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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I missed her birthday, so thought I would give her the chocs as a special way to say I love you and an apology, even though we are not dating yet, what do you think ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 390 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Background info for this post:(http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-gf-is-still-very-rude-to.html). Dear All I wonder if you could help me please. Basically everything was going great for two years with this awsome girl, we were in love! I missed two oppouniteys where b... (409 words)

We broke up and then he was seeing someone else, he said he still loved me and we should get back together, but then we rowed and he went back to her, Should I just let him go ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am basically really messed up right now! I was going out with my ex for over 2 yrs and then he went away for a year and is still away, we broke up and he started seeing another girl, then when he came back home for a month we both still really liked each other, but said we ... (181 words)

My husband is a drunk! I dread coming home and I cant bare him touching me, Do I stay and get him help or leave ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband has a drink problem, we have been together for 8 years and married for 4, at first i never noticed how much he was drinking. my husband is a jekel amd hyde, when he is sober its like we have jsut met, he is kind funny and great to be around, but is a nightmare when ... (177 words)

My mother in law told me my husband wants a divorce!! We are both miserable and she wont stay out of it!! Help what do I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ok this is a biggie my mother in law told me my husband wants a divorce , so i went home to visit family and now my husband hardly talks to me im not gonna get a divorce to please his mother and his whole family is against me now, my husband is miserable im miserable, but his ... (102 words)

I didnt like her still being in contact with the ex so I broke up, now I have the chance to date her again, but the ex is still there! What can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Last year I went out with this woman for 8 months. 2 things caused us to split up. The fact that she keeps in touch with an ex-boyfriend and secondly she moved away because of a job. 9 months on, and she started texting me again, saying she is unhappy with her job and... (567 words)

Been dating 2 months and hes still checking his online ad, do I have a right to tell him to stop ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I met this wonderful man (we will call him - Man) 10 months ago. We hit it off right away, about 4 weeks in to the relationship a woman approched me and told me to leave him because he had a singles ad on the internet and was checking it everyday. I decided that since we just ... (148 words)

Im having an affair, 2 kids one on the way, but I love this other woman!! What can I do ?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im 30 yrs old with 2 kids and 1 on the way but for the past three months i have been having an affiar with a women who is so great and fun to be with and i just cant bring myself to leaving my wife for the kids sake but i love this other women to bits wot can i do ... (62 words)

I want to date him again as I feel hes changed, but I dont want my friends and family to be cross, any advice what to do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My problem is really confusing, I was goin with my BF for 18months bt we broke up jus over a year ago, the last three months we've been seeing each other a couple times a week and have been gettin on really well. I think were kind of planning on gettin back 2getha as his family ... (232 words)

I cant seem to gain her trust back, any ideas how I can ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - well my girlfriend can't trust me anymore cause i did something.well she said if i can't gain her trust back in a week were through. just i don't no how to gain her trust back. Can you give me some advice on how to gain her trust back? bi anonymous (for good reasons)LOL ... (55 words)

Any advice on how to stop constantly fighting with my Mum!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Does anyone have any advice for someone who is constantly fighting with her mother? It's like everytime i wake up in a good mood she has to barge in with some rude comment or get on my case about something stupid. What should i do?... (45 words)

Not happy that he may of gone out with his friend after dropping me home and that was 02.50am!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 389 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - I do not live so close to my b/f so when we heard a storm would be coming the next day, we decided to just do things close to my area and then can drop me home. His friend called like 3 times..the second time was about where he was and if he was out..and as he was talking m... (313 words)

It was my first time on Friday, and I just feel totally paranoid now, is this natural ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

- ok up until friday night i was a virgin.i had been out with friends for a few drinks and i did not get drunk but i went back home with a guy i knew as i was in school with his brother. the thing is im 17 and worried as it was my first time im not sure this is a natural feeling. ... (97 words)

We dated for 2 months and split up, I cant get over him! How can I get over him ASAP!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and i were dating for about 2 months when he ended it last week i was gutted! im stll hung up on him and i really miss him! what can i do to get over him? please help me! i know he wont get back together with me so i need to get over him A.S.A.P! so w... (86 words)

Its recently been our 1yr anniversary, I made a special effort, went out of my way,and was excited, he did nothing, not a thing! Im still gutted!! and I cant shake the feeling!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'd just like some opinions from people on something which is really bothering me. A couple of weeks ago it was my 1 year anniversary with my boyfriend. I was really excited by this as i have never been in a relationship before and to me it was a big deal. So anyway,... (345 words)

He checks with his freinds before doing anything with me! Why does he put his freinds before me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend have been togther 3 weeks, but known each other for 14 months. he seems to put his friends before me. He will check if hes doing anything with them before he agrees to see me. Am I wrong to feel upset about this? Also last week I was upset because my friends ... (111 words)

She says she loves me, she doesn't want to date anyone else but she wants a 'break'! An advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi all can anyone help me clear my head on what has happened to me in the last week, my girlfriend has txt me saying that we need a break, she is all confussed and her reasons for having the break are these, she wants to have her young life as she feels like she has missed o... (127 words)

I got drunk and texted my ex..now my bf has dumped me! How do I gain his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

- my bf dumped me 4 days ago bcoz i texted my ex when i was drunk(we wer jus chattin about work) anyway my bf took me back 3 days ago but its still kinda awakward,he doesnt send x x x at the end of his texts in the last 3 days but i do, how can i get him to trust me again?i will ... (90 words)

I'm 17--she's older, she lives overseas, we come from different cultures. Should I ease out of this as I feel my family won't approve!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) age 16-17 - Ive been talking to this Lady online for quite a while now, I feel I know her pretty well. The problem I have is that I dont feel my family would understand if we started dating due to three factors: Im 16(nearly 17 and Im quite mature) and she's 26(nearly 27) and She lives ... (99 words)

What do men like in a woman? A strong woman or a girly type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - being a young lady growing up in todays society I feel a little confused as to what a womans role is anymore ? or what do men find attractive in a woman ? I am very aware of womens lib and i do support it, but a little part of me can't help but think we have taken on a littl... (389 words)

We both feel like everybody in our families don't want us to be together and we are wondering why? How should we handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months now an we are really serious about each other and i mean really serious. i am 14, 15 in november, and he is 16 just. i live in wakefield and he lives in sheffield and we see each other every saturday. the problem is we ... (90 words)

I'm thinking I should distance myself from him and let him meet more with his friends. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 387 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - i posted a question previously but i dnt think i made my point clear enough. facts: - my boyfriend doesnt see a problem at all. - He only has one real friend and a brother, in a band and works. - were both very serious, especially him. - we've been going out for a year ... (560 words)

He shouts at me-calls me a parasite-criticizes me, a lot! Should I just leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I leave my boyfriend of 3 years because I can't see him changing his ways? He shouts me down, does not take me seriously, points out the fact that he has to pay the lions share of the rent and calls me a parasite (Im a student), he tells me off if I do the housework... (175 words)

Lately his explicit past has been really bothering me and I can't see us ever getting married. How do I get his past out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, i have no idea who else i can ask, but i feel sometimes its best to get advise from strangers, hope you understand. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i really love him. he is my first real and serious relationship. im 19 and he is 20. when we first starte... (459 words)

On and off relationship has made me feel dissatisfied! Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya, I'm 18 and I've been with a guy on and off since June last year. Until yesterday I had not seen him for six months and I'm no longer sure about my feelings for him. I've called a halt because of this, but I need to decide soon and my feelings are no clearer with seeing ... (139 words)

I'm still worried about the blood clots...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - This goes with the blood clots did he tear me question. I wrote that. It's still bleeding after two days after fingering how long can I expect it to bleed for and if it doesnt stop could it be my period because i should be getting it in a week or so? I doesnt hurt, it did for ... (73 words)

I messed up and she said if I can't gain her trust back in a week, we're through! Help needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - well my girlfriend can't trust me anymore cause i did something.well she said if i can't gain her trust back in a week were through. just i don't no how to gan her trust baack Can you give me some advice on how to gain her trust back? bi... (50 words)

Am I pushing my other friends away because of my bf? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I have a bit of a problem going on at the minute. I find that I see my boyfriend alot, like on a regular basis and this makes me really happy but my sister makes digs at me that I never see my friends anymore which is untrue becasue i do seee them aswell just not as much ... (392 words)

I wonder if my ex bf is sexually addicted. He doesn't seem happy with just one woman! Should I cut all ties as it's hard to be friends with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just recently moved out and somewhat separated from my boyfriend of 5 years. We talked of marriage over the years but he would go back and forth on this issue. We wnet through alot in those five years and i helped support him through much of it. Emotionally, financia... (436 words)

Moved to Germany to be with her. After finding pics of her and a guy on her computer, I am thinking about leaving!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - i have been going out for a long time with my GF, and after some time now i moved out to her home country, (Germany), and been feeling isolated and lonely as i have nothing to do while she is at work, so anyway i started to look at her pics, and noticed some that had been ... (153 words)

What can i do if im having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend and I always finish before her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - What can i do if im having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend and i always finish before her??... (18 words)

My bf split with me because I looked at his phone messages from other girls! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I split up with my boyfriend on thursday because i looked on his phone and he had messages from another girl on there and now he has finished with me because of it. he has lots of girls as mates and im meet most of them i wish i never looked now then we would still be together ... (75 words)

He seems shy but interested but I'm not sure. How doI find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you know a man is interested in you? He seems shy but interested but I'm not sure. In conversation, he remembers every word I've said. He holds my gaze. Has personal conversations. He smiles at me more than other people. We are in a working situation but not ... (64 words)

My ex bf told my new guy, I was only in this relationship for the sex and that he should back off! What's my ex bf's game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex bf and I broke up in October, but we have a habit of having sex everytime we meet up, and we're still really good friends. Now he's finally going out with a girl he's been pursuing for months so we're not having sex, but he introduced me t his friend a few days ago and we ... (159 words)

I'm angry at him for pressuring me to take my pants off, after I said NO! Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

- I'm so confused. I am 18 years old and about 2 months ago started a relationship with a guy. We met through university. Anyway, he is my first real bf, my first kiss etc. Hes had 2 girlfriends before me and I assume hes had sex with them, but I don't know for sure, I'm just ... (589 words)

He was rubbing against me with his underwear on! Can I still get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

- Last night I was at my boyfriends house and I had all my clothes and underwear off and he had everything off but his underpants. He was sort of puting his penis into me but he still had his underwear on. If we didnt use any contreception is there still a chance I could be ... (76 words)

I'm disheartened! I treat others nice but never get kindness in return! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - please help me i feel really down and disheartened. i feel that people always let me down in life i go out of my way to do nice things for other people but no one treats me with kindness. some examples i always have peoples children over or take them out places but no one ... (205 words)

What are your thoughts about a 16 year old girl dating a 19 year old boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - hey.. i'm just wondering what your thoughts are about a 16 year old girl dating a 19 year old boy? He's turning 20 in december..? Personally i thought it was fine because he's gentle, fun-loving, kind and doesn't expect too much. I have fun with him, we joke and so on. ... (125 words)

My bf found old sex pics of my ex on my hard drive! Now he doesn't trust me..any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend (of 9 months)recently found old sex videos and pictures on my hard drive my ex-boyfriend and I took back in 2004. I meant to delete them, but never did. Now he says he can't trust me and I think he wants to break up with me. Am I being childish by thinking it's ... (70 words)

My gf is very submissive and doesn't express her own opinions! How can I get her to share her feelings more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, my girlfriend is really submissive and never voices her opinion. She always says "I don't care" when I ask her opinion on anything. Because of this, we never have fun together. So how can I make her share her feelings since her dad constantly makes her feel like nothing, ... (54 words)

He hates that I help my troubled family! Is he wrong or should I stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some advice, I've been in a relationship for the last 11 years I've dedicated myself to my boyfriend always there for him putting up with so much abuse and financial distress. Within the last year he has really changed for the better, but now the problem is he gets ... (96 words)

Since I have a new bf, Dad has changed his mind and does not want me dating until I leave school! What is Dad's problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ok im actualy 14 but i ticked the box wrong by mistake. The problem: my dad has let me go out with boys in the past but yesterday when i told him about my new boyfriend he said he doesn't look your age, and even when i told him he still wouldn't belive me? then in the evening ... (112 words)

My married lover and I are soulmates but he won't leave his wife because of the kids! What can I do?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been having an affair with a married man for three years nearly. We completely are soul-mates. We have shared so many of the same personal experiences that are very hard for anyone to come to terms with. We can talk about anything...he fights with his wife all the ... (89 words)

My guy friends tell me that I'm a huge flirt and that I confuse them. Should I change my behaviours?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Telling a friend you don't like him the way he likes you is tough. Most of my guy friends have confessed to me that they like me, but I haven't felt the same way about any of them. Some of them have been cool afterwards, but they seem awkward they still seem a bit awkward.... (158 words)

I let him know some do's and don'ts about dating and he's upset with me! Was I out of line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I met a guy at school and we've been hanging out when he confessed to me he like me and after 3 months of hanging out with him he told me he could see himself falling in love with me. We're just friends and I don't feel the same way about him. Being my friend, I thought I ... (126 words)

Am I being too harsh to tell my gf to stop doing this thing that makes me very unhappy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend is doing something that is making her happy and while im not happy and she wont quit because she loves doing it but it takes a lot of time out of being together but then she says she loves me more than anything... am i being to harsh about telling her to stop ... (70 words)

How do I get her away from her computer to pay attention to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Every time I visit my girlfriend, she seems far more interested in her computer and different sites such as facebook and myspace than she is of me. Believe me when I say I am not a needy person, and it doesnt bother me if she hops online to check something... but this ... (105 words)

I got a uninary tract infection after having sex...is this common for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

- When I first had sex with my boyfriend, I didn't know it is a good idea to pee after intercourse (even using condom). Therefore, I had urinary track infection. The doctor gave me some antibotics and suggest me to drink cranberry juice. Therefore, whenever I have sex now, I will ... (125 words)

I want to try anal sex-what's a good lube to use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't how to put this so I'll be frank. I've wanted to try anal really badly for ages. He isn't very enthusiastic but has agreed to try it. What lube should I used etc? And his penis is quite large (10") could this be a problem?... (47 words)

Had an argument with my ex bf/friend and now he won't talk to me! Whats the best way to get his forgivness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriends split up after two years, we remained best friends and it hasn't helped us get over eachother, i still love him like a boyfriend and recently i have caused an argument that made my friend end our friendship, he will not talk to me. I want him back so much. ... (70 words)

He wants to know about previous bf's but I am not saying anything! Am i wrong in trying to keep these things from him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for seven months and we really love each other. am 19 and he's 23 but we wanna get married in the near future. my dilemma is that he asks me a lot of questions about my past and wants to know about every man i have had previously. we have ... (153 words)

I was dumb enough to fall for a married man and I can't trust what he tells me! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, first of all I was dumb enough to fall in love with a man who is still married. No kids. He is in the process of settling the financial matters and says he has a solictor working out the figures. We agreed we wouldn't see each other until he reached a point where he ... (476 words)

I like being with him all the time and I feel lost without him. Should I give him more space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - iv been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half. wre both 18. were both rather serious about each other but latly iv began to relise im trying to control him. such as him going to be with friends or wanting to do something else rather than meet me and during this ... (206 words)

Our first time together he couldn't stay erect! Now I haven't heard from him! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

15 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dated a man for couple of months, finally had sex with him, while having sex he could not stay erect, believe me I tried everything, I had to finish him off orally, and that was 5 days ago have not heard from him since?? ... (47 words)