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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Two problems. Nothing to say and I don't get "happy drunks" - is it cos I smoke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - i always run out of things to talk about with girls and then it turns into awkward silence can u help? and i never get happy drunk why could this be i smoke alot while drinking and dont smoke normaly would this mong me out? plz reply... (53 words)

I want to call him but I'm shy so I don't know what to say! Any ideas or tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, As some of you may remember, about a month or two ago, I posted about a friend of mine (Tim*) that had been doing drugs. Well, after getting released from the hospital, he went to live with his mother in a different town and is now attending a different scho... (311 words)

Do I take the risk and leave my current bf for my ex bf, whom I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

5 April 2006 (F)

- Hi i am a 22 year old female and i have been with the same guy for 3 years. I have been living with him for the past year and a half. The trouble is I think iam still in love with my ex boyfriend. We split up 5 years ago because we were both very young however i still have ... (133 words)

Isn't there an unwritten rule that one's best friend doesn't date one's ex bf? Advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

5 April 2006 (F)

- Okay well I am 14 and I used to date this boy a few years ago and I've known him for so long and we are quite good mates. He text my best mate and she fancies him and now he fancies her back. But it's really upsetting me because she fancies loads of people and I think he ... (103 words)

He's my husband's best friend and he was our best man at our wedding. I can't stop thinking about him! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10yrs(most of it happy,some of it difficult)trouble is I have been attracted to our friend, matt (my hubbys best friend,best man at our wedding)for some years and so far all i am guilty of is a little flirting.butI'm going to a concert with matt soon ... (219 words)

I 'm in a rut..and I need to get over this guy! any good advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - about a year ago i met a guy that i really liked. we had a relationship that lasted about 5 months but he eventually ended it by text. i have never really got over him but i wish i could as it makes me feel so down, and i have even hurt myself in the past (not seriously) i also ... (111 words)

She didn't want to celebrate our (1 month) anniversary... Should I let it go or get furious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - since i have been going out with my girlfriend for a month. she didnt even want to spend the 1st month together nor get me a 1 month present. should i be mad? she says she doesnt think of the first month as anything big. she even forgot we made a month, she thought it has only ... (71 words)

We have sex and I'm in pain for days after. I think his penis is too big! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - i have a problem everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i`m in agony for days i think maybe his penis is to fat please help me ... (27 words)

Is he just paranoid or shifting the blame?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - hi i have been seeing this lad just over a month but he went to america last week, lately he has been really weird to me and i have asked him whats wrong and he just shouts at me and he is always askin me if i have cheated on him it is making me believing that is him doing the ... (69 words)

I'm not sure how to exactly cope with the break-up, I really need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - I feel as though my life is falling apart. I broke up with my bf, who i was completely and uterrly smitten with and loved very much but then he dumped me for a blond American beautitian, and lied about it. then he started playing with me, being all sweet and flirty but only ... (533 words)

I can't really tell what signal he is sending me. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 838 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - i was meant to treat a guy out cos i owe him..then he canceled on me and he didn't tell me why.. i then found out it's cos his friend couldn't make it, but usually he would still come out alone with me! (i only expected it to be just us two anyway, but he borught his friend ... (241 words)

I would love to be with her, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - please people, i could use your advice. i hav become close friends with a girl i am really starting to feel more for her, we almost went out a while ago but i didn't feel like it would work out. now i'm the one who just feels that we would be good together, but she just wen... (106 words)

She said I should write a poem....what's this for?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - Do girls around the age of 13-18 find boys who write poems attractive? Because ive been telling a girl how perfect she is, and she said to me about 3 times i should write a poem. Eh?... (40 words)

I like him, but now quite sure on how he feels about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Ok, I'm just a little confused. I really like this guy and have done for about a year. His mom is extremely ill and my mom is going in for a dangerous procedure. I don't think he thinks the same as I've never had really nice looking guys like me before. My friends keep telling ... (114 words)

I do everything for him and because we don't have sex he don't want me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Hi all,iam so distraught now.me and my boyfriend have been dating for five years on and off.the main problem was that we are in different locations.i decided to quit my high paying job to come to the same localities. the main problem we have is that he wants to do everything... (237 words)

I'm always feeling that my parnters being unfailthful, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - i suffer from ocd and it seems to get worse when i date someone i feel a compulsion to check if my partner is bein unfaithfull its just like the same feeling i get when i have to check if the door is locked etc please can anyone help me as i dont want to end up a lonley old cat ... (86 words)

I met him and he seemed interested, but he says he wasn't and throws his new relationship in my face!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Readers both males and females,this is a bit long but i really need to get it off my mind.Well I had this long distance relationship with this guy for about a year i am 28 he is 26 and he gave out all the right signals talking our relationship through etc and deciding our ... (425 words)

I just don't think that "spark" is there anymore, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - When I first met my G/F she was all over me: sweet messages, lots of loving notes, nick names, all of that. It's now three months later and although we are still together, all of that has disappeared. We communicate and see each other as much as we used to its just that I ... (82 words)

I lied about my past, but now we're not together, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - I lied to my ex even though it was in the past there was ALOT i've done with guys that i didn't tell him but we weren't together and it still bothers him because he thinks its important to know the past. He says he will never get over everything i've done but he loves me and ... (160 words)

I'm not quite sure which to do to make myself happier!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 826 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Please!!! Someone to help me!!! Should I decide to have a baby or/and buy a house to revive ten years of unhappy marriage??? Thanks!!!... (24 words)

We have two kids, we're teenagers and now he says he doesn't love me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - 2n a half yrs agao i met this boy on the net we were 16 then and 6 months later we decided to meet things were going really well we both fell in love with each other n i fell pregenant every thing was fine till 7 months ago i found out i was pregnant again n he started goin ... (253 words)

We broke up because I can't give her the luxury she wants, but she wants to stay friend! I don't think I can do that!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 832 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - Hello, Last week, my girlfriend of 10 months broke up with me. She says she still loves me but she wants to do her own thing and she says that she doesnt see a future with me because I can't give her the life she wants in terms of luxury. Surely if she loves me this shouldnt... (665 words)

He said he would take me shooting with him, is it a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Ok im just wondering what my good guy friend attention is with me. Earlier today on the bus i was talking to him in just a normal converstion. Then we got on the topic of guns and how he likes to going shooting up in the woods sometimes on the weekends. We started talking ... (240 words)

My husband is very moody and sometimes it's psycho moody, but he doesn't see it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - How do I get my moody husband to communicate with me ? I have been married for 5 years now and have 2 children ages 8(Boy) and 2(girl). I have a hard working husband who can get moody and angry quite easily. There are times he scares the children when he gets angry for no good ... (226 words)

I'm going to have sex for the first time and would like to know about contraception!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (F)

- Hi all!! I'm a 17 year old girl(from the UK), about to have sex for the first time...I was wondering what the best method of contraception is...(we haven't really been taught this at school) I want to be completely safe so want two methods ie condom and something else, ... (113 words)

I can't control my urges, especially when we're having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 824 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 34 year old guy who has a very loving young woman as a partner. She is the first partner that I have ever had. The problem is that when we make love, I have serious problems ejaculating and have never been able to do this when we have proper intercour... (141 words)

Private mails (user to user email) now live... !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (M)

- Hi everyone, You can now send private mails to other users. Couple of points to note - You can block people from contacting you again. - Please don't ask questions direct to aunts, they will get overloaded and won't respond. - This is all experimental so your feed... (100 words)

Can't stop crying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Can you help? I am 15 and i cant help it but sometimes when i am on my own i just break down and cry. i dunno why, i just do, even if i am not sad or upset and it cant be cos im tired cos i do a lot of exersise to try and make me happy and i get really good night sleeps and go ... (80 words)

Did my husband cheat or were the txts i found a joke??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - hi, I have been married for 3 years, together for 8 years. my problem is that after just one year of marriage i found texts on my husbands phone to another woman, i dont even know why i looked. He was telling her to come to his place of work so he could do naughty things t... (175 words)

Is this guy looking for another wife or just for fun??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Well i've met this married guy on a web site,we have been emailing and talking to one another for 5 weeks now.We have met up on a number of occasion,but have just gone for a few drinks,thought we was both looking for friendship to begin with,but there is a sexual attraction ... (153 words)

My friends told her i want to have sex with her as a joke but now i just want to be her friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - hi, there is this new girl in scool and i really like her and one of my friends told her that i wana have sex with her for a joke She took it seriously now i just want to be friends with her what do i do ? please help thnx... (56 words)

It's kinda complicated and we both have partners... So where am I headed with this bombshell of a chick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - What's up Cupid? Maybe you can give me a little advice with this. I met this bombshell named Claire at a party several years ago(halloween 2003). I was a junior in high school and she was a sophomore(at different schools). We were both single at the time, we talked and flirt... (1277 words)

I am haunted by my past and he doesnt seem to care. Should I stay or should I go??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - Hi all, I am an emotional woman when i am in love. But when i am not, i am fine, i am strong and steady, i am kind of boyish tho. I could do anything for him when i am in love, i care so much untill it left me in depression. Maybe i have see love on the top of everything in... (1318 words)

Scared that my former model and current suburban queen of a mother will hate my tubby, scruffy, unemployed new man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

5 April 2006 (F) - so, i met this guy this past october. since then - and, initially, despite my reluctance - we've become extremely close ("close" meaning serious marriage talk). i never thought that i was capable of loving someone so strongly: not the problem. he's 36, i'm 25: not the ... (311 words)

First she said I needed a lock on my door, then she said she won't if there are people in the house, now she needs a drink before we do it... What's her problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

5 April 2006 (M) - hello people i aint been on for some time but i'm back and needing some advice my girlfriend is really leaving me confused. I've been with her for 1 year and 7 months and still not slept together, now she has already said by 8-9 months of being together she's ready but she is ... (273 words)

I'm joining the police, my mates are going to Uni... How do meet new people in the meantime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

5 April 2006 (F)

- This isn't a problem exactly - i'm more just looking for advice:) I'm in my last year of sixth form college and in a few months will have done all my exams and left. I'm not going to uni (out of choice - i'm sick of education!) but most of my mates are in september so we will ... (257 words)