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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I thought I loved my guy until I met another man! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i'm in a relationships just now and we have a child, i thought i really loved this guy, but recently ive started to see my first ever love going around and have all these feelings for him coming back, i dont know what to do its making me so unhappy but when i see him i get ... (71 words)

My bf is pulling away from me! How do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

14 April 2007 (F) age 16-17 - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years and im 16 years old. Recently he's been pulling away from me and i want to bring him closer, is there anyway that i can bring him closer? I really need help!!... (42 words)

After our date, I told him I just wanted a friendship and he wasn't interested! Any ideas whyhe doesn't want this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

- Thank you in advance to anyone who answers. I went out on a date with a guy that I thought I really liked a couple of months ago. We did get hot and heavy a bit on that first date...I could see that he seemed to really like me. For some reason I got cold feet about pursuing the ... (124 words)

How do I ask him, if he is ready to turn our casual dating situation into an actual relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating a guy off and on for the past three months. I have developed feelings for him but I don't know if he feels the same way I do. I don't get to spend as much time with him as I would like due to his job. When we go out everything seems to work seamlessly and he ... (101 words)

I need step by step advice on how to make out with someone. What do you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok ive never made out with someone before and i really like this guy but he has experience. i dont want to tell him ive never made out before so i need step by step advice on how to make out with someone. what do you do? how? when?... (49 words)

I've had relationships with men for years and now I am having strong feelings for my female friend! Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with katy for 6yrs now and we tell each other everything and we are really close. We are both single and until she meet a guy afew wks ago neither of us was seeing anyone. Other the last 6months or so we have made jokes about not needing men and being ... (324 words)

What can I say to him to get him to tell me the truth about whether he's "coming back" to me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, this is a long story and I'm sorry for making you all read it. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 4 months ago. After about a month of being broke up, we got together at his house to talk. We ended up having sex that day.. I'm not sure why, but we did. 2 weeks ... (459 words)

I have a crush on a person in a power position over me. He seems interested..how do I find out for sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on a person in a power position over me. I find myself thinking of him constantly. It would be risky for him to get involved with me. It appears to me that he is interested. How do I know for sure? Thanks, P.... (59 words)

I seem to be attracted to males yet I dont want sex with men. What is going on with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

- Hi everyone. Ive always wanted to have sex with women and still do. But i dont seem to be attraceted to women like a lot of other males like boys at school. I seem to be attracted to males yet i dont want sex with men. I would also like to have children when i am older. ... (88 words)

I don't seem to feel the physical affects of sexual arousal. Do I have a sexual problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm nearly 23 and have been in my first serious relationship for the past 8 months or so. I'm a virgin. I have masturbated though every once in a while since I was 14. I've never made myself orgasm and neither has he! My problem is that, for the most part, I don't seem to feel ... (175 words)

I want this other guy all to myself! How do I get out of my marriage without hurting my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I got married four months ago to a wonderful man who would make a brilliant father figure to my children but there's a problem. I have been having an affair for half a year with a guy who's married with kids. I love him. He says that he's only with his wife because of the ... (95 words)

Should I listen to my friend, and take precautions with this guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok... Im twelve... my friend's brother... is 14. Me and him have actually liked each other for years but just recently our secrets came out accidently in a seven minutes in heaven game. And now that we both know we want to take it farther. Ive asked my friend about it and she ... (89 words)

We are looking for a house together but I want an engagement ring first! Do you think he may propose soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 33 and my boyfriend is 43. We've been dating for 10 months. We have been recently looking for houses, but are not engaged. It bothers me that we are doing this as we are not engaged and it seems like it is putting the "cart before the horse." I have asked him why we ... (133 words)

We can be happy, but we fight a lot, too. Does this mean we aren't meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with the same guy for three and a half years, and most of the time we are happy. Sometimes we have these massive fights however, and they can end in a "break up" (which doesn't last) or just a break. We have had two proper breakups which have lasted up to a year. T... (133 words)

My husband wants to leave me for his ex! I am so hurt as I love him so much-please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband wants to leave me for his ex! My husband has an ex girlfriend that he dated when she was just 14-18 and I guess from what he says,they had alot of good memories together and also some bad one's. My husband and I have been together for almost 9yrs, this September a... (221 words)

Should my fiancee forgive and forget what his parents did or should he make them tkae responsibility?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

- Hi I really would like some opinions about my situation, I'm really unsure what to do now. My fiancee and I have been together for a few years now. and about a year/year and a half ago he realized he had been molested by his father (it's something he's always had issues with,... (423 words)

Most of my friends have had sex and I feel left out. What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 17 a virgin and I don't have much experience with guys. I do go out when I can with my friends to parties and stuff and I see guys that I like but I just don't get attention unless they are old perverted men or not out of primary school. It may seem like I'm jokey about ... (180 words)

My wife has been going through a very hard time in her life, I want to help her but i don't know how. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 33 and happily married to my wife of 7 years. Recently my wife has been going through a very hard time in her life, i want to help her but i don't know how. When i ask her if theres anything i can do that would make her feel better she just says that me putting up with ... (436 words)

He fingered me hard and I bled with clots! Did he do some tearing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 14 years old and my boyfriend started fingering me. We have done it before and i havent bled but yesterday he went faster and harder and longer and i noticed blood. i put in a pad last night and it seemed light but today its getting heavier and there are blot clots. I ... (90 words)

Have you ever heard of sex feeling better with an unshaved girl vs. a shaved girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Ive been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and she was totally shaved for the first 4. Last year she asked me if I would be alright with her to stop shaving her vagina. At first I was hesitant but I agreed because it is a fetish of hers to be natural. She is greek and is ... (125 words)

Ex and I had an affair and he dumped me. Is it possible to fall in love with my husband, forget my stupid ex and start over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I got married 6 months ago and the week after I got back from honeymoon i bumped into my ex-boyfriend in town. My ex and I split as I found out he was addicted to phone sex lines, discovered he lied a lot and started to have feelibgs for my now husband. Since i bumped into him... (193 words)

He set me up on MYspace with a fake profile...and then accused me of cheating! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, im 20 years old. me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years and 2 months. we just got into an argument about communicating. im the type that like to keep everything in and he's not. we both have a my space page and he doesnt want me with one. on my page it has p... (367 words)

Could semen on his hands been transfered inside of me, making me pregnant??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and not too long since we started getting more "intimate". (sorry about the next bit it's kinda...graphic...) he's fingered me and licked me out, but we havn't had sex. Ever. I havn't come on my periods, I've missed it completely ... (85 words)

Bored with all these sex positions! Any tips on some new ones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm getting bored with our positions. We've done legs (one and both) over his shoulders, missionary, me on top, anal, vaginal from behind, I've sat on him (going vaginal), sat on him face-to-face(vaginal), and legs behind my head...Seems like a lot, but I'm getting a little ... (55 words)

I love him so much that we have sex 3 times or more, per week! So, is something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my BF so much, everytime he comes by me he gets me excited, so we can end up having sex 3 days in a row or more every week. So is something wrong with me.... (37 words)

I feel like i'm betraying my family and my older sister especially, by entering into a relationship with this guy! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

- About six years ago, my elder sister ran away from home. She was 17 at the time. Since Nat* left, things have been ridiculous. My younger sister, Alice* who was only a baby when Nat left, is constantly ignored by my mother and shouted at when the slightest thing goes wrong. ... (217 words)

Bf says he hates his ex gf..but how come he still takes her out for meals? What's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i could really use some advice. Ive been seeing this guy for a few months and we had to keep our relationship secret as he was living with his ex gf. however she found out and appeared fine with. The thing i dont understand is that he told me he cant stand her and wants he... (86 words)

My best friend, Tilly has upset me over a guy I like..I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - well ive been best friends with *tilly all my life, and tillys cousin, *jason, has a huge crush on me. but both myself and tilly have a crush on jasons best friend *tod. (actually im in love with tod) and she knows it. now jason is having a barbeque tonight, and invited tilly ... (114 words)

Do most females generally not allow the guy to have sex with her, until he's more emotionally involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Is it true that a woman would generally now allow the guy to have sex with he until she is able to get the guy go deeper? I am not comfortable going so deep emotionally for having sex, so how can i make over for it? ... (46 words)

Due to my religious beliefs, I view females as dirty so I can't have sex. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I can't have sex with a girl because i find them to be dirty in some way (mainly religious beliefs and reasons) and i would myself spoil my cleanliness if i were to sleep with them. And advice on this is helpful. ... (44 words)

I want her back but she's enjoying her independence too much! Should I wait or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf of 3.5 years has just left me and i am so distraught and confused by her at the moment about it. I'm 29 and she has just turned 21 and is in the last 3 months of her uni degree which is stressing her out lots. What makes it harder is that i've just spent the last... (579 words)

I am very unhappy in my marriage..my wife/family doesn't trust me! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not happy in my marriage. What should I do? We have been married for 17 years and for the past 6 1/2 years I have been working 2 full time jobs. Prior to that I had worked a full time and a part time job. Our son just turned 16 and my stepdaughter is getting ready to ... (278 words)

After seeing his dating profile, I am wondering...is my bf gay? What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and just after valentines day we had a big blow out and split up, it lasted for just over a month then we got back together, i was sittin in his computer chair one day when he was making me a cup of tea and noticed his emails were ... (371 words)

Is it safe to have sex when one is pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 9 weeks pregnant, and it hurts to have sex sometimes. is it safe to keep doing it or not? ... (21 words)

I'm a black male and I feel women expect me to be well endowed! Do I measure up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Is 6.75 inch penis and 5.5 inch around/girth small? I'm about 6'2" 175 pounds, 19 yr old black guy. I just get the feeling that most women expect me to be huge, but I'm not.... (35 words)

This guy has me really, really confused..can anyone help me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F) age 22-25 - im totally confused about if this guy has any feelings for me. we are not in a relationship, we are very close friends. but that can also be questioned, coz when i first met this guy i was interested in him and i thought he was too, and thats why we kept in contact, esp after ... (1048 words)

My love is fading fast for my computer addicted bf! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my b/f and i have been together for 3 and half years, he started playing this pc game that never ends. and now our relationship is goin down because he so addicted to the computer. we always argue because he can't control himself,and he says he will control it,but im tired and ... (61 words)

He did reply to say he was busy, do you think this is a blow off, or do I still stand a chance ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - a few weeks ago i sent this text to a man i really do like it read, sorry for texting you yesterday i was a little anxious, i know you are a busy man and it wont happen again i must be getting on your nerves, i bet i have put you off that drink now ? he replyed back and said, ... (107 words)

Is there a relation between extroversion or social confidence and sex sppeal or vanity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Is there a relation between extroversion or social confidence and sex sppeal or vanity? I seem to think of two to be the same based on the way i am conditioned in my culture. Would like to know views of others about this..... (43 words)

Im fighting to get my man back after several mistakes, but how do I prove to him I wont do it again ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been in a relationship for almost three years. i made some mistakes and now i am fighting to get my man back. He has forgiven me but still thinks i could do it again. How do i prove to him that i am not going to do it again?... (51 words)

His excuse for these emotional affairs, is that he likes to feel wanted!! What should I do, he hasnt slept with them so its not a real affair right ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help to figure out what to do about my fiance having an emotional affair. We have been together for 3yrs and have a daughter. I found out that he had been talking to another girl and that they had sent naked pix to each others phones. He promised that he would never ... (253 words)

We broke up, her new guy just treats her like his slave, shes too kind for that, I still love her what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I have had a girlfriend for eight months, but sadly we broke up not too long ago. I loved her and she loved me. That was clear. We laughed all the time and helped each other through hard times. Then, someone else came into the picture. He guilted her into a relationship thr... (131 words)

Still in love with my ex gf! How can I show her that I will take care of her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Is it ok to still be in love with my ex. [that i still love] but am trying to get over her, and started trying to move on, so im started to like some one else, but there is this one problem she likes this other guy, but wait i was talking to my other friend, and she said that ... (156 words)

Our beliefs are so very different, Im scared to lose his frienship, but I really want more than that!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 years old and have never been a very religous person, just raised that way I suppose. But now I'm falling for a guy who is LDS and very religous(I'm talking WAY strict). We havn't officially started dating however we have building up a good friendship and it has ... (92 words)

We used a condom but I still havent had my period, I've taken 3 tests all negative, could I still be pregnant ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue. I had a regular period was March 8th thru March 13th, 2007. My boyfriend and I only had sex once durring that month. I was supposed to get my period on April 12th. I have yet to get it. My boyfriend and i did use a condom from start to finnish also. I ... (119 words)

Been seeing a married man for 15 years, but cant get over the guilt that his wife may have heard a voicemail message!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in therapy trying to get over a relationship i have had with a married man for the past fifteen years. we actually broke it off (i did as i always did) a year ago but started speaking again this year. i became very threatened by a friendship (?) he began with a close ... (265 words)

I have a crush on someone that Im not supposed to!! How can I find out if he has a crush on me too!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a huge crush on somebody... someone I'm not supposed to. How do I know if he's into me, too? I'm pretty sure he is... but he's not supposed to be into me either. Help!... (39 words)

I kissed another guy while we were broke up, now were together again he wants to kiss a girl to get back at me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - what should i do if i broke up with this guy a while back and i started to go out with this other guy and i might have kissed him a few times ... then i got back with the other guy and it bothers him that i kissed the other guy becuz he remained faithful. he wants to get back ... (101 words)

He hid the truth, then confessed and said we can work it out as he loved me,then slammed in my face he couldnt be with me as I have kids by someone else and now hes going to try for kids with his wife! Help! He was the centre of my world!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Suffering low self esteem and married to a bully eventually we divorced. I have two girls, one of whom had cancer - and now well! My husband was my first and only partner until I met Nick at a singles party, who told me he was recently seperated. We hit it off instantly and he ... (638 words)

How, exactly do you know you love someone? I mean the real, solid, deep love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - This'll probably sound stupid and I'm sure it's been asked before, but how is it exactly that you know you love someone? I mean real, solid, deep love. I believe deep down that I love my boyfriend, and I want to tell him - but I also don't want to say it before knowing t... (235 words)

I can't tell my family I have bulimia..would it be fair to tell my friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

14 April 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi, i think i may have bulimia, i cant tell my family about it but i think there may be one friend i can tell. is it fair of me to tell her or would that put her in an akward position, age 14... (44 words)