New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

60041 questions, 258372 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in April, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (57), 2 (71), 3 (65), 4 (72), 5 (67), 6 (62), 7 (48), 8 (55), 9 (80), 10 (94),
11 (69), 12 (69), 13 (79), 14 (51), 15 (53), 16 (87), 17 (78), 18 (69), 19 (67), 20 (56),
21 (32), 22 (72), 23 (74), 24 (71), 25 (64), 26 (67), 27 (62), 28 (40), 29 (48), 30 (68),

Archived questions from: 29 April, 2007 (see latest questions)

(More questions from April, 2007)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Im worried my GF may have stopped taking the pill as she wants children!! Im only 17!! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi im 17, nearly 18 and i've been seeing this girl since we were 13, she is the same age as me. recently she has been dropping hints about children. We have been having sex since we were 13, i have always used a condom until she was 16 wen she started using the pill, but ... (127 words)

Im only 16, but he thinks I'm 18, hes 23 would I stand a chance with him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Im a mature 16 yr old girl. i regularly go in my local pub with my friends as they are all 18 or over. over the last yr i have met a guy who is 23. the thing is i look older so i told him i am 18. he is a really nice guy and i think im falling for him even though the closest ... (179 words)

I dont think I like my Bf's past or his antics, but we have a child together, should I stay with him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 369 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend and i are together for 9 years we share a daughter and he got a son which is older than her which he got a girl pregnant in the early years of our relationship and i am still insecure because i found out that he has other girlfriends including one which he forced ... (95 words)

I confessed my love to a good friend and her lesbian gf is making problems for me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - help me please! im 16 and had a sexual relationship with my 18 yr old(female)best friend, who is recently in a gay relationship with a 23 yr old woman. I confessed my love to my friend one drunken night and her gf seen it! now everytime my friend comes to see me her gf causes ... (117 words)

Why isn't my bf getting an erection when we roll around on the bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im confused. me an my 16 year old bf were rolling around on the bed kissing lol. and shouldnt he get an erection when we do this? i dont think he does, i can feel a very tiny lump but it must just be his willy not erected. his willy cant be that small lol! why isnt... (72 words)

Dated two nice ladies off a dating site. The trouble is that I like both of them and cannot choose between them.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Since my last (traumatic) break-up, where my ex was sleeping with her ex and others behind my back, I began internet dating. I didn't sleep with anyone for the first few months, as I was just enjoying the dating side of it and was enjoying getting to know new people. Recent... (270 words)

Is it wrong for me to talk to another man on MySpace? I have no intentions of cheating on my fiancee..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

- Hi Ok so...let me start at the begining... I've been engaged for 3 years...living with my fiancee. I'm home alot as I'm disabled, and he works crazy hours so we barely see eachother. I recently made a Myspace page in order to talk to my brother, who lives pretty far aw... (250 words)

My gf steals pint glasses from the pub we go to a lot..and I am worried she might get caught! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Okay this is going to sound silly but everytime we go out for a drink, my girlfriend wants to steal pint glasses! lol! And I don't think its a good idea as we go their each week and she may get caught. She has stolen a number of glasses from pubs with her friend not long ... (69 words)

He is lying about being in contact with his ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend broke up with me. we have had on going arguments about he and his ex girlfriend calling each other and him hiding it from me. he claims it was not to upset me. last time we broke up over this and made up he promised to tell her to stop calling as it was ... (347 words)

She's talking about leaving my best friend for me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I Like This Girl(Emma) But the only problem is that she's going out with my best friend (Carl). Recently Carl's been treating Emma really bad. Carl's Moved to the other side of the country and they're trying at long distance relationship. But lately it's been falling apart for ... (137 words)

I can't get him out of my head and he hardly talks to me, except before and after sex! Is he just leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - HELP!!! i really like this guy im living with, and we are in a sexual relationship. over the easter holidays he was texting me all the time and we arranged to do a few things, like watch a film and go for a drink. when we got back to uni, he's been really different, he hardly ... (136 words)

It bugs me that this older guy I date...is a virgin! How do I stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm currently dating an older guy and I just found out he's a virgin and for some reason I'm having a hard time being okay with it, I always assumed older guys = more experience and now that i know he's got less than me, it bugs me. how can i stop being such an idiot ab... (62 words)

She made it very clear that "she wasn't saying no, just not right now". What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I dont know what to think of this girl! WE are both 16. Whenever i talk to her or am around her she is an angel, but her actions are another story. Most of the time, when we have plans, she cancels at the very last second. I have asked her out and she rejected me. She said she ... (148 words)

I'm stuck on this who used to like me but..am thinking I should go for another guy cause I'm lonely. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im having a problem at the moment. i hang around in a group of 5 mates 2 of them are coupled up and its hard to see them kiss because it makes me feel lonely with know one. when i first started hanging around in this group one guy liked me we got loved up at one point when ... (279 words)

My daughter's father keeps texting even after I tell him not to talk to me again! Is he trying to see what he can get out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) age 26-29 - It's going on six months since I left my daughter's father. At times, I wonder what he's doing but I need to move on. My work profermance is not what it use to be (be on top of things, completing paperwork before certain deadlines, etc). My motivation for work isn't there as ... (230 words)

Do girls find guys with body hair unattractive? I am a little worried. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) age 16-17 - Dear anyone who could help, I am a tad bit on the hairy side in this hairless body civilization we live in. I am not overly hairy, just more than most guys out there these days. And i am especially embarrassed because my rear end is hairy. Please take in to account I am iri... (81 words)

How do I get my nipples to become less pointy? Any ideas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I am not sure if there is something wrong with me. I have pointy nipples, but i have tried to get rid of them. i am not overweight and never have been. In fact, every night i do well over 200 push-up, and over 400 sit ups. I am very active in other areas to, i skateboard all ... (131 words)

I know she's the one for me but I want her to be sure that I am the one for her. What do you suggest we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 375 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. We both think the world of each other and spend all of our spare time together. We have always argued, but recently its become out of control. I am her first sexual partner and she is not mine and she is ... (148 words)

I love my guy very much but his family is coming between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my bloke for 5 years. Engaged for 4 1/2 years. Problem is his family. They are always after money from him - they do it behind my back - and he gives into them everytime. They normally only want him or get in touch when they want something and it is the cause of all ... (123 words)

My friend wants to make me choose, it's either the guy I like or my friend, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

- hi all, i reali like this lad i go to schol wiv (yr 11 IN THE UK) we get on reali well nd love spendin time together but my best friend hates him and she says tht if i go out wiv him she will stop bein my mate and hate me forever i dont no what to do i reali like this guy and ... (83 words)

Is it true that English girls love the Irish guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I am an Irish male and I am going to liverpool next week on a lads weekend. I have heard that English girls love the Irish guys.... is this true???... (30 words)

I want to leave him but don't know if I could manage on my own financially.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i want to leave my husband but im so afraid i wont be able to cope on my own.we own a buisness together and live at the place of work, we moved away from my family ,so i feel even more isolated, which means if i leave i wont have a job or a place to live.my daughter is also ... (121 words)

Is it worth continuing to see him even although he's 22 and I'm 16? I REALLY like this guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 16, my boyfriend is 22. his ex is having his baby in a months time, and my parents know this.. we started seeing each other only 3 months ago, he is getting a lot of crap from people about my age and a lot of drama is caused.. the situation sounds worse than it feels. m... (169 words)

Space is a source of contention for her as affection is for me. What is the best way to make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid: I have been in a serious relationship for nearly two years. We have had our ups and downs as any relationship has, however, she has stated that space is a big source of contention for her, just as affection is for me. I admit that I sometimes have been clingy... (274 words)

My boyfriend and I played around a bit, now that I'm home I feel like I've done something wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i have just got home from my boyfriends house and i was lookin on this site and my question is nothing like anyone elses .. but i have just come home like i said and i feel really guilty. i dont know why i feel guilty but i just do, i refuse to sleep with him because i am ... (155 words)

What is the likelihood that I am pregnant again 13 days after just having my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I just had sex and it has only been 13 days after I had my baby. yes he came in me. I want to know the likelihood that I will get pregnant because my friend told me it was 100% that I am pregnant again and that I am dropping eggs left and right...is this true? I am going to use ... (87 words)

I am ready to sacrifice everything for this man so should I marry him when I'm only 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hello! I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. problem is, he's 8 years older than i am, which doesn't seem to get in the way of our relationship as we both see it as just a number. I'm 18 and he's 26. We really love each other and get on great together. We sha... (530 words)

I'm 20 and in love with a man of 40..is this okay and should I carry on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) age 16-17 - I am 20 years old and I am in love with a man who is 40. He is now divorced with two children. he respects and doesnt do anything that i dont want to do and we also went slowly in this relationship. we arent going out but act as if we are. i dont know of i should carry this ... (67 words)

Gf and I are planning 1st time sex..I want to get this right. Advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey, me and my gf are planning on having sex for the first time, we have been together for 7 months and are both virgins,we have contraception sorted and are both totally ready. Obviously she doesn't paticually want all of the really bad pain and i don't want to hurt her ... (172 words)

I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with-he called her name out while making love to me! I am devastated. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my partner is having a fling with a girl he works with. They (with some others) went abroad working for around 4 weeks. I noticed when we were all out together she always went to the bar with him. When he got home he was annoyed with me because I told him i was... (166 words)

We argued and he didn't come after me! Should I forgive him, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and I've always been there by his side through the good and bad. We had an argument at one of his friends houses, something we could have worked out like we always do, but he walked away from me and when I ran out of being so ... (136 words)

He likely doesn't even know I'm alive so...How do I get over this guy I dated 4 years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i would like your advice. I went out with this guy four years ago when i was 17 and i still keep on thinkn about him and what happened with him. The thing was that we went out for about a year and the relatiionship was really intense like we would see each other every day ... (326 words)

Mom doesn't like my 18 year old bf and won't let me see him at my Dad's place! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, i am 15, turning 16, and am dating a guy who has just turned 18. he is my dads girlfriends son, and both my dad and his gf approve with our relationship, but i just told my mum about it, and she is against us seeing eachother, she says he is too old for me, and that now im ... (81 words)

Period is 8 months late and I'm too scared to go the doctor! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I had sex about 7/8months ago! im to scared to go to the doctor as we didnt use protection and im almost 8months late i dont understand! i dont want to do any tests just in case!! unless i wait how do i no if its just me or if i maybe pregnant and not no as its been heard that ... (81 words)

Lonely and sad after my split with hubby. Any advice on trying to make a full life for myself again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

- Hi, Im 32 and have been split up with my husband 9 months today, im having good days and bad, today is bad as Im feeling so sad and lonely and I cant imagine ever being truly happy again. I havent eaten properly for months and I feel like im fading away. On a good note I have ... (115 words)

My bf told his friends he hates me, he lies and he has cheated! I am heartsick..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what to do anymore...HELP! I have been with my b/f for 3 years march 2007, and we have a gorgeous 8 month old son Seth. We broke up Nov. 2005 b/c he didn't pay any attention to me and got back together in Feb. 2006 I found out I was pregnant with our son in April ... (398 words)

We plan on living together, soon..so why didn't he tell me he was going to try and get custody of his little girl?? I think I had a right to know about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

- I’m in a state of devastation right now. I’m in a relationship with this great guy for 2 years. I love him very much and he loves me very much. When I thought love can solve all problems in the future, I found out that I have doubts. We are looking into moving in together in ... (230 words)

He hide his porn habit from me...how can I trust him when he does that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years now and I feel like were falling apart everyday. He has a major problem with porn. He looks at it almost everyday on the computer and tries to hide it from me. When we first got together I told him that I didnt like it and ... (366 words)

If he's no longer my bf, then is doing things with him sexually..a wrong thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

- My ex bf and I broke up about a year ago because he was moving to a state up north and I live in the South. We really loved each other and now he goes to school in the south (still not in my state tho) and we have met once since to hang out. We talked about getting back ... (255 words)

He won't leave his gf and baby for me! But he wants to be with me..what can we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im 19 and fallen in love with a 28 year old man he works behind the bar at my local pub, we exchanged numbers i later found out he had a girlfriend and she was pregnant, but carried on textin and then started meeting he split with his girlfirend as he doesnt love her anymore, ... (123 words)

Our insecurity issues is really affecting our relationship. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi ive been with my bf for about a yr and 8months i love him too bits but we have had our fair share of problems. Anyway hes got a lot of insecurity issues that it has sort of influenced me in a way. Well the problem is we just seem to hurt eachother so much over these issues. ... (158 words)

I love my new girl but sex is boring. How can I get her do new things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

- y isn't things like my first sexual partner? when i first started havein sex with my first sexual parnter things was great till she had a misscarriage and then she got unhappy but still unhappy she would do things to me my new girlfriend doesn't even think about. ok my ... (795 words)

Does my bf need to wear a condom if I give him a blowjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I dont know what i should do i told my boyfriend that im not a virgin but really i am and now i think that he thinks that i know what im doing but i want to give him a blowjob and that i know how to do but ive never done it before so umm yea does my boyfriend need to wear a ... (73 words)

My gf misses me when we are apart, but she acts like I don't exist when we are together! What's up with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 379 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I will start off by saying that I am very kind to my girlfriend. I treat her with respect, because that is how I believe women should be treated. When I am away from her, she tells me how much she misses me, and wants to be with me, loves me etc. Then when we are together... (172 words)

What do I tell him if he asks to have sex with me again? I'm 18, he's 49 and married with kids!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i am soooo in need of ANYONES help! i've never been in a situation like this. ok here it goes... lets just start off by saying that i can get very flirtacious and get carried away.. its kinda sad but yea. anyway so my manager at the place i work at is 49 years old and im 18. ... (200 words)

Should I have sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi im julia im 14 from uk. i have not been sexually active in a term i can relate to (if that makes sense) when i was 13 i was abused and raped and left naked in my own bedroom while my parents had nipped over the road to see a friend, i said i would be ok in the house for 10 m... (275 words)

Is the size of my penis okay to satisfy a girl?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

29 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - my penis size is about 4.5 inches and i masterbate a lot, i'm afraid of sex. Is this size ok to satisfy a girl?... (30 words)

Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight? The thing is that he thinks that i cheated on him when i didnt. I broke up with him because he was very controlling and abusive. Regardless of what he did to me i have always ... (84 words)