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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My friend has has developed a bad self-image because of her BF - how do I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Hi, my best friend has a two year relationship with such a jerk, but she puts up with it. Recently she's been depressed and has gotten a bad body image and suddenly stopped eating food we normally love together because she found out her boyfriend had pictures of some old ... (203 words)

I like this girl but am I coming on too strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Hey, just a quick question. I'm 18, met a girl (17) we have been talking on the phone for hours. She really likes me! I love her (only puppy love) lol. But, I do text her and call her far to much. All was great then tonite I called her but she didn't answer. I called her ... (90 words)

Amend things with my ex from 4 years ago or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - I was in a relationship 4 yrs ago which ended very badly and with neither of us talking or having any contact with each other since. I had put it all behind me and moved on and am in a new relationship which i am very happy with. I recently found out that a friend of mine has... (160 words)

Are we growing apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 685 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - We're growing apart........pls help!!!! My bf and i have been together for about 4 months. but since summer started we've only been able to see each other once, and we've really only talked on the phone for a whole 2 or 3 times!! Sure, I talk to him almost every day but it... (198 words)

10 years of living with a man who has taken everything from me - friends, job etc - how do I get rid of him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (F)

- I have been living with a selfish, insecure, opinionated, big mouthed, controlling man for the past 10 years and i want to end this relationship. We are living in my house from a former divorce, but he pays the mortgage(interest only). in fact he pays for everything as I'm not ... (149 words)

We met online, he seemed wonderful and moved in... Now I'm not so sure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I thought I was in love... I met a wonderful man with great qualities on line. He flew in from out of state to visit and we hit it off. He got along great with my children as well. I met him 1 1/2 years after my divorce. When he flew back home we both couldn't wait to... (400 words)

Will I ever be able to trust people again or is this something I need professional help with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M)

- I not sure about these sites but this is a last resort as my problem is something I can't even aquaint in my parents. I have trust issues. I find it difficult trusting people because of a long line of betrayal. Some worst than others. I found out one time my friends had a pa... (246 words)

I'm a social butterfly and he's a recluse... How can I get him to make an effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Help! My fiance is getting way too boring! We have a pretty good relationship, with some quirks here and there (like everyone does). We both love eachother and we have a healthy ratio between together-time and alone-time. This is the problem: I can't seem to get him interest... (160 words)

Should I let him go... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - My Boyfriend is trying to talk me into letting him go into the milatary. I am a person who always needs physical effection and the compfort of always having that special someone here for me. I know I really should let him go becasue this could be his only way of having any type ... (100 words)

How do I build confidence... And what *is* confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M)

- I sent a question in today and one of the repliers said that I need to build my self confidence in order to not being bullied and look at my good qualities. How do I build up my self confidence and what are examples of good qualities. Is it stuff like good at maths or football, ... (64 words)

BF is a great swimmer. I'm not and I look awful in a swimming cossie!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend wants to go swimming but I don't want to make a fool of myself. Not only do I look horid in my cossie but I'm also really bad at swimming ... however he is really good at swimming. ... (40 words)

I am happily married but I can't stop thinking about the lawn care man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I have been married for 18 years to truly wonderful man, and soulmate. Last fall, I traveled to another state for unpleasant family business, and met "Mark", the neighborhood lawn care guy, who offered to help in anyway. And he was a big help with things that I couldn't ... (440 words)

She was the perfect girl but we weren't compatible in bed... What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Hi. I met a wonderful girl. She is perfect! We both dated a few times and when we are not together we miss each other. We both told each other how much we both love being with each other and that we are perfect together! Sorry - but it's true!! Then we went to bed and it ... (175 words)

How do I get confidence around girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - i am a teenage boy (15 yrs of age) i would like to know how i could build up my self confidence around girls as i get really shy and my face turns red. the other thing is that at school all the girls say im ugly and i would like to know why they say that to me ???? pleasse post ... (69 words)

Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then why has it been miserable for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (M)

- Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then I must be in for a miserable life. I go to hgh school in the UK (i'm 18 and now at the schools sixth form which is like college) and I was bullied really badly. This one guy from when I was 11 to 16 would ma... (164 words)

Am I in love with my teacher? Help me understand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 685 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - am i in love with my teacher i am 16 and she is 22 we tlk more than her and other pupils and when she come to the skool i was there to comfort her as she was bullied n i hugged her and made her feel better we definetly have a different relationship to her and other pupils b... (85 words)

When am I supposed to hug him and hold his hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F)

- how do i know like ... when im supposed to hug him and hold his hand . i never know when its suitable and when he wants me to .?... (30 words)

I'm in love with him too, but i'm too scared to tell him! What are the signs he might feel the same way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F)

- Hello, i'm just wondering...what are the signs that a guy is in love with you but is too scared to tell you? Like a guy friend? Do hints mean anything at all..? Are there certain things he might do? Is being jealous of you with other guys normal behaviour? I'm in love with him... (64 words)

I need more confidence as I can't talk properly around girls. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - i know this is going to sound weird, but how do i put my confidence up as i get shy around girls and the girls in school say im ugly n etc. is this because i do not have good self confidence or is it they like me but they do not want to let me know. plzz help me on this any ... (85 words)

I lied about going to work, was too scared to tell her, now she knows!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Hi everyone iv got a big issue, i lied to my girlfriend about going to work in the mornings when i actually lost my job, i was instead at home looking for another job, when she asked hows ur day i had to lie to her, then i just couldnt do it she kinda knew i think and said if ... (115 words)

Married for 8 years to a man I love as a "friend".. now I find that my first true love has divorced and is asking after me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I have been married for 8 years now. I love my husband in the way you would love a very deer fried, but we have two children so I have tried to stick it out. But lately I have been thinking alot about my ex who was and still is my true love. I have found out in the last few ... (93 words)

He persued me for 1.5 years now we hooked up for 4 weeks he's already gotten cold feet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 685 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 weeks. We,ve known each other for about 1yr 1/2, everytime we saw each other he'd ask to take me out, but because he is 2 years younger than me i put off the idea. Eventually i agreed, and we had the best date ever! We get on really ... (231 words)

How do I get over my baby's father, who left us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I was with my bfriend for 2 years and we had a baby, when my baby was 4 months old he got up and left. We have been seperated for 6 months now but obviously i still have to see him and it still hurts so much, he has a girlfriend who he lives with and i hate it. I miss him so ... (124 words)

Everlasting love... ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I have seen a lot of my friends and family marry only to all split up or separate in less than 5 years. What is wrong with us? Why are we not trying to work hard at a relationship especially when there are children involved.In my parents day they married till death do us ... (133 words)

My mom's a business hotshot... So how do I get close to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - This is going to sound amazing pathetic coming from a guy but here it goes. How do I get closer to my emotionally distant mom? Shes a big time CEO and shes never really been there for me. I've lost count to how many birthays, anniversarys, and weddings shes missed. Shes even ... (160 words)

Growing my hair to feel attractive

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 685 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Hey guys I have a yet another problem i would like to have long hair because at the moment ny hair is short to medium length I loike to have long hair as it will help me feel attr45active guys please give me some ideas thanks guys... (55 words)

I think girls assume I am 'taken'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Good day Ladies, and gents. Need some advice, and I know this has been asked, but from a lady, and at the risk of sounding naive, and vain, I need some help. I am 22, single, self employed, hard working and I'm financially stable. I'm pretty confident around the peop... (338 words)

Feeling very unhappy at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Hi All Sorry for the long and random post....... I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. I'm feeling really confused and guilty about the doubts I've suddenly had about our relationship. We are very much in love and he is the most caring, loving, ... (475 words)

I'm 40, my marriage is a failure and I actually hate my husband..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 685 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I'm 40. My marriage is a failure. I am unable to enjoy sex with my husband. He just wont hear of a divorce. He wants me to change to his ways. I have been trying to make him happy for the past 15 long years but now I feel fed up with him and with life too. If it wasn't for my ... (127 words)

I have a high school sweetheart but I have feelings for a boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfreind for almost 4 years now. We are high school sweethearts. I am going to be a sophomore in college now and he is going to be a junior at different schools that are an hour away. We both love each other very much. But there is just one problem. I ... (163 words)

My boyfriend has made my life a misery... I need to leave him but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - I love my boyfriend and we have been togethr a little over two years now, but I have to leave him. He loves me and is not bad to me in any direct way. He just makes me unhappy. When we first started seeing each other, I had a good social life. Whereas I was prepared to ... (424 words)

My girlfriend of 4 years hates herself so much it's killing our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend for 4yrs we met when she was 18 and we have had no problems. we were planning on getting a house and having a wedding in the next year. she had an pregnacy scare, and didn't tell me about it, freaked out and told me she needed time alone. i gave her ... (267 words)

I've let my insecurities ruin a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I did something really stupid. I had the perfect relationship with a guy i was completely in love with, but i fucked it up because of my insecurities within the relationship. He text me with 'just to say i love you' and i replied with 'i wish i could believe you', starting a ... (316 words)

Is my 30 year old wife too old for this "playful frolicking" with her dad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Ok my wife is 30 yrs old and still sits on her dads lap and they cuddle and she gives him a kiss. Hell she still calls him daddy! Isn't she too old for this? Shouldn't all of this stop by the time shes like 10. It isn't sexual or anything, I just feel its childish. Am I r... (69 words)

The bastard dumped me and I want him to feel my hurt too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - dear Agony aunts. I was dumped last month still have feelings of anger towards my ex, and I'm feeling angry because of lies and false promises. I really want him to feel bad, I know he felt bad when we broke up- shame, that doesn't help because I was lied to for 3years, but ... (232 words)

It was a mistake to tell her ex that she was my girlfriend, and now she's mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, we have broken up because my girlfriend has got annoyed because I have told the guy ex boyfriend that she is my girlfriend and the guy rung the girl and told her what I had told him. She rung me and said I had made a big mistake telling him because she never wanted ... (98 words)

What clues would suggest my husband might be gay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Are there signs that could tell me if my husband is gay?... (12 words)

I was nice and this guy never appreciated it. Now I'm interested in his friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I started talking to this guy I knew from high school, and when we were in high school ( six years ago) he was so nice to me. I mean he and I never really spoke but all I know about him was that he was nice. Now as we became familiar with each other and even became intimate... (171 words)

I love him and can forgive him even though he dumped me...should I ask him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 690 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I'm 20 and my b/f dumped me about two months ago and I havent spoke to him at all since but he's emailed me saying he misses talking. I havent got over it all because it was so stressful. I want him back but I don't want to embarrass myself if he says no because when he broke ... (78 words)

I'm married but I'm considering this other guy may make a good, potential f**kbuddy..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 684 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I thought this 28yrs old guy at work was very attractive and i knew he was in a serious relationship for the last 3 years. I am 35 yrs and married for 16 years and have 3 kids. We talk alot at work because what we do we need to be in contact alot. Over the last 9 months we have ... (253 words)

Why does my partner lavish so much attention on his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Hi i have been with my partner for 5 years, he has 3 children and his exwife lives locally. She has partner. My partner keeps saying he'll divorce her but that he hasn't gotten round to it. When she asks, he takes her car to get serviced, leaving our vehicle at her house (I... (141 words)

I turn him on--a lot... but he doesn't do the same for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - ok i really need help! i can turn my bf on soooo easily! i mean really easily! if he looks at me (mostly in skirts or bikini), if i hug him super closly, when he touches my boobs, when we make out, and obiously when i rub his thing...but i mean EVERYTHING!!!! turns him on ... (198 words)

I'm tiny and my BF has a 13 inch penis! Could this be damaging to me in any way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F)

- I'm really tiny, like 5'2 and I weight like 100 pounds. My boyfriends penis is 11 inches and 13 when he's hard. It scares me because I heard that if a guy is to big it can cause womb displacement and that doesn't sound good. Isn't it going to hurt even more if he's that big? ... (76 words)

Normal first period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 664 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Okay, well, I sort of have a problem. I'm not sure if i got my period or not. I was at the beach the previous Sunday and when i came back, the inside of my bikini bottom was a brownish color and im 12 so i figured I probably just got my period but then the next day it came in ... (143 words)

My BF gave me at STI orally - how can this be prevented in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I think my boyfriend gave me HSV I , orally not genital thank goodness. He gets them from time to time. I had a really bad case and couldn't even eat for a week and am still recovering. How long should i wait to kiss anyone because I really dont want another cold sore, ... (93 words)

My BF has a big donger and it hurts when we have sex! How can I ease the pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

22 June 2006 (F)

- Hello, I recently started (about a month ago) having sex with my boyfriend as I was a virgin. Everything is okay but he is 9 inches and everytime he goes in it hurts. The pain goes away after awhile but it still hurts real bad going in. Is there anything I can do to ease the ... (62 words)

My long-distance BF admitted he doesn't want to be with me but he says he loves me - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I have been with my long-distance boyfriend for over a year and after a few months I cheated on him but it was only a kiss and he knows but he always makes me feel guilty for it and hangs out with lots of girls and I think it is to get back at me. He is the first person i h... (156 words)

Very confusing relationship - what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 690 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - There's a girl that I've been seeing for about 6 weeks now that has me in the biggest state of relationship confusion I've ever experienced. We met through friends and went 0-60 in a matter of hours. This was unlike both of us (and I'm trusting that it's unlike her). We... (558 words)

I hurt my GF - what is something special I can do for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

22 June 2006 (M) - I made my girlfriend very upset. It's been over a month now and she is still very unhappy. I want to do something special to show her I love her and care about her but the problem is I don't know what to do. Please help.... (46 words)