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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Am I developing too slow because I ejaculate different to my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - Hello, I am a 14 year old male. All of my friends have developed faster than me and that is alright but what I'm confused about is when I ejaculate it just kind of drips out it doesn't shoot like theirs. Am I just not ready yet or is there something wrong?... (52 words)

Gave this boy the impression that I'm 'loose' but I'm not! Should I talk to him about this before party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F)

- hay guys, okay, this is a wee bit mixed up! Ive been chattin with my male mates big brother over msn and txting. It's got really flirty and pretty sexy over msn. The thing is, I think I've given him the wrong impression - like im quite "loose", but im really not. I'm not ... (102 words)

Why does he need porn when he has me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I have just found out that my boyfriend looks at porn. We have been together for about 9 months. He went to work abroad and I've been out to see him twice now. On my last visit I was using his laptop and found the link in his drop down menu. I did ask him if he had been on ... (229 words)

My folks won't hear his name spoken, but I want to be with him. How do I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I speak every day and we are not allowed to see each other, so we don't. He is 21 and I am almost 18. He has a perminant job and I'm almost finished at business college. Our past relationship didn't work coz I was young and he wanted to live his life, but he i... (245 words)

Have I lost my virginity? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were missing around and were going to have sex without a comdom, but my bf couldn't get it all the way up and he wasn't there for long. Does this make me not a virgin and could I have got pregnant from what we did?... (49 words)

As a Nice Guy, am I destined to finish last with women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

7 June 2006 (M) - Thanks to all the ladies who posted to my last question but even though their advice was sound I have another question. Why is it that nice guys finish last? I mean all I've ever done is treat women with nothing but respect and I treat them like a queen but I seem to ... (125 words)

Should I ask for her number, and if I do, what do I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 702 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!). I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dream about her a few times per week and... (287 words)

How do I get over this empty spot in my life whilst she has her "space"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - Okay... Me and my girlfriend are both sixteen years old and have been going out for 15 months. Recently she told me that she sometimes saw us "more as friends than a couple", which I got really upset about and ended up crying in front of her, cas I got the impression she w... (533 words)

My BF of two years just confided that he's actually married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years now and we have plans of getting married. One day he told me he has a secret to tell me. He said he is married back home and is planning to divorce. He also said he is crazy about me and would not like to lose ... (76 words)

Want some help making our conversations less one-sided!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - I am really starting to like this girl and I do talk to her quite a lot, but the thing is it is always me that has to bring something up to talk about. How can I get this girl I like to be more open with me?... (48 words)

Perfect relationship but found out my gf was planning on meeting up with her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - My girlfriend and i have a really close rel'ship. i.e we tell eachother like everything, well at least i thought we did. everythings been so perfect but today i was bored on the comp and looked at her inbox and found messages from her ex, asking how she was etc and that her ex ... (123 words)

No help with the kids, he drinks and smokes and he's moody... No wonder I don't feel like sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I have 2 children ages 2 and 8. Why can't a man understand that the sex is not going to be the same after having children? I have had the long sulks, constant aruguments yet not much help with the kids, which would be a great help. But I am usually tired at the end of the day ... (142 words)

My friend is too scared of his abuser to get help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I really need your help. My male friend has told me he is being abused. His abuser beats him badly. No one knows apart from me. He says that if he tells anyone, his abuser will kill him. He is so scared and I wanna help him but don't know how and I don't live near him. I'v... (78 words)

When we went out, I wasn't all that interested, but now I am and she's not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (M)

- I'm 16 and I have only had a couple of relationships, reason being I am generally busy most of the time. I went out with a girl a couple of years ago and it didn't last long and we didn't really know each other all that well. Only now the tables have changed and it's me who l... (239 words)

Should I have gotten back to my ex when she rang me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - Hey guys, status update, here's my last couple of questions for a quick background: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-got-bitchy-by-text-when-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-spoken-to-her-in-2-weeks.html Update: It hasn't been quite 3 weeks yet... (193 words)

How do I get back in touch with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - i was having a casual relationship with a bloke it went on for a few months and then i ended it, a few months later we started texting each other again and then suddenly he stopped he didnt reply to any of my messages and i still dont know why. the problem is i was really into ... (156 words)

I need tips on flirting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - i cant flirt, when meet someone i always go the wrong way about it, can someone give me some flirting tips please?... (22 words)

My boyfriend keeps ignoring me, what is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - my boyfriend keeps ignoring me, what is wrong with me?? ... (14 words)

My best mate is dating my ex but I still like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - my best friend is going out with my ex but i still have a connection with him, what should i do?... (21 words)

I want this to work with my online guy, but is he too obsessed with his Ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I've met a really lovely man from an internet dating site, Ive met him 5 times and it is early days but he always texts me, rings me and meets me reguarly. Not only that but I really fancy him a lot - almost too good to be true!! I've met several men on the internet dating o... (233 words)

I have been dreaming about cheating on my man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Recently I've been having some weird dreams. I had a dream that I had slept with another person behind my boyfriends back! I know I have no control over what I dream of, but I'm still a bit bothered by this. Why on earth would I have a dream like this when I'm perfectly happy ... (58 words)

I know I am being immature, but I want him to come back....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - Need some quick advice and serious blunt answers, and opinions, I've written before about this, and I read what someone just wrote and it made me realise something, I'm being stupid. my ex and I recently split and I'm finding it very hard to move on, and to cope, and I have... (245 words)

I need a mole removed on my back but I don't know how to go about it...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - can i have more answers plz. i have a finger tip size mole on my back and i am so self conscience about it. im 16. what age do you have to be to get it removed? also i dont wanna ask my mum if i can get it removed cos its embaressing, i dont wanna say "can i get my mole ... (71 words)

He's shy-I'm sorta shy. How do we open up more to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Help me before i totally blow this! Im seeing this guy just now. Its not really serious or anything, we have kissed. I really like him and we have soo much in common but im afraid that he thinks im not into him. Thing is he's cool when its just us but when his friends are there ... (99 words)

he was so in to me..then he went cold, suddenly. Was it really our age gap or something else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - First off I will tell you that there is an age gap between me and my man, I am 34 and he is 20. We met last August and to be honest when we first met I didn’t know his age and he certainly didn’t look 20! He thought I was a lot younger too! But by the second date we both knew ... (917 words)

I' m too big of a flirt! I dont know how to stop..please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - im too big of a flirt!! and i dont know how to stop! i love my bf soo much! but, i tend to flirt with all of my guy friends, almost too much! my bf notises it, and hes getting really pissed at me for it! i always tell him that i dont like any of these guys, and i dont kn... (165 words)

How do I approach him with looking desperate or scaring him off? Any advice appreciated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I am a catholic girl and really like a guy who attends the church I go to. I know he likes me, but it is so hard to try and really get to know him properly. I beleive that the man should make the first move, I would never like to approach him, I am quite shy and he is too. ... (110 words)

he left his family for me...but he insists on paying all their bills! The strain is taking it's toll on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - After a 2 and a half year affair, my partner has just left his wife to be with me. However, he insists on paying for all of the bills still in his former house as well as the mortgage and future CSA payments once that's been calculated. He's a good Dad and says he doesn... (481 words)

Did I orgasm...I can't tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - ok i think i got an orgasm but....im not sure! i mean when i stood up..down there was all numb and tingly for a while, and it sorta felt wet but i read about it.....and my heartrate didn't go up, and my breath didn't get heavier, but i did feel very happy and sleepy! s... (92 words)

I don't trust him after I found all the sexual stuff he's been viewing.....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Just after some advice. I have been with my partner for just under a year. Recently I found him on a sex contacts website advertising for no strings attached fun - he had put that he could travel but couldn't accommodate (we live together) and that he always practised safe sex. ... (333 words)

Why is my skin so oily????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I am a 28 year old. In the last few months my complexion has not been as it should be. I've always had oliy skin, and the odd spot here and there!! Recently my skin has got worse. I do wear a very light foundation on my face daily, I use oil free products. I always clean ... (152 words)

She doesn't feel the same as I do about her....what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - i'm a 23 years old male i fell in love with my best friend,i told her about it and she didnt feel the same way with me,i love her so much,what should i do?... (34 words)

I want to marry him, but there's a big age gap and I don't know what people would think!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

7 June 2006 (F)

- hello im 19 and i am with a 40 year old ive been with him 11 months his my best friend as well as boyfriend. now i know you all find the 21 year age gap disgusting, but am i right to think as long as im happy and he treats me right sod what anyone else thinks? resently he keeps ... (126 words)

My girlfriend thinks sexual acts are disgusting....what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - Well, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months already. Everything is going good. We are both, just graduated from high school. She likes me a lot, and I like her a lot. The thing is, that she thinks oral sex, sex, or even sexual foreplay is "disgusting" or ... (240 words)

My boyfriend wants oral, this is new for me...I need advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - hi my boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job, i've never done this bfore and i'm really nervous has anyone got any tips???... (25 words)

We have been together for 4 years, I want a baby he doesnt, he doesnt want to move in, am I wasting my time ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - hi i am going out with my boyfriend 4 years i have a child from another relationship i would love a baby with my boyfriend but he doesnt want 1. i have my own house and he doesnt want to move in i am 31 and he is 33 am i waisting my time with him he relys very much on his ... (63 words)

How can I let her know that I Love her!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - hi all just need to now wat a guy has to do to make a girl relize that i love her... (21 words)

I really like him, but how do i get him to notice me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Hi I have a quick problem I hope you can help me with I really like this guy but I just can't get him to notice me, I talk to him and stuff and we've been out in the same places but I just can't get him to notice me in that way, I know hes not gay but he just seems oblivious to ... (65 words)

I cant seem to deal with pain of breaking up, I see my Ex all around and its killing me please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - I saw my ex in town last night in the passenger seat of her new b/f's car. I thought I had got over it, but it sent a searing pain through my body to see her with someone else. I'm having real difficulty coping even though its been ages since we were an item and I convinced ... (117 words)

I keep sending him emails and texts after our break up, I want him to feel the pain I do, how else can I deal with the pain ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - Is this the month for being DUMPED, well at least I dont feel alone- lol My ex dumped me a few weeks ago, over email, and I dont have the courage to chat to him, Im afraid of what I'll say. and I dont wanna hear his voice ever, ever again, I'm pretty intouch with my feelings... (202 words)

Revenge the best medicine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I got dumped, and now I want revenge, problem is he is in another part of town and I cant go and flaunt my stuff, I want him to hurt real bad and I want him to feel guilty for hurting me. I wish he could come back and say he wants me so I can play around with his feelings at ... (70 words)

My parents won't let me live with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I live in South Africa and am currently studying. I turn 18 next month and i want to know what age i am legally aloud to leave home and live with my boyfriend? my parents say i cant live with a guy until im married or 21! please help, i want out of my parents house in November ... (79 words)

She barely spends time with her son....should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - i have a freind who has a son the same age as my child both six. for as long as i can remember she spends little time with her son, she has never worked and is not with the father of her child. but she has got worse in fobbing him off.when they was off school last week she took ... (162 words)

I think im in love, im only 13, we used to hang out all the time, now hes asked someone else out, why would he do this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Hi im 13 and there is this guy that i am in love with.and well i told him that i like him a few months ago, and he said that he liked me too,and when we hung out together he would flirt with me..a lot,and he would take my cellphone and run behind a building or somthing and make ... (194 words)

9 years together but not serious, is he seeing somone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 9 years. I keep asking when are we going to make it serious. He gives me excuses. It has made me constantly accuse him of being with someone else, to the point of him telling me to leave him alone. Please help me. I really do love ... (66 words)

She continously cheats on me, but I love her, I want to be with her, what can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - In a relationship for one a half years and i have been cheated upon 8 times what do i do? I am in a realtionship with a girl of the same age. We have been together for 1 and a half years and i have got cheated almost 8 times with different girls each time.And these Girls are ... (361 words)

All I want to do is make someone happy - how do I get a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (M) - I'm having trouble getting a relationship. At school i was always a bit unpopular with women. I'm 20 in November yet I've had one 10 month relationship. It seems that every girl i like, even if they like me back, seems to change their mind and decide they dont want a ... (155 words)

Questions of a 21 year old virgin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 707 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - i am 21 and still a virgin and i think it is because i dont know about sex. So i have some questions. What is anal sex? What are different positions? What is oral sex? What is role playing? Thanks for the help. ... (44 words)

Lost my virginity now or wait until marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 701 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Hi. I'm in a 3 month relationship with my boyfriend. I'm a virgin, and he's not. We've talked about his past and he's had a few sexual encounters. It made me feel really uneasy after learning this, but i've come to understand and respect his past decisions and have moved ... (189 words)

My boyfriend flirts with other girls when I'm right there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 707 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - Hi my boyfriend keeps flirting with other girls around me what do i do?... (14 words)

Wait for boyfriend in prison or move onto a younger man...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - ok so here goes... I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months.. he is 20 and i am 17 we live together and get on pretty well most of the time..he has been violent towards me in the past which made me quite insecure. Hes recently been remanded in custody until the 20th... (131 words)