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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Couldn't quite manage it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - i recently tried sex with my girlfriend of 1 year. we are both 17. however, when i got to actual penetration, my penis wasn't as hard as before and i couldn't enter her. we had to stop. that was 2 weeks ago. why did that happen to me? is there something wrong with me?... (54 words)

My boyfriend and I have sex once a month... If I'm lucky!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1287 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 yrs. We have been living together for 6months. Before we moved in together we would have sex all the time in the last 4 months it has slowly diminished to basically once a month if i am lucky. What do you think is going on? when i ... (73 words)

Not sure if I made the right choice; I turned him down then changed my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I met this guy about a month ago. He is one of my friend's friend, and the reason we met was because I needed someone to go to the formal with (prom-like thing). We had been texting and talking on MSN the week before we met, just so we'd get to know a little bit about each ... (1623 words)

I fancy my college tutor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1319 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I'm going through a rather complicated situation right now. You see, I am a 19 years old college student and to make a long story short, I really like one of my tutors. He's 30 years old, and is everything I could want in a man. He makes me laugh, you know the deal. The thing is... (677 words)

I'm a happily married man, 63... In love with a transsexual

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am a happily married man, 63. During the past 4 years I have become good friends with a woman, who is also married, but she is a transsexual. I knew this when I first met her. She is still married to her wife (she was a man when they married). Over the last few months, I re... (169 words)

Idiot co-worker told everyone I have only had one sexual partner: Is 3-some the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am married to a wonderful woman. We love each other very much and we have a great sex life. The problem is that I have only slept with her. I know this is very unusual and have been made fun of by guys at work. (An idiot coworker who knew me in high school thought it was o... (227 words)

I got a hickey and my girl went nuts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I need some help, I have been with this girl for about two years, and I screwed it up. I got drunk one night at a college bar and this girl gave me a hicky and my girlfriend saw it. She has always had trust issues with me and that was the last straw. She constantly said I ... (339 words)

My boyfriend is so possessive it's scary

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I have a great boyfriend who loves me very much, but sometimes it is scary how possessive he is. He doesn't want me to go hang out with my friends because he is not included. He questions me like a drill sergeant about everything! I don't know what to do. Should I stay and try ... (72 words)

I'm married but I fancy a woman at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am 42, and i have been married for 18 years. My wife (41) is the only sexual partner i have ever had, maybe because i have never pushed to bed someone else or i have always had all i need. About 7 years ago i noticed a woman that works in the same company as myself and i have ... (252 words)

My girl is too emotional, how do I ask her to move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1231 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am a 35 year old man dating a younger woman who moved in with me when she and her sister had an argument this was only supposed to be temporary. She has had a problem finding a job and it has been a year now. We have had arguments and she went to her sisters house. I don'... (208 words)

I'm 16 and haven't had a boyfriend since 1st grade

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1299 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'am a 16 year old teenage and I haven't had a boyfriend since 1st grade I know this may sound like a childish problem but it's quite annoying! There are times where I want to be single and there are times where i want to jump into a relationship. Th... (148 words)

I'm a pagan my guy is muslim

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1336 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Ok so I would so appreciate a third party perspective on this. I am 21 and am in a foreign country for a year studying abroad. Since I have been here I met a wonderful guy. There a a few problems though. The first and foremost is that I am going back to my home country in ... (167 words)

I have lied to my fiancee about my age

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I have lied to my fiancee about my age. We have been dating for about a year and she still thinks I am older than I really am. I need to get this off my chest but I am not sure how to tell her.... (45 words)

Why is this girl messing me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1336 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Well, where do I start ? I met a girl about 7 months ago. We moved in together as friends. We were friends for about a month and then started dating. We were together for 6 months. She has a 6 year old son who looks at me like his dad and hugs me, jumps on me, he is so cute. ... (545 words)

How do I save girl at work from her bad-boy partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I met someone at work this past february and I absolutely fell in love with this girl. Everything I ever wanted in someone is her, she is my one and only.We became friends and would occasionally hang out on our off days and always had a good time. So one day I just asked her ... (241 words)

I feel like I cannot satisfy my fiancé in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Me and my fiancé (21, 22)have sex maybe once a week.. just me inside of her doesn't feel good enough for her and she doesn't like using her hand so we use a vibrator to help even though I can get her to orgasm with me inside of her and her using the vibrator also.. she says it ... (316 words)

My online dating experience

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1310 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I recently met a woman through e-harmony and I have to admit that after a year of dating and a year of phone conversations I finally came across a woman whom I cherish. After years of looking I finally met a woman I knew the first time I saw her I was going to marry her. We ... (524 words)

My husband is lazy and full of worthless promises

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I fear that my husband and I have different expectations of life together. We have been together for almost 14 years, married for 2. He has recently retired. 'Whooppee!' I thought, "life will be less stressful; we will be able to spend our weekends doing more interesting ... (461 words)

I'm jealous over my partner and his internet porn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 979 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Hi there, I seem to being having a problem with the green eyed monster. My partner is over indulging himself with interner porn. We hardly have sex, and when we do why does it feel as if he getting me to portray one of those sluts off the web pages. Ok I understand that ... (172 words)

I think my boyfriend is using black magic on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and at first we were really happy, really into each other but recently (3 months ago) he has started acting really weird, like for example i heard him chanting something I can't explain what but it was almost like he was ... (248 words)

I know my husband if having an affair how can I catch him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I just know my husband is having an affair. I have seen saucy text messages from her on his phone but when I tried to confront him, he says that she is just a mate that he meets for coffee when he is at college. I know that he has been out with her on a saturday evening... (154 words)

My husband is just too nice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1163 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I don't know where to start really, as my friends seem to think this isn't a problem when I've tried to talk to them about this, and to quote them 'that's what marriage is all about and I'm very lucky he wants to do everything with me or for me, as their husband... (461 words)

I dressed up in suspenders, short skirt and got no response

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1263 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Please help, My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and we have split up a couple of times. When we met, he hadn't long split up with his wife, who was pregnant. She gave birth just before christmas, and I have tried to be supportive, as he is having prob... (157 words)

My girlfriend wants to go out "close dancing"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 979 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have a great relationship, we agree ons almost every aspect of life, in the beginning she said that she will not seek male friendships because it causes trouble and that being alone with a man allow a person to drop their gaurd and be open for "other" ... (139 words)

Should I keep calling him until he forgives me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am 25 years old and I have a boyfriend. The only problem is that I am unsure whether he holds me to an importance as much as I do him. I sometimes like I'm not important enough just to recieve a phone call. I wrote a letter telling him about my feelings and he explaine... (127 words)

How do I tell a guy I have strong friends for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1337 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - How can I tell a person that I like that I have strong feelings for him? But he is a mutual friend and we go to the same temple. Also he's attached to someone else that seems nice. I'm not trying to step on her toes, but I was there when he was single and she came out of no ... (66 words)