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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I did anal sex with him and now he doesn't want to marry me because he thinks I did this, in my past?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been engaged for 6 months. In the arab world, we tend not to get sexually active until after marriage. My fiancee and I had anal sex. He now wants to rethink our relationship because he thinks that I did this in the past with other men. I had no relationships in the ... (134 words)

I loved him and I did everything for him and now he dumps me. Any advice to get over this loser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a wonderful person with a lot going for herself but I have a tough time with relationships. I have been divorced for 11 years and I have been in relationships with unavailable men, alcoholic men, men who are too busy for a relationship, etc. I try hard to make ... (134 words)

I have this smelly, yellowy, cream stuff comin out of my vagina. What the heck is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi. i have this smelly yellowy cream stuff comin out of my vagina. it is disgusting and it smells real bad??:S:$ it is embarrasing and i cant tell anyone about it. anyone got any idea what it might be?? plzzzz anyone?? thanx xx i arnt a virgin but i am not sexually active at ... (70 words)

How do I tell if he really likes me or am I just passing the time to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - how can i tell if this guy ive been seeing does really like me or if im just there to pass the time?... (23 words)

I did something crazy when I was drunk... I told my boss I like him! Now I am dreading work on Monday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've done a crazy thing... had too much to drink on a night out with work colleagues and told my boss that I'm falling for him, that he is all I think about. I'm not sure this is entirely true, perhaps I'm just confused by the recent break up of a relationship and am feeling ... (185 words)

How can I stop him from liking me more than a friend so he can go out with girls that actually like him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a friend who likes me more than a friend and he knows I have a boyfriend but he always tells me I love you more than a friend!!!!!And yesterday I was flirting with him till 2:30 in the night it felt very good but I also had 2 remember that I have a boyfriend!!!! But at ... (160 words)

My ex bf turned really nasty with me when I told him I wanted him back! How do I fix this..I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been broken up with my ex for almost 6 months now and we havent been in much contact - it was quite a bad break up. We had been together for almost 2 years and it was very on and off - he is 29 and I am 26. I have made an effort to move on and I am really busy with ... (318 words)

We hold hands and stuff, but I need tips on how to kiss him! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - How do you kiss? I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year but we haven't kissed yet. We hold hands and stuff and know that he wants to kiss me (he keeps hinting it) but i'm scared that i won't know what to do with my lips and stuff. Please help.... (55 words)

I think my bf is cheating on me on various sites...does anyone know of all the social networking sites out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Does anyone know of all the social networking sites out there? The ones similar to myspace,facebook and facebox? I think my boyfriends cheating on me and has profiles on these sites because earlier today he said he had his networking account open while chatting with me. ... (46 words)

Been straight but have gotten close to a lesbian friend,,,should I or shouldn't I begin a relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 40 yr old female have 2 lesbian friends but in the last 10 wks have became sexually close to one of them i have always been striaght up til now,but have fallen for her deeply she feels same way many times we have tried to stop cause of other friend but we just cant seem to ... (108 words)

I want him back so how can I prove to him, that I'm changing my ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - On the 10th April I got into a strop at my boyfriends house about getting some of my things back to my house and I left his house without saying goodbye to any of his family. (We were heading back to mine when I left.) Then on the Monday I got angry about him telling his mother ... (191 words)

My friend and I argued. Would I look weak if I gave in and called him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend and I had an argument. We have'nt spoken in two days. He has'nt called me.Does it make me appear weak to him if I call him? Or would he appreciate me more for giving in to him and calling? By the way he is an alpha male.... (50 words)

Sixteen and I'm so confused about my sexuality! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey im 16 and im really confussed about my sexuality i like girls and i kinda like guys and i try to go out with guys but it feels strange in my mind i think me liking girls is wrong and i shouldt feel this way so i put presure on myself to like guys theres alos this girl i ... (125 words)

Why am I dreaming this horrid dream for two months now? Any insights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - this dream will not leave me alone im walking around a swimmingpool then this guy attaks me and i end up in the pool with him and start drowning him this goes on for a bit then in bashing his head on a lampost but he is just laffing at me then i get shoot and i wake up in a ... (80 words)

How do I deal with all this stress I am experiencing? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

- im losing weight due to stress!!... i have to go to counseling sessions to help me learn to like myself and I'm getting ripping pains in ma heart everytime i get stressed and everything is just going wrong!! iv fallen out with ma pals!! ma mum made me choose between her an m... (93 words)

Neither of us want a serious relationship but he doesn't compliment me! What does he really want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hello!!! im 18 and im seeing this guy... neither of us want a serious relationship but he never tells me how he feels about me or even if he finds me attractive...we live together so things can get awkward but we've been ok, and its been going on for about 6 months!!! how can ... (65 words)

How can I stop him slapping me for his fun ??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been with my boyfriend for two weeks now and it was going realy well till he started slapping me on the face, he hit me once before when we used to date and i thought he had changed when i got back with him but i went round his and he just kept hitting me on my face over ... (104 words)

My married mans wife is having a baby, should I leave him ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - im having a sexual relationship with a married man and his wifes pregnant.we love seeing each other and touching each other but now his babies on the way i don't know what to do.should i stay with him or leave him?... (41 words)

We just split and he's now on the search for new women! Is he doing this to make me feel bad and to bring me down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 383 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi everyone, Okay so I think I am finally over the whole "let me sort out my life and well get back together" line. Thats all it was, a line. now I have a questions for everyone out there, why do people use this line? Also, I have started going out and doing my own thing, n... (164 words)

He flirted a lot with me and when I told him I liked him, he just wanted to be a 'friend'! Was he lying or what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I've got a strange situation here. At my college, I developed a crush on this guy, who i think likes me back and couldn't admit the truth! He was South American, which didnt help, but he'd flirt, touch me on my arms, (stroked my shoulder while I was sitting next... (175 words)

I tend to ruin relationships because of my obsession for my goals, how can I work round this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

21 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am quite an ambitious person and get attached to my dreams or goals i have set for myself in life. Sometimes people get a clue about them and they start to create hurdles and difficulties in seeing that i do not achieve them. I would say, this is a typical perverted thinking ... (134 words)

Is it possible to have a relationship with a 30yr age gap ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - im in love with someone who is 30yrs older than me, is it possible for people with such different time gaps to be in a serious long term relationship..any thoughts on this much appreciated xxxx ty... (36 words)

I want to be secure in a relationship before we start sex, could he just be using me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Last night I was in a party and I ended up getting rather drunk and getting off with the guy I like. This wouldn't be a problem if I didn't think he wanted to go further. He doesn't want a relationship, whereas me, I don't want to go any further without us being in a secur... (123 words)

He's moving away for a year, I didnt tell him how I felt, have I blown my chance ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) age 22-25 - The guy im in love with, is moving today to another city. we met yesterday to say goodbye. we are not in a relationship. we are very good friends. we spoke for a while, and then he had to go, and we hugged. he whispered in my ear that he is going to me miss and kissed my ea... (468 words)

I'm prepared to give up the porn to keep her, but she acts so different now and I'm worried its too late and I've already lost her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

21 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help. My wife and I have been married for 8 years (Im 38 she is 37) and have a wonderful family. We have always shared a very special sacred relationship but sadly I have been using porn (nothing illegal) on and off even though I know she strongly disaproves of it. It ... (297 words)

My 14 yr old is only smoking to fit in! Please help he has cardio problems!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

- Please help my 14 year old friend smokes occasionaly when he is out with people who do smoke and it worries me because he didnt used to and i feel he is doing it to show off and i really care about him and he knows that and he wont listen to me because he likes to annoy me with ... (118 words)

Paranoid he doesn't like me when he doesnt contact me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend a month but known him for 14 months. During the time we were just casual he went off with another girl and broke my heart. I haven't spoke to him or seen him since Monday and its now Saturday. I know we have both been busy but i have sent him some ... (119 words)

My bf gets excited over other women!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend of one year gets very excited over other good-looking women! I'm pretty good-looking myself, and he isn't the sexiest man alive with his belly! I am very much in love with him, and believe he truly loves me too! Why does he point out how beautiful all these other ... (61 words)

How do I know if my boyfriend really likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 377 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How do I know my boy friend really likes me?... (10 words)

Sometimes, I have stinging discharge.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have discharge coming out of my vagina. It sort of stings, and sometimes not. The discharge is slightly yellow. Is this normal? This has been happening for awhile ever since I started putting lubricant on my vagina for my first time. When I put on lubricant I don't feel ... (78 words)

My wife, her friend, and I did a threesome two years ago. Our relationship has gone awry since then.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

21 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - About two years ago I had a sexual encounter with my wife and her friend. I was drunk and her friend was a very forward person that encouraged me that regretful night. To start off the story my wife and I have had fantasy talks about her with another women. I, in a drunken ... (431 words)

I am 14 and I don't want to date yet, but my friends all think I am a geek for not dating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Why does everyone seem to look down on me because I don't want a boyfriend. I am 14 and I don't think I am ready for a relationship yet. I have had boyfriends but I cant really be bothered with them yet. I want to do well at school and get some good grades, go to college, enjoy ... (99 words)