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relationship help and advice

Followup: My bf who sends his old gf and her daughters large amounts of money...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 36-40 - Yesterday I wrote a question and got several responces and I want to first thank those who responded. There were a couple questions posed by those respondants so I want to clarify and see if that helps. First, for those that didnt see yesterdays question : My boyfriend of 2 ... (237 words

Will he be turned off if I tell him..I am a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi, im currently seeing a guy who is older and im planning on telling him that im a virgin ( which i definetly am going to do). The thing is will he be turned off by this? We have been going out for 3 months and im ready to have sex with him. Im just curious to know if thi... (86 words


   

He's pulling away--how do I bring the closeness back in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - I am 7 1/2 months pregnant by a man that i love more than anything. We are no longer together because I cannot trust him due to the fact that all he's done in the last year is push me away. He cannot communicate with me about anything, especially when it involves a problem. I ... (125 words

He stopped calling because I had kids and he thinks I was looking for a husband! Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 36-40 - My name is Melissa and my heart is broken thats what led me here to your site and i hope i can get an answer or just something explaining to me whats going on here, ok i met a man january 4th his daughter introduced us because he told her he wanted to meet a good woman and she ... (223 words

I'im not sure where my clitoris is? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 13-15 - Hi, Please help me....im not sure where my clitoris is? my boyfriend tries to pleasure me but i get bored someone please help me? send links pictures anything please im quite desperate! x... (39 words

   

I just don't trust him, anymore..am I right to feel this way and what can I do about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - Im feeling really depressed at the moment and i just dont know where to turn.I broke up with my fella last year for a number of reasons but my man always kept contacting me to see him etc,in the mean time he met someone else and started a relationship with her for a year,but he ... (194 words

I want to be more experienced than my gf! Is this just my 'male ego" or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - I dnt wnt to be with ne1 else apart from my girl bt at the same time i wnt to b more experienced then her is that my male ego??i like being with this girl cuz she cares for me shes beautiful n good fun to b with im always laffin when im with her!... (55 words

He dumped me because I texted my ex bf! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - my boyfrend(22) and i(19) had been goin out 3months we had a big argument yesterday bcoz i told mi boyfrend that i texted my ex boyfrend a few weeks ago we wer jus chattin about work(the 3 of us work together) but now my boyfrend dumped me today and says he cant trust me ever ... (83 words

What things do girls like to be said to them in clubs when they are getting chatted up by a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - what things do girls like to be said to them in clubs when they are getting chatted up by a guy?? n why do girl not give the opportunity to some guys in clubs n juss look down ther nose at them as if ther dirt! ... (46 words

Can low self esteem ruin your life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - Whats the best way to build self confidence n have high self esteem ??? can low self esteem ruin ur life??... (21 words

How do you know if a man likes you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 26-29 - How do you know if a man likes you? I'm not a teenager... things aren't obvious. It's a professional relationship and we are both married... but things feel odd. Good odd, you know. Guilty good odd. ... (39 words

Masturbating mes me feel good because I have low self-esteem! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - I like masturbating but I seem to do it to make myself feel better cuz i have low self esteem after i have done i feel bad but good at the same time because i ejaculate so it feels good is this normal??... (43 words

How can a girl make sex truely amazing for her guy? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - Just wondering - how can a girl make sex truely amazing for her guy?! Does anyone have any tips or advice for a girl who has just about mastered the 'girl on top thing' (that being the step above the missionary) but not much else in the way of positions... any help would be... (58 words

Why I am attracting all the older guys-is it because I'm mature and have 34D boobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - I have had some trouble with guys lately I have always attracted the older guys like from 19-25 and I am only 15! For some reason there is just no guys under 17 that are interested in me why is this. Is it because I am mature or have 34 D boobs, I just don't understand why I am ... (64 words

I like two guys..so how do I decide which one to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 26-29 - hey, recently i started dating this guy, lets just call him H. well, it was all going great until we stopped seeing each other so often.. then it just fizzled out.. so one night i was bored and decided "screw it" and kissed with one of my best mates who admitted he had l... (149 words

He only wants to see me when we have sex! Does he really love me like he says?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - i have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 weeks now, he says he loves me but i want to know if he is telling me the truth or not. we hardly see eachother and when we do its when he wants to see me and we always end up having sex. i dont know if i should stay with him but i ... (78 words

I'm attracted to married men and they to me. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 30-35 - I feel terrible that im attracted to married men and they to me. I find out they are married until after we've had sex. i can't believe it always happens to me. Im in a sorta relationship now and he loves his wife he's told me, but can't stop calling me. What do i do. I think ... (68 words

I want to talk to him about how i feel but maybe now it's too late? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 394 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - hi, i was going out with a guy for 3 and a half years and we have just broken up. i feel really confused. we got on great together, he is my best friend and i really wanted to make things work. however, what went wrong was that he didnt seem interested in having sex with me. ... (252 words

I like him a lot, but he has a gf! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - This guy I met on the internet I really like and we are trying a long distance relationship but I added him as a friend to facebook and I saw that he was in a relationship with some other girl. We have been long distance dating since September and I don't know what to do ... (105 words

I feel tired and have breast tenderness, but no period due to this pill I take. Am i pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - I just started taking a birth control pill that is supposed to give you 4 periods a year. In the first week, I had sex with my boyfriend - and yes, we did use a condom. It's 3 weeks into this birth control stuff and I'm feeling tired all the time and I have breast tenderness. ... (102 words

I told him I would stop lying! How do I make him believe me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - How do I get him back? Me and my ex boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years, and when we would break up i would tell him i would change and quit lying, but now im seriously ready to change for him, how can i make that clear to him, where he would believe me. ... (59 words

I'm male and 19 and I masturbate 2 times a day. Is this too much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

13 April 2007 (M - I'm a 19 year old boy who is single. I masturbate once or twice a day (sometimes I don't) but is that too much especially at 19?... (27 words

Gf of 5 years doesn't want sex anymore! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years, we are living together. The issue i am having is we very rarely have sex anymore, i know you can get into a rut routine but we have not had sex for 3 months (Once in nearly 6 months). If i ask her or m... (183 words

She kisses me, but she doesn' t want to have a relationship! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - my best friend is a girl and we get on really weel. we havent seen each other for about 2 weeks, so when we met last night it was amazin. we went to a party and she wanted me to walk her home when we got to her house we kissed and it felt so right. i have asked her out before ... (123 words

My gf is a virgin so if we have sex how will I tell if the hymen is broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - okay, so i read the question about how to have sex with a virgin without hurting her because my girlfriend is indeed a virgin. my question is, how can i tell when/if the seal is broken?... (38 words

He tells me it's natural that he watches porn and chats with women, online. How do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - i have been with my partner for 4years we are both23 and have a 2yr old child. recently he never sleeps with me and is constantly watching porn and chatting to women online. i do love him but its making me feel unwanted and whenever i try and talk to him about it he just laughs ... (64 words

I want 'quality'time with him but he is too busy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi i've been with my bf for nearly a year and a half, we have always got on well and he also has a 12yo son who stays with us part time. We used to spend loads of time together when his son wasn't with us but now we hardly have any time at all cause he is always busy doing ... (232 words

We split but need to get the 'house selling' issue looked after. Part of me wants to see her, but another part says it's too soon. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have posted a previous question on here which sort of explains my current situation. Basically, I have split from my partner (ex) for nearly 4 months now. We are now living far from each other, her at her parents and myself at mine. We were living together for 3 y... (324 words

Period is overdue by 6 days but pregnancy tests are negative! Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - My period was due a week ago today but I never came on. I took a pregnancy test when I was four days overdue and again when I was six days overdue although both turned out negative. Is there still a chance I could be pregnant?... (46 words

She won't work on this relationship! Has she has been pressured by her friends and family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I of three years split up 3 weeks ago after a series of petty rows. Despite my best efforts she says she no longer wants to try in our relationship. I know we both really love each other and that she is hurting just as much as I am. The frustrating thing for ... (141 words

Any tips to pleasure my man with boobs!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - what is the best way to..ahem..pleasure my boyfriend with my breasts. i'm a 30DD,,,want to know positions, tips etc. thanks (dont give me any weird links, dont trust these random sites)... (31 words

Am I being sensitive over this remark he made to me, I feel as though hes referring to my class?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - i was in the car with my b/f and truck was by us delivering this beer and i did not know the name..i said it to him that i never heard of it. He looked at me and laughed at little--it didnt look like in a mean way or anything..almost like i was being cute but i am not sure--and ... (127 words

Im dating my mums bf's son, Is this allowed ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hi i am dating my mum's bf's son. Everyone knows about it, I would just like to know if this is ok to do? please reply thankyou... (32 words

Married 6 years, together 11, he announced he no longer loves me and wants out of the marriage!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am married for 6 years now but been with my husband for 11 years, including the steady years, this past 2 months when i confronted my husband about his being always out of the house and has no time for me anymore... he suddenly burst out and told me he wanted out of ... (129 words

I really like him, but Im not comfortable taking him to my neck of the woods as we are different races!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - Hi I met a boy in london one day and since then i have grown to really like him alot. But recently things have really bothered me since i live 50mins away from him and i come from a totally different background to him. Although im mixed race and hes black, practically everyone... (171 words

Does he really like my other best friend better than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - i've been friends with this guy for 7 years now and i have always adored him,but i didnt say anything because he became one of my best friends.lately one of my other friends started liking him and when i asked him how he felt about her,he said that he could have liked her,but ... (108 words

Im just naturally thin, and no matter what I do I cant gain weight! Is there anything I can do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - hey all. i am a 16yr old 5'4 girl who wears a UK size 6 or 4 (i have been thin all my life) and am finding it extremly hard to find clothes to fit me. i eat everything so i dont understand why i am so thin. when i was younger it wasn't such a big deal but now i feel really ... (98 words

Can anyone help with this depression and this sinking feeling, its taking over!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - i still need advice,i used to be the most cheerful person youd ever meet but ive been battling depression for quite a while now,almost 5 months,it started out severe, i couldnt eat i couldt sleep couldnt concentrate i was just very negative. Its not as severe anymore i think i ... (257 words

After getting back together I dont want sex with him, I fear that this may lead to him being unfaithful!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - my bf and i have been together for 1 year and 5 months. we've been through a lot of ups and downs, but we're still holding on. i wasnt a virgin when we got together, but he was. we had sex 6 months into the relationship and at first it was good. we regularly have sex and blo... (313 words

Together 19 months and he said hes not in love with me! Is there a way to make this relationship stronger ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 19 months now and just the other day he said that he wasnt in love with me and wasnt sure about us although he still loved me we are currently still together but he is worried it will hap[pen again and it will destroy us. i love him dearly ... (74 words

I'm 15 and still a virgin, but feel as though I'm the only one!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - hey im just after alittle advice, im 15 i have always been quite popular at school and i have had many boyfriends(not to be big headed) but all my friends have rushed into bed with guys and many of them have slept with 4,5,and 6 boys. they call me strange cos im waiting to be ... (100 words

Im totally at a loss here, Am I part of his future or what ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - this is long story, but i'll try to cut it down as much as possible. i met this guy while on a placment for 2weeks, we got on straight away, i think i fell for him straight away. im now totally in love with him. we always asked how i was and if i needed any help. he treated... (516 words

Is it normal to be this obsessed with masturbating ? I do it at home, at work.. anywhere when I get the urge!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 30-35 - I know that satisfying ones self is completely natural, but I have the urge to do it almost all the time. Is that normall? The urge wil just come on suddenly for no appearant reason. I get this constant tingeling feeling in my vagina and it won't go away until I satisfy the ... (183 words

Im married with a child and one on the way! I have an attraction to another man what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 30-35 - What should I do, feelings for another man I am a married woman with one child and another one on the way. Last year at a party a ex colleague got drunk and told me of his affection for me. I admitted that I had feelings for him as well. We are both married with children, s... (111 words

I had an affair, I really regret it, Im so riddled with guilt and so scared my family will found out!!!!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 26-29 - i need help! i am a married woman and i had an affair with a married man, i just hate myself, and i dont want my husband to find out, it would ruin him, and our kids also the guy i had an affair with has two kids, i would do anything if i could take it back, but i know i cant, ... (213 words

I dont trust that he has pictures of all my friends on his phone and none of me, just so he can show off to his mates!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 26-29 - I dont trust my boyfriend. I have caught my boyfriend doing strange things such as transfering pictures of my friends off my phone on to his. his mobile is full of pictures of all the beautiful girls he knows and none of me. after a long talk he admitted that he had the photos ... (160 words

Is he just using me or is he genuinely confused!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - Is he just confused or using me?? I was seeing this guy for a short time not long ago, he initiated the relationship, all our dates, and he was really into me, and our relationship was pretty intense quite quickly but in an emotional way we didnt become physical for a w... (211 words

Im 14, still no period and Ive got pregnancy symptoms, do you think I am pregnant ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 13-15 - As I said before I'm 14 years old and I think that I may be pregnant! I knew that I would be getting my period soon but, not sure exactly what day. I lost my virginity on February 16th without a condom for the first time, that same night I started to bleed [I know it was ... (232 words

I take critisism to heart and have anger related issues, any idea how to manage this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 26-29 - If someone finds faults with my work or does not find my approach or efforts to be proper, i takes it very personally and to the heart and get angry on the person who criticized. As i don't know how to express this anger, i suppress it for a long time and wait for that person ... (110 words

I would really like to get closer to my teacher in order to impress him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 and in my last year of high school, I really like my English teacher but I'm not very good at english and we're not really especially close. I am taking English next year at college and I might get him for it, I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to get closer ... (91 words

Is this because I really what to or is it just the old 'forbidden fruit' thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F - I can't stop fanatsising about having sex without a condom! Me and my boyfriend can't do because he has an STD but it's always been the thing that turns me on the most and it's killing me! We've been together for over a year now. I'd never cheat on him though. Is it really w... (69 words

Shes says I'm too big for sex!! How can we get over this!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - hi im 18 and have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. evrythign is great but she doesnt like having sex because she says im to big wich at 12 inches im kinda going along with, is there anything i can do to help and wot can we try to make it more comfortable. thanks.... (57 words

I was going out with my friend for 4 yrs, now I fancy my other friend, but hes male! What should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 13-15 - Right, hi, i am a guy who is going out with a girl who was his best friend for 4 years. now i, like, fancy my only other best friend of 5 years (who is a guy) aswell. what should i do? should i tell him, her or what?... (49 words

Whats the most subtle way to clean up semen after we have engaged in intercourse ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hi, just a quick question...i was wondering if say you sleep with a girl on the 1st night of meeting her or after a couple of dates and we don't use a condom, what is the most suttlest way of after having sex and ejaculated in her to like clean it all up. I know that obviously ... (98 words

I cant date until im 16 and Im 14 now, there is a guy I like but hes never asked me out, could he be a little interested ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 13-15 - I'm almost 14 and theres this guy i like a lot ive liked him for almost two years and I'm not allowed to date until I'm 16 but i cant stop thinking about him he used to ask the girls he liked out all the time but he hasn't asked me is there even a slight possibility he likes me ... (60 words

Should I ask my new GF what she likes in bed, or just experiment and see what happens ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M - Is it ok to 'ask' my new g/f what she likes in bed, where she likes to be touched, get her to show where to be touched and how ? IE clitoris etc etc or should I just experiment and see what happens and how she reacts? any help welcome... (53 words

Am I justified in getting angry that my bf looks at porn on the internet ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend likes watching porn on the internet.this upsets me.Am i justified in getting angry or is he just a pervert.?... (21 words

My cousin makes me forget about my ex, I like the way he makes me feel, but I know its not right, anyone else been in this position ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - i was invovled with a guy older than me for about 2 and a half years, but recently i have started to get over him, and i thought i was falling in love with him...but everytime i meet my cousin i forget abt him ...i feel attracted to my cousin at times...he is younger than me ... (191 words

Im living with my cousin and Im falling for her, I want to make it happen how do I proceed ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a 25 year old male living with my 30 year old female cousin. I'm falling in love with her. It started as a mild attraction but she began flirting with me and one night we cuddled in bed together. I don't know how to proceed. Neither of us has confessed our atra... (107 words

Only together a year and the sex has gone downhill! I make the effort why cant he!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 26-29 - I am having sex problems with my boyfriend of 1 year. The first month we were together, sex was good, but soon after that it went downhill. Now, we have sex about once a week, and he acts like he is in a rush to get the task done. I also discovered that sometimes he masturbates ... (149 words

We broke up, and I still love him, neither of us has had sex in a while, he wants to meet for that, could it make him realise he wants me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 26-29 - Need desperate help. My ex broke up with me early last year said he was bi, and that he was confused and couldn't be in a relationship if he doesn't know what he wants or who he is. He hasn't been with anyone else, and that I know for a fact. We had arranged to meet up f... (406 words

We are thinking of trying again, but what if hes said its on hold and will get back to me if he doesnt pull ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - Why won't he call or answer my texts we have a couple of bads things going on right now and am trying so hard to make everything right but the only way for me to get in contact with him is to ring him he won't reply to my texts or anything and am to scared to ring him up just ... (208 words

How do I deal with petty behaviour from others ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 26-29 - I have noted a typical dominating and insulting behavior from some male members of my society like they ask me a question or advice considering me to be knowing better about things than they do. Later when i do give them my advice, they sort of devalue it as inappropriate ... (147 words

He doesnt want anything serious as I'm a single parent, but doesnt mind friends with benefits! but then he said maybe I will like him enough to stay around!? Im confused ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 18-21 - hi i am a single mom who has been talkin with this guy for a week now and it seems like we are connecting to me. When he found out i had a kid he doesnt want to date me cause of what his ex had done to him. He says he will be my friend with benifits but i dont want that i want ... (145 words

Im 12, but I think im gay, I like girls but not to date, am I normal ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 13-15 - I'm 12 and my problem is that I think I'm gay but i also like girls... When all the other boys at my school talk about girls, I'm not interested. I am also attracted to other boys. Is what I'm feeling normal? Is there any way I can change? I know you think it isint good to have ... (137 words

We havent had sex in 4 weeks, I live with him and feel so alone! What should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - My bf and I havent had sex in 4 weeks.I dont know why we havent,does he not want to have sex with me? We have been dating for about 7 months now. It also seems like a lot of other problems have come up. Like him flirting with other girls big time, i dont mind a little flirting ... (132 words

Im married, but I cant get this guy out of my head! Im suffering, arent crushes suppoes to feel good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have an interest in a person and can't get my mind off of him. I can't see him very often, we're both married, it's a difficult situation, but it's driving me crazy. I don't want to say anything to him...but I do think it's reciprocated. I am suffering here. Aren't ... (60 words

We still hang out even though we broke up and he has a BF, could he still like me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - I'm 16. My ex (18) (only went out for 4 days, but knew each other for over 1 1/2 years) is bi and now has a bf, but even tho we broke up 10 months ago I havnt moved on yet. His bf lives out of state, and everytime me and him hang out we act like old times. I still love him ... (91 words

Chatting on line for a while, How do I go about asking her if she wants to meet ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - ive been talking to this girl on the internet for a few weeks now. i would really like to meet her but i dont know on how about asking her, or if she wants to meet or not. how should i ask?... (42 words

She thinks were dating, were not, how do I tell her I just want to be friends!?

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13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - i just went out with a friend on a date. i wasnt sure if i liked her or not and as the date went on i didnt. i thought i made it pretty clear that i just wanted to be friends, but now she thinks we are dating. i want to let her down easy because she has had a crush on me for 4 ... (93 words

Is this relationship really too destructive to be in ?

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13 April 2007 (M age 22-25 - I have recently left my wife for the 4th time. We have been a fighting couple since we met 2 1/2 years ago. Every time we fight, she always kicks me out and as a result of that have lost 3 jobs. Everytime I have gone back. She is older than me by 10 years. Our fights are about ... (148 words

I'm 21 and dont seem to have finished puberty! My doctor just thinks im shy about my penis size, but its more than that! Can anyone help ?

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13 April 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I'm 21 and generally a happy guy. I just have a big problem that has now been getting me down for years. I seem to just not be able to finish puberty. I'm baby faced, I can't grow a beard (everyone else in my family could from a young age), I don't have much bod... (199 words

I'm used to circumcised men, so what do I do with a guy that has a foreskin!?

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13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hello I am an American woman who has become involved with a British guy, and he is uncircumcised. Since I'm from the US, it's common for a guy to be circumcised. I don't have any sort of problem with it, but I'm nervous that when it comes to oral and regular sex, I won't... (146 words

Need help to boost my confidence level to let the guy know I like him!!

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13 April 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hi, yep its me again. Looking for more advice. There is this guy, and well he doesn't know I like him and I really don't know how to tell him, I need help to boost my confidence level and say something to him, what do I do?... (48 words

His comment made me think that he's less experienced than I thought and this bothered me! How can I stop thinking this way ?

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13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - This is probably going to sound stupid but here goes... I'm an 18 year old virgin and I have been seeing an older guy for a few months now. The other night he fingered me for the first time and it was very good, but afterwards he said "Wow, I've always wanted to do that... (179 words

Did he only say I was good at it to be nice, or did he really mean it ?

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13 April 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hiya The other day I made out with this guy for the first time. It wasn't my first time making out, but it was my first time with him. Anyway when it was done he said stuff like "You've definitely done that before" and "You know how to kiss properly" but then while I was doin... (105 words

I've lined up two dates, Fri and Sat, I'm not a dishonest person, so what should I do if I like both of them!!!

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13 April 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi I've met two lovely ladies on a dating site at the same time and have a date with both one friday the other saturday, the problem is i'm very honest and don't like cheating as that is what my wife did to me. What do I do if I like both and they both like me... (57 words

How do you get over regret in life and be positve and not think about the past??

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13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - how do you get over regret in life n be positve n not think about the past??... (17 words

Shes got way more experience than me and its making me obsess about her with other guys!

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13 April 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hey I just got my first girlfriend im inexperienced compared to her she is a virgin tho, but i keep thinking of her with the other guys why is that? Other girls that i speak to there past doesnt bother me even if they've done worse then mine? is it cause i love her? Why is that ... (187 words

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