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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend was raped and doesn't want to talk about it. Can I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (M)

- A few months ago, my girlfriend went over to a friend's house to drink and party. While there he took her phone and when I called, he told me not to call her anymore and that she didn't want to talk to me anymore. The problem is, later on some of his friends came over as well.... (131 words)

I cheated ten times with a guy I don't even want a relationship with... I feel terrible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 years. Around this time last year we we're going thru a rough patch. A uni friend (mr x) at the same time had just split up from his girlfriend. One night whilst out with friends, mr x confessed to me that he had always really fancied ... (290 words)

She was drunk when she got my number and email, and when I followed up she seemed embarrassed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Basically, I think this girl likes me but I'm not sure. I'm 20 now and we've known each other since we were young, but never been particularly close friends. I hadn't seen her in a long time, but she's going travelling for 3 months and she invited me and some friends to her ... (356 words)

No sex from my husband for a whole year, and I'm sure he's not cheating... Is this possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 yrs now and we have not had sex for 1 whole yr. It's not me. I'm very sexual with the person I love but I don't know what his problem is. He just doesn't touch me anymore. I used to try but got tired of being rejected, so now I totally ... (138 words)

Have I ruined my chances with the guy at church?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, I have started to feel attracted to this boy (let's call him L) in my church youth group. He's sixteen and in the tenth grade, and I am fourteen and in the eighth grade (if that matters any...lol). The only problem is that I might have scr... (206 words)

My wife has left me, saying I scare the kids when I'm drunk! I want her to know I won't do it again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - My wife is talking about leaving me. It has happened a few times lately and last Friday was the final straw. She says that when I've had too much to drink (which I don't realise) I'm turning very nasty and scaring the kids. Please help me to convince her I'll not do it again ... (69 words)

Not into the guy I'm seeing. Is it OK to ask to just be mates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - I am pretty confused about what I want. I have recently split with my bf and my mate introduced me to one of her bf's friends. Even though I told my mate I wasn't interested and I didn't want a realtionship, she is still trying to get us together. Recently me and this guy kiss... (153 words)

Played Cupid for a boy mate and a friend, but now I'm feeling jealous of her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Well there's this lad who I'm amazing mates with. He says I make him laugh more than anyone he knows, and that I'm an ace mate, and that he gets on with me better than my other female friends whom he talks to. He asked me one day to help him find a girlfriend. I was dying to... (118 words)

My ex has changed her ways and wants me back. Do I leave my current girlfriend for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Hi, I've got a big dilemma. I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. I really thought that she was the one. The trouble is that my ex is always in my thoughts and her child, who I helped 2 bring up from baby. I was with my ex for 3 yrs. We split up because of her nagg... (212 words)

Am I missing out by not having an orgasm every time I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Hey, this sounds stupid but I want to know whether every girl gets orgasms when having sex, because I think I'm missing out! And I'm worried it's not normal... Please write back asap!x... (33 words)

How can I get back at my boyfriend, but not destroy the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - What is the best way to get back at your boyfriend for hurting you, lying to you, making you feel as though you are not important enough? But just enough for him to see what he has and take better care of it, and respect it, and the relationship, and make him like butter? ... (59 words)

I'm a guy in a relationship with a girl, but also attracted to a male friend. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - I am 20 and have a girlfriend who is 19. However, recently I've started finding a male friend of mine sexy and feel disgusted for having these feelings. I've nothing against homosexuals but I feel disgusted with myself and can't understand why. Matt... (50 words)

Our group of friends keeps connecting and disconnecting romantically, and it's affecting our friendships!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - I hang round in a large gang of girls and boys ranging from ages 14-17. I understand that with teenagers and all the ranging hormones it is very hard for girls and boys to be just friends and if any do get together then it breaks up friendships and the gangs drift apart. The fo... (599 words)

Our marriage is in a heap and we don't know whether to take a break, divorce or what!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Hi there, My husband always wanted to get married, then we eloped to get married, but he showed no interest on the day. I felt all alone, had lots of arguments while there and he was acting really cold and unsupportive. When I returned home he rushed to tell everyone, but we... (128 words)

Took my girl for granted, said some things I shouldn't have... Now she's left and I can't imagine my life without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - My gf just broke up with me last Sunday, after 3 years. She just told me she wanted a break to see what else was out there and see if I was the one. But I don't know what to do. I haven't heard from her since Monday. I don't know what to do. I love her with all my heart an... (245 words)

I was a "rebound" and got dumped. If he comes back to me again, should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - It seems I was a "rebound victim" awhile back. The ex returned and I was dumped, but he never lost contact with me. Maybe he wasn't confident in the decision he made? Anyway, now the ex is gone for good and I have a feeling he will return to me. Should I look at the ... (96 words)

I'm confused! In a relationship with my boyfriend, but I feel I love him less, now that I've fallen for my best mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Heya, Me and my current boyfriend have been together for just over two months, and even though there is 200 miles between us, we still see each other more or less every 3 weeks. I love him very much, but two weeks ago, my best mate told me he loved me and his feelings for me w... (481 words)

Big crush on my guy mate! Tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F)

- I'm a girl of 18 and I've totally fallen in love with my best guy mate. The trouble is, I have no clue whatsoever how to tell him. Also, I'm worried that if he doesn't feel the same, it will ruin our frienship and makes things awkward. I've got a feeling that he has the same... (90 words)

Should I mention to my female friend what I'm thinking and feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (M)

- I've been having difficulty recently because I can't work out how I feel about a girl at school. She is a little younger than me (only about 1 year). I've known her for about a year. We have a lot of fun together but I don't know if I just want to be friends. I don't know if it ... (94 words)

Another woman tried to seduce my husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Dear Friends How are you all? Litsten guys, I am really upset. Let me begin. What happened was my husband took my daughter, who is 3 years old, to see her friend who is also 3 years old. My husband claimed that the mother of the child wanted to sleep with him, as she... (212 words)

Her uncle hates me and is making our lives so difficult!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6581 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Hello, Cupid. I am Rex, age 23, male and a Nigerian living in Nigeria. I have a girl which I love so dearly but along the line her uncle hate me and so makes life so difficult for us. But despite all this we are still dating. The question is, do I have tomorrow's possibil... (186 words)

I think I love him, but he thinks he still loves his ex! I don't want to get hurt...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Hi I'm 19 and I've been with my 32 year old boyfriend for near to 2 months. So not very long. We used to say that we were falling in love with each other, even though he said from the start that he doesn't know if he's in love with his ex whom he hasn't seen for over a y... (309 words)

Fallen hard for a coworker and he's oblivious!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Hi... I've been in love with a colleague for six months and he doesn't know it. He's recently been transferred to another department so I don't get to see him anymore. As you understand, I'm totally freaked out! Although we talk on the phone and have fun and he seems to like ... (82 words)

I don't know why my ex would rather be close friends than together. He's not with anyone else, and wants me to ring every day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Ok... I'm gay and only 18. But I want to get back with my boyfriend. We went out for just over 4 months. I know it isn't a long time, and a lot of you will probably dismiss it, but in that 4 months we made each other very happy, and it is fair to say that he changed my life. I... (284 words)

My GF is so close to her male friend... I can't help thinking she's closer to him than she's letting on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Please can someone help me? My girlfriend has lots of male friends, which is not something that particularly bothers me, but there is one friend I'm a bit concerend about. I've often noticed her texting him and talking to him on msn while I'm at her place, and she never me... (194 words)

Broke up when I was roaring drunk. I never wanted to do that, so do I have a chance to get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Hi, I recently split with my bf and it was the over the stupidest thing. I got really drunk said some things I didn't mean to say, shouted it's over. Thing is though that's the worst thing that could happen. I am totally crazy about him and wouldn't do anything to hurt him ... (81 words)

Why isn't she enjoying it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Everytime I try to finger my girlfriend, she doesn't seem to get pleasure. It's easy to get her off by her grinding on me, but neither of us can figure out why she doesn't get pleasure from me inserting my fingers. Any advice would help.... (46 words)

Why won't he text me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm still finding myself in a tricky situation. My bf arrived from overseas last week (Thurs), I rarely get messages from him as he doesn't have a mobile that's working properly in the country. He went out with friends for drinks, and in his last message ... (358 words)

Without TV or movies, I don't think my boyfriend and I would interact at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - I care for my boyfriend a lot, but I think there a lack of communication and it does not seem to flow so easy, which find hard to believe because were been with each a quite a while: 7 months now. I talk to him mostly every day, but online I guess it is because we meet on ... (205 words)

Do you know what it feels like for a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

16 April 2006 (M)

- Ok, so Madonna sang "do you know what it feels like for a girl".. and frankly as a guy, the answer is NO! I don't! So girls, what does sex feel like? Please describe. Thanks :-)))... (42 words)

Any chance of my ex getting over her rebound relationship and coming back to me>

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Hey guys, Me again. My girfriend is seeing a guy (started seeing him less than 2 weeks after we broke up) who is the complete opposite of me, and now she doesn't even hang out with the group of friends that we always hang out with (we were friends originally and we hung out ... (546 words)

Where can I meet others with STD's for relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - Contacted std from someone trusted. Need to move on. Where can i find love interest with same for long term relationship? Chat room that is.... (25 words)

What new features do you want to see?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (M)

- Hi guys Last time I asked what new features people would like on here, they replied "private messaging" and "forums"... Well, now they exist, what *next* ? Anything? Online dating? Online chat? Cuter "look"? Online journals? Articles? Anything you can think o... (92 words)

How do I found out about moving out? Things like tax, mortgages, bills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (F)

- Dear cupid, i am an eighteen-year old girl who lives in the UK. I have realised that I cannot live with my parents who are extremely unreasonable and so I want to move out. But they do not know this and I'm not abouit to tell them as they would no doubt stop me(they are musl... (188 words)

In in the USA, she's in Japan... We were planning to get married until some slick yank swept her off her feet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - I have a fiance and we are in a long distance relationship. She lives in Japan and I live in the US right now. Recently she met some guy after I left and she is confused and doesn't know what to do. She asked me for time to think about who she should chose because she likes him ... (192 words)

Should I tell my wife I look at these pictures AND spank the monkey?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

16 April 2006 (M) - I have a question, and I'm especially interested in hearing from the women who are bothered when their husbands or boyfriends are looking at porn. You see, I don't really like hard-core porn and rarely bother with it. I do look at other pictures that are not porn, and I ... (198 words)

I'm washing my hair...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

16 April 2006 (F) - I need to get out of a date tonight-what excuse can I use?... (13 words)