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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

GF cheated but I just can't seem to forgive her but I really want to!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for nearly 2 years. She went to uni and we have been trying to keep things together. She cheated on me (just kissing) with someone I considered to be a threat from the day I met him. She says she instantly realised it was wrong and ran ... (140 words)

Is my BF using me so he can save money?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We have lived together for the past eight months. He quit his job shortly after he moved in with me and my roommate. This nearly doubled my monthly expenses, but I was certain he would get a new job soon. He ... (302 words)

14 years old & pregnant. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I am 14 and i know you are all probably thinking what is 14 year old doing with a sex life and I know I shouldn't be thinking of boys and sex yet, but I slept at my boyfriends house for the first time and we ended up having sex for the first time. I have done wrong and I kn... (114 words)

Was he really talking to his sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - My b/f and i were at his apartment last night. We were in his bedroom and his phone rang indicating a text message. It was almost 2 am. He goes to the other room to get his phone and said it was his sister. He stays there for a minute or two and i guess he called her. He comes ... (288 words)

I'm a virgin lesbian - when she found out, she left! Did I make a big mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - Cupid.. I am a lesbain.. my friends make fun of me.. it hurts my feelings.. I was kissing this girl and she said that she wanted to take it further so we went up to this room and i told her I was a virgin and she left. Did I make a big mistake? ... (54 words)

BF of 9 years was unfaithful but says he doesn't have feelings for this other woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I need help please. I recently found out that my boyfriend of 9 years was being unfaithful to me. He is at university and we live 300 miles apart. I discovered as I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right and looked on his mobile phone, and there was filthy text messages ... (196 words)

24 yr old virgin with very experienced guy! Afraid he'll tell everybody on a drunken night out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I am a 24 yr old virgin, and recently met a (very experienced) guy through mutual friends. I'm not embarrassed to tell him I'm a virgin, but I am embarrassed about our friends finding out. On a drunken boys' nights out, he sometimes lets slip with personal stuff and might ... (78 words)

I dated a guy at 15, then found out "he" was a "she", now im confused about my sexuality!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I got into a long-distance relationship [my first relationship] with a guy at age 15, found out that "he" was actually a "she" at age 16, and broke up with him/her at 17; about 6 months ago. Before I found out about the person's real identity, I had sexual feelings only for ... (122 words)

He refuses to compromise on his evenings out, this is causing unrest, how can I resolve this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I am a middle aged married woman with two children.We both work full time. My problem is my husbands partying in the evening.He goes out almost 3 times a week in the evening, which puts pressure on me. i have told him inumerable times to limit himself going to once a week where ... (102 words)

Shes in a relationship of 7 years, but always ends up close to me at meetings, she is always chatting and flirting with me, is she actually interested in me ? (long)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - Flirting with a taken woman? I have been in an amateur theater group for about 2 years. Last November(2005), some new members joined our group; one was a young woman, Jessica. From the first moment we saw each other, we engaged in intense, eye contact and I admit I was quit... (1034 words)

I already have 2 children, im now pregnant and not sure whether to have a termination, or will this fill me with regret!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 683 days ago

11 June 2006 (F)

- I found out a couple of days ago that i'm pregnant. I'm 20 years old have 2 kids aged 1 and 3 and my teenage sister is living with me. So i already have a lot to deal with and am thinking about an abortion. However when ever i see a new born baby i want to cry. I know i ... (170 words)

How do I get to know him as a friend, without him thinking that I' m gay, even though I am bisexual ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - There is this guy that works in a clothing store, and whenever I walk past or run into him somewhere we always smile, and sorta become shy around eachother, and once I was at a pub with mates, and he was there with his mates, and he was always watching me, and when i'd look at ... (238 words)

What are the biggest signs that a guy likes woman ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - What are the 10 biggest signs a man likes a woman? The ones that say i'd like to get to know you more, not just to get you into bed ?... (32 words)

He spends more time with her than me, as I'm working, I dont want to ruin his friendship, but I dont want to be muscled out either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 692 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - i work 3-4 12hr shifts a wk. my guys best friend is the neighbor girl who works w/him,they ride together to work and spend an average of 1-2 hours a day after work together.im sure there is nothing going on but i still dont like the fact that they spend more time together than ... (149 words)

How do I know when I've turned my boyfriend on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - heya just wondering - how do u know when a teenage boy has an erection? do they act differently or have a different facial or body expression? do they give off any clues to having an erection? also second question me an my boyfriend have been together for 1 month an i wanna kn... (103 words)

Boyfriend called off the relationship, how do I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - my fiancess of 3yrs has just broken up with saying he doesnt want to be in a relatonshipbecause he feels he is too young (he is 21). it hurts like hell and i want him back. i recently went to a pary with some friends for a laugh and knowing that i was going and there would ... (204 words)

I'm a great guy, I'm attractive-so what am I doing wrong that women are not interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 578 days ago

11 June 2006 (M)

- What is it that women find attractive about men? People always see me as a nice guy but I have heard that women prefer someone who is strong and sensitive. I always see "bad boys" with women that I know are fairly shy and sweet. Am I just doing something wrong cos I see myself ... (62 words)

How do you get true love out of your mind??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - they say that true love means letting go of sum1 you love but i can't seem to get him out of my mind, i still love him . . . . please help me ???... (35 words)

Men; what irritates you about a women??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

11 June 2006 (F)

- Hi, im just wondering if any guys out there can help me with my problem. Im a 23 year old girl and quite recently I have been getting alot of male attention from different guys. I dont mean to sound big headed, but I am an attractive girl with a nice figure etc, etc. I know m... (182 words)

Will my personality affect my chances of a long-term relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M)

- I'm worried that my personality could affect me from having a long term relationship with a girl. I'll have to explain why. I must admit I hated high school. I was bullied for the entire 5 years I was there by the same person. He would make fun of my voice, put me down, ca... (149 words)

How do I get to be a good kisser??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M)

- Hi, I was wnadering how you can be good or average at kissing. I'm 18 and when I was with my last girlfriend we had a good time together and then at the end when I would kiss her (like a quick one on the lips) it was clumsy and she probably could have compared it to kissing a ... (85 words)

Torn between an older women and a girl my age!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - Im 26 and for over a year was seeing a 40 yr old, who was seperated from her husband. They have a 10 yr old boy. She had been in a rotten marriage and we got on really well. However deep down i felt that in the long run the age gap was too big (she agreed), so we just lived for ... (465 words)

Why does she still want to be in touch with me if he's the one??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - I like this girl and we have been friendly for about 5 months now, and the other month she told me she had a bf but she still wanted to keep in touch with me because she said she would miss me loads. I dont understand why she still wants to keep in touch with me she has kept... (122 words)

Stress is affecting my cycle. Is it still OK to continue taking my pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - Hey guys, I'm worried. I am sexually active but we always use a condom and I'm on the pill. This past month I've been extremely nervous about getting into my university of choice and stress out on other family issues. I started to spot before I was off the pill for the ... (166 words)

My wife is so upset about the porn images I've collected. Am I so wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - My wife recently discovered an archive of pornographic pictures on my computer - the directory was accidentally opened when I was logged in. Initially she said she was fine and not mad at me at all about it and asked to see the whole directory. She promised she wouldn't be ... (550 words)

He says such wonderful things to me, but he's so far away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 701 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I have met this guy 3 months ago on a chatsite and we have been chatting and phoning each other a lot since then. We both live in the same country but in different towns. We have made plans to meet, but things just went wrong all the time and we couldnt meet. He said to me ... (135 words)

Help! How do I know when girls are expressing an interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M)

- Hi, I'm confused about something. Like I can't figure out how to express my sexuality. I know I'm heterosexual cos I'm attracted to girls. Just when I'm around a girl I like I can't figure out how to communicate sexual interest in her! So I end up being the naive ... (252 words)

She's 17 and not ready for a relationship yet. I'm 21. Do I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - Hi I've been on here before and I'm still confused. I'm 21. There is a girl who is constantly on my mind who I am very much in love with. On the phone and in texts she tells me she loves me too and sends loads of kisses and stuff. For everyone to know, we are not in ... (290 words)

We argue about our friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - Well, I am in love with a very cute guy who is a student in the country I live in, which is England, so we've known each other for some time now. For the first months after we met things were very nice for us, we used to be conservative about sex coz we wa both virgins. We used ... (225 words)

Caught sending sexy texts to my 14-year-old girlfriend! Can the police really stop our love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

11 June 2006 (M) - Hi, I really really really need help. I've been kinda stupid. I'm 18 and I'm going (or was) going out with a girl who's 14. see my previous question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/broke-up-with-my-gf-of-3-yearsnow.html) Since that (well about a month later) her mum foun... (185 words)

So desperate for a boyfriend it's affecting other aspects of my life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and I'm looking for a boyfriend and it's driving me so crazy. It is putting so much stress on me and that shows in the way I treat other people. I don't know what to do cuz I tried everything.. I know it would be easy just to forget about it and be patient and bla bla ... (125 words)

If I leave to get away from his accusations, I'll break up our family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - Should I Leave My Husband And Break Up The Family Unit? When I met my husband it was a bit of a whirlwind romance, I had fallen pregnant, got engaged and bought a house within the 1st year. We married in July 2000 and should be celebrating our 6th anniversary this year. ... (502 words)

My ex won't leave me alone... I just want to get away from his threats and comments!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - I'd like to start off saying I'm not a liar, but I was in a relationship that involved a lot of lying from both me and the other person. I raised hell when I found out that he lied to me and vowed revenge, which I acheived. Not long ago though, he discovered how much I lied t... (188 words)