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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He says he can't reconcile "sex" with "love" because of his promiscuous past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 832 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months now, and our sex life has almost completely stopped. In the two month period, he's moved house and is about to change jobs - I put the lack of sex down to stress and tiredness. However, a few days ago he told me that because ... (139 words)

After 6 years of marriage, I think I fell out of love with my husband. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 851 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband six years, I think I fell out of love with him, I tried to leave him but he convinces me to stay, we have too many problems What should I do?... (37 words)

Is she keeping me on the back-burner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 861 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - This is driving me crazy! My ex wants to remain friends (I want more than that but will settle for now if that's the only way I can keep her in my life) but says she is either too busy to hang with me or blows me off to hang with her rebound guy. I've also asked her if she ... (105 words)

Sex, sex, sex. Sex. Sexsex. That's all he wants to talk about, and I'm SICK of it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 853 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I have a problem My boyfriend and I have been together 2 months. He seems to have a very high sex drive. We haven't had sex yet as i want to wait, but my problem is, i want to talk about things in our relationship and how much i love him and things like that. Instead, all he ... (204 words)

She says she loves me but I know there's another guy! I miss her, so how do I get her back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - well i am 15 but this girl is my life.we both told each other that we love each other she said that she feels theres too much goin on in her life and we are better as friends so she dumped me. butI know she has an "interest" in another guy. please give me help on how to get her ... (67 words)

Been through a bit of a "dry spell" and now I'm quite used to it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - am 20 and me an my boyfriend have been togeter 4 one year and when i meet him i havent had sex in two year at frist i wanted sex all the time and not i dont i think it is that i was so used to not haveing sex that now i dont want it i think he will live me if i dont fix this ... (84 words)

I was drunk and my friend's father assaulted me in the bathroom! I am sick over this..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - hi, i would really appreciate knowing what u think about my problem as it driving me insain and it's wrecking my life, i went to a party with my bf at new year at a friends house and there was a few members of her family there including her parents, we were all drunk but i was ... (238 words)

Trying to think of reasons why I'm better off without him... But not doing too well :-(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Hi i posted on the 15th about my fiance who was demanding that i marry him and move in else he would leave me, well i jsut want to say thanks to bev and the other readers who answered. I did speak to him and asked why he would suddenly ask this of me after 3 years but he was... (183 words)

Do his glances mean what I hope they mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Dearest Cupid, I really love/fancy (I think it's love at first sight. I've had other boyfriends but have never felt this way about anyone.) This guy who used to go to my school, though left last year because he is a year older. But the thing is he works in a shop near where ... (357 words)

He's such a bully, but I don't know if I should tell on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Dear Readers, I am unsure if this is a problem or not. There is this boy who i would call a bully and last year he bullied me quite bad but i never told anyone, well he has started making little remarks and calling me names occasionally but it gets to me, also when i was in a ... (145 words)

I can't tell if he really likes me, or this is just how he is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 854 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Well... there is this guy i have been on my course with for nearly two years now. we have been realy good friends up to now, but i have started to notice him constantly staring at me and trying to catch my attention, smiling, poking me and the general banter. but he is always ... (146 words)

My husband and girlfriend are extremely close. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - My girlfriend spends a lot of time on the phone with my husband and at my house with my husband when I'm not home. I know they discuss her bad marriage and sex. I told both of them I'm upset and want it to stop. Now they're upset with me and think I'm being crazy. Is it ... (74 words)

She says I don't satisfy her sexually and now she doesn't love me either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - My wife has recently told me that should doesn't love me like I love her. She loves me but is not in love with me. She says it's not fair to me or her to stay together. She won't give me any clues as to what might be the problem. We have been married 16 years and have 3 ... (260 words)

We don't want to have sex, but I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Me and my bf are both Christians and we've been going out for almost a year, and have been celibate with each other because we've had bad sexual experiences in our past experiences and we don't feel ready for that sort of thing, so it's not an option but I can't say I ahven't ... (262 words)

My breasts are massive and I'm only 12! HELP!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I hate my body I am 12 year old girl and my breasts have been growing in size for nearly 2 years now and they are massive Iam now a 38dd and they are growing bigger by the week is it normal for a girl my age to have such large breasts or is there something wrong with me I am e... (95 words)

I want to tell him I like him when I see him, but how am I to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Hi there I am in a dilemma, over a boy (shock horror) I have been friends with him for about 8 years, not mega close- but catch up occasionally, I saw him a couple of years ago before he was to go to Australia with his girlfriend and he asked me drunkenly why I hadn’t contacte... (209 words)

His cancelled wedding is on his mind and now my BF can't get his ex out of his head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 5 months, going really well. He told me he was engaged to his last girlfriend, together 7 yrs and he loved her. They broke up because she cheated on him and ended it. Then not long after, he and I got together. He saw her recently and... (249 words)

My ex raped me and I blame it all on myself. HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - my ex bf of 5 yrs raped me infront of my children, he has been charged by police and i am due to appear in court soonish. he was violent towards me during the relationship, which he has also been charged for. The problem i have apart from the above are, i still think it was my ... (101 words)

My girlfriends 8 year old daughter isn't very happy with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - Hi iv recently begun a relationship with a woman who has an 8 year old daughter...the daughter is not happy about this as she has had her mothers attention for the last 6 years with no other interferance from any one else...conciquently she (the daughter)comes between us all ... (97 words)

Her guy friends have molded her thinking, how can I change that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 860 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - My wife and I are remarried in oure forties. she was married over 15 years, has has lots of guy friends growing up. these guys have molded her thinking in such a way that its driving me crazy. I am a guy who can see beauty in all races, I dont lock in on blondes or brunettes, ... (256 words)

My husband and his friend are inseperable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - how do i tell my husband that he spends too much time with a male friend and this friend is always here as soon as my husband opens his eyes until he walks back in the door again. they also work together. i would be grateful if you could tell me how to approach the subject to ... (75 words)

I'm feeling so down, how can I bring that up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F)

- I've been told that exercise brings your mood up but I feel so low at the moment, I can barely get out of bed, never mind do exercise!!! I really want some help, as my relationships are suffering due to my moods. Please help.... (44 words)

I really like this girl at work and I'm also a girl!! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F)

- Ok there's this girl I work with and she has a boyfriend. She is absolutely gorgeous and I really like her, trouble is im a girl too. I don't know if she knows I like her like that but she seems to be very friendly and when we talk to one another we have this connection and eye ... (141 words)

Met up with my ex-husband who I still want back... And couldn't stop crying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Hi I split up with my ex husband who had chased me for 6 years when I finally agreed to marry him, only after 6 months! We have had no contact for 4 years and he suddenly text me last week. We saw each other for lunch and he has suggested meeting up again. I cant figure o... (95 words)

I feel resentment because my wife sees sex as a "chore" and shows no enthusiasm! Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I'm wondering about womens attitudes towards sex. I know everybody is different but allow me to explain. I work rotating. This week I'm working nights, 11 pm - 7am. This doesn't leave us much time for sex. We also have two teenagers runing around the house !! I want... (502 words)

Not a word of a lie: my sex life has been the nearest thing possible to necrophilia with both parties still breathing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I have been married for more years than I care to remember or let you know but, as far as sex is concerned, I am afraid of my wife. Even as far back as our honeymoon, we would only have sex 2/3 times a week and never in the 11 days a month she used to say she was on a period ... (315 words)

She claims never to have "flicked the bean"... Is this normal!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I have a question that I'm appealing to the women to help me with. My wife of 20 years, claims she has never masturbated. Not once in her life. Is this on the extreme end of normal/common? I have a hard time imagining that. I'm not saying it's good or bad or questioning if ... (70 words)

How can I stop boys thinking I'm easy ('cos I ain't)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I am 16. I was going with my bf for over 4 months. A little while ago, when we were out, I let him deflower me. After that, we had sex on every date. Apart from the first and second times, I made sure that he was wearing a condom so I am not pregnant. We have now split up and ... (109 words)

Things seemed "back on track" but then she went from loving me to hating me in under 24hrs... (editor: long but worth it!)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 31. We currently live 2 hours apart but see each other 3 days a week. I love my girlfriend so much but we are always arguing over silly things. It’s mostly because she isn’t very good at compromise and I can be stubborn. However, last Friday... (1602 words)

I divorced him, but now he's announced his engagement I am devastated!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 839 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - We were married for 22yrs, a turbulent marriage, but loved each deeply, 3 grown up children now, my ex was a heavy drinker and an angry man. After a few break ups my ex always begged for another chance. In the last 3 yrs i've had cancer twice (now recovered)he looked after me ... (153 words)

He's taking his time to propose - should I ask him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I want to know if I should propose to my current partner. We have been together for just over a year and get on so good. We have talked about marriage and kids and have decided we want both but he's taking his time to propose. He tells me he loves me and would marry me all the ... (66 words)

How do I tell him I'm ready to take the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my b/f now for 6 months and all has been going very well. I am ready for the next step in our relationship of moving in together but I am not sure how he feels about this, I don't want to be rushing into things. I am not sure whether to initiate the con... (99 words)

She wants a break because her butterflies went away, but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 862 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - Hi I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend Sarah for 21.5 months now. And we have been going through a bit of a hard time in the last few days. It was triggered by something that i don't want to post, but that is just what made us think about this problem. I am in love ... (562 words)

What IS love, anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - How do you know it's real love and not just the love of having a warm body next to you or a love from being touched or kissed? How can you tell the difference and not fall for the wrong love?... (41 words)

Did he cheat again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - My boyfriend I know liked his best friend for 3 years and all the time stayed at her house. He started ditching me and staying the night with her and getting late phone calls from her. His eyes are constantly roaming and he seems to only want oral sex and doesnt appreciate my ... (109 words)

Feels like we need some time away from each other. How can I get a break without breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 862 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been going out for nine months and...I still feel a little distrustful of him though because I had a past abusive relationship and I am still not comfortable with him and I find that I get more distant from him even though I've seen him every day ... (289 words)

What can I say to the girl I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I love this girl that I want to talk to but I don't know how to approach her or what to say.... (22 words)

I don't like his jokes, and he doesn't like my assumptions. How can we clear things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Hello. I'm 17 and I like this guy who is 19. We both like each other, but lately we've been having problems and a lot of arguments. I just found out what our problem was. He was making a lot asshole-y jokes because I was assuming about him too much. Reason I assume is because ... (150 words)

I'm under 30, retired and so bored with life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (M)

- Dear Cupid (and his little Cupid and Cupette helpers), I am b-o-r-e-d. Each day I try to do something exciting, something amazing, something cool... But at heart I am really, seriously, 100% A1++ bored. I am most content lazing on a sofa, listening to music. Some back... (144 words)

Can I trust her if her job requires her to flirt with men!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - i met this woman who works in a club, we hit it off, and we've even had a lunch date. she calls me often, and she shows all the signs of atrraction. but can she be trusted if her job requires her to flirt with men? what do i do?... (50 words)

I'm thinking of running away...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I am 13 and I am thinking about running away with 700 dollars and buying a plane ticket to where my family besides my mom dad and sister and staying there without my parents' permission. Can you help me?... (39 words)

I know I can't have her, but I wish I could stop thinking about her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 860 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I need help. I'm in love with a girl. She is she my sister's best friend and she has a boyfriend. I know she likes me I think and I know I can't be with her because as I said she's my sister's friend and not forgething the boyfriend, but I can't get her out of my mind. ... (111 words)

So shy I run out of things to say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I'm shy around my boyfriend. How do I just act like myself without having to run out of things to talk about?... (22 words)

Is this age-gap relationship normal? Or freaky?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 846 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - Is this a normal situation to be in for a 19 year old? I'm 19 years old and I am seeing an older guy who is 41... I know this can't go anywhere because of the age gap being so large(right?) but I dont know what to do I feel trapped. It depresses me to be in this situation i... (203 words)