, sometimes in a minute. How can I stop his quick ejaculation? Should I squeeze his balls? I did it once, he said it hurt. Do you think it will work if I put my finger on his penis tip? ... (130 words)

I like someone, but my friend is getting in the way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy a lot! When my best friend found out that i liked him she told me she does too, but before that she told me she would never date him... So now she is trying to get me to think that he's mad at me and get him to think that im mad at him just so we wont talk to ... (110 words)

My Bf and I constantly fight over unwanted attention I receive from other men. What can I do to fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a great relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. My problem is that we constantly fight over unwanted attention I receive from other men. I am naturally a very friendly person to any individual regardless of age or looks. My career is in sales and I'm good at it. Over ... (248 words)

8 months pregnant, and my partner seems to be getting more and more distant and resentful as the due date is approaching

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i am eight months pregnant and lately the father of the baby/my boyfriend has been acting...distant. its so subtle it almost makes me think im imagining things but we have been together for two years and i know when something is different. Its almost like he's going throu... (415 words)

Vaginal discharge is making me extremely uncomfortable

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - WOMEN ONLY PLEASE!! I'm 16 and I discharge a lot. I also sweat around that area quite a bit and it's uncomfortable. I hate sitting on the plastic base chairs at college because it often leaves a sweat mark and I get incredibly anxious and embarrassed. What am I supposed to do? ... (120 words)

Nervous about being away from my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going home for the holidays for almost a month during my college break. My family lives very far away from me, our rather I moved very far away from them. My boyfriend couldn't get off of work for the whole two weeks so he is flying out after xmas for the remainder of the ... (242 words)

What would be a non-creepy way to get this guy's number?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so there's this guy I really like. He's got a girlfriend, but I know her quite well (she's actually one of my good friends) and she's not happy with the relationship. She feels that they're moving way too fast, and stuff like that. She wants to break up with him but doesn't ... (80 words)

Clueless man or just not in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been reading dear cupid for a while now and you guys give some brilliant advice, so I'm hoping you can help me gain some insight on my own situation. I apologise if this is a bit of an essay, I'm trying not to leave anything important out. I am 23 and I have been with... (832 words)

Does everyone get second thoughts when they’re moments away from a divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

14 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My soon-to-be ex-husband and were together 15 years, out of which we have been married for 8 years, out of those separated for 3 years and within those we have been in divorce proceedings for the past 2 years… amicably I may add. Half our time together has been extremely g... (626 words)

Ever been rejected, yet managed to stay friends and then become a couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

14 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So this is a rather easy question for 15-16 year olds/when you were that age. Basically,I am wondering if you've ever been rejected,then managed to stay friends and then eventually became a couple. Share your story!... (40 words)